mineANDurs:
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Its beta to b without a husband than to b wt one that beats her.

God bless you

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

it's apparent u don't base in naira. Na naija be this

Seems from the scenerio here..its an elder sister....a lot of people overlook the fact that the sister provoked the altercation. Mutual respect in a marriage is very important. I cant imagine my wife calling me names how much more to the hearing of strangers.

If its my sister thats at fault, i will allow one (reaction) slap to reset her senses. Anything more than that, i will intervene.

euromilion:


That's a decision for her to make not the brother.

Ben was a wise man.

Did your elders not tell you not to get involve in the matter of husband and wife?

okayyyy.nice one,you can clap for yourself. Then you can just watch,watch and watch him beat your sister to death. No wahala. Sebi na him wife,and your elders have told you not to interfer in husband and wife matter. I guess that will make you happy if he eventually killed her.its still his wife..because she's married now,she's no longer your sister.the blood in her vein is now different from yours abi.her husban can beat her at will.okkkk! you don try.a round of applause for you.

Hahaha!

E chop craze abi e Wan die

slyIsaac:
This is a True event...2 days ago actually...
My long time friend Came Back from school for another of our friend's Birthday party...I went to see him (let's call him Ben) before the Party, He was crashing @ his Sister's two bedroom flat, We were watching a movie together when Her hubby Came home from work. He barely answered me when I greeted him sef.

Like 20 mins later he called her into their room, moments later their voices were raised..I couldn't make out what they were aguing about but I knew she called him a Naïve and paranoid fellow, The sound of the slap was very loud, I was Mad instantly..I Told Ben*. "Get in there and stop This Madness".. He told me it' s not his business or Mine.That we should Go outside...I was too angry Because I left immediately....But I keep thinking was Ben* Right?

Tell me Guys, will you allow it?


Lalasticlala,

and this will be the day Ben die in my hand!

shall na your sister we go blame na! go marry monster say na man

sheymaziggy:

Just pray say make God no give u bad wife

smile. Abi. Women can provoke sha. But not to an inlaw or boyfriend beating my own sis in my presence. No na!

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

911 in Nigeria? Its a sorry case.


And

I don't have to fight the husband
But I will protect my sister as long as am there in his house (but this is not going to be any of my sisters portion IJN)

I will nva do dat to my future wife and pray 4 no man to do dat to any of mine.

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

911 for Nigeria? The police will tell you it's a family matter.

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

In Nigeria
This ain't a movie. Ifa hear say Nigeria police will be there in the next minute ke. Abeg leave matter joor

Foolish guys pretending to be nice,pray not to marry a bad woman that will awaken the monster in u, the foolish OP that wants to fight another woman husband check urself, u deserve to die for another man wahala, nobody noticed where the woman Verbally beat the man to the hearing of the stupid OP. May AMADIOHA strike the anus of anyone that insults me.

AdeniyiA:
He must also beat me...
Only an animal in human skin does that, even in your presence? , he needs his brain checked

What if you start a fight with him, based on what you have seen/heard.... and he beats you to pulp...and your sister reminds you that "you should not have interfered in a fight between husband and wife"?

Truth is, as undesirable as it is, "some" married people do have heated arguments that result in physical fights.

I am sure this happens in majority of marriages at one point or the other in the history of marriages but somehow, "couples who really and truly love themselves" find a way to overcome such situation and become stronger and closer afterwards.

When they settle their rift, it is the "third party" who takes sides with one of the couple, that becomes the most hated enemy of both husband and wife!

In one case that l witnessed, the Husband banned his wife's brother from ever stepping foot in their home (he fought the husband for reasons given in this post, though he got a beating in the process ).... while the wife said he (brother) inflamed their argument to the level both of them have no intention of taking it to, by making it a "family Vs. family feud".
According to her, if he (brother) had not fought her husband on her behalf, their fight would probably be over within five days but now, the whole family of husband and the wife not only know about it, but are now involved!
She chose her marriage ..over her brother!

You might not agree, but l learned a lot form that episode.
Even court Judges are not very enthusiastic to "step-in and break a marriage" (which is what a wife's brother beating the husband basically is), they would ask the couple to go back and see if there is a possibility of settlement first.... Let "time heal some wounds and let heads cool down".

So, for me, l will walk out "in protest" and let my in-law know that l did it in protest.
I am sure if he is the mature type, he would find reason to come back and beg me, apologize for his misbehavior.... and l would also have saved my sister's marriage in the process.

There are some lines you dont cross... except you have no intention of going back!
Yes, intervene and try beat him up...but be ready to find your sister a new husband because l know not a single husband that would see "eye-to-eye" with you after that, and it will rub-off on your sister and her marriage.

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

I guess I are not in Nigeria. Foreign environment don format ur brain It's gud shaa

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

I guess u are not in Nigeria. Foreign environment don format ur brain It's gud shaa

peterovanski:
I will plot His assasination quietly

after u marry her I gueSs

mineANDurs:
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Its beta to b without a husband than to b wt one that beats her.

The wife must have done something annoying, trust women. Na Grace of patience nai man take dey follow woman else??

That OP's friend is adopted!!!

Onyiido:
The guy is a weakling. How would u beat my sister or sibling in front of me. I will bind the madness that caused it out of him asap

calm down. U will do nothing. U wan go beat am? May be u. Can assist in settling their differences.

WASMOG:
911 here in Nigeria are u sick

we have 911 trucks.

