@bold, tell me about it.

Yet somehow we are also saying they should be able to go ahead and do what they want.

Very conflicting.

bukatyne:


101% right.

And bad marriages....

OK, it is still back to wrong mentality.

We are all saying a woman should be independent etc. yet if a wife comes crying that her husband threatened her job or the marriage, we will be tempted to say 'resign your job, your marriage is more important'. As we converse, some women are probably still asking their husband's permission to resume a new job tomorrow.

I will say women knowing what they want to be and towing that path BEFORE marriage goes a very long way to weed out such men.

Ironically, I know someone who is pushing his wife seriously to build something for herself

cococandy:
@bold, tell me about it.

Yet somehow we are also saying they should be able to go ahead and do what they want.

Very conflicting.

My sis,

It is well.

That's why I say we ladies should have a road map for our lives first and start following it first before marriage.

Is it 100% foolproof, maybe not.

cococandy:


@bold, is a wrong inference.

You misunderstood that paragraph and quite a shame that's the only thing you majorly laid emphasis on. I can't help that.

That this man came out to say this doesn't mean he has self esteem or marital issues. Or was brought up badly.

He doesn't have a cogent point whatsoever, it's just a repetition and we are sick of it.

That's an unfair way of shushing people who speak their opinions up. We should At least counter his points. Say he's lying if we think so.
Saying his observations are a lie even if he's not lying is better than attacking his personality.

Must anyone who talks about something be doing it from personal experience? And even if they were? What difference does it make? It only makes it more valid if anything.

Well it takes one to know one. He needs to be seriously beaten up.

Yes of course I agree society is no longer an excuse anymore. That's one piece of advice I think people need to leave this thread with. Do what you want (as long as it's not a crime) regardless of how others see it.

Good.

Still man is a social being and public opinion cannot be shunned by all since everyone doesn't have the same capabilities and strengths.

That's is not a public opinion but a rehearsed load of crap the majority on this thread wants to put an end to and move to something important like DOING.

What's the better solution to saying 'ignore' as if it's that easy for everyone than actually disabusing people's minds of some of the archaic beliefs that lead to such discriminations in the first place.

It's not easy, life is not easy and fair to anyone. We have to build ourselves up in order to condusively live in it. Funnily, That was actually last night's teaching to my kids.

As far as this thread is concerned now, everyone is saying don't listen to 'society' I.e those around you. But when folks get in trouble we ask them to consult a third party, An older one, a church leader, public forums etc who also happen to be part of this faceless society that we somehow think is dispensable at will. It far easier said than done.

it's common sense really, when they're asked/told to intervene family elders, the onus is on them to seek wisely not their enemies, nobody is gonna do that for them.

I for one have the strong will to do that but I noticed that I've always been seen as different, stubborn even. So I know not everyone can be like that.

Uhh yes people can be like that, of course there's always an exception to every rule and that's what makes the world unique) and that's what we should be preaching. Not dancing around problems every single day like an oracle.

Happy Sunday.

Mindfulness:


The core issue is people's mentality and the examples in the OP are just a few of this mentality's manifestations.

YALL just don't get it.

You can't outrightly change the public mentality via repetitive ranting but can make changes within ourselves to evoke public change.

Hope that makes sense.

An 11yr old hockey player girl just left my doorstep asking for recycled products to raise funds for the team.

I don't see/hear them ranting to the district MP or the league for ignoring their needs since they (kids) can infact get some funds through them (MP).

Ewuro4:


YALL just don't get it.

You can't outrightly change the public mentality via repetitive ranting but can make changes within ourselves to evoke public change.

Hope that makes sense.

Well, first of all, I am having fun here and elsewhere. My first and top priority in life is to have, fun, fun, fun and more fun and NL is fun for me too like everything else I do, I do nothing without fun so I am not ranting.

Secondly, I am constantly changing because this is what I was born to do in the second place, after having fun fun fun and more fun. I was born to evolve and develop.

Thirdly, there is a lot of change taking place on and offline, also because people speak up. I am surprised you do not see the usefulness of public discourse, one of the pillars of every democracy and free society.

