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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Nov 25, 2015
tpiadotcom:



they don't want to settle with anyone who does not meet their ideal standards or they just prefer to be single.

my opinion, could be wrong.
prefer to be single? I doubt that.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Nov 25, 2015
Depends on the material you want. Ankara? Kampala? Guinea? Linens? Etc
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by IamLEGEND1: 5:47pm On Nov 25, 2015
yinkeys:
smiley see this bad guy

Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 25, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
Depends on the material you want. Ankara? Kampala? Guinea? Linens? Etc
lol
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Mossaino(m): 5:50pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?

Well, I don't agree that with the statement that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is because "Husband Material" young men are scarce. I think the issue is with the young Women of these days because they are looking for Ready-made-Husbands (Guys who are extremely rich) and would rather not settle down with young guys with potentials but not there yet. So essentially it boils down to "money". The love of money and comfort is the reason behind the large number of unmarried ladies. I can assure you there are many good guys out there who are good Husband Material. So ladies take your eyes off money and look out for potentials and learn to be contented as your strive for better fortunes. Don't wait until you are too advanced in age and desperation set in. Pretty Adaure, Hope you are not like one of those ladies..... God help us all.

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Nov 25, 2015
Mossaino:


Well, I don't agree that with the statement that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is because "Husband Material" young men are scarce. I think the issue is with the young Women of these days because they are looking for Ready-made-Husbands (Guys who are extremely rich) and would rather not settle down with young guys with potentials but not there yet. So essentially it boils down to "money". The love of money and comfort is the reason behind the large number of unmarried ladies. I can assure you there are many good guys out there who are good Husband Material. So ladies take your eyes off money and look out for potentials and learn to be contented as your strive for better fortunes. Don't wait until you are too advanced in age and desperation set in. Pretty Adaure, Hope you are not like one of those ladies..... God help us all.
nice contribution.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
lol
which?
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Yksoul(m): 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2015
HUSBAND MATERIALS ARE NOT SCARCE,LACK OF MONEY MAKES THEM SCARCE.SOUL MATES ARE REALLY SCARCE
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tpiadotcom: 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
prefer to be single? I doubt that.

some women prefer to be single.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Nov 25, 2015
Yksoul:
HUSBAND MATERIALS ARE NOT SCARCE,LACK OF MONEY MAKES THEM SCARCE.SOUL MATES ARE REALLY SCARCE
but true love is not all about money.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by yinkeys(m): 6:06pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
but true love is not all about money.
I hear, like if Wizkid or Banky comes for you now you won't accept undecided

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by schumastic(m): 6:06pm On Nov 25, 2015
MrsPhyno:
Yah. Cause men are getting suckier and suckisher and suckiest. At least in their forefathers day, dem sabi farm. Now, they're just too useless grin



N THE LADIES R GETTING LAZY, BOSSY, ARROGANT AND FORGET THAT IS A MAN'S WORLD...AT LEAST IN OUR FOREFATHERS DAYS THE LADIES WERE HOMELY, WIFE MATERIAL AND A GOOD EXAMPLE IS OUR MOTHERS N CAN'T SAY SAME FOR THE DAUGHTERS CUS THEY R FOOLISH grin

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tommychow(m): 7:16pm On Nov 25, 2015
The term "husband material" is a relative concept. With that being said, I think it goes both ways. The husband wannabes are complaining too.

Funny thing, why do people always complain about majority when they need just ONE, that one exception that makes him/her more special. Everyone wants options but no one what's to be an option. Bloody humans!
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Babacele: 7:20pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
what has politics go to do with relationship?
I tire o ,babe.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Babacele: 7:24pm On Nov 25, 2015
Estharfabian:
I couldn't Agree more...undecided

With the Increasing Rate of Unrepentant thugs, Weed smokers, Narcissist, Players, Sex-Addicts,Misogynists, Rapists, E-megalomaniacs, Heart-breakers...OfCourse they'd be Scarce....undecided

I'm Afraid the Good guys Are diminishing by the day..embarassed Where the good guys At!?cry
u ain't seeing well dearie, clear yestertears n see fine Adams all around you. you get what you really want. me I meet beautiful wife materials everywhere ,everyday. The world is a beautiful place filled beautiful people. cheers.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 25, 2015
Babacele:
u ain't seeing well dearie, clear yestertears n see fine Adams all around you. you get what you really want. me I meet beautiful wife materials everywhere ,everyday. The world is a beautiful place filled beautiful people. cheers.
[size=28pt]Cheeeers!!!wink[/size]
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Babacele: 7:29pm On Nov 25, 2015
Estharfabian:
[size=28pt]Cheeeers!!!wink[/size]
im happy u are catching d positive energy . lolz.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tpiadotcom: 7:38pm On Nov 25, 2015
tommychow:


Funny thing, why do people always complain about majority when they need just ONE

this is one of the wisest statements to come out of Nairaland.
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Onyiridike(f): 7:53pm On Nov 25, 2015
It depends on what you mean by the phrase "Husband Material".

I am a woman but 90% of Nigerian young ladies are not marriagable.

I have many of them in my neighbourhood who have been brainwashed by the scenes they watch in Nigerian and foreign movies and yet their brains are not clean enough to understand that movies are mere fiction.

What do you have to say about a girl who is yet to pass SSCE (even in a miracle center), doesn't know how to cook, can't handle any domestic chores and also very rude. And yet she will tell you that a promising young man is NOT her type? I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.

A lady who sleeps around with different men just to make ends meet will look down on a struggling young man (a fresh unemployed graduate) and tell you that he is not her class.

