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14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:16am On Sep 30, 2015
He understands that beauty is evanescent and He falls in love with you because of your personality, intelligence, humor and the way you make him feel.

He takes responsibility for his mistakes cos he isn't perfect and is bound to make mistakes, he accepts his faults, makes an apology and means it. He doesn't shift blames or try to defend his mistakes.

He is confident, ambitious, passionate for other things besides his relationship and doesn't let the relationship define him.

He is honest and trustworthy, he values truth and lives by it. He always chooses to be honest no matter what the situation may be.

He is always ready to provide financial support and doesn't see you as a gold digger, he sees you as special and takes much pride in the way he treats you . Cutehector

He is hardworking and always strive to be the best in all he does.

He is willing to fight and wait for the woman he desires cos he knows nothing good comes easy..

He stands up for himself and defends his relationship even when he is among his family and peers, he speaks up and stands his ground in defence of his relationship with you.

He knows the value of his woman and never hesitates to appreciate her.

He is always ready to satisfy her sexually, he can risk his life just to give her the pleasure she desires grin tosyne2much

He doesn't use past relationship failures as an excuse to why he doesn't want to commit to a woman. TheSonOfMark

He doesn't see sleeping with women as fun and a game, he commits to a relationship.

He doesn't derive joy in degrading or ridiculing a lady. The sonofananimal

He doesn't care what people say or think about him and finds nothing wrong in washing his woman's undies and loosing her hair. Wristbangle

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by Nobody: 9:25am On Sep 30, 2015
washing undies now make men have control over their lives okwaya?



laff in calaba

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by tintingz(m): 9:26am On Sep 30, 2015
Why did you mention tosyne2much in your post, is it that you guys have been digging or what? undecided

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:28am On Sep 30, 2015
tintingz:
Why did you mention tosyne2much in your post, is it that you guys have been digging or what? undecided


Lol.... Whatever you think

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by tintingz(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:


Lol.... Whatever you think
I see. undecided
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by tosyne2much(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2015
When on a date, he doesnt drink pure water while the lady is busy devouring fried rice and chicken

Last month na so i carry one nairalander babe comot with the hope dat she would demand for N150 doughnut and a bottle of coke, unknowing to me that i was wrong. Make i no lie, na N300 dey my pocket that day. Na so we chill for one eatery wey dey area begin gist about how Ishilove dey alwz knack us ban at any slight provocation.

At first, she told me she wasnt hungry and i smiled like Seun Osewa when Ireneony proposed to him. Few mins later, dis grl waved to d waiter and ordered for fried rice & chicken, at dat instance, confusion was printed all ova my face just like someone whose original Bsc certificate was blown into d gutter

I had to ring my friend up for financial assistance, make the girl no go open thread for me after our dismissal


He knows the difference between love making and bleeping, so he need not use vigra, jedi, opa eyin, buruntashi, etc

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 9:35am On Sep 30, 2015
Another real man wail...

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:38am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:
Another real man wail...

Hahaha haha.... Every lady desires a real man
And I bet you want a lady too
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by tosyne2much(m): 9:43am On Sep 30, 2015
tintingz:
Why did you mention tosyne2much in your post, is it that you guys have been digging or what? undecided
No be everything wey u notice u must talk tongue
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 9:43am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:



Hahaha haha.... Every lady desires a real man

And I bet you want a lady too

Interesting....

Why did u not qualify the term lady with 'real'?

Let me correct your post

Every lady deserves her man

Cc: MizMyColi
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:45am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:

Interesting....
Why did u not qualify the term lady with 'real'?
Let me correct your post
Every lady deserves her man
Cc: MizMyColi

What's the definition of a lady?
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by Cutehector(m): 9:48am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:
He understands that beauty is evanescent and He falls in love with you because of your personality, intelligence, humor and the way you make him feel.

He takes responsibility for his mistakes cos he isn't perfect and is bound to make mistakes, he accepts his faults, makes an apology and means it. He doesn't shift blames or try to defend his mistakes.

He is confident, ambitious, passionate for other things besides his relationship and doesn't let the relationship define him.