Fourthly, dear Ewuro, if you do not like such topics, you can ignore them but the way I see it, everybody is enjoying the debates on gender equality in one way or another. Maybe some people get upset, I definitely don't - but be it as it may - people find them interesting enough to keep such threads going for quite a long time so please stay with us, it would be nice, but don't tell people what they should discuss and what they shouldn't.

I am sure that many people have learned a thing or two and in a quiet moment had a re-think because of such threads. I have learned a lot in life from people who disagreed with me and I intend to continue learning because fun, progress AND debating is what I love.


Have a blessed new week.

Midfullness, I just saw this random thread on Homepage

https://www.nairaland.com/2722283/thingsilongthroatfor-now-trending-twitter

and this tweet. See what Japhet Omojuwa wrote

www.nairaland.com/attachments/3051892_21691_pngb8394db6db9bc365c46cc1140e067308

Thanks for sharing raumdeuter.

It appears that we have more work to do than expected. Let's do it.

njokusboy:


If you put in as much energy into say politics as much as you do whining, we'd have a female president by now.
Just look at the bold, you guys are doing nothing like dat, wait a second, what do you want to dialogue or legislate about? The fact that someone thinks every single unmarried person is irresponsible or that your parents feel it is inappropriate for a single lady to own a car... wat sillyness Look, your issues carrry far less weight than the ramblings of a market woman and unfit for discussion let alone a dialogue by any serious mind, ofcourse, you cannot legislate on someone's mentality, dats like jailing people for calling the igbos money lovers... very absurd
Considering, the last part, I needed to know whether I was part of those you wish dead, I am only calling to remind you lot that noise is a from of pollution... else, we'd be legislating on it by now...

You should thank your God that I am not YET in Nigerian politics despite my scientific background , because there is no way in hell this blatant denial of Nigerian female discriminatory issues will ever suffice on these boards. When you finally see my name vying for a political post, you better tell everyone NOT to vote for me , because I will be coming for WAR. And you would be the first person I will catch to give some serious flogging.

As per whining? Who goes through a post without shouting Feminist o, feminist has killed us o, feminist, feminist, feminist, yeee feministttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!! I give you one week NOT TO SAY THAT WORD OR ALLUDE TO THEM, let us see who is the CHIEF WHINER ON NL IS and who would end up NOT HAVING ANYTHING WORTHWHILE TO POST on a thread. It is obvious who the ORIGINAL WHINERS ON THIS BOARD ARE AND THOSE WHO CANNOT ARGUE FAIRLY ON A TOPIC IRRESPECTIVE OF HIS/HER ideologies.

Mindfulness:
Thanks for sharing raumdeuter.

It appears that we have more work to do than expected. Let's do it.

I dont see it as any work to do. Its when you have nothing to do in the first place that you complain that people are stopping you

Is there any thing you want to do or are doing that some people wont talk negatively about? even if you decide to kill yourself for ppl some would still complain

Tiwa married didnt give birth for a while ppl spoke, Mercy Johnson and husband were recently criticised for having too many kids too soon, The same people who would criticize those who dont have kids or those who have 1 child

Aside religion (which I or no one have any right to comment about) that holds back some people I dont see anything else
People would always talk or have opinions

raumdeuter:


I dont see it as any work to do. Its when you have nothing to do in the first place that you complain that people are stopping you

Is there any thing you want to do or are doing that some people wont talk negatively about? even if you decide to kill yourself for ppl some would still complain

Mercy Johnson and husband were recently criticised for having too many kids too soon, The same people who would criticize those who dont have kids or those who have 1 child

Aside religion (which I or no one have any right to comment about) that holds back some people I dont see anything else
People would always talk or have opinions

Good then just let those who desire change, make it happen. If people talking don't bother you, why do people talking about gender issues bother you? It's just talk, isn't it?

TooNoisy:


I read the first paragraph and I didn't even need to read the rest of your rubbish. You are completely incapable to reasoning or problem solving. If someone consistently posts a few hours before you wake up everyday and you consistently post a few hours after the person's last post; does it occur to you the person may be in a different time zone?

Have you ever heard time zone differences before? I am sure you haven't. Please check google. From the way you type, it is obvious you have never left your village neither do you have an education, so you know very little.

