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She Locked Her Phones From Me by micolo5000(m): 8:42am On Dec 19, 2015 |
My gal friend of 3yrs now has All of a sudden locked her phones from me assessing them.. Guys wat exactly does this mean? Privacy or something else |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 8:44am On Dec 19, 2015 |
she is definitely cheating 2 Likes |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 19, 2015 |
micolo5000:your affair lack transparency. She might be cheating., |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy: Na wa o...you fit kill person chai! |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:dnt just conclude,it might not be what you think |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:47am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Op give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her why, she just might have a gud reason |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy: When i said nl is ruining relationships they think m lying u my fav person but dis is dissappointing i have seen realtionships get ruined in reality cos of nl I dnt take nl crios before till it ruined a frnds relationship Now i'm really takin nl crios |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by obiorathesubtle: 8:51am On Dec 19, 2015 |
wetin you dy find for her phone?? Leave her jor.. It's not your business.. Her phone, her choice. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Erukumakanaki: 8:52am On Dec 19, 2015 |
see some inloyal fuckerz above me defending their counterparts :\ |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by xpac01(m): 8:52am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy:Please help my wondering thoughts, what else do you think could be the reason |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by xpac01(m): 8:55am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Op, exact time to say goodbye to the dam.n r/ship. Be the man and do it immediately. It may not be easy but never let love or s+x becloud your reasoning. Just do it. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:56am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Something doesn't seem right here, there's definitely a reason for that. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 8:57am On Dec 19, 2015 |
sickstars: Jolllyjoy: Suigeneris93:OP said they have been dating for 3good years,all of a sudden she put a lock on her phone,meaning trust has been broken,because she must have trusted him during the period of 3 years,why the sudden change? now answer this question,what will be your first thought if your boyfriend of 3 years suddenly starts locking his phone? oh,don't give me the he just land a new business deal crap baes,he is definitely seeing someone else keywords : trust,transparency,free with each other |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Oahray: 8:58am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:lol. The way you jumped to this conclusion would make a kangaroo jealous. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 8:58am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy: |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 9:01am On Dec 19, 2015 |
xpac01:. . . . he should quit the r/ship just like that ? wow really. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy: The truth is for a relationshp to survive, u hv to give ur partner the benefit of d doubt...Nl really isn't a place to solicit relationship advice cos most of the responses u get could make u even more confused. Op shud talk to his gf she just might nt be cheating 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Solowande(m): 9:05am On Dec 19, 2015 |
lock ur pocket |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 9:06am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Oahray:its the only tangible explanation unless maybe she is testing if the locks on her phones works a 3 years old relationship must have gone far,not street relationship. note: I only said she is cheating,I didn't say he should leave her |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Odunharry(m): 9:07am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:True words... I I just laugh when they talk what are you looking for or insecurity.. op check if u want to check and save yourself o.. Wetin de Fone to hide? pix, videos, music, chats or Wat exactly |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 9:11am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Suigeneris93:well I guess y'all doesn't want to accept the truth.... okay waste time on benefit of doubt and still find out she was cheating after all? am not saying he should breakup with her but when a partner starts wanting privacy then there a breach somewhere,unless she is just testing if the locks on her phones are working yes he will have to talk to her,which she will definitely deny,then he should investigate,which she might be good at covering up traces my dear zero tolerance for cheats,they kill faster than AIDs |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 9:12am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:so you think the only reason for her action is cheating bah?sorry but you are wrong a girl can decide to lock her phone due to various reason,of which cheating might be one but for now jumping into hasty conclusion should be out of it. Op never mentioned any change in his g.f apart from phone locking,which can easily be pulled off,to hell with trust miss,there are things one cant spill out and that is were privacy comes in. Let op confront the g.f,and hear what her reasons are. I for one have locked my phone before not because i was seeing someone else,i dnt even tolerate that but because there were so many things i couldnt bring myself to tell which were hidden in my phone. To your question miss,if my b.f locked his phone,i will confront him in a subtle way. Even if his reasons arent convincing,his body language would be enough to add two and two together. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Pheals(f): 9:13am On Dec 19, 2015 |
O boy so U don't want the babe to be free... she may not engaged in any relationship but.. .something personal, free her phone but if U find out she is in any relationship free her OK... 3yrs without ring |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by xpac01(m): 9:15am On Dec 19, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:Oya na, proffer him a solution. May be he should break her phone and now start acting like an insecured folk in a world of many options. I anticipate a logical response. I have been in similar situation and not until things paced out of control I started regreting why I never took this very option of quitting ealier. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 9:18am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Odunharry:kwakwakwakwakwakwa abeg jolllyjoy say she dey hide secrets for phone... that's a new one biko about insecurity that is BS so I told a story about how a boyfriend of my friend dropped the none phone checking rule,in short she can't borrow his phone to make a call and he will never near her phone,bro she discovered she was the second girl all along |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:you dnt know?phone can hide a dead un-buried body. |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Odunharry(m): 9:20am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:Buhahaha... ordinary call he can't drop his Fone for her.. end time people |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 9:25am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy:I said and repeat she is definitely cheating ma'am so she might have had things she doesn't want him to know and its after 3 years she suddenly realise the best place to hide them is her phone and lock it? my dear stop beating about the bush,yes he should confront her,yes if it was you you would definitely deny because who will accept been a cheater? If he eventually asked and investigated and finds out she is cheating after all,what's the difference,benefit of doubt right? its high time we realise that relationships especially long term ones like the OPs (3years no be joke) should be about transparency,trust and been free with one another |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Adaeze003(f): 9:28am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Have you asked for the password or you just rushed to come and whine 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by Oahray: 9:29am On Dec 19, 2015 |
misspicy:there are other possibilities. There are ALWAYS other possibilities. She may have started locking it cos of other persons. If this is the case, she would give him the code if he wants it. He didn't say why he's so sure it's cos of him. He may have misused info from her phone in the past, and so lost her trust. She may be imitating him (if he locks his phone too). She may be flirting with other guys (note that I didn't use cheating) Don't judge an incomplete tale. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by lanicky(f): 9:35am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Suigeneris93: My thought exactly. 1 Like |
Re: She Locked Her Phones From Me by misspicy(f): 9:36am On Dec 19, 2015 |
Oahray:only the bolded can convince me she is not cheating but going by the OP's post without asking the questions above since he didn't give us the complete tale of how it really happened, its normal to deduce that she is cheating |
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