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10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by tosyne2much(m): 6:49pm On Jul 31, 2015
It is now a common scene to see how guys trash ladies both online and offline. Female bashing has become a norm that people no longer see anything good in our ladies whose bad sides outweighs the good sides.

Sometimes, even as a guy, I shed tears when guys often imply that ladies only have five minutes bleeping to offer them and that just a few of them can truly help to make their dreams come true (I think this assertion is true to a reasonable extent)

To be candid from the statistical point of view, with the rate at which guys air their views and opinions about our ladies, one can jump to conclusion that good girls are now going to extinct or good girls are like needles in the ocean which are very rare to find. However, good ladies have now become a treasure and a rare gem that when you find one, you have to give testimony of it in your church.

I will try as much as possible not to sound harsh before they tag me a misogynist, because I know that many detest the truth. Though it may come as bashing but I expect the reasonable ladies to sieve the bashing and pick the sense in it



10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer

1. They Are So Much Concerned About Receiving than Giving

No matter how we try to embellish this, it will not change the fact that it doesn't make any sense. The notion that ladies are naturally meant to be at the receiving end, has made many misuse this assertion. No guy will appreciate a lady who wants to milk him dry or wants him for only financial assistance and doesn't care about his personal feelings or his happenings. These kinds of ladies have nothing to offer than milk you dry and in some cases compensate you with what they have under their skirts

2. Because They Cannot Be Relied On

The materialistic ladies are mostly double dealer. They hardly keep on a guy as their boyfriend even if the guy gives them heaven and earth, they will still look elsewhere for something they don't really need because they are confused set of beings

This reminds me of a lady in my villa. Her boyfriend did all he could to ensure that the lady was at least, contended (got her a well furnished apartment, and always sent allowances for feeding and her upkeep). On a fateful day, he paid her a surprise visit only to catch a dude bleeping her in the same room. He got mad and sent her packing out of the apartment. All these yeye friends of hers supported her and blamed the guy, saying he acted like someone who did what no guy has ever done for a lady

3. Because They See Sex As An Investment

Ladies who see sex as investment have nothing to offer in relationship. This is why you see many of them crying after a breakup that the guy betrayed their trust despite how much they have invested in the relationship. Ask them what they have invested and they will say, after all, they allowed him get under their skirts. Ladies who this bag of mentality only have sex to invest

4. Because They Are ingrates

Those who do request gifts, money and whatnot are hardly appreciative. This is because, whatever guys give them, they will compare with what other guys have been giving them. They will be like, I don't know Seun is very stingy. Imagine he gave me a hand bag of N45,000 as my Christmas gift, while Lasticlacla emptied his account and even borrowed from his friend just to commemorate my birthday.

Personally, I feel that doing your fellow guys a great favour, is like an investment while doing a great favour to ladies, is seen as your bound duty. This notion has made many of them become ingrates.


5. Because They Don't Help Our Dreams Come True

In recent time, I have started venturing and conditioning my mind on productive things that will make me become a messiah to many, rather than give myself unnecessary worries on ladies who will claim they truly love me, and the same lady will start acting weird the moment a guy using Peugeot 504 persuades her. If they want to insult me that I'm stingy, at least, I still have my meagre cash with me.

6. Because They Force Guys To Make Solemn Promises Before Opening Their Legs

To some ladies, what they have inbetween their legs, is their shops, therefore, they use manipulative measures to coerce guys into making solemn promises such as renting shops for them, paying their school fees, buying new generation electronic gadgets and many more perishable bullshit. When a lady puts you in such a tight condition, this is an indication that she has nothing but five minutes pleasure to offer.

7. Because They are Lazy

To the average Nigerian lady out there, a man must lavish money on her before she reciprocates. Men are tiredlessly working their asses out there, hustling to better their lives, while most of these ladies just rest their asses at home waiting for a wealthy man to come and date or marry them so that their hustle will end, yet they fight for feminism. Lazy girls have nothing to offer but five minutes pleasure

8. Their Looks Is Their Utmost Priority

Many ladies work more on improving on their looks than their characters, or venture into things that will make them COMPLETE. These kinds of ladies have nothing to offer guys than kitty-cat


9. Because Many Of Them Don't Take To Correction

I detest ladies who have the habit of "if a guy truly loves me, he should be able to cope with my flaws or he should take a walk out of the relationship". These kinds of ladies are always right on their own part, therefore, they won't take to correction no matter what. They have nothing to offer but s*x


10. Guys feel free to add the last one cool


Written by: Tosyne2much



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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 6:49pm On Jul 31, 2015
Spot on OP. cool

I dated a grubbing lady whose lust for material things is absolutely abnormal. She made me go through emotional trauma by stylishly using her stvpid sexy voice to cajole me into meeting her endless needs.