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

yea, not in naija na.

I was 17, fresh outta secondary school when I went to visit my senior female cousin who was 29 then.

I have always known the husband to be a brute but I was unprepared for what I witnessed that day.

Right in front of me, in the living room, an argument ensued between my cousin and the husband and the next thing I saw was him dishing out slaps and punches on her, right in my and the kids presence.

I react easily on impulse especially whenever a helpless victim is involved.

I swore an oath never to touch a woman and defend any vulnerable person I come across even if it kills me based on the things I saw around me while growing up and based on the morals my parents instilled in me.

Secondly I can be unproportionately aggressive when I witness injustice and I lack complete fear of any human ( I have been taking on guys 15 years and above my age since I was 8 years old or something)

Anyway, long story short, I pounced on this dude (he was around 34 years old then) and a brutal fight ensued.

I was taking punches from him and dishing back the much I could. At a point I picked up a side stool in the living room and broke the entire thing on his back. We were both profusely bleeding but I was ready to end his life that day or he would end mine all while my cousin was screaming and crying.

Well at a point in time, the neighbours came barging in and got us separated then another lady called the police and he was taken away after the wife told them what happened.

I picked my stuff and left and told my cousin she either does the same or end up dead.

Anyway they separated shortly after that and some years after the man died from a mysterious illness (may he R.I.P.)

Moral of the story, if you could help a victim, do it immediately if you are not scared of being killed in the confrontation that follows because bullies and brutes hate when their authority is challenged and when they see their weakness flash before their eyes.

If you can't, call the police immediately.

Men who beat their wives are pathetic. As foul-mouthed and wicked as some women would appear, beating them is not an option. Break the relationship or marriage if you cannot cope and find a new life. Such actions break women more than beating them.

DerKaiser:
I was 17, fresh outta secondary school when I went to visit my senior female cousin who was 29 then.

I have always known the husband to be a brute but I was unprepared for what I witnessed that day.

Right in front of me, in the living room, an argument ensued between my cousin and the husband and the next thing I saw was him dishing out slaps and punches on her, right in my and the kids presence.

I react easily on impulse especially whenever a helpless victim is involved.

I swore an oath never to touch a woman and defend any vulnerable person I come across even if it kills me based on the things I saw around me while growing up and based on the morals my parents instilled in me.

Secondly I can be unproportionately aggressive when I witness injustice and I lack complete fear of any human ( I have been taking on guys 15 years and above my age since I was 8 years old or something)

Anyway, long story short, I pounced on this dude (he was around 34 years old then) and a brutal fight ensued.

I was taking punches from him and dishing back the much I could. At a point I picked up a side stool in the living room and broke the entire thing on his back. We were both profusely bleeding but I was ready to end his life that day or he would end mine all while my cousin was screaming and crying.

Well at a point in time, the neighbours came barging in and got us separated then another lady called the police and he was taken away after the wife told them what happened.

I picked my stuff and left and told my cousin she either does the same or end up dead.

Anyway they separated shortly after that and some years after the man died from a mysterious illness (may he R.I.P.)

Moral of the story, if you could help a victim, do it immediately if you are not scared of being killed in the confrontation that follows because bullies and brutes hate when their authority is challenged and when they see their weakness flash before their eyes.

If you can't, call the police immediately.

Men who beat their wives are pathetic. As foul-mouthed and wicked as some women would appear, beating them is not an option. Break the relationship or marriage if you cannot cope and find a new life. Such actions break women more than beating them.

Nice one.
I'm so sure your cousin would be very proud of you.
Some men are monsters in human form.

I don't ve anything to say again cos d first nd second guys that. Comment has already say what in my mind.

Truly I dnt knw what transpire btw them bt he should nt result to violence so am going to beat him to pulp nd after the matter has been settled I wuld take him to bar. By doing so,he would that he suppose to respect my sister nd her family.

d only thing u will do is separate, fighting him will worsen d situation. Be wise, two wrongs can never make a right......I just experienced one few days ago, a woman came instead of bin diplomatic, she started taking side, now Dem don settle, which kind face them go take dey look d woman now. That guy did d right thing, let Dem settle demselves.

Aspiregreat:
I don't like interfering into issues involving married couples cus of it complexity.However I will have to salvage the situation if the slap exceed 3.

you're wicked o, so, u will have to wait until it exceeds 3?

AdeniyiA:


...and thereafter find another husband for your sister or you'll marry her??

Is marriage more important than her life? if he cud slap her in her bro's presence, he can kill her when no one is around

raumdeuter:
He did wrong, if the fight led to an injury or death what would he say?

Abegi, helep me ask adeniyiA ooo!!

Motherfucker2:
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What are you gonna do if your sister's husband is hitting her ?? Fight the husband ??
When the police comes, two of you are going to jail.

The best thing to do is call 911, they will be there in the next minute and his ass will be in jail for domestic violence, and spouse battery and some other charges.

story for the gods.. I fight the mofo,,, 911 comes, haul our asses into jail,, we continue the fight over there!! it's a fight to a finish, man!!!

gsport:
and ur sister would become a widow and her children will lose the protection and love of a father. Next time think before u talk. And the people that like ur comment should have a rethink

In my years of experience,I learnt that not everything I see I talk about.

AdeniyiA:


...and thereafter find another husband for your sister or you'll marry her??

husbands are not that rare and even if they are, it's not a must. Irresponsibility should be dealt with accordingly