edwife:


You will still complain,I am still here

RoyalRoy:





Dont you think categorising people in this forum into groups is a bit off mark?

We will admit people have diverse opinions about issues and they will try and air the views in their own way...sometimes offensive to others sometimes not.

Having said that, I think all posters should just post along the line of their belief instead of looking out to post as a "group" and calling "others" who dont believe as anti-whatever.

Life is simple....really simple....make your opinion known and stick to your belief while not trying to change others.

Peace is all we want after all.

babygirlfl:


True thanks. I never believed the cabal thing but it's beginning to make sense now. Anyway we should all realise we can't all think the same.

RoyalRoy:





Dont you think categorising people in this forum into groups is a bit off mark?

We will admit people have diverse opinions about issues and they will try and air the views in their own way...sometimes offensive to others sometimes not.

Having said that, I think all posters should just post along the line of their belief instead of looking out to post as a "group" and calling "others" who dont believe as anti-whatever.

Life is simple....really simple....make your opinion known and stick to your belief while not trying to change others.

Peace is all we want after all.

RoyalRoy:





Dont you think categorising people in this forum into groups is a bit off mark?

We will admit people have diverse opinions about issues and they will try and air the views in their own way...sometimes offensive to others sometimes not.

Having said that, I think all posters should just post along the line of their belief instead of looking out to post as a "group" and calling "others" who dont believe as anti-whatever.

Life is simple....really simple....make your opinion known and stick to your belief while not trying to change others.

Peace is all we want after all.

GHoJes:

You caught yourself and deleted the name you earlier mentioned, too late because your group stance prompted your comment. You also are guilty and its worse because you are a mod, what you dont know is that it can only not been seen if it is not there, so its obvious.
We all are hypocrite at one point or the other, knowingly and unknowingly we try to make the contrary opinion buy into ours regardless of what is the truth which is why the master say there's no one that is good. However between the feminist and non feminist group, there are those who bare out their bellies and there are those who dont talk unless in the midst of their comfort groups but has "unpleasantaries" in their belly, quite dangerous. Let him who is wise learn quickly.

bukatyne:


RoyalRoy...

Unfortunately, I do not avoid the Elephant in the room and chase other matters apart from the Elephant in the room.

I say things as it is neither am I here to please anyone.

How many times do you see people from one group disagreeing to the extent of e-fights?

The strange thing is people who claim to be e-friends laughing when a fellow group member disses their 'e-friend'

Don't anti-feminists attribute every opposing view from a feminist to 'feminist'? Funny how similar views are not attributed to feminism

A anti-feminist posts that 'ha I don't wash my hubby's clothes...' it will pass silently. Let a feminist say such, it will break the internet.

If all the anti-feminists will stop referencing feminism on opposing issues, 99% of the problem will be solved

Perhaps you should stay around family section more.

Till then.

GHoJes:

You caught yourself and deleted the name you earlier mentioned, too late because your group stance prompted your comment. You also are guilty and its worse because you are a mod, what you dont know is that it can only not been seen if it is not there, so its obvious.
We all are hypocrite at one point or the other, knowingly and unknowingly we try to make the contrary opinion buy into ours regardless of what is the truth which is why the master say there's no one that is good. However between the feminist and non feminist group, there are those who bare out their bellies and there are those who dont talk unless in the midst of their comfort groups but has "unpleasantaries" in their belly, quite dangerous. Let him who is wise learn quickly.

bukatyne:


RoyalRoy...

Unfortunately, I do not avoid the Elephant in the room and chase other matters apart from the Elephant in the room.

I say things as it is neither am I here to please anyone.

How many times do you see people from one group disagreeing to the extent of e-fights?

The strange thing is people who claim to be e-friends laughing when a fellow group member disses their 'e-friend'

Don't anti-feminists attribute every opposing view from a feminist to 'feminist'? Funny how similar views are not attributed to feminism

A anti-feminist posts that 'ha I don't wash my hubby's clothes...' it will pass silently. Let a feminist say such, it will break the internet.

If all the anti-feminists will stop referencing feminism on opposing issues, 99% of the problem will be solved

Perhaps you should stay around family section more.

Till then.

RoyalRoy:


Babygirlf and Timbuktou.... Please a word of advice.
Keep mentioning each other and debating back and forth on non issues. There is a lot that can be achieved when we just ignore. It works like magic.
Oya.... Hug.... And make up.

RoyalRoy:




Babygirlf and Timbuktou.... Please a word of advice.

Keep mentioning each other and debating back and forth on non issues.
There is a lot that can be achieved when we just ignore. It works like magic.

Oya.... Hug.... And make up.