He is honest and trustworthy, he values truth and lives by it. He always chooses to be honest no matter what the situation may be.

He is always ready to provide financial support and doesn't see you as a gold digger, he sees you as special and takes much pride in the way he treats you . Cutehector

He is hardworking and always strive to be the best in all he does.

He is willing to fight and wait for the woman he desires cos he knows nothing good comes easy..

He stands up for himself and defends his relationship even when he is among his family and peers, he speaks up and stands his ground in defence of his relationship with you.

He knows the value of his woman and never hesitates to appreciate her.

He is always ready to satisfy her sexually, he can risk his life just to give her the pleasure she desires grin tosyne2much

He doesn't use past relationship failures as an excuse to why he doesn't want to commit to a woman.

He doesn't see sleeping with women as fun and a game, he commits to a relationship.

He doesn't derive joy in degrading or ridiculing a lady.

He doesn't care what people say or think about him and finds nothing wrong in washing his woman's undies and loosing her hair. Wristbangle
chei redgen u for gv me tosyne2much part na, I don turn maga abi grin. Chei wristwatch role just dey burst my belle cheesy
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 9:49am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:



What's the definition of a lady?


You tell me..you said and I quote "i bet u want a lady"

You should define it.. wink

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by MizMyColi(f): 9:51am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:


Interesting....

Why did u not qualify the term lady with 'real'?

Let me correct your post

Every lady deserves her man

Cc: MizMyColi


Something about that statement doesn't add up.

So, if a lady lands a wife beater then she deserves him too?

How about, everyone (male and female) deserve better.
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 9:57am On Sep 30, 2015
MizMyColi:


Something about that statement doesn't add up.

So, if a lady lands a wife beater then she deserves him too?

How about, everyone (male and female) deserve better.


Actually that statement is a reflection of the reality

Let's explore your scenario

In most cases
Is wife beating something which comes out of the blue?

A relationship is an agglomeration of decisions and choices

Why divorce yourself from the consequences of those choices

"What you keep in your life yet is bad for you, you value."

The only statement of intent is taking that step

To deserve better one has to be better

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:58am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:



You tell me..you said and I quote "i bet u want a lady"

You should define it.. wink

A woman of high social standing or refinement, especially when viewed as dignified or well-mannered. A woman who is the head of a household. www.thefreedictionary.com/lady
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 9:59am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:


A woman of high social standing or refinement, especially when viewed as dignified or well-mannered. A woman who is the head of a household. www.thefreedictionary.com/lady

Thanks dear

The next question is why is there not a term 'real lady'

Why the need to qualify a man with the term real?
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 9:59am On Sep 30, 2015
Cutehector:
chei redgen u for gv me tosyne2much part na, I don turn maga abi grin. Chei wristwatch role just dey burst my belle cheesy


Lol..... Accept your part jejely
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by wristbangle: 9:59am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:
He understands that beauty is evanescent and He falls in love with you because of your personality, intelligence, humor and the way you make him feel.

He takes responsibility for his mistakes cos he isn't perfect and is bound to make mistakes, he accepts his faults, makes an apology and means it. He doesn't shift blames or try to defend his mistakes.

He is confident, ambitious, passionate for other things besides his relationship and doesn't let the relationship define him.

He is honest and trustworthy, he values truth and lives by it. He always chooses to be honest no matter what the situation may be.

He is always ready to provide financial support and doesn't see you as a gold digger, he sees you as special and takes much pride in the way he treats you . Cutehector

He is hardworking and always strive to be the best in all he does.

He is willing to fight and wait for the woman he desires cos he knows nothing good comes easy..

He stands up for himself and defends his relationship even when he is among his family and peers, he speaks up and stands his ground in defence of his relationship with you.

He knows the value of his woman and never hesitates to appreciate her.

He is always ready to satisfy her sexually, he can risk his life just to give her the pleasure she desires grin tosyne2much

He doesn't use past relationship failures as an excuse to why he doesn't want to commit to a woman.

He doesn't see sleeping with women as fun and a game, he commits to a relationship.

