I got the shock of my life 4 days ago. Last Saturday, I met a childhood friend Shola, who also doubles as my family doctor. We had an extensive discussion, reminiscing over our childhood days. We talked about many things, our secondary school adventures, old class mates, and so on. Our discussion turned sour when he told me about his secondary school crush, Bimpe, who recently died of cervical cancer. May her gentle soul rest in peace I muttered.

He further went on to tell me about cervical cancer, a cancer peculiar to females. The cause of cervical cancer is Human Papilloma Virus and how it is transmitted via sex. I had thought condom use protects against all forms of sexually transmitted infections but I was wrong, Human papilloma virus is an exception. This virus also causes genital warts in some cases, he said. He explained the deficiency in our country, that in saner climes, the vaccine is given to school age children especially between the ages 10 and12. Gardasil, the vaccine is more effective in this age group because most are yet to be sexually active. I told him my daughter who is presently age 10 will benefit from this. We agreed I bring her for the vaccine next weekend.

During dinner that day, I decided to raise the discussion. I told my daughter about the cervical cancer vaccine and its benefits on her health. I had wanted to be sure she was still a virgin so I played a fast one on her. I told her being a virgin is a pre-requisite for this vaccine, though this is an erroneous belief by many. That night I got the shocker of my life. I saw the changed reaction on my daughters face. ‘So you are not a virgin!’ I screamed. Immediately, I lost the appetite for food. A bad news it was. I wished it was a joke. At ten!

She confided in her mother that she got deflowered a year ago. I felt like a failed father, I had no clue all along. Where I’ve missed it? This world has turned something else.Get your daughters vaccinated against cervical cancer today.

Of all the female cancers, cervical cancer is the only one that offers great potentials for prevention. It takes about 15 to 20 years to develop from precancerous state to cancer.
Cervical cancer is the most common cancer in women in developing countries. It is the second most common cancer in women worldwide after cancer of the breast with 85% of deaths occurring in developing countries.
W.H.O recommends screening of at least once in a life time for women in developing world.
Screening test involves Pap smear, visual inspection and HPV testing.
See your doctor today for a comprehensive screening.

Would you blame the father or the society for the loss of his daughter virginity?

http://kuducancer.com/2016/02/22/my-10-years-old-daughter-is-no-longer-a-virgin/

This is serious! So Mr Father, you never asked her, HOW, WHY, WHERE, WHO de-flowered her? Inconclusive this is. . . . . Well, my instincts tells me you just added the juicy part to it to pass across your message of cervical cancer! You tried Mr Father!!

This is one of the reasons I wants to be a monitoring father to my first and second daughter in the future. Men out there re not smiling at all..

stop kidding man' @ 9? n she wasn't rape? she s got bwuest? unbelievable

we are in a change regime... we will start seeing Tinz dat ain't happening b4

Lalasticlala food don done o

hmm
end time daughter.
I don't beleive it though. sounds fictitious. 10 year old?

The Bible says bring up your child in a way he should go and when he is old he would not depart from it. This means if while growing up the child misses the way, then the parents should take the blame. QED.

. It sad to hear your daughter is no longer a virgin but that is the reality that stares us in the face. Few days ago I came across a picture on Nairaland of less that 2 years old kids doing something similar to "a* head"smh. I know as a parent you are perplexed and asking questions how, when and where you all got it wrong.


We have exposed this kids to many things such as cable network without supervision, phone with internet subscription, Ipads, laptops and our very own nakedwood (Nollywood) and believe you me, they learn fast. Ever wondered how kids this days find it difficult to pronounce words as Elephant, Lorry, Shoe but flawlessly or perfectly pronounce 'shakiti bobo' or street slangs without hassles.

welcome to d Jet age..

But age 10 Damn


No wonder Fathers dey vex when Boys visit their daughters...

Its well!!!

Please tell us hw she was disvirgined,there is more to this.

She tried even.....Brace your self, this is jet age,impossibility is nothing.

Eeya

What don't we read on Nairaland.

OP just added the story to it just to pass a message of Cervical cancer. We get.

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Hmmmm.

Choi no longer a virgin at 10 years of age, this world Don spoil and it's not even a case of rape

If find this hard to believe

This forum shaa. I wonder what kind of men are here
A child has been raped and instead of condemning the bastard who did it everyone seems to be blaming the lil girls who knows nothing

Proverbs 22:6 King James Version (KJV)
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

What did you teach her

Ntin is new under d sun.....there is no biq deal in it

This is a case of child sexual abuse, plain and simple. You may have been an absentee father who was not there to prevent his daughter from losing her innocence, but God will never forgive you if you don't make this a police matter ASAP, because a crime has been committed against your daughter.[color=#990000][/color]

Rexphobia:
If find this hard to believe

Dem force you to believe?

Mr. Father what was your daughter's explanation or you or your wife did not ask her how she lost her virginity and to who?

Mogbe. 10years pere. Awon boys nbinu lowo.

That's awful she might be a victim of child abuse or her environs might have had bad impact on her.


Parents always advise your children

19yrs still a virgin.

Seriously sometimes I'm scared of giving birth to a female child!!!