Lol... notall are like that, there are actually women(wife) in girl cloak but it almost impossible to diffrenciate, talk more of finding

patrickdarlins:
that was how I was talking to a girl.. . And she was blowing grammar here and there... and I asked her what's her discipline.. .. She told me... and I asked with school... she said one polytechnic like dat... .

She in turn asked me.. I told her I will be taking jamb dis year.... Immediately see the her face changes.. As in.. . Like I was not up to her standard.. . She just decided to end the chat in a funny way... I just smiled.. SMH... (and I Don graduate oo... An accountant for that matter oo from a prestigious University.. Not poly oo)... I kept wondering if all girls are like that!!

God! What did i just read? I cant believe that In this age and time, young enlightened ppl like the op and those liking his post are of the opinion that educating a girl child is a waste. Plz parents, if u can afford it, educate ur girl child, theres more to education than ending up with a good job and getting rich. Infact may i use this opportunity and medium to celebrate my Dad as i always do, everyday of my life. We are 6 girls and our only brother who is the last and the only one still in uni. As a matter of fact we are the ones paying his fees now cos we hv asked our parents to relax and enjoy themselves. We are all graduates and am proud to say we are all outstanding in our various fields, some of us are professionals some are not, but thats not even the remarkable thing about us. I bet u, u would never meet a group of beautiful, smart, witty, confident sisters with very high self esteem like us. Infact when our husbands come together, the unknowingly talk endlessly about us and compare us like its a game of who married the smartest sister. I thank God for our parents that believed in us especially my Dad who never considered us lesser humans because we wr girls. We are not rich (that kind of world definition of rich) our husbands are not rich either but our parents are reaping the fruits of their labour. Even my uncles hv made envious statements to my dad on several occasions. I can tell u that he raised better children and is a prouder father than most of them who had more of boys. My friends always say that i cant hv a conversation without mentioning my dad, and its true because i just cant stop celebrating the man.

Abeg give ur children, whether boy or girl the best education u can afford, make una no mind op.

DNameisOla:

Pls, take note of wat I wrote, Its written der dt "or someone beta dan her father". So if her father happens to be an irresponsible father, she will rather go for a responsible guy "someone better dan her father".

But what many girls request their BF to get them is what their father can't even dream of getting for her.

The koko is that some of them, their family can't afford 3 square meals a day, but they wanna marry super rich dude living in banana Island.
Middle class or a young man who's still trying to survive isn't for erm.

That's my point.

doveda:


Nonsense!


If I want to stay at home all day after my undergraduate degree, masters degree, law school and England Legal practice couse it is my fvking business!. It doesn't make anyone better than I am

This isn't about you but about majority of Nigerian females that see marriage as a career.

rman:


This isn't about you but about majority of Nigerian females that see marriage as a career.

In Nigeria, marriage is a career

Ask Toks2008

MrsPhyno:
Ah this is lubbish o. What if she doesn't plan on getting a job, so you won't pay for her secondary school education either? Where do you draw the line? And what's to say that girls with a tonnn of education still don't want to marry "a rich man" and sit at home all day? How does it affect you? You as their future father should just do your duty and pay for the highest level of education they can/want to attain. They can work out the rest in their matrimonial houses.

Honestly, all of you that are screaming 'yes yes' over here probably don't have any kids yet so I'm not so surprised.

forget dat talk jare, y won't it affect me as a father? After taking the pains and sacrificing a lot to see my daughter through school n she ends up with one idiot dat can't even feed her and her kids, what father will be happy with that? If am educating my girl child, its for her to be up and doing by herself.

ENIMONEY:
brain dead like every female in your generation!!! Rich Men are getting married everyday and poor boys keep whining... Better goan think.

..... Money is the only language girls understand as evidence by your comment...... A man can be poor in pocket but rich in wisdom.

patrickdarlins:
that was how I was talking to a girl.. . And she was blowing grammar here and there... and I asked her what's her discipline.. .. She told me... and I asked with school... she said one polytechnic like dat... .

She in turn asked me.. I told her I will be taking jamb dis year.... Immediately see the her face changes.. As in.. . Like I was not up to her standard.. . She just decided to end the chat in a funny way... I just smiled.. SMH... (and I Don graduate oo... An accountant for that matter oo from a prestigious University.. Not poly oo)... I kept wondering if all girls are like that!!

Coming from a person who considered polytgenic inferior.... you shouldn't be talking

Yes, we are all like that. We don't care

DNameisOla:

My dear, wat has been d fate of those females dt built der lives wf dose ambitious guys so far? U even juxtaposed urslf wf wat u wrote abt d wife wife being used as rituals! Are the first wives nt always d ones building "their lives" wf d so-called ambitious guys but still end up being used for rituals? Well, d best tin is to build ur life urslf wfout depending on anybody because nobody is trustworthy.

