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Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Juzzybabe(f): 10:24am On Oct 22, 2015 |
Hi Family! Its been a very long time. My job is keeping me so busy and i give thanks to God for my mother is always at home giving my baby all the care she needs. My girl is growing so fast. In other news,my mother in-law is busy running stories of lies around that i used juju in marrying her son while my husband is busy begging for reconcilation. His mum has laid a threat that she will harm me when ever she sees me with her son(my legally wedded husband) again. My husband is now calling on the priest,and elders to beg me to forgive him and return to nigeria but how can i when his mother is still laying threats? I cannot get settled with my husband and ban his mother from visiting his home,and his mother and i,till Jesus comes,i dont think we ever gonna smile at each other My Family,sincerely,i am currently holding a well paid job that i dont even wanna leave in the next 10 years am also considering my baby,i dont want her to start talking and ask me for daddy,that will be a bomb question. i as well want all this to be settled so that my little angel can enjoy the love of both parents just like i did with my parents. i know its all not my fault but my baby is to be considered too. Please family,i need suggestions to the best means of settling this matter for good. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by armyofone(m): 10:31am On Oct 22, 2015 |
It looks like you are still in love with him, can you file spousal visa for him to join you, how about that? Never quit a great job. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Juzzybabe(f): 11:25am On Oct 22, 2015 |
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Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Juzzybabe:They there dey laugh Don't go back to his parents, if he needs a home, then he can start one where you live now.. For the mum, ignore her.... U escaped since shey... Thank God you re doing great 5 Likes |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by uzolexis(f): 7:35am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Juzzybabe: that man just wanted a child and has no use for you that's what i can deduce from this story. You should take your child and leave. I hope you have a degree or some skills so you can get a job and fend for yourself. You made a mistake once by marrying him, don't make another mistake most of all don't let your child suffer for it. 1 Like |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Boyooosa(m): 7:57am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Juzzybabe:You need to be a hero for your unborn. by keeping the two: your husband and your unborn. If he genuinely trusts his parent's custody, you should also trust it, afterall he is their product that you got married to. while being in Dubai, keep a close check (Thank God for communication) and probably get a trustworthy relative that can always watch your back. I bet you, within a very short period of time, its either you guys get another kid over there or he sends for this first one. He will feel like being a dad in a short while! |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by temibobo(f): 4:31pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Pls when you are physically well again...take your children and go to your family. Do not inform your inlaws when or how you want to leave. When your husband is ready to come down from his high horse he can meet you to talk with you. If he doesnt...well life goes on. Whats important you take care of yourself and the kids. And eventually you will have a piece of mind when your inlaws are not around to make your daily life impossible.Marriage is not a do or die, if the respect for one another has gone its best to let go of it before it turns into something else. Some men just want to "have" kids and not take the responsibility(married or not) and tbreat their wife as a piece of furniture he dusts off whenever they deem fit. Nobody deserves to be threated as such, take control of your life now that you can. My 2 cents. |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by temibobo(f): 4:32pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Pls when you are physically well again...take your children and go to your family. Do not inform your inlaws when or how you want to leave. When your husband is ready to come down from his high horse he can meet you to talk with you. If he doesnt...well life goes on. Whats important you take care of yourself and the kids. And eventually you will have a peace of mind when your inlaws are not around to make your daily life impossible.Marriage is not a do or die, if the respect for one another has gone its best to let go of it before it turns into something else. Some men just want to "have" kids and not take the responsibility(married or not) and threat their wife as a piece of furniture they dust off whenever they deem fit. Nobody deserves to be threated as such, take control of your life now that you can. My 2 cents. 1 Like |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by lordhelp(f): 12:25am On Jun 16, 2016 |
If u ever give ur baby out for someone else to take care God will asked u o and children are glory don't pass ur glory to someone else 1 Like |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by just2okworld(f): 4:27am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Juzzybabe: All will be well dear#cyber hugs# |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by just2okworld(f): 4:27am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Juzzybabe: It is well dearie #just speechless # |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by just2okworld(f): 4:29am On Jun 16, 2016 |
acmesuccess:My thoughts exactly |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by just2okworld(f): 4:30am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Juzzybabe: This is seriously serious...why won't a man who claims to love you not want to accept his responsibility na#just thinking# |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by physayrian: 7:41am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Tell God what you want exactly,pray well and call him again with faith he will agree to anything you say |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:48pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
Go to our family, they are your best bet. |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Nobody: 3:00am On Jun 22, 2016 |
Juzzybabe: |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by RIH345: 5:22am On Nov 23, 2016 |
I can't believe what I'm reading. I'm literally going through a same situation with my own husband and my MIL who just wants to take my baby and kick me out. It's crazy. May God help us! 1 Like |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Mayflowa(m): 8:50pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Abiagirl777: hahaha. This was when Nigeria was good. Every one of us can afford to sleep. |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by Mimzyy(f): 11:14pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Phewwwwwwww. Bump 1 Like |
Re: Advice:He Wants Me To Leave Our 6months Old Baby With His Mum And Travel To Work by kaboninc(m): 2:33am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Mimzyy: Always bumbing.. . |
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