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Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 4:01pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
drama, |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Gosh this man is an irresponsible jerk who should man up and take care of his kids yes even the one with the "ex" he supposedly slept with once. You seem like a smart girl and unfortunately got caught up with a jerk like this my advice is to cut out any sexual relationship with him, he should only take care of the kids you dont need a horndog in your life. Good luck. |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 4:09pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
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Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Sauron1: 4:11pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
manc*chic: This problem of yours is complicated. . . . . |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Catastrophic mess so he didnt even put a ring on it? Damn now he has two baby mamas. So do you trust (I use that term loosely) him enough to be his wife if he asks you? Does he have marriage plans for you? |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 4:17pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
hes not rushed the marriaged thing |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Its his mess and unfortunately you are involved. Since you dont think you can trust him( I wouldnt blame you for that) then just move on with your life and kids. He will still be part of the family as the father of his kids. I sympathise with you hun. |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 4:29pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
@ poster complicated. so in summary, your partner has four kids (3 girls, 1 boy) from two different women . . . . and he is not married to neither? it seems his ex wants him back and will stop at nothing to have him all to himself this must be really frustrating. honestly, i feel for you. |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Mckayla: 4:47pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Whether he decides to marry u or not, u r in one hot mess. And FYI, if u didn't already know, it will be superhard to find someone else with two kids in tow, so he'll have to marry u, and the other girl too. You shouldn't have taken it this far since you knew, u knew he IS a player. |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 4:52pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Mckayla: True! @poster and why will you remain engaged to a man for 3 years and yet go ahead and have two kids for him. so he has not paid any bride price or done any formal rites. will i call this love or end of the day, this 'partner' of yours might end up marrying another girl entirely (not you or his ex) BTW: is your partner a yoruba man? [size=5pt]cos i know its yoruba men that are experts in such games [/size] |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 8:05pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
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Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Sauron1: 8:10pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
funkybaby: |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by omega25red(m): 8:16pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
funkybaby:^^^^ ori e ko pe poster go to court and get your child support and escape from this foul man before he gives you a gift you cant return |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 8:20pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
manc*chic: you told him you did not want to get married 'yet'? in other words, you did not want a formal committment from him, yet you are happy to keep having babies with him. so, why are you complaining now? you have chosen your bed, so you have to lie on it. IMHO, he owes you NOTHING. Why? Cos you two are not legally or traditionally married. the only thing binding both of you together are the kids. so he is free to Zap as many punanis as he choses. manc*chic: [size=5pt]i don talk am [/size] manc*chic: the fact is: he has kids with the other woman. so no matter how much you rant or complain, he will indirectly or directly be in constant communication with the other woman. Why? Because of the kids. Besides, she remains the mother of his first child/first son. So its either you come to terms with it or you leave him and move on with your life. The lady will most def want your 'partner' all to herself. As you are here scheming on how to cut her off your partners life is the same way she is scheming on how to have him all to herself and do not be surprised if baby number 3 comes along. |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 8:24pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
~Sauron~: omega25red: ki ni mo she? |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by omega25red(m): 8:27pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
funkybaby:you know what you did. you will throw us under the bus like that huh? let me guess you will not date or associate your self with a yoruba man because you scared he will do that to you |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 8:31pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
omega25red: i can only date/marry a yoruba man. and i have special preference for those from ijebu. just that you have to be very smart/wise when dealing with yoruba men and not just love them foolishly like the poster |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 8:31pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
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Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 8:37pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
he is yoruba yes, |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 8:41pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
manc*chic: so, thats five kids from three different women and he is not married to any of the babymamas? manc*chic: rubbish! my ex called me 'iyawo' does that mean a formal commitment? NO ! manc*chic: Look, tell him to shut up. whats all this noise about 'his son' is he the first person to have a male child? he told you the lady used the son to 'get him' . WTF ! this your man is eating his cake and having it. he is obviously having a field day riding on your genuine love |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by ITgurlie(f): 8:42pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
@ poster this is very complicated do you know why cos children are involved You haven't even consummated your relationship and you give birth to two kids I'm not happy my fellow woman is going through all these but you're to blame too and it's sad |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 8:50pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
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Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 8:54pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
more rights? this is england not nigeria. its not acceptable here, he knows tht or else y wud he lie about it and not want me to no about this child his had since being with me, wen in rome do as the romans do!!!! me and this other women are both english and he knows tht kind of behaviour is not the norm and not tolerated, but now its all cum out, |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by omega25red(m): 8:54pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
funkybaby:talk about being specific what about ijebu ijesha lol truth be told behavior like this is not ethnic specific men do crap like this all over the world it just depends on how stupid (forgive me) the woman is to find out that you are being played then you stay there and have another baby if that is not an enabling i dont know what is |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 8:59pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
manc*chic: so he does not have the finances to afford a mere traditional wedding, yet he has the sexual strength to be impregnating several women. how much will 40 tubers of yam, a box of clothes and few items cost for a quiet, simple 'sitting room' yoruba traditional wedding involving few family members from both sides, considering the fact that you already have kids for him? na wa oh. [s]he's not financially well off and yet a serial cheat[/s], how bad can things get @poster are you a nigerian? if yes, what tribe are you from sef? |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 9:01pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
manc*chic: abajo |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by chika98: 9:04pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Oh you are both English? Funkybaby: Why only Yoruba men? |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 9:06pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
omega25red: ko matter. as long as his roots are from ijebu, i am happy omega25red: true. i was only being naughty by picking on yoruba men this lady's issue is mere |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 9:06pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
i am english and so is the other girl, |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by mancchic(f): 9:09pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
so u no here not every couple has to get married to be commited, he lived with me, had kids with me, we were a familly and as far as i was concerned he is damm wrong for doing all this!!! |
Re: Unfaithfull Partner Leading To Unwanted Child: ? by funkybaby(f): 9:10pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
chika98: do you want me to mention Ibo men, so that the likes of aloy emeka, mekuss and co and can dig their tribalistic claws into me |
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