My advice to you is to get a formal education so that you can be useful to the society.

You didn't need to read the rest of my rubbish and you quoted me and replied me three good times at a stretch? Rotflmao. You obviously DID READ IT, CHEWED ON IT, SWALLOWED IT, DIGESTED IT AND DEFECATED ALL OVER THIS THREAD. TooNoisy you STINK like a corpse. Ewwww!

I hope you are not posting from Nigeria. If you are posting from Nigeria or the UK or the US which should be like 5hrs to naija time, and logged in at 5:43am to make a post on Nairaland (the evidence is right there), you obviously did not sleep well . Rotflmao. I must have tormented the heck out of you in the night. Obviously you have too much time on your hands to fly into a thread, AND scatter it with your emotional outbursts. You have been shouting lindaikeji since and a single post on lindaikeji on these boards cannot go by without devils like yourself not mentioning her marital status which is akin to what was stated in the original opening post. Your lawmakers are filled with pedophiles and wife beaters and you are comfortable with the 50kobo small rights nigeria dashed you. Again it will not better for you and your list of 'Nigerian women that made it'.

Stillfire:


You should thank your God that I am not YET in Nigerian politics despite my scientific background , because there is no way in hell this blatant denial of Nigerian female discriminatory issues will ever suffice on these boards. When you finally see my name vying for a political post, you better tell everyone NOT to vote for me , because I will be coming for WAR. And you would be the first person I will catch to give some serious flogging.

As per whining? Who goes through a post without shouting Feminist o, feminist has killed us o, feminist, feminist, feminist, yeee feministttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!! I give you one week NOT TO SAY THAT WORD OR ALLUDE TO THEM, let us see who is the CHIEF WHINER ON NL IS and who would end up NOT HAVING ANYTHING WORTHWHILE TO POST on a thread. It is obvious who the ORIGINAL WHINERS ON THIS BOARD ARE AND THOSE WHO CANNOT ARGUE FAIRLY ON A TOPIC IRRESPECTIVE OF HIS/HER ideologies.

Lol, me shout feminist....

Haba, I always knew you guys had no good plans for us, dats why nobody would vote for ya'll, una go use una position oppress all una perceived oppressors including una mother in laws... you never enter, you don dey already plan to flog me...

I don't talk about feminists joor, I only comment on feminist threads, which are all over the place, by the way..

Mindfulness:


Good then just let those who desire change, make it happen. If people talking don't bother you, why do people talking about gender issues bother you? It's just talk, isn't it?

That is because most of those who talk are those who didnt want to do anything in the first place, while they are moaning, some people in their same shoes or even worse are getting things done

How many people in the world have things handed to them? ppl go out and take it for themselves not just whine

raumdeuter:


That is because most of those who talk are those who didnt want to do anything in the first place, while they are moaning, some people in their same shoes or even worse are getting things done

How many people in the world have things handed to them? ppl go out and take it for themselves not just whine

You said people should ignore other people talking so you should follow your own advice. No excuses.

TooNoisy:


What a shame, your problem is that you have never left your village and the only education you have is what you read on Nairaland. Yes we have Nigerians in politics and they are succeeding. You will know that "some hotels" do no allow unaccompanied women from patronizing their business. You are in the business of patronizing hotels with different men, so you will know which ones allow unaccompanied women and which ones don't. The reason why some of these hotels ban unaccompanied women from patronizing their business is because of people like you! Once they see the way you are dressed, they automatically stop you, because they know what you came to do.

I have gone unaccompanied for business meetings in several hotels in Nigeria - in Lagos, Abuja, PH, Kano etc. Obviously, from the way I was dressed, no one would think of stopping me because I didn't look like you (a run's girl). All the top hotels in Nigeria will allow unaccompanied women into them any day. They only tend to question those that are dressed like prosti*tutes (like you), because they know how you can bring their brand to disrepute.

Again, try and beat your wife in Lagos state and see what happens. Olodo Stillfire, any incident of domestic violence can be reported to the police in Lagos State at least and it will be dealt with. Again, your lack of education wouldn't let you know.