Now answer the following questions:

1. How many single ladies can marry a graduate who is underemployed and jointly propel him to that man of her dream?

2. How many ladies can date a struggling man and still love and respect him?

3. How often have you heared ladies enumerating ridiculous criteria for a husband material which can only be met by God Almighty?

Most ladies I have come across are mere liabilities and not wife materials either.

When a wife material meets a husband material (all things being equal), marriage will take place.

I M O!

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 7:56pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?
Nne,You are likely going to be my Wife,so don't be afraid!
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tpiadotcom: 7:56pm On Nov 25, 2015
I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.

hm
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tosyne2much(m): 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2015
WE are not scarce at all, just that the ladies seem to always neglect us out of ignorance and their selfish thirst for perishable parameters cool

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by rosalieene(f): 8:09pm On Nov 25, 2015
Estharfabian:
I couldn't Agree more...undecided

With the Increasing Rate of Unrepentant thugs, Weed smokers, Narcissist, Players, Sex-Addicts,Misogynists, Rapists, E-megalomaniacs, Heart-breakers...OfCourse they'd be Scarce....undecided

I'm Afraid the Good guys Are diminishing by the day..embarassed Where the good guys At!?cry

Yet every Saturday there is always a wedding!
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by tosyne2much(m): 8:13pm On Nov 25, 2015
Onyiridike:
It depends on what you mean by the phrase "Husband Material".

I am a woman but 90% of Nigerian young ladies are not marriagable.

I have many of them in my neighbourhood who have been brainwashed by the scenes they watch in Nigerian and foreign movies and yet their brains are not clean enough to understand that movies are mere fiction.

What do you have to say about a girl who is yet to pass SSCE (even in a miracle center), doesn't know how to cook, can't handle any domestic chores and also very rude. And yet she will tell you that a promising young man is NOT her type? I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.

A lady who sleeps around with different men just to make ends meet will look down on a struggling young man (a fresh unemployed graduate) and tell you that he is not her class.


I M O!
I'm forced to quote you... You are a lady of intelligence cool
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 25, 2015
MrsPhyno:
Yah. Cause men are getting suckier and suckisher and suckiest. At least in their forefathers day, dem sabi farm. Now, they're just too useless grin
This girl you need a good spanking, and I have a feeling I'll have to be the one to administer it angry
Onyiridike:
It depends on what you mean by the phrase "Husband Material".
I am a woman but 90% of Nigerian young ladies are not marriagable.
I have many of them in my neighbourhood who have been brainwashed by the scenes they watch in Nigerian and foreign movies and yet their brains are not clean enough to understand that movies are mere fiction.
What do you have to say about a girl who is yet to pass SSCE (even in a miracle center), doesn't know how to cook, can't handle any domestic chores and also very rude. And yet she will tell you that a promising young man is NOT her type? I simply told her that God will give her her type and she was very angry because she is actually a very bad type.
A lady who sleeps around with different men just to make ends meet will look down on a struggling young man (a fresh unemployed graduate) and tell you that he is not her class.
Now answer the following questions:
1. How many single ladies can marry a graduate who is underemployed and jointly propel him to that man of her dream?
2. How many ladies can date a struggling man and still love and respect him?
3. How often have you heared ladies enumerating ridiculous criteria for a husband material which can only be met by God Almighty?
Most ladies I have come across are mere liabilities and not wife materials either.
When a wife material meets a husband material (all things being equal), marriage will take place.
I M O!
Madam sorry for quoting you, but I hope to marry a woman as wise as you. You are the epitome of what I need in a wife and if care is not taken, I may have to rally my people round to come pay your people a vist lipsrsealed

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Odunharry(m): 8:36pm On Nov 25, 2015
too much expectation from ladies..guys taking their time to chose..


Marriage isnt what many people want to rush in cos people are more enlightened now and know the consequence of choosing the wrong spouse .

The economy too isnt smiling


etc etc

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Nov 25, 2015
rosalieene:


Yet every Saturday there is always a wedding!
Well, everyday there's a divorce....undecided

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Youngpo413: 8:51pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
Ladies and Gentlemen, come in, let us discuss.
I was watching a tele relationship show and one of the participants in the show said that the reason why the rate of unmarried ladies is growing is that the "HUSBAND MATERIAL" young men are Scarce.
Just drop your opinions, do you agree to that?
wife material are more scarce

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Acidosis(m): 9:49pm On Nov 25, 2015
A husband material is a man who has a roof over his head, pay his bills (Electricity, Tax, etc.) and have a steady income.



Any man without 'these' is a boyfriend material. He will not get married anytime soon.

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Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Yksoul(m): 9:49pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adaure4ever:
but true love is not all about money.
NO TRUE LOOK IS NOT ABOUT MONEY,BUT IF ALLOW TO LINGER FOR SO LONG,U WILL SEE THAT MONEY MAKES TRUE LOVE TO EXIST
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Richy4(m): 10:03pm On Nov 25, 2015
In my own humble opinion. If the husband Material is scarce, you can buy suit for him...

Some husband prefer to put on suit.......

Some prefer native material.........

I know that Ankara material might be expensive now but not really scarce.......... lipsrsealed
Re: Are "Husband Material" Men Getting Scarce? by Odunharry(m): 10:23pm On Nov 25, 2015
Acidosis:
A husband material is a man who has a roof over his head, pay his bills (Electricity, Tax, etc.) and have a steady income.



Any man without 'these' is a boyfriend material. He will not get married anytime soon.
funny but true

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