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One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 9:50am On Nov 24, 2015
Surfing the net, I came across this. Though not an article, just felt sharing it here would be knowledgeable.
Though I don't know what might have happened as the topic depicts but the thing is there will definitely be
reasons to call off a wedding.

Now over to the house....
share your thoughts, belief and reasons. Lets learn and have fun together! wink
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by naijaboiy: 9:52am On Nov 24, 2015
If she has a child elsewhere without letting me know before we get married.

She shouldn't just keep the secrets that will cause problems for us.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 9:54am On Nov 24, 2015
naijaboiy:
If she has a child elsewhere without letting me know before we get married.

She shouldn't just keep the secrets that will cause problems for us.
But its her child and you love her. And logically,
if you love her, you should love her blood.

And love should be enough to stay with her..i guess!

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by naijaboiy: 9:57am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:

But its her child and you love her. And logically,
if you love her, you should love her blood.

And love should be enough to stay with her..i guess!
Maybe you didn't understand what I said.

Now let me reiterate.

If she has a child before our wedding and AND SHE REFUSES TO LET ME KNOW about it then i'll call off the wedding.

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Lucialovely(f): 9:58am On Nov 24, 2015
genotype
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by kramfonos(m): 10:00am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:

But its her child and you love her. And logically,
if you love her, you should love her blood.

And love should be enough to stay with her..i guess!

I've got nothing against single mothers but if a woman hides the existence of her child from me, that certainly is a red flag.

I also do not forgive infidelity.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by vizkiz: 10:10am On Nov 24, 2015
Lucialovely:
genotype

damn! That is a solid one there. It is not just about the love, but the future of the kids too

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by calddon(m): 10:19am On Nov 24, 2015
when I find out that she has finally joined the end time crew on NL.

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:25am On Nov 24, 2015
kramfonos:

I've got nothing against single mothers but if a woman hides the existence of her child from me, that certainly is a red flag.

I also do not forgive infidelity.

ooops! but would you have given her a chance to explain
why she did that?
What if there is a reasonable reason behind her actions? undecided

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:27am On Nov 24, 2015
Lucialovely:
genotype
Part of what I was actually looking for. cheesy
Once you are not an AA, you are bound to
ask the question of 'whats your genotype'
before the relationship starts. sad

That thing sucks but its important! embarassed

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Nobody: 10:27am On Nov 24, 2015
calddon:
when I find out that she has finally joined the end time crew on NL.
lol. End time reply.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:27am On Nov 24, 2015
naijaboiy:

Maybe you didn't understand what I said.

Now let me reiterate.

If she has a child before our wedding and AND SHE REFUSES TO LET ME KNOW about it then i'll call off the wedding.
And where will u put the for better for worse VOW? grin
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:28am On Nov 24, 2015
calddon:
when I find out that she has finally joined the end time crew on NL.
Which one is end time crew again? angry
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Lucialovely(f): 10:29am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:

Part of what I was actually looking for. cheesy
Once you are not an AA, you are bound to
ask the question of 'whats your genotype'
before the relationship starts. sad

That thing sucks but its important! embarassed
some pple don't consider it and its very bad
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:31am On Nov 24, 2015
Lucialovely:
some pple don't consider it and its very bad
Lets say due to ignorance.

My last relationship, I almost made the mistake. Thinking there should
be a way out... Not until my Uncle yabbed me that I was able to apply
wisdom and common sense.

That's why I do say "Love and affection is never enough"

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Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:


ooops! but would you have given her a chance to explain
why she did that?
What if there is a reasonable reason behind her actions? undecided
reasonable reason like? No one should ever have a reason to hide such an important thing..
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by naijaboiy: 10:34am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:

And where will u put the for better for worse VOW? grin
Before the wedding bro.

No vow has been made yet wink
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:37am On Nov 24, 2015
naijaboiy:

Before the wedding bro.

No vow has been made yet wink

Hmmmmmm...
But never forget to ask about her genotype and blood group.
Its highly important. wink
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:39am On Nov 24, 2015
masterchi:
reasonable reason like? No one should ever have a reason to hide such an important thing..
Reasonable reason like... If she tell you before the wedding, you will be dead!
grin grin grin grin #2muchOfNollywood
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by naijaboiy: 10:39am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:


Hmmmmmm...
But never forget to ask about her genotype and blood group.
Its highly important. wink
Of course.

Those are necessary issues that will be taken care of even before the thought of marriage will come up.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by kramfonos(m): 10:39am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:


ooops! but would you have given her a chance to explain
why she did that?
What if there is a reasonable reason behind her actions? undecided

Murder? Maybe. A past of prostitution? Maybe. Abortion? Maybe. But admitting she has a kid shouldn't be delayed. It isn't a crime...and I sure have nothing against kids.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by naijaboiy: 10:41am On Nov 24, 2015
calddon:
when I find out that she has finally joined the end time crew on NL.
Werey gringrin
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Nobody: 10:45am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:

Reasonable reason like... If she tell you before the wedding, you will be dead!
grin grin grin grin #2muchOfNollywood
lol. Will 'u' in the story be dead after divorcing her?
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 10:48am On Nov 24, 2015
masterchi:
lol. Will 'u' in the story be dead after divorcing her?
Don't assume me in the story ... abeg! cheesy
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by calddon(m): 10:57am On Nov 24, 2015
naijaboiy:

Werey gringrin
my werey comrade.
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donholy28(m): 11:14am On Nov 24, 2015
If I see her nudes online
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 11:18am On Nov 24, 2015
donholy28:
If I see her nudes online
undecided
Seriously!
That thinking is kinda weird shocked
What type of a lady will post her nude on web>>>
Is she mad? lipsrsealed
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donholy28(m): 11:23am On Nov 24, 2015
donTbone:
undecided Seriously! That thinking is kinda weird shocked What type of a lady will post her nude on web>>> Is she mad? lipsrsealed
if it leaks online
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 11:24am On Nov 24, 2015
donholy28:
if it leaks online
Better! wink
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 24, 2015
I call mine off. I bet you don't wana know why?
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by donTbone(m): 11:35am On Nov 24, 2015
fados4sure:
I call mine off. I bet you don't wana know why?
Sharing will make us learn bro.
Its gonna be nyc to share
Re: One Reason To Call Off A Wedding? by DonX001: 11:47am On Nov 24, 2015
If I suddenly find out she stabbed her last boyfriend while he was sleeping at night....

PS: Actually know a case like that.

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