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Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Godwin999(m): 9:21pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
pls i need the advice of understanding pals. I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by agarawu23(m): 9:25pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
You want to move on but it's hard? have you tried focusing more on your hustle/studies? Blv me, you will get over her 6 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Chidexter(m): 9:27pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Ok Very close friend - how does that correlate to being her man? She started dating a friend of yours without your knowledge?- Are you her parent? Or guardian?. The girl even pointed out that you were rather too slow, and you didnt date her anyway. You told her to go for him- Now why are you still complaining. You still love her- Bro, have you heard African china's if you love somebody walk up to am, tell am you love am..... If you had been faster and straight forward there's every reason she'd be yours by now. She said she also love the other guy-- bro, run.... She said that and you're still feeling things for her, will you force her to love you more than him. Just try to do things worthwhile and leave her alone, tho you guys can still be friends... My 2cents. next!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by coolestboy(m): 9:29pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Godwin999: Are u her father? Godwin999: OP, U still dey do bojuboju? Godwin999: Av u try using hypo? |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by 0079jaBond(m): 9:35pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Sad tale. You'll surely get over it bro. She's missed, another will come around. Stay calm, focused and be Godly. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by YungMike(m): 9:50pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Really.....gist me more |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Godwin999: Bro you have a problem and I can see you don't want to be a millionaire early forget the bitch and concentrate on hustle.you know whether na cus you no get money she leave you 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 10:22pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Focus your attention on other things. Make your mind busy with other things and you'd get over her in no time 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Godwin999:FOOLISH. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by hottest111: 10:52pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
U friend zoned ur self ...just move on 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by AfroKnight: 11:03pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Okay, so she looks like the woman of your dreams and so on. I think you have not met other spectacular ladies around you. Don't try online love though, especially Nairaland. Open your eyes when you go to your place of worship, class, mall, etc. Before long you'll have enough female friends to choose from. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Enockia(m): 11:42pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
agarawu23: focus on how much will be makin if u join jumia jforce trust me after ur first alert u go forget her 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Godwin999(m): 11:58pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
thanks pals. I love you all. |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 12:00am On Sep 30, 2015 |
PinkBarbie:godwin999 u gotta consider dis gal nd her reply |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Idyllic: 12:28am On Sep 30, 2015 |
You messed up by not expressing your true feelings for her on time. I guess she took you as just a friend. But please don't let that affect your academics. Time heals all wounds. Just try to forget about her and concentrate on your studies, with time the emotional pain will go and you will feel better. And if she is the one God has ordained to be your wife, one way or the other you will get back together and if she is not, the right one ( with even better attributes than the ones you like in her) will come around. Last bullet: Pray without ceasing concerning your relationship and let God lead so that you can know the true miss right when you meet her. The quotes below are for you. 2 Likes
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Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 1:12am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Godwin999:U friend zoned urself for 2yrs...how hilarious...She's dating some1 else now nd ur friend at that,so pls,let them be...U'll find luv again,trust me...nd do be smart about it when it comes knocking a 2nd time. #Philosopher Quëën# |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 1:16am On Sep 30, 2015 |
AfroKnight:Iheakanwa? |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by cr7lomo: 1:57am On Sep 30, 2015 |
There's this old adage that says " when u fail to say your feeling to that close friend u have, you will end up sharing food and palm wine during her wedding" |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by onismate: 6:04am On Sep 30, 2015 |
PinkBarbie:she has said it all. Get busy. Think about other things and channel your thoughts to other things.. |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Dygeasy(m): 6:06am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Find a distraction. A worthy one. Life doesn't revolve around girls. |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by ipain: 6:12am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Chidexter:a guy who really means well for a lady acts like the OP. Trust me. Only those who have no plans for a lady rush things up but unfortunately, women don't see it that way until they are bitten. I will advice the OP to just hang around. If they break up he can move in. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by ipain: 6:21am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Godwin999:first of all, admit your mistake--you are shy. That's the first step. When you see a girl you like, act fast. Find a way to express yourself directly or indirectly--there is never a perfect time. |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:37am On Sep 30, 2015 |
You were the one that friendzoned urself....just move on,focus on something else |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by IamLEGEND1: 6:46am On Sep 30, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by AfroKnight: 7:12am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:No |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 7:27am On Sep 30, 2015 |
AfroKnight:What are u saying "No" to? |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by AfroKnight: 7:29am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:My name is not Iheakanwa. |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 30, 2015 |
See the life af a late comer You were damn slow dude or maybe you aint got enaf 'liver' to walk up to her till the GOAT came around Right now, just fukc off she's another man's bread! Be smarter next time to save urself ds sorta pain. African China said ; 'If u love somebody , walk up to am and tell am u love am ooo, it does no harm no crime at all ' lesson |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Nobody: 8:10am On Sep 30, 2015 |
AfroKnight: Hmm,Ok...u were fast 2 understand I was asking if that was ur name,though. .I used 2 have a frnd bk then in sec school and his username on social networks was "Afroknight"...His name's Chimuanya Iheakanwa. Was wondering if u're him..Are u Igbo? #Philosopher Quëën# |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by tosynmich(m): 9:23am On Sep 30, 2015 |
So you in love with you friend girlfriend. That's all Chai Chaii chaiii There is God ooooo Let them be |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by Richardonald(m): 11:01am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Godwin999:i wil give u the greatest advice...never beg a woman fact when the times comes they wil be in multitude roamin after u ...believe me |
Re: Pls Help Me With Good Advice. I Love Her But There Is A Problem by aprilwise(m): 11:05am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Chidexter:. U have said it all 1 Like |
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