As a young, foolish and inexperienced guy who doesn't have a clue I was being magad by this lady, I use all my pocket money to satisfy this hungry lady and @ the end, she called me a stingy, broke and vision less guy.

Meanwhile she went after a play-boy with a car who panel beat her body and reduced her tomato boobs to slippers.

Few months ago when I saw her, I was like is this you Anita?? She was looking pale and disgusting. Straight off I remembered a song sang by Justin timberlake which says "What goes around, comes around"

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jul 31, 2015
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jul 31, 2015
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Guilty ladies coming to bash op

U should av written some ladies jare., this is not my business tho. grin


Grabs popcorn, preparing to watch this drama unfold cool

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jul 31, 2015
nice one @ tosyne2much


That no 1 and 9 vex me pass angry


after milking you dry, and its time for their "INVESTMENT BANKING"

they'll be like "you never release No tear my nyash o
abeg do fast comot from my body undecided "



I've come to understand that in life, "YOU'LL DEFINITELY LOOSE MONEY WHILE CHASING WOMEN, BUT YOU'LL NEVER LOOSE WOMEN WHEN CHASING MONEY!!"

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 31, 2015
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 31, 2015
This guy you have come again with your top 10 bullshit lists of stories always aimed at ridiculing & bashing the female folks.
I don't know whether you have suffered many heartbreaks for doing all these but some of your paintings about girls on here are erroneous.
It's really not fair saying ladies are more concerned about giving than receiving. Why the generalising? That some girls do it doesn't stand for all. Infact most ladies are the ones who spend on their boyfriends. Besides in other countries, guys spend on their girls, so why then is Nigeria an exeption.
Then saying that ladies can't be relied on is grossly wrong. The things ladies do sometimes are caused by the male folks. And men are more promiscous than women. Women can be relied on, and they at times give useful advice to their respective boyfriends and other priceless services you could think of.
As for your rest points - that ladies are ingrate, they see sex as investment, don't make guys actualize their dreams (what a rétarded & myopic opinion?). etc. Does not hold any water.
Get a grip, dude!
This thread is utmost redundant BULLSHIT!!!!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nwulia(f): 6:55pm On Jul 31, 2015
Okay
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jul 31, 2015
Although I am not actually okay with the incessant berating of the female folk on this forum, by the constant threads opened to bash them and show their flaws, I would say this topic is actually important and should be discussed.

It's really annoying that a lot of Ladies these days place too much emphasis on their physical attributes, which might includes their body shape, facial appeal, breast size, and buttocks size....etc.
And they tend to invest all their energy and time, developing those areas of themselves and they pay less cognizance to other aspects of themselves that need development.

Most of them see their looks as their essential charm for attracting men. They have this false perception of it as the only thing men want, and they forget that physical appearance isn't a prerequisite for obtaining the love and complete respect of a man.

So when they go into a relationship with a guy, the guy will notice a gross level of deficiency in other areas of self so he would unconsciously develop the mindset that sex is all there is to gain from having a relationship with her.

In addition to this, most ladies make the mistake of victimizing themselves.
When they meet a guy for the first time all they focus on is to make the guy notice how sexy they are and that's the only thing they sell about themselves.

In such situations, after the guy has had sex with them and tasted their bodily pleasures, they won't see any other reason to take them seriously, since, obviously there is no other important use they can be of.

Even as humans, we tend to be attracted to people who have something we can gain from, despite the gender of the person.
We tend to want to be associated with people who have something to offer, people who can be of help to us in areas we fall short in, people who would enrich our lives in different ways.
This also plays in relationships.

Ladies have to understand that going into a relationship is a sort of partnership association, and as such, both partners must have something important to contribute to each others lives asides sex.

A lady should be someone her partner would want to spend time with not just because she is beautiful and sexually attractive but because she is also mentally attractive. Someone he can discuss intelligently with.
Someone who he could lock heads with and proffer solutions to issues.
Someone he can respect her judgments and decisions.
Someone who has a skill or talent that has been harnessed and developed it to a level that it can fetch her general acclaim and commendation.
Not a lady that would just be viewed as a means to obtain sexual gratification.

Women are not just objects for sexual satisfaction. But sadly, they are the ones that create that impression.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by LogoDWhiz(m): 6:56pm On Jul 31, 2015
Chai!
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by INTROVERT(f): 6:56pm On Jul 31, 2015
what's my own
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by chidiebere2020(m): 6:59pm On Jul 31, 2015
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by sinaj(f): 7:00pm On Jul 31, 2015
nice one tosyne smiley



ur points are all kul smiley

but i still insist dat dere are good gurls out dere.
most of u guyz are being blinded by bleached attractive ladies leaving out d African woman nd later y'all go around lamenting wen u get hurt angry

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jul 31, 2015
wristbangle:
Spot on OP.

