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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:13pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:First, there are a number of scenarios and a number of responses; 1. A man provides all 2. A man provides majorly 3. A man provides minorly 4. A woman provides all. In none of the first 3 does a man have to cede headship due to finances. Yes, it can and does lead to issues, but the mans approach was probably suspect to begin with. Secondly, whatever the case, there are still women socialised though culture or religion that will not challenge the husbands headship. As for feminsits, their push for equality is not based on earnings. Otherwise you are saying that feminists only demand equality in marriage where the wife earns as much or more. Independent earnings by a wife help it though. TV 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 2:13pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: but do you agree a man @40 is on heat 24/7 provided he's healthy and his female counterpart cannot match his libido? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:13pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
njokusboy: Calm down People within 5yrs range was considered age mates irrespective of sex. A 23yr old lady with a 27yr old guy are still considered in the same age range. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: Yes. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 2:15pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: Do you mind them. Samantha is a case,i swear.I almost moved to New York because of her..... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:15pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:And we can see the men flocking to her and how she has her pick of available and unavailable men - oh wait, he left her for a younger woman and never had a long term interest in her to begin! A man her age will still collar a hot young(er) wife. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:16pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
edwife: I saw a thread where a guy asked if ladies had sexual fantasies. I am sure they are mistaking what the women project to what the women really feel I hear my senior colleagues talk, I know that older men and women are just kids in adult bodies |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: is a 28 yy lady same age as a 23 yr dude?? so i am age mates with my older sister... i have never heard of this one before oh i think you are wrong |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:18pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne:Bukatyne please na. An "age range" can be set at any point one chooses. Like school years are from September to August. "Age mates" is much more narrowly defined and is nowhere given as up to 5 years. Next we will hear those of the same generation are age mates. To join a regberebge it's range, does not make you all mates. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:18pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
coogar: @Bold, carry out a survey |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: Reminds of one thread Ileke created on sexual positions, I was very active on thread o. Come and see people begin question me like say I tell them I be Rev. Sis Naijababe |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:20pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne:Most people stop maturing mentally around age 26. Not long to go now ! TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 2:21pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: I read the thread,one guy even said-any woman who has sexual fantasies is a nymphomaniac . I died just there...... 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: Chisos!!! 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 2:21pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
edwife: Her fault meaning she has grown fatter and bros has moved on Difficult however still better than adultery |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:25pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
[quote author=TV01 post=36395569][/quote] Sincerely, headship shouldn't be depend on finances, even when she provides all. I have a few friends that are temporarily providing all (shit happens) and it's still not affecting the headship but they will rather not be in that situation. Hence, it should never be permanent. As long as a woman is working, there is no way the man will be said to providing all. The "miscellaneous" she is using her money for sef in the house could be more than what the guy is spending. And that's why I keep saying providing the basic needs is what matters and not having to officially share that part of the finances with a woman. For the feminist part, I hear them say anybody can do anything at home, there shouldn't be any role associated to anybody. So where she is able to and runs the home, majorly or totally, then the headship is naturally compromised which is also one of their stands. (Pls don't response to this feminist part, it's not my intention to bring that subject up). |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:27pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: . She is an outlier jor (you have taught me to blow grammar when required ) 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by damiso(f): 2:28pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: I was just trying to highlight that times are changing and men are beginning to look at the earning potential of their future wives. These same guys were in Unilag,Osu etc at weekends but would most likely prefer earning wives. I also don't think its wise to marry a jobless person. It depends on who comes your way jare .and the individuals involved. I know couples with different age differential( and even one where the wife is older ) and I think its more about meeting that person that complements you. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by jaybee3(m): 2:29pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: But that's usually the underlying reason for their fight. Didn't the fight actually start from the demand for "equal pay for similar work" ish? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: Which outlier? If Yetunde bustline was a big girl pocketwise, Tunde woulda gone nowhere. Na dashed expectations make the man run jare His response to her was all about how she is on benefits and whatever else |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:33pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
damiso: Sure I got you. I know quite a few too oo and you wouldn't even know. Don't mind TV jare. If all men were like TV, so many women will not be married in this world. His list is endless - single mothers, matured singles, matured married...widows and divorces should not even bother...awon aye |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by jaybee3(m): 2:35pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: Nahhhhh What if all tunde wanted from the onset was to get his stay even if she was as rich as dangote? He would have still gone ahead to divorce her and get paid for the years they stayed together. He probably never really loved her and used her to get whatever he was after and it doesn't help that his new chic is way more younger than the old one |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:35pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
jaybee3:Two slightly different things. Earnings in marriage against pay in the workforce. Earnings in marriage is not what predicates the feminsit push for equality in marriage. It's an absolute, they do not beleive a man should lead. A "gender" pay gap due to structural faults/bias is discriminatory. Equal work for equal pay. But any structural impediments have been removed a long-time ago, and any pay gap is now due to womens choices, not discrimination. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by damiso(f): 2:36pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: you people wont kee me That yetunde bustline sef no try the guy even had pot belly yuk yuk eewwwww |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:37pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
naijababe: Ase damo. TV taught me something yesterday ni, anytime I am about to be cornered in an argument, I should just blow one grammar and dagbaru the whole thing Kaka komode pami layo... But seriously, she is an outlier |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:39pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
damiso:Excuse me If it wasn't what the guy was after - papers acording to Jaybee- she could not have snared him in the first place. Belly is not a disqualifier for men . Isn't the new woman younger and hotter. The bro' has some sort of status. You lot won't gree me ! TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 2:40pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
damiso: She tried for her type.She is not good looking and not so rich so she had to limit her choice. Which six pack handsome chap will go for her? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:40pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
TV01: The new woman is younger but not hotter...for real |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
jaybee3: If that was what he wanted how would have married her, I personally think it was more about money given that Tunde's almost washed up career is now non-existent. damiso: I tire for the woman o, she shoulda taken a lesson from the likes of MEE Mofe Damijo on how to be a cougar and be successful at it Kimoni: I thought I was the only one that wanted to question the hotter part. Bustline even with her koroba hairdo is slamming in comparison to his new beau |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:42pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:it's a market. I help men properly package, price and market their goods. All things being equal, why would you advise your brother to marry a single mum or a divorccee or an older woman Part 2 is coming. TV |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 2:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
edwife: She is not good looking?? She is very pretty to me ooo Pls don't look at that crying video alone. That was her worst state that should never have gotten out to the public. The guy is so silly. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 2:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:My sister, younger is necessarily hotter ! TV ...small trolling |
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