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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 2:55pm On Jan 29, 2016
benedictac:


Pls it answer to this is the answer to your question.


Who should lye next to you? Ur friend or ur wife?

We're talking of 'CAR' nt bed

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 2:58pm On Jan 29, 2016
confun:
Na wa o.....comparing best friend to wife....serious matter...
As a married person, I think say ur best friend should be ur spouse sef.....

Yea! We knw ur wife should be ur best friend as a married man. We are talking of a male friend here MR
Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by armyofone(m): 3:01pm On Jan 29, 2016
No problem sir just make sure to relocate to the back when you see her friend coming too...equal rights and justice grin

Timbuktou:
The friend should be in front, it's just good manners. My wife better move to the back when she sees my friends coming or she can get her own car and spread herself all over the entire front area. What rubbish.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:01pm On Jan 29, 2016
EggovinMma:


what's stopping you from buying your own car? Maybe you should start sharing same bedroom with your best friend.

Don't be sacarstic madam! So people who have car(s) cannot join a friend's car?

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:08pm On Jan 29, 2016
armyofone:
No problem sir just make sure to relocate to the back when you see her friend coming too...equal rights and justice grin



"...equal right and justice" this simple but ruinous assertion has destroy many homes. U can't get that from an African man

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:11pm On Jan 29, 2016
armyofone:
No problem sir just make sure to relocate to the back when you see her friend coming too...equal rights and justice grin

"...equal right and justice" this simple but ruinous assertion has destroy many homes. U can't get that from an African man

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:13pm On Jan 29, 2016
Eketem:
Poor people problems.

What's dis one saying?

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:16pm On Jan 29, 2016
TheArchangel:
Gasout, come on you should've invited her to sit on your laps, which ultimately solves the problem. Both of you beside the driver.!!

Perhaps, I might try that with U next time grin grin grin would U oblige?
Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by confun: 3:20pm On Jan 29, 2016
Gasout:


Yea! We knw ur wife should be ur best friend as a married man. We are talking of a male friend here MR
oga, am a female and my husband is presently my best friend....and am very proud of him....

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Onegai(f): 3:21pm On Jan 29, 2016
Gasout:


Moving to the back sit wouldn't have make any sense, since am sitting there already...

If u're the wife in question, 'would U av allow me to move to the back sit for U?

Get up first, let me then tell you "oh relax, stay there". That's good manners, not a wifely thing. Simple, basic good manners. Not common apparently. But if it's too hard for you to understand, don't stress yourself.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 29, 2016
Gasout:


Don't be sacarstic madam! So people who have car(s) cannot join a friend's car?

I can see you lack respect for women. Your upbringing says alot about your views about women. Little wonder you have the guts to bring this online.I pray to have guys like you as my husband's friend, I will personally open that damn door and ask you to come down else I gather all the mucus in my throat and throw it at your face and NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!

The highest wey go happen is to go your own way, to me, it's good riddance to bad nonsense! The next day, my husband go still fuccck him wife!

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:26pm On Jan 29, 2016
Onegai:


Get up first, let me then tell you "oh relax, stay there". That's good manners, not a wifely thing. Simple, basic good manners. Not common apparently. But if it's too hard for you to understand, don't stress yourself.


Hahahahah! Funny U. On a serious note, do u knw i've try dat b4 even b4( moving to the back seat on my own) d wife came out and the husband(my friend) insisted I should remain where I am

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Onegai(f): 3:26pm On Jan 29, 2016
Eketem:
Poor people problems.

Poverty mentality, more like.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 3:35pm On Jan 29, 2016
EggovinMma:


I can see you lack respect for women. Your upbringing says alot about your views about women. Little wonder you have the guts to bring this online.I pray to have guys like you as my husband's friend, I will personally open that damn door and ask you to come down else I gather all the mucus in my throat and throw it at your face and NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!

The highest wey go happen is to go your own way, to me, it's good riddance to bad nonsense! The next day, my husband go still fuccck him wife!

