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Your problem is insecurity/lack of confidence. You need to work on yourself

Sorry about it all, I feel your pain because I know how difficult it would be for me to date a guy who is 5ft tall when I'm 5'8".

sweettease:
Sorry about it all, I feel your pain because I know how difficult it would be for me to date a guy who is 5ft tall when I'm 5'8"

5'8" who dash you

Eiyaaah.. You will find true love IJN..

Hmmm, well we're the same height It's not as bad with us ladies but as a guy with all the expectations out there, I sympathise & feel your pain. Someone that'll love you as you are is out there for you, so don't lose hope. And please stop worrying too much about things you can't change & rather focus on the things that you can change about yourself. Work on your confidence etc & you'll attract the right kind of people who are able to look beyond the physical. Or you can even try 4ft+ ladies since they'll think you are taller.

Anyway, all the best to you.

Op brain needs serious hard formating..

Op that you're 5ft doesn't mean you can't find love. You just need to work on your self esteem.

I know some ladies that married guys they are taller than.

You stop believing in God because of your height?

I'm sure they some guys you're taller than wishing to be 5ft tall.

Well its your decision whether to believe or not believe God...

Welcomme:
Op brain needs serious hard formating..

Lol.
you cant imagine the gravity of this issue.

Some might think its about low self esteem but try being me.

@ OP, there's a woman for every man or abi dwarf no dey marry If onodugo my former Neighbour who i guess is below 5ft could marry a beautiful lady that was 5ft7 then I believe there's still hope for you and you shouldn't worry yourself

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, well we're the same height It's not as bad with us ladies but as a guy with all the expectations out there, I sympathise & feel your pain. Someone that'll love you as you are is out there for you, so don't lose hope. And please stop worrying too much about things you can't change & rather focus on the things that you can change about yourself. Work on your confidence etc & you'll attract the right kind of people who are able to look beyond the physical. Or you can even try 4ft+ ladies since they'll think you are taller.

Anyway, all the best to you.

even 4ft ladies still go for 7ft guys.

Youngpo413:
even 4ft ladies still go for 7ft guys.

Well I'm sure some won't mind someone shorter, just as long as he's taller than them.

Eyop:


5'8" who dash you

Jealous? Don't be, I'm 5'8/174cm tall
I know you are 5'5 so keep off

OP I feel like crying for you
Seriously your story is touching. Jisie ike.
Don't freak out. Girls that are realllllly ugly feel the same way and in the end, someone still marries them. So someone will eventually marry you and your chance at eventual happiness is just as good as any tall guy.
It is well

Eyop:
@ OP, there's a woman for every man or abi dwarf no dey marry If onodugo my former Neighbour who i guess is below 5ft could marry a beautiful lady that was 5ft7 then I believe there's still hope for you and you shouldn't worry yourself

And i should search forever to find that special one that i need abi?

You know that looking handsome makes the job easier and gives you more options.

I dont think any human should ever be in my shoes.

MrsPhyno:
OP I feel like crying for you
Seriously your story is touching. Jisie ike.
Don't freak out. Girls that are realllllly ugly feel the same way and in the end, someone still marries them. So someone will eventually marry you and your chance at eventual happiness is just as good as any tall guy.
It is well

Op I subscribe to this.

My best friend at my previous job was a 5ft something Vietnamese dude, but he was never phased at all.

He worked so hard men to become assistant lead of the process department (Chemical Engineering) and started taking home about $4,000 every two weeks.

He's now married to a drop dead Vietnamese cutie.