I wonder why many people hace derailed this thread with this parallel arguement.

The write up is nver about faulting the desire of a lady to be with a rich guy...for petes sake its her choice and let her achieve it or die trying...her headache.

This write up is a clarion call for the girl child in Nigeria to focus on using the same opportunity a boy child is expected to utilize to bcome that rich guy they want to also become a rich lady,an achiever,a success and having a rich man should be by chance and not a do or die thing.

I am an enterprenure and a politician and it has never for once in my life conciously or unconciouly crossed my mind that i should hook up with a rich lady or one from a rich home...that is the same spirit every female graduate should have and not make a mess up all their years of stressful education by grtaduating and starts a job of richmanhunting...it is sickening and crazy.

for those ladies out there who beliv in themselves,the achievers,those who are ready to make it a do or die affair to become successful with or without a man....those who are ready to say a BIG THANK YOU to their sponsor i say Kudos.

Youngzedd:


But what many girls request their BF to get them is what their father can't even dream of getting for her.

The koko is that some of them, their family can't afford 3 square meals a day, but they wanna marry super rich dude living in banana Island.
Middle class or a young man who's still trying to survive isn't for erm.

That's my point.

..... They are many on Nairaland.... Forget the post by monickers......

Toks2008:


Leave marriage out of this.

If a lady is really sincere,she wont mind dating a jobless guy and hope he gets a job ot good business before they eventually marry.

Shut the f up..... Date a jobless dude! In this generation.... Would you allow your 5 kid sister do it?

Seventeen:
God! What did i just read? I cant believe that In this age and time, young enlightened ppl like the op and those liking his post are of the opinion that educating a girl child is a waste. Plz parents, if u can afford it, educate ur girl child, theres more to education than ending up with a good job and getting rich. Infact may i use this opportunity and medium to celebrate my Dad as i always do, everyday of my life. We are 6 girls and our only brother who is the last and the only one still in uni. As a matter of fact we are the ones paying his fees now cos we hv asked our parents to relax and enjoy themselves. We are all graduates and am proud to say we are all outstanding in our various fields, some of us are professionals some are not, but thats not even the remarkable thing about us. I bet u, u would never meet a group of beautiful, smart, witty, confident sisters with very high self esteem like us. Infact when our husbands come together, the unknowingly talk endlessly about us and compare us like its a game of who married the smartest sister. I thank God for our parents that believed in us especially my Dad who never considered us lesser humans because we wr girls. We are not rich (that kind of world definition of rich) our husbands are not rich either but our parents are reaping the fruits of their labour. Even my uncles hv made envious statements to my dad on several occasions. I can tell u that he raised better children and is a prouder father than most of them who had more of boys. My friends always say that i cant hv a conversation without mentioning my dad, and its true because i just cant stop celebrating the man.

Abeg give ur children, whether boy or girl the best education u can afford, make una no mind op.

Kai..imagine your brilliant post..if only you did not spoil it with the starting cos there was nver a place i wrote that a girl child should not be educated...habba

Amberon:
beautiful...
I'm a girl and I must say Nigerian girls have very low IQ.This is the same question I ask some friends of mine. Why don't Nigerians ladies feel the need to strive to be successful in life?

You just hit the nail on the head.....
Enimoney
Stenon
Bettydee
Omawunmi85

doveda:


Coming from a person who considered polytgenic inferior.... you shouldn't be talking

Yes, we are all like that. We don't care

doveda i wonder how you can pass exams with this your unintelligent line of reasoning.just because you view the op as a person against women you blockd your higher cognitive level.if you support woman empowerment you will see sense in this post.but your ignorance wont let you.you're just saying how man is supirior to women which is not to be so.but women like you are the problem of empowering women.

Sunnypar:

Shut the f up..... Date a jobless dude! In this generation.... Would you allow your 5 kid sister do it?

Awww...dude you must be either myopic or outrightly clueless.

How much is your salary? where do you work?
Are you a Nigerian living in Nigeria?

Please just chill and go back to your foolishness.Mr Jobful man.

For the records,no one should pride himself as gainfully employed until you are your own boss cos that job can be taking away from you in a flash and that lady who married you for that job or money will leave you IF that job is no more there.

Youngzedd:


But what many girls request their BF to get them is what their father can't even dream of getting for her.

The koko is that some of them, their family can't afford 3 square meals a day, but they wanna marry super rich dude living in banana Island.
Middle class or a young man who's still trying to survive isn't for erm.