U mean u'll do that? That's preposterous! In the presence of ur hubby?. Haba! Dat's too much

@bolded: as if she actually have the guts grin

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jan 29, 2016
Gasout:


U mean u'll do that? That's preposterous! In the presence of ur hubby?. Haba! Dat's too much

@bolded: as if she actually have the guts grin

We go fight na! Lmao! I'm sure hubby will take a good look at your relationship from that day. I go spoil una relationship kpatakpata!

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by babygirlfl: 3:57pm On Jan 29, 2016
Who seats in the front of a car might be petty depending on who is involved. What is not petty however is op's attitude. Also, in marriage, petty things tend to be the cause of trouble. If the wife considers it petty and ask you to stay in front, then its fine. In your friends case, it seems it is important to the wife who sits in the front and it is so rude of you to ignore and stay put. You also do not have respect for him and his wife (this might be secondary to him not having respect for her anyway).

I used to ignore who sat at the front of the car until I realized that some people just lack good manners. Letting them stay in the car because they were there already will give some people without manners the right to think that that is how it should be. They might not understand why they can't stay in front next time.

The fact that you are arrogant about it is enough for some women to teach you a lesson by making sure you get off that front seat just for the fun of it and not because it means so much to them who seats in the front. Most sensible men won't even let you treat their wife in that manner.

op, If your wife comes to pick you with her friend in the car, would you expect her friend to act in this same way you acted?

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by tellwisdom: 4:06pm On Jan 29, 2016
Foolish people...Anyone first securing the front seat owns it, be it woman or man. Life doesnt revolve around women alone.

At the end everybody go come down undecided

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jan 29, 2016
armyofone:
No problem sir just make sure to relocate to the back when you see her friend coming too...equal rights and justice grin


First of all, I don't do equal rights in my relationships, something all my partner are well aware of before we even begin. So, my wife's friend will look at me with style to go to the back, is she mad? Does she want to walk home? Depending on my mood, she won't enter that car. She better have hers packed nearby angry grin

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jan 29, 2016
EggovinMma:


I will personally open that damn door and ask you to come down else I gather all the mucus in my throat and throw it at your face and NOTHING WILL HAPPEN! !

Lol. If my wife were to try this, she will never enter that car again unless her corpse were being transported to the mortuary. She can afford a billion cars for all I care.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 29, 2016
Excuse me oh...
How often do I drive with my friend?
So, I am with my friend in the front seat, probably discussing football or some of than ish and my wife walks out of her office and expects him to drop down and move to the backseat just so she can seat in front..
Do you even realise how rigorous the entire process is?
Isn't it the same wife I spend all my nights with? What does she want to discuss that can't wait till we get home?
I can't deal with petty women meen...
Op, even though you sound arrogant and should have probably left the front seat for her when it was clear she'd die for it, the fact that she actually walked up and expected you to come down and move to the back seat shows she's an ill-mannered woman..
No point sugar coating it...

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 5:43pm On Jan 29, 2016
njokusboy:
Excuse me oh...
How often do I drive with my friend?
So, I am with my friend in the front seat, probably discussing football or some of than ish and my wife walks out of her office and expects him to drop down and move to the backseat just so she can seat in front..
Do you even realise how rigorous the entire process is?
Isn't it the same wife I spend all my nights with? What does she want to discuss that can't wait till we get home?
I can't deal with petty women meen...
Op, even though you sound arrogant and should have probably left the front seat for her when it was clear she'd die for it, the fact that she actually walked up and expected you to come down and move to the back seat shows she's an ill-mannered woman..
No point sugar coating it...

Exactly my point sir!

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 5:44pm On Jan 29, 2016
Timbuktou:


Lol. If my wife were to try this, she will never enter that car again unless her corpse were being transported to the mortuary. She can afford a billion cars for all I care.