And what is marital rape again? You people have these problem when you end up marrying drug addicts. Sex is to be enjoyed in marriage, no need for rape. By the way, the punishment for rape in Nigeria is life imprisonment.

Nigeria as a whole lacks enough laws and justice most times belong only to the rich. It is a general problem that affects everybody. But you needed to deviate so that it would seem you have a point. That's not what we are talking about on this thread. The thread started with how society demands that women should not be educated, should not have a job, should not have a car, should not buy expensive things. We all know that is a lie and a lie it will continue to be. Don't digress please.

Your idio.cy is limitless.

Everything has been discussed before you came a polluted it. Stop trying to make sense. Stupidi.ty looks better on you. You are just a thief, stealing from other people's ideas.

See your logic…
Toonoisy must have been raped to fight naa ‘whine’ for rape victims
She must have dated a drug addict to be a victim of domestic violence
She must be a runz girl to defend females that were turned out of hotels...

Your username is undoubtedly APT. TooNoisy, rotflmao - As they say empty barrels make the loudest noise. Even a kindergarten can come up with a better name than that. Ode
Typical idio.tic and senile Nigerian woman. Any small fight, she don throw the ashawo word. Tell me how many people have you slept with, let us know who the REAL ASHAWO is?

Stillfire:


You didn't need to read the rest of my rubbish and you quoted me and replied me three good times at a stretch? Rotflmao. You obviously DID READ IT, CHEWED ON IT, SWALLOWED IT, DIGESTED IT AND DEFECATED ALL OVER THIS THREAD. TooNoisy you STINK like a corpse. Ewwww!

I hope you are not posting from Nigeria. If you are posting from Nigeria or the UK or the US which should be like 5hrs to naija time, and logged in at 5:43am to make a post on Nairaland (the evidence is right there), you obviously did not sleep well . Rotflmao. I must have tormented the heck out of you in the night. Obviously you have too much time on your hands to fly into a thread, AND scatter it with your emotional outbursts. You have been shouting lindaikeji since and a single post on lindaikeji on these boards cannot go by without devils like yourself not mentioning her marital status which is akin to what was stated in the original opening post. Your lawmakers are filled with pedophiles and wife beaters and you are comfortable with the 50kobo small rights nigeria dashed you. Again it will not better for you and your list of 'Nigerian women that made it'.

Mor0n, I said there was a time difference and then you ask if I am not posting from Nigeria. Is there time difference in Nigeria? Did you go to school at all? How daft can you be? Even if you were home schooled, you should have been told Nigeria has one single time zone. What cave did you come out from? You are so dumb!

Are US and UK the only countries you have ever heard of. By the way, I just flew into Nigeria today from Dubai (been there all week) so I am now in your time zone.

Secondly, I only mentioned Linda Ikeji once, but I guess she is the only one of these successful woman you have ever heard of. As for the others, you have no clue who they are, because they are not part of your gutter world. Omo gutter jati jati ikeji aja!

Then you end with cursing successful women. So much jealousy from you - a professed women's rights activist. The only thing you have to offer the world is that rotten thing in between your legs, but a lot of women have brains to offer the world. Sorry your IQ is just too low and you are simply jealous.

Stillfire:


Your idio.cy is limitless.

Everything has been discussed before you came a polluted it. Stop trying to make sense. Stupidi.ty looks better on you. You are just a thief, stealing from other people's ideas.

See your logic…
Toonoisy must have been raped to fight naa ‘whine’ for rape victims
She must have dated a drug addict to be a victim of domestic violence
She must be a runz girl to defend females that were turned out of hotels...

Your username is undoubtedly APT. TooNoisy, rotflmao - As they say empty barrels make the loudest noise. Even a kindergarten can come up with a better name than that. Ode
Typical idio.tic and senile Nigerian woman. Any small fight, she don throw the ashawo word. Tell me how many people have you slept with, let us know who the REAL ASHAWO is?

