pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

You want to move on but it's hard? have you tried focusing more on your hustle/studies? Blv me, you will get over her

Ok

Very close friend - how does that correlate to being her man?

She started dating a friend of yours without your knowledge?- Are you her parent? Or guardian?.

The girl even pointed out that you were rather too slow, and you didnt date her anyway.

You told her to go for him- Now why are you still complaining.

You still love her- Bro, have you heard African china's if you love somebody walk up to am, tell am you love am..... If you had been faster and straight forward there's every reason she'd be yours by now.

She said she also love the other guy-- bro, run.... She said that and you're still feeling things for her, will you force her to love you more than him.


Just try to do things worthwhile and leave her alone, tho you guys can still be friends... My 2cents.

next!!

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge.

Are u her father?

Godwin999:
I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me.

OP, U still dey do bojuboju?

Godwin999:
I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

Av u try using hypo?

Sad tale.
You'll surely get over it bro.
She's missed, another will come around. Stay calm, focused and be Godly.

Really.....gist me more

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

Bro you have a problem and I can see you don't want to be a millionaire early forget the bitch and concentrate on hustle.you know whether na cus you no get money she leave you

Focus your attention on other things. Make your mind busy with other things and you'd get over her in no time

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

FOOLISH.

U friend zoned ur self ...just move on

Okay, so she looks like the woman of your dreams and so on. I think you have not met other spectacular ladies around you. Don't try online love though, especially Nairaland. Open your eyes when you go to your place of worship, class, mall, etc. Before long you'll have enough female friends to choose from.

agarawu23:
You want to move on but it's hard? have you tried focusing more on your hustle/studies? Blv me, you will get over her

focus on how much will be makin if u join jumia jforce trust me after ur first alert u go forget her

thanks pals. I love you all.

PinkBarbie:
Focus your attention on other things. Make your mind busy with other things and you'd get over her in no time

godwin999 u gotta consider dis gal nd her reply

You messed up by not expressing your true feelings for her on time. I guess she took you as just a friend. But please don't let that affect your academics. Time heals all wounds. Just try to forget about her and concentrate on your studies, with time the emotional pain will go and you will feel better. And if she is the one God has ordained to be your wife, one way or the other you will get back together and if she is not, the right one ( with even better attributes than the ones you like in her) will come around. Last bullet: Pray without ceasing concerning your relationship and let God lead so that you can know the true miss right when you meet her. The quotes below are for you.

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

U friend zoned urself for 2yrs...how hilarious...She's dating some1 else now nd ur friend at that,so pls,let them be...U'll find luv again,trust me...nd do be smart about it when it comes knocking a 2nd time.

#Philosopher Quëën#

AfroKnight:
Okay, so she looks like the woman of your dreams and so on. I think you have not met other spectacular ladies around you. Don't try online love though, especially Nairaland. Open your eyes when you go to your place of worship, class, mall, etc. Before long you'll have enough female friends to choose from.

Iheakanwa?

There's this old adage that says " when u fail to say your feeling to that close friend u have, you will end up sharing food and palm wine during her wedding"

PinkBarbie:
Focus your attention on other things. Make your mind busy with other things and you'd get over her in no time

she has said it all. Get busy. Think about other things and channel your thoughts to other things..

Find a distraction. A worthy one. Life doesn't revolve around girls.

Chidexter:
Ok

Very close friend - how does that correlate to being her man?

She started dating a friend of yours without your knowledge?- Are you her parent? Or guardian?.

The girl even pointed out that you were rather too slow, and you didnt date her anyway.

You told her to go for him- Now why are you still complaining.

You still love her- Bro, have you heard African china's if you love somebody walk up to am, tell am you love am..... If you had been faster and straight forward there's every reason she'd be yours by now.

She said she also love the other guy-- bro, run.... She said that and you're still feeling things for her, will you force her to love you more than him.


Just try to do things worthwhile and leave her alone, tho you guys can still be friends... My 2cents.

next!!

a guy who really means well for a lady acts like the OP. Trust me. Only those who have no plans for a lady rush things up but unfortunately, women don't see it that way until they are bitten.

I will advice the OP to just hang around. If they break up he can move in.

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

first of all, admit your mistake--you are shy. That's the first step.

When you see a girl you like, act fast. Find a way to express yourself directly or indirectly--there is never a perfect time.

You were the one that friendzoned urself....just move on,focus on something else

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww

Oliviaarims:

Iheakanwa?

No

AfroKnight:
No

What are u saying "No" to?

Oliviaarims:

What are u saying "No" to?

My name is not Iheakanwa.

See the life af a late comer You were damn slow dude or maybe you aint got enaf 'liver' to walk up to her till the GOAT came around Right now, just fukc off she's another man's bread! Be smarter next time to save urself ds sorta pain. African China said ; 'If u love somebody , walk up to am and tell am u love am ooo, it does no harm no crime at all ' lesson

AfroKnight:

My name is not Iheakanwa.

Hmm,Ok...u were fast 2 understand I was asking if that was ur name,though.
.I used 2 have a frnd bk then in sec school and his username on social networks was "Afroknight"...His name's Chimuanya Iheakanwa. Was wondering if u're him..Are u Igbo?





#Philosopher Quëën#

So you in love with you friend girlfriend.
That's all
Chai Chaii chaiii
There is God ooooo
Let them be

Godwin999:
pls i need the advice of understanding pals.
I have been very close friend with a girl for two years but she started dating a friend of mine without my knowledge. when I found out through a smart investigation, she said I didn't have Sex and date her and I never fight for what I want. I loved her very much and I was thinking of a right time to do that because I believed love is patient. I told her to go for him and they have been dating for four months now. I still love her. I went to her school but didn't allow her to see me. I want to move on with my life but its so hard. what do I do because she said she also love the other guy.

i wil give u the greatest advice...never beg a woman fact when the times comes they wil be in multitude roamin after u ...believe me

Chidexter:
Ok

Very close friend - how does that correlate to being her man?

She started dating a friend of yours without your knowledge?- Are you her parent? Or guardian?.

The girl even pointed out that you were rather too slow, and you didnt date her anyway.

You told her to go for him- Now why are you still complaining.

You still love her- Bro, have you heard African china's if you love somebody walk up to am, tell am you love am..... If you had been faster and straight forward there's every reason she'd be yours by now.

She said she also love the other guy-- bro, run.... She said that and you're still feeling things for her, will you force her to love you more than him.


Just try to do things worthwhile and leave her alone, tho you guys can still be friends... My 2cents.

next!!

. U have said it all