naijababe:
I dunno why husband/wife relationship is always likened to a master-slave relationship on this section. While I don't do any of what was stated in the OP, if my hubby demands it, I'd prolly do it and not think much of it. Same way I will not hand him a spanner or get the jack/spare tire from the boot if we have a flat tire on the roadside and he won't think much of it either.

This is what I call an intelligent emancipated woman.
I couldn't have said it better

sonofananimal:
SIT DOWN THERE NA.

Stand up there too

peppyluv02:
Why are you pained? Are you the op's husband or what? I no be Julius begger like your girlfriend.

you can never ever ever be like, or look like, or be self sufficient like my bae.....you really wish....

you go fear mouth.....

Self sufficient like your slave,you mean? Go and sleep ..frustrated soul. You can die on this thread if you wish. Onuku.

SonOfEl:


you can never ever ever be like, or look like, or be self sufficient like my bae.....you really wish....

you go fear mouth.....

therapistmrs:
ma, try to do anything to please your man and keep your home. there's no big deal in dishing your husband's meal.all the best
therapistmrs..com

Na only woman dey keep home? Men no dey like peace for house? Women don't deserve to be pleased?

Kimoni:




Naijababe

Kimoni baby

Kimoni:


May you live long Oga. I might as well not cook the damn food at all and tell him to go to the kitchen himself...why sweat for 1hr cooking the food, then come to NL to whine about an extra service that will take just 2 mins?? I can't even reconcile where the issue is exactly. Fish brains indeed

If you can't reconcile what the issue is, then I'm sorry to say that you're the one with the fish brain

peppyluv02:
Self sufficient like your slave,you mean? Go and sleep ..frustrated soul. You can die on this thread if you wish. Onuku.

insecure fool..... empty boaster. fake hair, fake eyes, fake butt, fake boobs, fake skin, fake atm, fake everything... now una sabi make noise pass.

Even fake name
Frustrated man.

SonOfEl:


insecure fool..... empty boaster. fake hair, fake eyes, fake butt, fake boobs, fake skin, fake atm, fake everything... now una sabi make noise pass.

ElDeeVee:

I disagree with you on this. Calling a man immature because he wants his food dished in HIS own house is such a bad comment IMO.

Refusing to eat because the food was not dished is immature and petty. Of all things to get angry about .

peppyluv02:
Even fake name
Frustrated man.

its like your brain has been fried. keep deceiving yourself, misleading young girls on nairaland your trash post.

Kai! You don't have shame. See you running up and down like a market woman and you want a woman to dish food for you
Ifele eme ewu...

SonOfEl:


its like your brain has been fried. keep deceiving yourself, misleading young girls on nairaland your trash post.

lastpage:


If you think that "wife-wrapper" that is trying to be a woman pleaser at the expense of common sense is a "man", you are mistaken!

Just claiming "I am a man" or having a useless "ball" between your legs is not what makes you a man!

A real man goes all the way, responsibility, culture, provision, rights and all whatnots.

That clown up there is just too desperate to be a "woman-pleaser"


Lastpage!



Addition: if your husband wants food dished, then so be it!
create the time afterall, he will probably eat at home no more than twice in one day! (maximum time to be spent on that is no more than TWO MINUTES ... out of the 1,440 Minutes in every blessed day.
"Prioritise" and stop complaining .... otherwise, get a divorce!

Sir, I'm not "wife-wrapper" or a "woman pleaser". I'm not here to please any woman on earth or NL. I've a moral conduct/compass, a conscience and a common sense that would never allow me to treat a fellow human like a slave much more my own wife/mother of my kids. My main grouse is not that the wife dishes his food, but the fact that even when the wife is extremely busy the arrogant man insisted she must dish his food ALREADY served to him.


I started visiting my grand parents from 7-years-old and have never seen my grandmom dish the food she had already served my granddad. Does that make my granddad a "wife-wrapper" too? Does that make my dad a "wife-wrapper" too? Even if it makes them one would you prefer them to be "wife-wrapper" to another lady but their own wives? So if your wife was busy tending to your baby that's just defecated while trying to bath and prepare for work, you'll call her from your sitting room from wherever she is ONLY for her to come and DISH you a meal she's ALREADY served you? Dafuq?!! What kind of wickedness is this?!!


OMG!! My pity goes out to various women in bondage all in the name of being tagged a "Mrs." I pray my sisters, cousins, nieces and future daughters NEVER meet or settle down with your kind, Amen!!

My future wife will serve me food but will NEVER dish it out for me for i have my hands and that's how i was raised, and if that makes me a "wife-wrapper" to my OWN WIFE, then on this day, let it be known that i, Sinizia, claim the title unabashed, and i'll die a "wife-wrapper" to the mother of my unborn kids. To hell with the ego and tradition!!

peppyluv02:
Kai! You don't have shame. See you running up and down like a market woman and you want a woman to dish food for you
Ifele eme ewu...

The highlighted got me rolling on the floor.

Na true na..how can I dish food for 'fellow market woman'?

Truckpusher:
The highlighted got me rolling on the floor.

Joy1706:

How about you serving your wife the way you serve your mother? Hope that would go down well with you .