RoyalRoy:





yep... You are right in some of your assertions.

But still, it still books down to individual preferences and choices.
Wouldn't categorise it into a group thing still.

RoyalRoy:




Babygirlf and Timbuktou.... Please a word of advice.

Keep mentioning each other and debating back and forth on non issues.
There is a lot that can be achieved when we just ignore. It works like magic.

Oya.... Hug.... And make up.

Idowuogbo:
Abeg make una grammar comot for here mehn

bukatyne:


Rather than telling them to hug and make up,

Let them resolve whatever issues they have

Sweeping issues never work

Idowuogbo:
Abeg make una grammar comot for here mehn

Timbuktou:
I think you guys should just shut up on this cabal business. The truth is there are the feminists who think everyone who isn't a feminist is a female slave or misogynist. Unfortunately for you feminist people, there are those of us who do not give a hoot what you think. Present your arguments and expect rebuttals which you are at liberty to respond to with sense or not.

Timbuktou:
Suggesting that people ignore comments they don't agree with because they belong to you and you cannot sufficiently defend your points is the height of conceit and entitlement. If you don't want people quoting you, don't fvcking make comments; or you may do so in the diary section. The moments anyone posts here, they have waived their right to be left in peace as they have effectively immersed themselves in the fray that is nairaland.

Timbuktou:
It is insulting for anyone to think they can legitimately make a don't-quote-me request. Such ediots will be dragged back to reality. So Bukatyne and Babygirfl, here's to you two: expect your comments to be quoted, or you may ignore those who quote you, or you may not make comments, or you may leave nairaland altogether. Don't let me see such nonsense facetious requests again. Comprende?

Timbuktou:
Now, let's all shake hands and kumbaya.

babygirlfl:


Where did I debate back and forth with him. Please see the first reply I gave him in that thread and tell me if that's debating back and forth. He told lies about me owning the other Monica. Instead of you the mod to do whatever you can about the claim, you are here telling me not to debate with him. I ignore people a lot of the time and I have ignored him several times. Part of being a mod is that you don't take sides but that's clearly not the case.

babygirlfl:


Where did I debate back and forth with him. Please see the first reply I gave him in that thread and tell me if that's debating back and forth. He told lies about me owning the other Monica. Instead of you the mod to do whatever you can about the claim, you are here telling me not to debate with him. I ignore people a lot of the time and I have ignored him several times. Part of being a mod is that you don't take sides but that's clearly not the case.

babygirlfl:
@ timbuktou, I don't personally have a problem agueing my point. The problem is if you can have an argument devoid of insults. Why would I want to start an arguement that will end up leading to insults. If you are ready to have a mature arguement then call me and we can have one.

bukatyne:


There are also anti-feminists who think every feminist will make a bad wife or a misandrist. Unfortunately for you anti-feminist people, we also do not care what you think.



The problem is not disagreeing with you; it is deliberating twisting points and resorting to insults when logic fails. And yes, there are some posts to ignore.

Why would I go back and forth on why Muslim women should not wear hijab? Or why Ifaleke's idols are dead?



It is also insulting for posters to quote people they do not agree with and resort to insults. There are some posters you do not agree with in the boys room, not so? Do you insult them? Do you contribute to every post there?




There is nothing to makeup

A change of attitude is all that is needed. No need making up and tomorrow the same thing happens again and besides, I don't even remember having any thingy with you

Timbuktou:


I have no qualms arguing with anyone based on points. But when I sense condescension and snide remarks i'm going to bit back in any way I see fit. It's surprising that Freecoco and I who have totally different opinions about almost everything can argue with sense to a very large extent.

At the end of the day, it's all mental exercising. There's no medal involved.

babygirlfl:


We are good to go then. I never talk down on people. In the few times I have had squabbles with people, it's always been them starting it first. For example, if you were to read your posts from earlier, you will see that it was not very nice. As far as you quote me without twisting my words and not insulting me, I will reply and maybe just maybe we could understand each other's position better. Nobody will ever be able to change the other persons view. That I know from this section but it does not stop people from communicating in a civil way. They are very many people on this section that don't agree with me but I get along with.

Timbuktou:


we all have reasons for believing and supporting what we do. The general idea of having an argument is to defend one's own stance, and possibly sway people over to one's "light". The misfortune or lack of regarding any school of thought isn't the purpose of this round of comments.

There you go again. It would behoove upon you to prove that facts have been twisted "deliberately" or not. And for someone who actually has twisted biblical submission from wife to husband, hypocrisy doesn't begin to express the richness of your claim.

Oh, sarcasm is alive and well in my writing style. Pay attention to the spirit of the letters, madam Buks