Hi.... I do not really know how he was relating with you before you got pregnant. Some men do not always want to coming closer to a pregnant woman not to even talk of having sex with her. They tend to feel irritated(I know a man who does such).
Take him to God in your prayers. He shall surely come back to you.

5minsmadness:

**Rolls eyes

No go get diabetes o!
This wan your body oversweet u so

E no sweet me oo
W dey vex me
Maybe totori too

pickabeau1:
Babe3
U are a smart lady and u know online disclosure of offline matter never ends well


Its a relationship that ended badly.....maybe there is some bitterness..that is normal but this approach is not d best


Let it end that way

I agree with this.

If babe feels cheated/ scammed or blackmailed she should pursue it the legal way offline.

Anything else is pure Saturday comedy for bored wives like moi and gossipy kids. My opinion

WTF.....

Holy lord, I thought this forum was only for ddiscussions...

BABE3, when you were fvcking coogar, did you tell us? I don't even know anybody on this forum..
You met Coogar privately, dated him privately. Sent nudez privately and want to disgrace him publicly now that things have gone sour
To the amusement of the harridans on this section
Do you think they really care about you

Madam, handle your issues privately... stop hanging ur dirty linens in public

Mindfulness:

No
I am a saint

olu4life:

Please don't even say anything again since she's now dumb and blind. Let her go and nurse her old wound and stop crying over spilt milk.
Or u better come and rreply whether u loan or not. Rubbish

I am just disturbed that people can go this length to put a smear campaign on another. Boy spent N8,000, girl spent N4,000. Girl wants to collect her N4,000 back but she cannot remember eating N8,000.

Have a good day, Sir.

swagloverss:


He does not wash dirty linen in public. Ask your client whether she took awoof business class flights to LDN. If she did, who paid for the luxury?

You still didn't answer the question of how you were first able to PM Coogar to ask for money since last night

Nihilist:


Really?

You have around 20 posts in your history, none of them directly communicating with Coogar.

You don't follow him either...

So how did you PM him to ask for money? I thought you had to follow each other to be able to PM eachother?

pickabeau1:


How are you doing ma'am

You been scarce
Trust you good

Dyt:


No
I am a saint

We all are.

swagloverss:


She promised to pay back in instalments before the tickets were issued.

You need to shut the fvck up and get Coogar to come speak for himself. You speaking for him is doing more damage than good to his reputation. And if he indeed has asked you to not hold brief for him, you need to respect that and let him come clear his name when he feels he's up for it. Stop talking for Coogar.

if ur fully married and legally married to him,then you can take the case to his parents or some one much close to him.

ifyalways:

I agree with this.

If babe feels cheated/ scammed or blackmailed she should pursue it the legal way offline.

Anything else is pure Saturday comedy for bored wives like moi and gossipy kids. My opinion

It will never end well

Someone will even say she was naive to allow pics to hers to be taken

What of the good times...it was offline

Now things are sour.....online

Too much back n forth

Babe3....drop it and take it as life lessons



Drop it

edwife:


Thank you,it took an anonymous moniker to open up and now everyone seems to know "stuff" behind close door.

Some people are even using this to settle some unresolved scores with him.

Habaaaa i'm sure you know it takes a very strong woman to come out in the open.
The psychological impact of living with the threat of having nudes revealed is enough to keep these YOUNG women with all to live for quiet don't you think so?

Nihilist:


You still didn't answer the question of how you were first able to PM Coogar to ask for money since last night

I think it is well known that you don't need to follow anyone to PM them. If I want to be dishonest, I would say I used to follow him and then stopped following him.

Go to my profile, send me a message, I will get a mail that Nihilist wants to have a word with me. If I accept the request, we can start communicating.

Capice?

He is a bastard. Ignore him den no dey tai jam maggot for salt. Anyway is better than the husband that wrote complicated as his marital status on his Facebook profile.

Dyt:


You been scarce
Trust you good

I'm fine...tx.....how is family n business

Mindfulness:


We all are.

You ke
I am doubting that already

Timbuktou:


You need to shut the fvck up and get Coogar to come speak for himself. You speaking for him is doing more damage than good to his reputation. And if he indeed has asked you to not hold brief for him, you need to respect that and let him come clear his name when he feels he's up for it. Stop talking for Coogar.

True.

And if the allegations being made are not true, he can sue her on grounds of calumny. Someone will pay in this scenario.

5minsmadness:

Exactly.
There are two different accusations going on here. One of passion and one of fraud. Both shouldn't be mixed.

True

You too must be a caring wife oh

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

pickabeau1:



I'm fine...tx.....how is family n business

Bring .e business o
Abi you not going on vacation ni
Don't worry
I am not a scam

Ibime:




Elymaxiimus, grayline, Kr0ne, Giyazz, Emaprince, Jigsawkillah, Mikuz and co.

na coogar dem dey halla so

aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and your marriage to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only a single task unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care about you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, how ?, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of excruciating pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. then when you both get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has for you which was hidden.

nice one bro

wonlasewonimi:


Why would coogar send you this message? The coogar we know defends himself

This is on point. What amazes me most is BABE3 coming out with scam claims.

C'mon brah, I would doubt every other allegation not Babe's, the two were freaking in love some years ago.

I remember Coog opening a thread for the chick back then and the chick inviting him over to her country.

How time flies.

jaybee3:


Habaaaa i'm sure you know it takes a very strong woman to come out in the open.
The psychological impact of living with the threat of having nudes revealed is enough to keep these YOUNG women with all to live for quiet don't you think so?

Definitely,that's why i commended babe3.I am only trying to be fair here,it's also a crime to make false allegations against somebody.

I am not talking about the threats but the scam allegations.

Up until now,we have only heard her side.

swagloverss:


The allegation being made is that Coogar owes her money and he is using threats to stop her from claiming her money.

I think you need to shut the _fuck up! Coogar is not 1 for running away from conflict so this your song and dance of you have been in communication with him and he is afraid of washing his dirty linen is solid crap!

You are either an alternate or a rabble rouser! Swerve and allow coogar deal with babe3 HIMSELF! Her allegations are serious and he can also bag her for slander if he wants! No one takes you serious anyway so do yourself a favour and zip it!

Mznaett:
Those creature called "men"?? Fear them!

guys before you choose ur life partner pls shine ur eyes well well because dos ladies out there ehn

My dear, think fast on the best thing to do. Your husband don't care about you

A

swagloverss:


I think it is well known that you don't need to follow anyone to PM them. If I want to be dishonest, I would say I used to follow him and then stopped following him.

Go to my profile, send me a message, I will get a mail that Nihilist wants to have a word with me. If I accept the request, we can start communicating.

Capice?

It still doesn't make sense.
At the start of this episode, your post history only comprised of 17 posts, none of them in direct conversation with Coogar.

So you mean you sent him a PM notification, he received it, commited to speak to someone he didn't know before, and then decided to meet up twice with that person? And not only that, give you money?


That's implausible knowing the communication trends on this website. I find it very difficult to believe that you guys were meeting up offline but have never interacted online on this forum.

As at the start of this issue, there wasn't even a single mutual quote... Yet you've risen up to defend one of the loudest posters on this website on a day that he is keeping suspiciously quiet

Your story is fishy...