Many of you with this cursed mindset will die without a husband and nobody to shed a tear for you!
Any woman who cannot serve her husband joyfully is cursed with a spirit of rebellion and is never in love with that man.

peppyluv02:
Na true na..how can I dish food for 'fellow market woman'?

Joy1706:

Please be traditional to the fullest. Fling that phone that you used in typing this comment after all it was made by white men.
Hard earned money ba? Sheybi women don't contribute financially?

So every phone is made by the white man abi? How many women contribute financially even when they earn? Pls gerara hia

pretydiva:
D man is just being immature imo

ladies fond of using this word 'immature ' mean while always behaving like my little niece of 3yrs

I would implore you to stick to the Facebook advice given to you. Most of the opinion given on this thread are from teenagers who does know the meaning of marriage and what it takes to make a home.

My own opinion which has been working for me for the past ten years, is for you not only dish but sit and eat together with him. It strengthen the bound and add spices to your marriage. Your husband loves you so much for him to have pointed it out to you.

Drop your pride and concentrate on building a great home. Everything lies in your hands.

bukatyne:


In the Bible... Men are to serve their wives etc. we have an example in Jesus when He washed the feet of His disciples

My answer as a Christian doesn't/ will not contradict my answer as a feminist. They all form a part of the whole bukatyne.

A wife cooks and serves the food in a tray/cooler on the dining table. She expects her husband to dish himself because she has other chores to attend to and he finds it a problem?

All Hail 'Nigerian' husbands.

Bible student! The disciple don turn to wives abi

All i can say is......... This couple is not a serious one. this is a simple matter, and they are behaving like kids.

I can't even believe we are still discussing this in the 21st century. He should even be grateful that you woke early to make something in the first place. The thing is, while I am a 21st century liberal, most Nigerian men are extreme conservatives with obnoxious ideas of a woman's role. I think some women also encourage such behavior. You need to stand up for your dignity, If he is truly hungry he will eat.
As for those saying it is grounds for "eating outside," a man that will cheat will cheat.

xoxo.

sinizia:

Sir, I'm not "wife-wrapper" or a "woman pleaser". I'm not here to please any woman on earth or NL. I've a moral conduct/compass, a conscience and a common sense that would never allow me to treat a fellow human like a slave much more my own wife/mother of my kids. My main grouse is not that the wife dishes his food, but the fact that even when the wife is extremely busy the arrogant man insisted she must dish his food ALREADY served to him.


I started visiting my grand parents from 7-years-old and have never seen my grandmom dish the food she had already served my granddad. Does that make my granddad a "wife-wrapper" too? Does that make my dad a "wife-wrapper" too? Even if it makes them one would you prefer them to be "wife-wrapper" to another lady but their own wives? So if your wife was busy tending to your baby that's just defecated while trying to bath and prepare for work, you'll call her from your sitting room from wherever she is ONLY for her to come and DISH you a meal she's ALREADY served you? Dafuq?!! What kind of wickedness is this?!!


OMG!! My pity goes out to various women in bondage all in the name of being tagged a "Mrs." I pray my sisters, cousins, nieces and future daughters NEVER meet or settle down with your kind, Amen!!

My future wife will serve my food but will NEVER dish it out for me for i have my hands and that's how i was raised, and if that makes me a "wife-wrapper" to my OWN WIFE, then on this day, let it be known that i, Sinizia, claim the title unabashed, and i'll die a "wife-wrapper" to the mother of unborn kids. To hell with the ego and tradition!!

She will serve you but never dish the food because you have your own hands??

If I may ask oga, are those hands of yours immuned from serving yourself??

And you think you are any different from the man in question

dinachi:

Many of you with this cursed mindset will die without a husband and nobody to shed a tear for you!
Any woman who cannot serve her husband joyfully is cursed with a spirit of rebellion and is never in love with that man.

Dinachi and his complex issues


Only Baba God can save you

Kimoni:


She will serve you but never dish the food because you have your own hands??

If I may ask oga, are those hands of yours immuned from serving yourself??

And you think you are any different from the man in question

You have quoted him out of context

dominusgai:



A man that says e will not eat because his wife did not dish the food b4 him is an inconsiderate idiot that does not hold his wife in esteem.

C'mon, not not an inconsiderate idiot!!, But rather a man who's NOT hungry.

oreos:

Dinachi and his complex issues

Only Baba God can save you

Pray you dont fall into that category.

I wan dish am die.....i will spoon feed him sef. Oko mi owon! Olowo ori mi aka finest boy!

dinachi:

Pray you dont fall into that category.

Pray you don't end up with a werey

And You need therapy.

oreos:


Dinachi and his complex issues


Only Baba God can save you

Pray you dont fall into that category of women cursed with eternal foolishness. Pray tell why should a woman serving her husband have issues with it?

Kimoni:


May you live long Oga. I might as well not cook the damn food at all and tell him to go to the kitchen himself...why sweat for 1hr cooking the food, then come to NL to whine about an extra service that will take just 2 mins?? I can't even reconcile where the issue is exactly. Fish brains indeed

Chop it!