He doesn't derive joy in degrading or ridiculing a lady.

He doesn't care what people say or think about him and finds nothing wrong in washing his woman's undies and loosing her hair. Wristbangle

Everything is wrong about washing a lady's undies except if they are married and then that must be done once in a while.

Abeg I cannot wash a lady's undies when we have not tie the knot. I be her slave ni
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 10:02am On Sep 30, 2015
wristbangle:


Everything is wrong about washing his ladies undies except if they are married and then that must be done once in a while.

Abeg I cannot wash a lady's undies when we have not tie the knot. I be her slave ni
grin grin grin
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 10:04am On Sep 30, 2015
wristbangle:


Everything is wrong about washing his ladies undies except if they are married and then that must be done once in a while.

Abeg I cannot wash a lady's undies when we have not tie the knot. I be her slave ni


But a lady can wash a man's undies before tying the knot right?
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by wristbangle: 10:06am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:



But a lady can wash a man's undies before tying the knot right?

I won't allow her to wash my undies. Make she wash her own, make I wash my poo poo boxer tongue
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 10:10am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:

Thanks dear
The next question is why is there not a term 'real lady'
Why the need to qualify a man with the term real?
There's no need for the real.... A lady defines it all
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by misspicy(f): 10:11am On Sep 30, 2015
Every man got this qualities if he finds a woman he loves...loves turns the stone hearted into jelly



I AM HEARTBROKEN

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Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 10:12am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:


There's no need for the real.... A lady defines it all

Just as the term man defines it all

No need to crappalyze it with another term 'real'
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by misspicy(f): 10:14am On Sep 30, 2015
wristbangle:


Everything is wrong about washing a lady's undies except if they are married and then that must be done once in a while.

Abeg I cannot wash a lady's undies when we have not tie the knot. I be her slave ni
What shocked

Am breaking up right now,so u cnt loose hair,u cant wash undies,how else do u wanna show u love me undecided





Buh i blv guys pretend,i once had a guy dat forms macho outside buh he does all dis tyns for me,even his friends will never blv it.
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 10:15am On Sep 30, 2015
wristbangle:


I won't allow her to wash my undies. Make she wash her own, make I wash my poo poo boxer tongue

Story... If a lady don't do such, the male folks call her names
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by redgem(f): 10:16am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:

Just as the term man defines it all
No need to crappalyze it with another term 'real'
A man is a male human . The term man is usually reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the usual term for a male child or adolescent . https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by passionate88: 10:16am On Sep 30, 2015
He knows the value of his woman and never hesitates to
appreciate her.
Which value?. Meat pie and coke or na sharwama? .


He is always ready to satisfy her sexually, he can risk his
life just to give her the pleasure she desires
Risk my life for a Nigerian girl that isn't my sister or relative? I mad ni?
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 10:18am On Sep 30, 2015
redgem:


A man is a male human . The term man is usually
reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the
usual term for a male child or adolescent . https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man

Hehehehehe.......

I hear
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by MizMyColi(f): 10:18am On Sep 30, 2015
pickabeau1:



Actually that statement is a reflection of the reality

Let's explore your scenario

In most cases
Is wife beating something which comes out of the blue?

A relationship is an agglomeration of decisions and choices

Why divorce yourself from the consequences of those choices

"What you keep in your life yet is bad for you, you value."

The only statement of intent is taking that step

To deserve better one has to be better

I catch your drift, still it doesn't always pan out that way.
However, it's not an absolute. There are people who happened to be into the wrong person at the right/wrong time.

I also know of people who in my worldview, aren't worthy of the kind of guys/ladies they have in their lives.

That's why I maintain that everyone deserves better and a chance at being better.
Re: 14 Signs He Is A Real Man And Has Control Of His Life. by pickabeau1: 10:18am On Sep 30, 2015
misspicy:

What shocked

Am breaking up right now,so u cnt loose hair,u cant wash undies,how else do u wanna show u love me undecided





Buh i blv guys pretend,i once had a guy dat forms macho outside buh he does all dis tyns for me,even his friends will never blv it.

And where is the guy now?

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