Na to leave her there ooo

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 5:47pm On Jan 29, 2016
Timbuktou:


First of all, I don't do equal rights in my relationships, something all my partner are well aware of before we even begin. So, my wife's friend will look at me with style to go to the back, is she mad? Does she want to walk home? Depending on my mood, she won't enter that car. She better have hers packed nearby angry grin

No African man believed or practice equal right
Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Gasout(m): 5:50pm On Jan 29, 2016
babygirlfl:
Who seats in the front of a car might be petty depending on who is involved. What is not petty however is op's attitude. Also, in marriage, petty things tend to be the cause of trouble. If the wife considers it petty and ask you to stay in front, then its fine. In your friends case, it seems it is important to the wife who sits in the front and it is so rude of you to ignore and stay put. You also do not have respect for him and his wife (this might be secondary to him not having respect for her anyway).

I used to ignore who sat at the front of the car until I realized that some people just lack good manners. Letting them stay in the car because they were there already will give some people without manners the right to think that that is how it should be. They might not understand why they can't stay in front next time.

The fact that you are arrogant about it is enough for some women to teach you a lesson by making sure you get off that front seat just for the fun of it and not because it means so much to them who seats in the front. Most sensible men won't even let you treat their wife in that manner.

op, If your wife comes to pick you with her friend in the car, would you expect her friend to act in this same way you acted?

U think am arrogant? No! Am not. Even her hubby(my friend) cannot dare ask me to move to the back seat.
Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by sleekdot(m): 5:53pm On Jan 29, 2016
Whoever gets into the car first sits in front.

No need to be moving all over unless we are dealing with petty and inferiority complex people

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Bookiemart01(f): 6:00pm On Jan 29, 2016
Most of your posts on this thread have explained why you remain unmarried when your friends are. I wonder how you treat your brothers' wives. You're probably a horrible brother in law who thinks his brothers' wives are family slaves.

My advice to you is............ don't turn your married friends to singles like you. Learn to respect women.

Gasout:


U think am arrogant? No! Am not. Even her hubby(my friend) cannot dare ask me to move to the back seat.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Goldenboy007(m): 6:34pm On Jan 29, 2016
Little issues like these says a lot about who we are - in the olden days, our mothers always respect their husband's friend as they will respect their husband, the breed of girls these days will even ask your mother to come down so that they can sit in passenger's sit. On the other hand, a good guy with good manners should not make his friend choose between him and his wife, he should respect himself and offer the front sit to his friend's wife. Then the good wife will honor her husband's friend by allowing him to continue to sit in front.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 29, 2016
Timbuktou:


Lol. If my wife were to try this, she will never enter that car again unless her corpse were being transported to the mortuary. She can afford a billion cars for all I care.


Lol . fucck your car if I'm your wife!
I will only tell the world I married a man that fuccck both his ex wife and best friend.

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 29, 2016
tellwisdom:
Foolish people...Anyone first securing the front seat owns it, be it woman or man. Life revolve around women alone.

At the end everybody go come down undecided

tell wisdom, if we crase finish for nairaland marry, and your best friend try this one, I go find bottle break him head.If you talk anyhow, I nak"d break your head too. Two of una dey craze!

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by tellwisdom: 7:52pm On Jan 29, 2016
EggovinMma:


tell wisdom, if we crase finish for nairaland marry, and your best friend try this one, I go find bottle break him head.If you talk anyhow, I nak"d break your head too. Two of una dey craze!

You dey practice polyandry??
Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 29, 2016
Gasout:


U think am arrogant? No! Am not. Even her hubby(my friend) cannot dare ask me to move to the back seat.

A man that will say that is a useless man.Shioor!
An unmarried friend giving me problems, dem never born that guy well.I will deal with him! If my useless husband try do that one make i go back sit, I will question his sexuality! Is he mad?! For say him tell me say him dey crase, I for no marry am na.


For my hubby's friend to relegate me to the background will be his own kick on the scrotum. I never even see that guys wey go try that shiite! I go scatter house!

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Re: Who Should Sit At The Front Seat Of Your Car; Wife Or Friend? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 29, 2016
tellwisdom:


You dey practice polyandry??


Since you love your friend pass ya wife, allow me fuccck am na! Yeye de smell!That "thing" wey two of una dey enjoy pass me, I won join inside! Shior!

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