That's my point.

so because her father cannot provide her food, she should marry a man that will continue to starve her abi?? You see ur life? Oponu. Better goan make money. This is why I don't like poor guys, their mentality is always poor.

oloyede252:
doveda i wonder how you can pass exams with this your unintelligent line of reasoning.just because you view the op as a person against women you blockd your higher cognitive level.if you support woman empowerment you will see sense in this post.but your ignorance wont let you.you're just saying how man is supirior to women which is not to be so.but women like you are the problem of empowering women.

My broda i honestly dont know wat has gone wrong with the reasoning faculty of many naija ladies these days.

They usually say im against women but each thread they castigate if well comprehended is indeed beneficial to them.

I dont expect everyone to love my write ups but please if you must condemn it at least do so with the right understanding rather than misconstruing the contents.

No woman in their right senses would seek out poor/struggling dudes before the rich ones.
Sorry guys but that is the truth.
Educated or not educated, Nigerian women will always seek out men that can take care of their financial needs.
Why?
Because the misogyny in Nigeria will always keep women from being too ambitious or independent so unless it goes away then the habit of women looking for rich guys will endure.
Consider the following:
In Nigeria,
Women cannot have too much money if not people assume she sleeps around or is a prostitute.
Women cannot spend too long getting educational degrees before marriage because they will grow old and less attractive and not be able to find a husband and everyone knows that in Nigeria getting a husband is compulsory for any woman that wants to be socially accepted.
Women should not have more money than their husbands because then they will not be 'submissive' humble, simpering waifs so ladies in search of husbands look for men who are more wealthy to marry thereby making it like women are lazy or golddiggers who are always in search of men that can take care of them.

Guys accept it and move on kwo?
Because when well wishers come out to try and change the status quo and encourage ladies to have ambition instead of focusing on marriage alone, you people will start foaming at the mouths and calling them man hating feminists.

Carry your fvcking cross you misogynistic pieces of s$hit.

oloyede252:
doveda i wonder how you can pass exams with this your unintelligent line of reasoning.just because you view the op as a person against women you blockd your higher cognitive level.if you support woman empowerment you will see sense in this post.but your ignorance wont let you.you're just saying how man is supirior to women which is not to be so.but women like you are the problem of empowering women.

How can you pass exams when your observational and comprehension skills are nil?

How does my willingness not to work affect women empowerment or my status in my home or in the society? Do you think my father gives a damn about my future marital arrangements? Who the hell are you to come from nowhere to tell me what I should or shouldn't do? Or Has my future husband reported me to you?


Do not mention me again if you do not want me to finish this!

YOU FVCKING DO YOU!

fellis:
No woman in their right senses would seek out poor/struggling dudes before the rich ones.
Sorry guys but that is the truth.
Educated or not educated, Nigerian women will always seek out men that can take care of their financial needs.
Why?
Because the misogyny in Nigeria will always keep women from being too ambitious or independent so unless it goes away then the habit of women looking for rich guys will endure.
Consider the following:
In Nigeria,
Women cannot have too much money if not people assume she sleeps around or is a prostitute.
Women cannot spend too long getting educational degrees before marriage because they will grow old and less attractive and not be able to find a husband and everyone knows that in Nigeria getting a husband is compulsory for any woman that wants to be socially accepted.
Women should not have more money than their husbands because then they will not be 'submissive' humble, simpering waifs so ladies in search of husbands look for men who are more wealthy to marry thereby making it like women are lazy or golddiggers who are always in search of men that can take care of them.

Guys accept it and move on kwo?
Because when well wishers come out to try and change the status quo and encourage ladies to have ambition instead of focusing on marriage alone, you people will start foaming at the mouths and calling them man hating feminists.

Carry your fvcking cross you misogynistic pieces of s$hit.

Even if they go for the poor ones, nothing stops the poor ones from acting like men when the wealth xomes. Money or no money, wisdom is the most important thing whilst choosing a partner.

doveda:


Broke nigga alert

Loool.

You mean your little brain told you that any guy who do not support women staying home as house wives is broke.


Shame on this new generation of women.

women looking for ready-made nigger. Shame on you.

fellis:
No woman in their right senses would seek out poor/struggling dudes before the rich ones.
Sorry guys but that is the truth.
Educated or not educated, Nigerian women will always seek out men that can take care of their financial needs.
Why?
Because the misogyny in Nigeria will always keep women from being too ambitious or independent so unless it goes away then the habit of women looking for rich guys will endure.
Consider the following:
In Nigeria,
Women cannot have too much money if not people assume she sleeps around or is a prostitute.
Women cannot spend too long getting educational degrees before marriage because they will grow old and less attractive and not be able to find a husband and everyone knows that in Nigeria getting a husband is compulsory for any woman that wants to be socially accepted.
Women should not have more money than their husbands because then they will not be 'submissive' humble, simpering waifs so ladies in search of husbands look for men who are more wealthy to marry thereby making it like women are lazy or golddiggers who are always in search of men that can take care of them.