Five things we have learned about Stillfire in this one thread:

1. She is a mad woman - she is sooo mad, they had to name the School for the retardeed after her. I didn't make it up, she told us that
2. She had an illiterate - she is soo daft she claimed 0.5% of all Nigerian women = 1 woman
3. She is a cheap pros*titute - she knows all the hotels in Nigeria where single woman unaccompanied are allowed in and those they are not. Ash*wo 2kobo
4. She is a gutter girl - her choice of words would suggest she comes from a very poor and unstable home, where abuse, violence and crime was the order of the day.
5. She is very jealous - she is extremely jealous of successful women who have class and brains. Unfortunately, Stillfire has only her rotten pus*sy to offer the world. Ash*awo 2kobo.

Mindfulness:


Well, first of all, I am having fun here and elsewhere. My first and top priority in life is to have, fun, fun, fun and more fun and NL is fun for me too like everything else I do, I do nothing without fun so I am not ranting.

Secondly, I am constantly changing because this is what I was born to do in the second place, after having fun fun fun and more fun. I was born to evolve and develop.

Thirdly, there is a lot of change taking place on and offline, also because people speak up. I am surprised you do not see the usefulness of public discourse, one of the pillars of every democracy and free society.

Fourthly, dear Ewuro, if you do not like such topics, you can ignore them but the way I see it, everybody is enjoying the debates on gender equality in one way or another. Maybe some people get upset, I definitely don't - but be it as it may - people find them interesting enough to keep such threads going for quite a long time so please stay with us, it would be nice, but don't tell people what they should discuss and what they shouldn't.

I am sure that many people have learned a thing or two and in a quiet moment had a re-think because of such threads. I have learned a lot in life from people who disagreed with me and I intend to continue learning because fun, progress AND debating is what I love.


Have a blessed new week.

I must've made you very uncomfortable.

Though my posts portray my personal opinion, still , they're all for fun too. Otherwise I wouldn't have posted zilch to start with so I do know how to ignore. The fact that we disagree on a motion doesn't mean things have to change btw us. I do enjoy equality threads, they are fun to read.

What quite moment? Abeg. there's nothing to gain in threads like this but to have fun.

You already greeted me , save it for Monday. Starting to sound patronizing.

Okay Toonoisy and Stillfire lets shut this down.

Enough already. Please oh

TooNoisy:


Five things we have learned about Stillfire in this one thread:

1. She is a mad woman - she is sooo mad, they had to name the School for the retardeed after her. I didn't make it up, she told us that
2. She had an illiterate - she is soo daft she claimed 0.5% of all Nigerian women = 1 woman
3. She is a cheap pros*titute - she knows all the hotels in Nigeria where single woman unaccompanied are allowed in and those they are not. Ash*wo 2kobo
4. She is a gutter girl - her choice of words would suggest she comes from a very poor and unstable home, where abuse, violence and crime was the order of the day.
5. She is very jealous - she is extremely jealous of successful women who have class and brains. Unfortunately, Stillfire has only her rotten pus*sy to offer the world. Ash*awo 2kobo.

Madam how many people have you slept with in your lifetime let us know who the REAL ASHAWO is? Tehehe Tell us your body count. If you will not end up being disgraced today.
Your parents and grandparents are mad
Your mama was birthed from the gutters And it was inside that same gutter you were birthed. That is why your idioc.y is limitless.
You went to Dubai? Rotflmao! Is Dubai not the current destination of Nigerian PROSTITUTES...Buhahahaha
So you are one of the evil girls giving Nigerian women a bad name, abajo. Now I can understand why you want the system to remain because of the small small change wey one chief they give you.
Better come back home and stop giving Nigeria a bad name. I don't mind rehabilitating you and funding your education.
Senile degenerate.

njokusboy:


Lol, me shout feminist....

Haba, I always knew you guys had no good plans for us, dats why nobody would vote for ya'll, una go use una position oppress all una perceived oppressors including una mother in laws... you never enter, you don dey already plan to flog me...

I don't talk about feminists joor, I only comment on feminist threads, which are all over the place, by the way..

Reallyyyy, I give you one week not to say Feministtttttttttttttttttttt, Feministtttttttttttttttt o!!!!!
Na im we go know who be the REAL WHINERS.

Stillfire:


Reallyyyy, I give you one week not to say Feministtttttttttttttttttttt, Feministtttttttttttttttt o!!!!!
Na im we go know who be the REAL WHINERS.

