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| My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 12:10am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Please I will want to know the opinion of people. My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him. What are your views on this? *culled from facebook* 3 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 02, 2015 |
I smell FP. will modify wen it makes FP. FTC!!!!! After 3yrs in nairaland. this just a prove that. introvert and lady F are learners when I become jobless like them 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:25am On Sep 02, 2015 |
uv already known d right thing to do from ur facebook frnds or are u looking for single soul to tell u dont do it?  and den ull hold on to that? dey dere na until a bad gal gets to kno. den we'll see another topic here help i think my man is eating outside 127 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SAMBARRY: 12:28am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Then dish it na.kini big deal  anything can cause marriage break down these days if your yash is getting unusually big he'll divorce you. If you sleep too much divorce. If you are not horney when you are supposed to be honey divorce. Meanwhile I don't see anything extraordinary in dishing food. What is there? he's not asking for too much as far as I'm concerned 40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Cutehector(m): 12:31am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Dish him food, problemm. Women be usin dr hand be spoilin thr marriages sha... Abi u want d househelp to dish food for him instead?  24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:35am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Dont do it I guess that what you are still waiting for. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Kimoni: 12:53am On Sep 02, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: I just tire ooo 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Kimoni: 12:53am On Sep 02, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: . 1 Like |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by pretydiva(f): 12:58am On Sep 02, 2015 |
D man is just being immature imo 76 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by raayah(f): 1:13am On Sep 02, 2015 |
I personally don't mind dishing food for my husband but if I cannot do it because i'm busy. He should understand. Men are not babies. They should be able to plate their own food. Its better because you will be able to access the amount of food you want instead of sending your wife up and down. Since its marriage, communicate with your husband. Tell him you are not comfortable and suggest a better way of serving his food. I would suggest putting the food in a big dish while your husband serves himself from there. Joy1706:It seems you already do this. You are doing all the housework and cooking meals for him and he is still asking for "complete service". I think you married a baby. If he is hungry, he will plate his food. I think there is a bigger issue in your marriage. 87 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 1:26am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Lmao. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by panegyrics: 2:01am On Sep 02, 2015 |
If that's wat he want, u dnt av choice, U MUST ALWAYS DISH FOR HIM. He owns the final say in the house as the head of the family. Our men always want us(women) to be pampering them like baby and that's wat they are in our hand. At least after breast feeding the baby during the day, we breast feed them in the night.... 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by menix(m): 2:03am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Pls don't do it. It belittles you ooo.. Pls wen Ekaette start dishing him kpomo food come over to nairaland nd raise another topic. We will always b there for u.. Sips orijin nd chews pop corn while I wait for em feminist to come start dancing naked. 51 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 2:37am On Sep 02, 2015 |
cococandy:Folks and irrelevant stuff they whine about 11 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by cococandy(f): 3:20am On Sep 02, 2015 |
CFCfan:As in. Nwoke madu food dey your front. carry am put for your plate like a normal person, he refused. Ngwanu madam dish it for him to avoid wahala, she's on Facebook making a fuss. I think it's unnecessary bringing such a trivial matter to the social media. For me she didn't try but I'm surprised some people don't think there's something wrong with the man's behavior. Even rejecting food because it was in front of you and not put on your plate? That's abnormal. Why can't we just call a spade a spade. His behavior isn't normal. 72 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Allwility: 3:52am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Na wa o. Orishirishi. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Truckpusher(m): 4:04am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: 24 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by babygirlfl: 4:10am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Did I read it right? Are we talking about Oga dishing food that is in front of him? It seems the wife is a housewife. I don't see the man asking the wife to dish food that is already served if she too was getting ready for work at the same time. It does not make Oga right but at least he will have an excuse. From the fb replies, it is clear most women don't pamper their husband because they love and adore him but because they are scared another woman will take their place. Yet the said men still jump from one woman to another claiming men are polygamous. Just how these women live their life like that beats me. So sad. 79 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by lilmax(m): 6:59am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Do you want to be single? 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Jennifer89(f): 7:14am On Sep 02, 2015 |
what is hard in dishing food in front of you? op do as he says to avoid problems in ur marriage. he's your husband u know him better. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 7:15am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Marriage has been turned into worse than the Syrian war Plots, firepower, secret service, weapons, spys, war crimes, surface to air missles and prisoners everywhere. I am 101% sure that this is not what God intened for marriage It is well. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 7:25am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Hunger never catch that your immature husband. . Typical traditional man... Everything is an issue these days, making marriage seem like a child's play.. 65 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ireneidiva(f): 7:25am On Sep 02, 2015 |
You should already know how your husband reasons by now. Since you still married him, you better jump when he tells you to jump! 6 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Exponental(m): 7:28am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Maybe she needs an assistant wife to help her. I'm sure if the husband suggests one, she will read between lines. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by LadyX(f): 7:31am On Sep 02, 2015 |
If dishing/serving food is causing a problem between the two of you, how do you guys handle bigger issues? 21 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ElDeeVee(m): 7:44am On Sep 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:I disagree with you on this. Calling a man immature because he wants his food dished in HIS own house is such a bad comment IMO. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 8:02am On Sep 02, 2015 |
ElDeeVee:He's not only being immature, he's being very very silly. .. rejecting your wife's food cos of a petty issue? What will now happen if the food isn't cooked well? Pour it on her? I suspect he has another place he goes to eat and just uses this as an excuse. .. My dear, this is marriage. Some things are supposed to be overlooked. . Do you think the marriage will survive if the woman picks on small stuffs the husband does? How do they handle bigger issues if they see this as a problem? The woman has cooked the food (definitely alone), she has served also, to dish out is the only problem. Maybe she should also feed the man after dishing out.. so laughable, ... The man does it even when the woman is busy with other things. . As I said hunger never catch am or he doesn't enjoy the wife's food hence giving unreasonable excuses. ...In HIS own house abi? Where's the woman's house? Maybe the corridor? .. this is what spoils marriage, selfishness, instead of doing things as "ours", you do as 'mine'I may advice the woman to start doing as the husband wishes to avoid irreparable problems but that doesn't make the man's whining reasonable. .... 124 Likes 15 Shares |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by funlord(m): 8:13am On Sep 02, 2015 |
This threads topic is so dumb and vacuous that it would be pointless typing out any sort of solution 4 it! Can't people see that this couple are both immature and _stupid? Tomorrow dey may fight over who did not agree 2 turn off the light before sleeping! Lolz! 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by shaybebaby(f): 8:20am On Sep 02, 2015 |
I would dish his food.. Using one teaspoon and dish just one teaspoon. Finito! 6 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Rukkydelta(f): 8:45am On Sep 02, 2015 |
Na wa for that kind of husband but if the woman is a house wife she should just do it for peace to reign 5 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 8:46am On Sep 02, 2015 |
The husband must be a wretched and control freak ... SMH 21 Likes |
| Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 8:46am On Sep 02, 2015 |
The husband must be a wretched and control freak ... SMH 10 Likes |
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