Guys accept it and move on kwo?
Because when well wishers come out to try and change the status quo and encourage ladies to have ambition instead of focusing on marriage alone, you people will start foaming at the mouths and calling them man hating feminists.

Carry your fvcking cross you misogynistic pieces of s$hit.

Especially not in a society where a man can get away with almost everything......where a woman ambitions can jeopardise her marital life

Personally, I am not saying women should seek money but who the hell are you to tell them what they should or should not consider?

The audacity of this op sef!!!

BIAFRANFLAG:
Loool.

You mean your little brain told you that any guy who do not support women staying home as house wives is broke.


Shame on this new generation of women.

women looking for ready-made nigger. Shame on you.

Shame on you
Shame on the women in your family

Nonsense!

doveda:


Even if they go for the poor ones, nothing stops the poor ones from acting like men when the wealth comes.

Very good.
We all know how easily and quickly men get away with infidelity in this country. Which sane woman wants to suffer with a man, starve and deprive herself of life's good things, only for the useless man to start carrying girls up and down while claiming naturally polygamous.
Its far better to marry a rich man from the get go so that you can have money or clothes or things of luxury to console yourself when he starts misbehaving.
Foolish fools.
Better carry your fvcking cross.

doveda:


Are you a goat? How can you pass exams when your observational and comprehension skills are nil?

How does my willingness not to work affect women empowerment? Do you think my father gives a damn about my future marital arrangements? Who the hell arr you to come from nowhere to tell me what I should probably shouldn't do? Has my future husband complained to you?


Do not mention me again if you do not want me to finish this!

YOU FVCKING DO YOU!

you are unintelligent.the op post has a deep meaning in which you fail to decode.


If you dont wanna work or use your brain for developmental activities to you as a woman.this now beg the question of why you went to school.if you actually attended.and am sure your FATHER will be in a better position to answer for you since you are ignorant.

The op is just encouraging lazy women like you to be productive with your education.so why you ranting like a dog in heat.lols

doveda:


Shame on you
Shame on the women in your family

Nonsense!

All my sisters are in different locations of this world, happily married with children and working.

One is RN ( Residence nurse) in US


one is here in South Africa working as a teacher.

So get your sorry ass to work and stop looking for rich guys who will come and take care of your financial poverty.

your mates are here in South African using expensive cars.

Shame on you.

I will never marry any woman who's aspirations in life is to just get married and sit at home in her husband's house and produce children like a mother animals


My mum is a hardworking woman. she's not a lazy ass like many.

oloyede252:

you are unintelligent.the op post has a deep meaning in which you fail to decode.


If you dont wanna work or use your brain for developmental activities to you as a woman.this now beg the question of why you went to school.if you actually attended.and am sure your FATHER will be in a better position to answer for you since you are ignorant.

The op is just encouraging lazy women like you to be productive with your education.so why you ranting like a dog in heat.lols

You are the one ranting like a dog in heat!


What deep meaning? The op enjoys writing BS from a one-sided prerspective yet you want me to agree with his BS. Are you sick in the head or something?


Is my husband complaining to you?

BIAFRANFLAG:
All my sisters are in different locations of this world, happily married with children and working.

One is RN ( Residence nurse) in US


one is here in South Africa working as a teacher.

So get your sorry ass to work and stop looking for rich guys who will come and take care of your financial poverty.

your mates are here in South African using expensive cars.

Shame on you.

......And I am in ... getting a law degree this year:+-\

Like I had stated, if I decide to glue my ass to my marital home after my undergrad, masters, law school and LPC......it is my headache not yours!!!

At least my husband is not complaining to you..is he?

How many full time housewives do you know? Idi..ots will be making shit up thinking they are making sense!!

doveda:


Coming from a person who considered polytgenic inferior.... you shouldn't be talking

Yes, we are all like that. We don't care

... my dear... I dint look down on polytechnic or whatsoever....I was just trying to point out something...

And you said I shouldn't be talking? Just cos I said what happened to me?? You also said "yes you are like that"... . Smh....

Don't wanna get stained today with insult... am wearing white already....

Just go in peace.. Please..... Bless you

patrickdarlins:
... my dear... I dint look down on polytechnic or whatsoever....I was just trying to point out something...

And you said I shouldn't be talking? Just cos I said what happened to me?? You also said "yes you are like that"... . Smh....

Don't wanna get stained today with insult... am wearing white already....

Just go in peace.. Please..... Bless you

doveda:


Did you read the ‘fading beauty' article?

Yea, I read it and it was another cobblers as usual, full of sh1t. Abeg I don taya for this guy matter.