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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by ihatebuhari(f): 9:38pm On Jul 30, 2015
Lol
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 30, 2015
What?. For some men that's good news. You know what i mean. She has to sign an agreement on away matches.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by amenota(m): 9:38pm On Jul 30, 2015
Ooo carry her go redeem camp next week. #TheAllSufficientGod would resuscitate her libido
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jul 30, 2015
Uh oh. Now that's not nice. Just two years? Well I Expect You guys to still be tearing each others clothes off. At least thats what I pray for. Maybe try watching por...n together then give her a little space.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by crazygod(m): 9:40pm On Jul 30, 2015
Perhaps maybe u always skip the fore-play before going straight to the action. That can kill libido too. And maybe you should find out if she is going through a traumatic stress which she could be hiding from u.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by happney65: 9:40pm On Jul 30, 2015
kevinberry:
This is why I always encourage people to marry younger ladies ....

This is what happen when you marry an old cargo

Bros eee grin
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by UncleSnr(m): 9:41pm On Jul 30, 2015
Libido for sale (Nokia Ba3 Power)... Check www.studentsdiary.net/
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Itulah(m): 9:42pm On Jul 30, 2015
She maybe seeing someone else and that is a fact. Try and monitor her moves as per undercover agent. Don't get me wrong.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jul 30, 2015
jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.


If you can have 2 kids within 2 years, that means you should wait for atleast 10 years because you have indeed killed her libido.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by IYANGBALI: 9:43pm On Jul 30, 2015
Put am grinded pepper,her toto go wake up again like lazarus

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by marley145: 9:43pm On Jul 30, 2015
Cutehector:
Who killed it
hot water that was used to dab the punny during omugo period killed it. cool
Cutehector:
Who killed it
hot water that was used to dab the punny during omugo period killed it.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Timbuktu14(m): 9:44pm On Jul 30, 2015
Brandnew2:
She can introduce her friend if you find it hard to get some yourself.
lwkmd! Wicked man!
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by BCISLTD: 9:45pm On Jul 30, 2015
TV01:

May I ask you a few questions? Totally understand if you would rather not. If you answer no to the first one, then leave it anyway.

1. Are you intent on restoring things?
2. How old are you and your wife
3. How old are the kids - particualrly the last one
4. How would you describe things before the "refusal"? Particulalry sex-wise; frequent, occasional, steady rate or reducing?
5. Has there been any trauma? Especially of a type that damages the spousal relatioship.
6. If yes, was it properly resolved?
7. Is your family pressured for any reason? Finances, childcare, accomodation etc.
8. What kind of physical shape are you in?
9. Likewise for you wife.


TV


U most do this for a living

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by freecocoa(f): 9:46pm On Jul 30, 2015
OP something must have happened, find out what.


Well except your wife is 80 years old.undecided
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jul 30, 2015
happney65:

Bros eee grin
Abi I lie...
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by easiest(m): 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2015
You might need to visit your doctor about this for serious cancelling.
it of no use if you force her while she didn't enjoy it
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2015
..do a wife swap wink
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Timbuktu14(m): 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2015
Blonchilli:
Her libido is dead...Eya. buy oshogbo weed and give her or better give her some sex enhancing drugs. Do it or loose ur marriage
grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by johnwell(m): 9:48pm On Jul 30, 2015
jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by AreaFada2: 9:49pm On Jul 30, 2015
@OP,

Find out the following:

(1) Is she still in love with you?
(2) Any life-changing event/trauma like rape that you're not aware of?
(3) Is she suffering from depression? In addition to loss of libido, has she little appetite or eats too much lately, disinterested in things she normally enjoys, feels guilty for whatever reason, has she problems sleeping or wakes up too early in the morning for no reason, etc? These may help you suspect depression and if so, seek help for mental health for her.

If all these are negative, seek help with a sexologist together, who can help you both rediscover enjoyable sex again.

Obviously, you are not happy with how things are now. If it continues for much longer, your marriage may not survive it.
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Familyfirst: 9:50pm On Jul 30, 2015
jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.
Go and get this book SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE for her fast,it is available on Konga.com
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jul 30, 2015
dovelike:
Uh oh. Now that's not nice. Just two years? Well I Expect You guys to still be tearing each others clothes off. At least thats what I pray for. Maybe try watching por...n together then give her a little space.
Tearing cloth things, that's really hot .
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by richard870(m): 9:53pm On Jul 30, 2015
Divorce on d way bro
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by lordraiden(m): 9:54pm On Jul 30, 2015
Which kind story b dis,marry den libido died,dis is crap,me personally go wake am up give am double of d life it had b4,I pity those ppl wey dey wait till marriage b4 dey start if ur partners own die na it b say na foam go suffer am

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jul 30, 2015
tragedy
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by femi4: 9:55pm On Jul 30, 2015
pretty050:
Op 2yrs and 2 children already. I think that's the source of your pb
The stress is overwhelming...... Of course, nothing kills libido quickly like stress

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by absoluteSuccess: 9:55pm On Jul 30, 2015
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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Mintayo(m): 9:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
Is this even possible?
Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Moderation: 9:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
The fact is that you are not always close to her. Try and always be with her. Always find time to take her around. Gist with her especially sex related stories. Make her your best friend. Dress in a manner that will attract her attention. Stop keeping late nights. Stop doing those things you know she hates, like smoking, drinking if such is the case. Take your shower as many times as possible. Tell her that you love her. Buy gifts for her. Buy undies and bras for her. Tell her those things she likes hearing. Definitely, you will get her back on track again.

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by busyflexz(m): 9:57pm On Jul 30, 2015
Hardluck wat you need to do is think,i mean go bck to early age and think of wat alway turn her on,leave the immaturity aside and do wat u hav to do to win ur wife back...going after asshez isn't an option...best of luck!!!

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Candybob(m): 10:00pm On Jul 30, 2015
i came here to read comment, but i just cant help commenting...

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