I dated a grubbing lady whose lust for material things is absolutely abnormal. She made me go through emotional trauma by stylishly using her stvpid sexy voice to cajole me in meeting her endless needs.

As a young, foolish and inexperienced guy who doesn't have a clue I was being magad by this lady, I use all my pocket money to satisfy this hungry lady and @ the end of the day, she called me a stingy, broke and vision less guy.

As God will have it, she went after a play-boy with car who panel beat her body and reduced her tomato boobs to slippers.

Few months ago when I saw her, I was like is this you Anita?? She was looking pale and disgusting. Straight off I remembered a song sang by Justin timberlake which says "What goes around, comes around"



Bangle! Bangle! Bangle!

Every thread u re always having a story to tell, tel me how many ladies av u dated since u were born?

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 7:05pm On Jul 31, 2015
sinaj:
nice one op smiley



ur points are all kul smiley

I like u jawe! Your colleagues will soon come and start bashing the OP
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 7:06pm On Jul 31, 2015
MhizDeedy:




Bangle! Bangle! Bangle!

Every thread u re always having a story to tell, tel me how many ladies av u dated since u were born?

grin grin grin grin

Aunty I have dated 35 *covering my eyes*
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jul 31, 2015
wristbangle:


grin grin grin grin

Aunty I have dated 35 *covering my eyes*


Choi. # falls from plane

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by bqlekan(m): 7:08pm On Jul 31, 2015
so spot on brother.. wait make i digest before i add mine.. grin and lets get ready for the bashing
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 7:10pm On Jul 31, 2015
MhizDeedy:



Choi. # falls from plane

Ah! Kinglekan will not be able to catch u ooh. Hmm have said my own.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by sinaj(f): 7:10pm On Jul 31, 2015
MhizDeedy:


Choi. # falls from plane
throws torn parachute from Afrik airline for her grin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by jashar(f): 7:11pm On Jul 31, 2015
Hmmm
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by remsonik(f): 7:12pm On Jul 31, 2015
Nice one.....pls front-page.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 7:12pm On Jul 31, 2015
bqlekan:
so spot on brother.. wait make i digest before i add mine.. grin and lets get ready for the bashing

Hahaha. Bros mi. I am ready for this evening war. Any babe whey e dare say OP no make sense, the thunder whey e go sweep her mouth dey load come from jupiter cheesy
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Young03(m): 7:12pm On Jul 31, 2015
oringo gbukwe gi
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jul 31, 2015
sinaj:


throws torn parachute from Afrik airline for her grin

Lol grin tnk u jare don't mind that big headed bangle.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by kinglekan: 7:13pm On Jul 31, 2015
MhizDeedy:

Lol grin tnk u jare don't mind that big headed bangle.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jul 31, 2015
wristbangle:


Ah! Kinglekan will not be able to catch u ooh. Hmm have said my own.

Iffa slap u this boy ehn.....I said ayaf divorce smbdy abi is it by force ni? U can't tie me down with him ooh ur plans shall never work

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 31, 2015
[quote author=kinglekan post=36473164][/quote]

Who is this 1?

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Shebarh(f): 7:17pm On Jul 31, 2015
hmmm tosyn wat is ya own with ladies... y do u like bringing up lists bout us.. can't u bring up lists bout u guys undecided
Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:17pm On Jul 31, 2015
When a woman does more preening than reading, she should expect more 'drilling' than commiting.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by Transformium: 7:18pm On Jul 31, 2015
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But Sex To Offer by wristbangle: 7:21pm On Jul 31, 2015
Aisha95:
This guy you have come again with your top 10 bullshit lists of stories always aimed at ridiculing & bashing the female folks.
I don't know whether you have suffered many heartbreaks for doing all these but some of your paintings about girls on here are erroneous.
It's really not fair saying ladies are more concerned about giving than receiving. Why the generalising? That some girls do it doesn't stand for all. Infact most ladies are the ones who spend on their boyfriends. Besides in other countries, guys spend on their girls, so why then is Nigeria an exeption.
Then saying that ladies can't be relied on is grossly wrong. The things ladies do sometimes are caused by the male folks. And men are more promiscous than women. Women can be relied on, but they at times give useful advice to their respective boyfriends and other priceless services you could think of.
As for your rest points - that ladies are ingrate, they see sex as investment, don't make guys actualize their dreams (what a rétarded & myopic opinion?). etc. Does not hold any water.
Get a grip, dude!
This thread is utmost redundant BULLSHIT!!!!

U are not making any sense at all.

If the OP listed attributes is not among your cologne of character, why take panadol for another babe's headache?

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