So please, dont be phased at all, just keep working hard and being good to others and you'll be more than fine

sweettease:

Jealous? Don't be, I'm 5'8/174cm tall
I know you are 5'5 so keep off

Lol...naaah. I am 180cm on the dot so I pass you but if you are truly 174cm,then you try but e remain to confirm

You are complete abi. We have very tall dudes that are blind, very handsome deaf ones, extremely gorgeous looking dumb ones, cute ones without a leg and are still happy.......... My point is, appreciate yourself first, and try to get the best out of life of who you are. Just be proud of yourself, focus on your strengths, you ll be surprised when you find a lady falling head over heels for you. Never look down on yourself, for this is very important

Eyop:


Lol...naaah. I am 180cm on the dot so I pass you but if you are truly 174cm,then you try but e remain to confirm

Ask far as confirmation goes... O. Y. O. You just have to take my word for it.

kobosmalls:

And i should search forever to find that special one that i need abi?

You know that looking handsome makes the job easier and gives you more options.

I dont think any human should ever be in my shoes.

Listen my guy,Onodugo wasn't handsome ooh but he was more of homo erectus. Short and was always using pillow to drive but the lady he married was tall and very beautiful. When people saw him with this lady,they couldn't believe that onodugo will hit jackpot. They are still married till date with 3 Children. So it has nothing to do with being handsome

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, well we're the same height It's not as bad with us ladies but as a guy with all the expectations out there, I sympathise & feel your pain. Someone that'll love you as you are is out there for you, so don't lose hope. And please stop worrying too much about things you can't change & rather focus on the things that you can change about yourself. Work on your confidence etc & you'll attract the right kind of people who are able to look beyond the physical. Or you can even try 4ft+ ladies since they'll think you are taller.

Anyway, all the best to you.

beht why na lordt have mercy im laughing out loud here

sweettease:

As far as confirmation goes... O. Y. O. You just have to take my word for it.

Don't worry e go soon clear for ya eye how I go take confirm

Eyop:


Lol...naaah. I am 180cm on the dot so I pass you but if you are truly 174cm,then you try but e remain to confirm

Funny guy.
You two should make out already.

Ah! Eleyi gidi gan o
Bet reaaly, it's not ya fault oo
If u hv d financial means,
I can get u a beautiful virgin from our village
She'll love and respect U
And u can Behind her up to ur taste after she don born for u...lol jes kidding
To be serious and candid anyway ;
Stop running afta all dese high standard gurls o jare
Its apparent u don't have the confidence it takes to break through your very own walls save a female's
So, bruh, kip calm and look for ur size or some1 below
Build ya own confidence from their
When you feel your balls hv grown big enough
Get the her you want to have
It's that simple !

MrsPhyno:

beht why na lordt have mercy im laughing out loud here

lol, what's funny?

MissSlimbody:
Op that you're 5ft doesn't mean you can't find love. You just need to work on your self esteem.

I know some ladies that married guys they are taller than.

You stop believing in God because of your height?

I'm sure they some guys you're taller than wishing to be 5ft tall.

Well its your decision whether to believe or not believe God...

Are you the one for me then?

Eyop:


Don't worry e go soon clear for ya eye how I go take confirm

hehehehehehehhhe.. . Indeed

PunkyVeer:


lol, what's funny?

4 ft ladies ? I no fit shout abeg Iono it just seems so funny plus, do u want his kids to never have a chance at any reasonable height
what is your normal 'height range' u like for dudes btw since u are also a shortie if i remember correctly

Mine is funny:
for dating only - 5'7 and up is okay
for marriage - 6'0 at least

Una. Dey find 6ft and una no cross 4ft! God dey watch una oo..

MrsPhyno:

4 ft ladies ? I no fit shout abeg Iono it just seems so funny plus, do u want his kids to never have a chance at any reasonable height
what is your normal 'height range' u like for dudes btw since u are also a shortie if i remember correctly

Mine is funny:
for dating only - 5'7 and up is okay
for marriage - 6'0 at least

Lol, but they'd make a cute couple though. Like two elves

Well, I like my men a little taller of course. Around the same range as yours. There's something that makes you feel "safe" & protected around a tall man.

OP, I for consider you oh even as money nuh dey but as I nuh tall too naim be say na leprechauns we go produce... That combo no go gel na... You understand ba?

Wait lemme ask my 'long' friend if she still likes them guys below 5 ft.....

Bro, embrace yaself..