How ddoes one comment on feminist threads without referring to feminists.... 90% of the thread in dis section are by feminists... unless you don't want me to comment at all...
Una too dey cry, we only attempt to shut you up....

Stillfire:


Madam how many people have you slept with in your lifetime let us know who the REAL ASHAWO is? Tehehe Tell us your body count. If you will not end up being disgraced today.
Your parents and grandparents are mad
Your mama was birthed from the gutters And it was inside that same gutter you were birthed. That is why your idioc.y is limitless.
You went to Dubai? Rotflmao! Is Dubai not the current destination of Nigerian PROSTITUTES...Buhahahaha
So you are one of the evil girls giving Nigerian women a bad name, abajo. Now I can understand why you want the system to remain because of the small small change wey one chief they give you.
Better come back home and stop giving Nigeria a bad name. I don't mind rehabilitating you and funding your education.
Senile degenerate.

Gutter girl. I am happily married. I am a professional with many years work experience in top multinationals where I am currently an executive in one of them. I have an ivy-league MBA (if you know what means). The only thing you could be considered for in any organisation I have worked in is to be a tea-girl. That is the best you can do.

Your choice of words show the kind of home you come from. I don't need to insult your parents at all. I am sure you curse them everyday for giving birth to you; and I am sure they curse you in return for being a waste of sem*en and labour pains.

I notice you could hardly comment over the weekend. You probably got it from both holes. Which hotel did you lodge in? Were you accompanied by your illiterate Alhaji or you came in unaccompanied.

You have gone completely mad. That's why you come here and run your mouth everyday. From now on, I will deal with you every time I see you. I will take you back to the Stillfire School for the Retardded where you rightfully belong. WERE OMO!

Stillfire:


You should thank your God that I am not YET in Nigerian politics despite my scientific background , because there is no way in hell this blatant denial of Nigerian female discriminatory issues will ever suffice on these boards.

What's stopping you?

Hehehe.... I so missed the slaying.

Someone's azzhole is being brutally finger-fvcked... pardon my Latin.

Mindfulness:


Yeah, right. For me it is obvious that Nigeria is at least 50-100 years behind.

And they will ignorantly say that it is African culture, even though it was imposed on them by European rulers, who later decided to drop this way of thinking when Nigerians decide to stick to it even though it serves nobody.

Carefreewannabe will always expose her inherent bias against Nigeria and Africa as a whole, such that even when confronted with superior counter argument, she sticks firmly to her bias.

Girl, people will have issues with other people and their life choices...it isn't a Nigerian or African thing.
The reason I (speaking for myself) will always seek out threads like this to refute, counter, and make out to be nothing but tissue-paper fit only for wiping azz, is because their intent is never pure.
While you're hell bent on painting topics like this as an avenue to talk about issues, the truth is that topics like this are only created to vilify society and men.
Don't worry, you needn't admit it...we all know that you and your crew of pseudo feminists will seek out and grow feathers over any topic that totally exaggerates female discrimination in Nigeria.

Also, it isn't news that Nigeria is behind in years when compared to the west which is quite logical considering how the US has being an independent country far longer than nigeria -not an excuse maybe, but still worth mentioning.

Meanwhile, something was typed about women already holding various political positions and the best reply your friend here could come up with was that these women are doing nothing with these positions.
Please, help us ask her why she is not there doing what those women are obviously not doing.
Surely girls as educated, intelligent, fierce, and full of enthusiasm as yous can at least win a seat to represent your constituencies (that's if y'all know how to go about it seeing as they don't teach street-smarts in the university).

Are you still denying being carefreewannabe?

TooNoisy:

Gutter girl. I am happily married. I am a professional with many years work experience in top multinationals where I am currently an executive in one of them. I have an ivy-league MBA (if you know what means). The only thing you could be considered for in any organisation I have worked in is to be a tea-girl. That is the best you can do.
Your choice of words show the kind of home you come from. I don't need to insult your parents at all. I am sure you curse them everyday for giving birth to you; and I am sure they curse you in return for being a waste of sem*en and labour pains.
I notice you could hardly comment over the weekend. You probably got it from both holes. Which hotel did you lodge in? Were you accompanied by your illiterate Alhaji or you came in unaccompanied.
You have gone completely mad. That's why you come here and run your mouth everyday. From now on, I will deal with you every time I see you. I will take you back to the Stillfire School for the Retardded where you rightfully belong. WERE OMO!

