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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 1:37pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe:I won't gainsay your romance, but even to be in your circle - or how did Bukatyne put it? - he had to be of a certain calibre. He had to have something doing and/or potential. You probably took it as read and looked further down the list of criteria. Or I could just ask why ambition & intelligence where important as criteria naijababe:Differing is what keeps convo moving ! Having a kid out of wedlock has an impact on marital value in terms of chances and quality - more so for women. I have no problem with a different opinion and will not doubt individual experience. Maybe we should look for data. naijababe:Not in the same order. You were happy to pay your share. he would have gladly paid all. And a man with no money can't ask a girl out - especially expecting her to foot the bill. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 1:39pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne:My mesage was for a better quality sex life within marriage, men should marry women younger than them. Which part needs changing? TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:39pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Truckpusher: why don't u school us.. learned one edwife: The question is vague |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by damiso(f): 1:40pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: When working in naija one of the first question you got asked by guys/colleagues who you wanted to hook up with your friend is 'where does she work?' No lies o. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:42pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: why do u think its irrelevant nowadays? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 1:42pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne:Relatively and in the long run, yes! Your task is to show differently if you can. I did not say a man should wait till 40 or 40 is the best age for a man. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bellong: 1:42pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: How many rabbits do you have? No wonder all the rabbits in my village disappeared. Those single ladies are in trouble. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: yetunde bust line......here i come. edwife: older women cook better and they appreciate the man more than these young brainless bimbos who believe everything has to be given to them. i vote for older women. Kimoni:na mature married you wan make i marry before? naijababe: this is more to do with the hypocrisy of women than anything else. rabbit as a yardstick will not cut it until you find the statistics of married men using hookers to pass time. while men are free to sow their wild oats even in marriage, women are bound.........so they use intimacy gadgets more otherwise her society would judge her. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: pardon?? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 1:48pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: She is trying to prove that contrary to popular opinion, women are still sexually active into their 40s At least, a woman must have serious sexual needs before buying a rabbit (hypocrisy aside) |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 1:48pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
njokusboy: About? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by jaybee3(m): 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Perhaps there is the realization that couples are now expected to jointly contribute to the success of the union |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: I never find the necessity of using a intimacy gadget I prefer a real deal,no gadget will give me the satisfaction i need . I see it ridiculous. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
damiso: But sincerely Damiso, I would not also have married a jobless person oo and even while dating in school, I had to satisfy myself of your potentials. But the funny thing is I got married to my age mate and I never ever dated anyone that was over a year older than me. I never even gave it a thought to date someone much older, maybe they never came my way sha. I met people from my classes, youth meetings and Orientation camp. But it still didn't change the fact that whoever I was going to get married to would be able to provide at least the basic needs for his family, not that his plan in life will be to provide meat and ask me to buy pepper. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 1:52pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:I see your reasoning here as faulty; Younger does not mean that they will not ultimately be higher earning. Bukatyne please explain to Kimoni ! And younger couples have increased scope and time Kimoni:I see this as right in part and wrong in part. I noted in an earlier response to Edwife that early marriage is increasingly difficult and noted to Naijababe about the need for 2 income houselholds. That does not change womens desires for men of higher status and good providors. And where wives contribute, men stil typically contribute more and are still tasked with overall financial responsibility. Further, a financial lack will always be his fault andd weigh more heavily on him, regardless of the respective contributions. And finances - nor looks, height, education, family pedigree or any other thing - do not determine headship. And a man that cede's headship to his wife is opening a can of worms for himself. I'll touch on that in part 2 if you'll let me get there ! TV 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:52pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: she doesn't have to.... if the man of the house has abandoned her completely, she would need her rabbit at some point! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: dats for boys, doesnt mean they are age mates, else id be age mates with my two brothers.. whaat about my older sister, were she a boy, we'd have been in the same age group..... Are we mates too? or are you attempting to imply that only boys that are 5 years older than any girl are age mates with her and not the other way around? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:54pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: Poor woman! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: Some women sleep with their drivers, cooks and the likes, others would much rather dig out their rabbits. Where is the hypocrisy? There are dolls too for men ya know Bellong, good girls don't tell TV01, I know a man feels the need to pay but on a first date when you are both students hustling, why is an offer to split is taken in such bad faith? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:59pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: That 's the problem i have with men,they refuse to acknowledge the fact that women are very much sexually active even after menopause. Yes most women might experience a decline in their sex drive but it is only temporary.The world has evolve and women are fixing the problem. Medical treatments are now available,oestrogen creams, pessaries, tablets,lubricants and many more. MEN shine your EYES. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
edwife: Not according to Samantha and Miranda in Sex and the City |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 2:00pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: women would sleep with anything when lonely.... women's libido is mostly controlled by the lunar calendar or the menstrual cycle. there's a season they are highly irritated by sex and there's a season they would ravage anything in trousers. a lonely woman whose hubby has completely abandoned would sleep with anything. it's nothing to do with high libido, she's just starved and she needs replenishment. at 40, most women are already exhibiting menopausal symptoms. Kimoni: hehe! she would do thanksgiving in church to have a gentleman like me. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:01pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
edwife: What if the wife is not getting it (due to her fault or his) and she doesn't want to stray? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:03pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: Except you are talking of outliers, the general view is that the higher you go in your career or business, the more money and comfortable you become. But with the word "ultimately" you added, well yes, financial status would even out ultimately but she won't also be young by then.
Right and wrong. Yes, finances and other qualities shouldn't outrightly determine headship but where you are officially ceding your manly responsibilities to your wife, there would be consequences. It's like selling your birthright. I believe this is where feminists get a lot of their strength from |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:04pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: This proves that they have a need i.e. women 40+ and above are not asexual |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 2:05pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: You are not serious,don't forget to post the youtube video just in case you decide to drop her. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 2:05pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: of course, they are not asexual.... at least they get the itch 3-4 days in a month. men of that age still get the itch on a daily basis. that's the difference! edwife: you would be the first to see that video - i solemnly promise! |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:06pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Ogaaaaa, haba! You don add jara o She didn't condemn him now, she just didn't want to be married or loved out of pity. She was just being the stronger person ni |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:09pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
jaybee3: Agree but with the minor correction above Cc Pickabeau1 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: See turenchi! Men oh, women oh when in heat will do whatever ................according to my friends in the romance section konji na bastard. Women at 40 are exhibiting menopausal symptoms? Now you are pulling stuff outta thin air |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 2:11pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: If it is due to her fault,she won't be needing sex but if it is his,it is difficult but personally i don't like the idea. I don't know.it 's just that thought of giving pleasure to oneself,no kiss,touch,caresses....ewww |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:12pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Coogar, matured married sef dey now. Yetunde Bustline is a good example of mature married . (Matured and once married) |
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