Iya e ni WERE! Baba e, oko e ati gbogbo e ni WEREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Oya die.
Sorry I don't speak ASHAWO language. I don't know all these stunts you have performed for your Alhaji Dubai. Don't taint my precious self with your dirty self. How many people did you f.u.c....k and date before you married? How many did you scatter your nyansh and still scattering it for. We must decide who be the REAL ASHAWO BE!
Even an idi...ot can get an MBA.
I had the OPPORTUNITY of taking a class with MBA students. Even a BLIND, SENILE GOAT can get an MBA.
Are these not the professions where losers in secondary school run to because they cannot solve simple dy/dx.
You should be ashamed for mentioning MBA next to me.
I have told you you are an idio..ttt. Please wear your name with pride.

Stillfire:
It is very important to highlight issues that bother on discrimination in the society.

Absolutely true - in cases of true discrimination. There should be equal opportunity and open access for all. I’m not even claiming it’s necessarily a panacea, and we may well find the outcomes do not always prove best for individuals or even for society overall.

Stillfire:
Women have chosen to highlight their issues...who the heck is stopping others from talking about their issues?

This is where I feel you miss it somewhat. Identity politics. I like how you always refer to our history and heritage when it comes to societal issues. And one thing I have gleaned from your posts is even when our foreparents acted as two halves, it was always with the common good in mind.

Identity politics has at best limited value – even if started with the right intentions. Like all things institutionalised it tends to take on a life of its own, and become an end in itself.

That sadly is what has befallen feminism. Its ills are manifest and evils apparent. That end has become the pursuit of female privilege and power above all else – even if it comes at the expense of, and inordinate cost to men and children.

It would take an age to enumerate them, but even it’s descent into inanity like free the nipples,and free-bleeding should be enough for anyone to question if at best it has run its course, or outlived its usefulness.

Initiatives such as #heforshe just show that feminists themselves are starting to realise that. Unfortunately it doesn't change their whole ethos.

Pliss, don’t fight again.


TV

stillfire, stop fighting

So stillwater sabi speak Yoruba like this

Stillfire:


Iya e ni WERE! Baba e, oko e ati gbogbo e ni WEREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Oya die.
Sorry I don't speak ASHAWO language. I don't know all these stunts you have performed for your Alhaji Dubai. Don't taint my precious self with your dirty self. How many people did you f.u.c....k and date before you married? How many did you scatter your nyansh and still scattering it for. We must decide who be the REAL ASHAWO BE!
Even an idi...ot can get an MBA.
I had the OPPORTUNITY of taking a class with MBA students. Even a BLIND, SENILE GOAT can get an MBA.
Are these not the professions where losers in secondary school run to because they cannot solve simple dy/dx.
You should be ashamed for mentioning MBA next to me.
I have told you you are an idio..ttt. Please wear your name with pride.

Lmao. You don't speak ashawo language. I have already called you out twice on your ashawo language. I pity you. I am sure your mother regrets not aborting you. But her own mother regrets not aborting her too. The only right thing you have ever done is to continue aborting the different pregnancies you have had. At least, you recognise the world cannot afford to have more people like you.

Looking at you, I'm sure that your father would have preferred to be impotent. But his father feels the same way about him. Stillfire, just continue with the abortions okay! We don't want more of you in this world. At least help reduce the level of pollution in the world by continuing your abortions!

And you have can say some other people cannot solve dy/dx? You must be a plonker, a mega doofus, a depressed skank. You just told us that 0.5% of 85 million is 1. And you accuse others of not knowing dy/dx?

I see you are already wearing your ashawo name with pride too in addition to your self acclaimed Stillfire School for the retarrded. What a joke you are. The only thing that can be named after you is the school for the retarrded? You must be a bipolar dumbfuck, a twonk!