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Re: . by donephi(m): 10:57pm On Feb 26, 2016
sad
QueenValerie:
tongue.........bye. smiley
Re: . by misspicy(f): 11:06pm On Feb 26, 2016
KingRex1:
Truth is that its gona be inevitable. But he's too early.
You may jst have to threaten him so he'll stop or reduce that act.
way too early,its creepy lipsrsealed
Re: . by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 26, 2016
donephi:
sad
We derailin'.
You wanna have ta apologize ta the op Cause I ain't..... I already do that too much grin
Re: . by Odunharry(m): 11:07pm On Feb 26, 2016
misspicy:

been trying to rationalize how he came about it too, am just trying to think of a way to start the conversation,will surely come up with something...thanks smiley
think ke? how do you start conversation with friends? The earlier you talk to him the better
Re: . by donephi(m): 5:34am On Feb 27, 2016
Wld that be necessary
QueenValerie:
We derailin'.
You wanna have ta apologize ta the op Cause I ain't..... I already do that too much grin
Re: . by Pidggin(f): 7:13am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:
Evening nairalanders, I'm so confused as I type this,entered into my room this evening after a stressful day at work,lo and behold I found my 8 year old nephew wanking at his not so matured penis,and it was erect,immediately I shouted at him and ordered him out of my room,because I didn't know how else to react to this development.


I don't know whether to report him to his mum or talk with him about it(I don't even know what to say to him,I have no experience in this)

I need your advice please angry

What has he been watching? I think you should tell his parents, it's their headache.
Re: . by misspicy(f): 8:33am On Feb 27, 2016
Odunharry:

think ke? how do you start conversation with friends? The earlier you talk to him the better
doing that this evening,I guess I need all the boldness in the world right now...lol
Re: . by misspicy(f): 8:41am On Feb 27, 2016
Pidggin:


What has he been watching? I think you should tell his parents, it's their headache.
hmmmm sad
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 8:46am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:
Evening nairalanders, I'm so confused as I type this,entered into my room this evening after a stressful day at work,lo and behold I found my 8 year old nephew wanking at his not so matured penis,and it was erect,immediately I shouted at him and ordered him out of my room,because I didn't know how else to react to this development.


I don't know whether to report him to his mum or talk with him about it(I don't even know what to say to him,I have no experience in this)

I need your advice please angry
Definately he has been watching porn. Wanking is one hard thing to fight. I just think you need to talk to him not in a harsh way tho.advice him,tell him the implication... You can simply take him out his favourite spot he loves going..buy him stuffs regularly,tell him to promise you that he will stop..Promise not to tell his parent too. 8years is to small for such. Sperm come out sef.cheesy?
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 8:49am On Feb 27, 2016
Cutehector:
u could just imagine.. so because I caught my niece touching herself, Dat will make me come in here and tell the whole world abt it... thereby spoiling her image.

I duno hw some people try to reason things and handle matters..
everybody cannot be you. Even you,this is not the right way to address her either.. Nor be you & fabian dy always do yeye for NL here.make i hear joor. Go comot log wey dy your face first before you comot glass for another person eye.sad

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Re: . by misspicy(f): 8:50am On Feb 27, 2016
danbrowndmf:
Definately he has been watching porn. Wanking is one hard thing to fight. I just think you need to talk to him not in a harsh way tho.advice him,tell him the implication... You can simply take him out his favourite spot he loves going..buy him stuffs regularly,tell him to promise you that he will stop..Promise not to tell his parent too. 8years is to small for such. Sperm come out sef.cheesy?
Dan,you no surprise reach me,was just so shocked, how will I know if sperm come out...pervert tongue

I will do something today/tomorrow,thank God its a weekend...I don't see how he could have had access to porn..just so impossicant angry
Re: . by Odunharry(m): 8:51am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

doing that this evening,I guess I need all the boldness in the world right now...lol
lol.. boldness ke... Don't tell me you not close to him...
It definitely means you can't start a conversation with a guy right? lol.


Joke apart talk to him but don't be harsh o..
Re: . by KingRex1(m): 8:54am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

Dan,you no surprise reach me,was just so shocked, how will I know if sperm come out...pervert tongue

I will do something today/tomorrow,thank God its a weekend...I don't see how he could have had access to porn..just so impossicant angry
Don't say that, its cheaply available
Re: . by misspicy(f): 8:56am On Feb 27, 2016
Odunharry:

lol.. boldness ke... Don't tell me you not close to him...
It definitely means you can't start a conversation with a guy right? lol.


Joke apart talk to him but don't be harsh o..
lol,talking with a matured guy is way different from handling kids in sexual matters.

I will try my best cheesy
Re: . by misspicy(f): 8:57am On Feb 27, 2016
KingRex1:
Don't say that, its cheaply available
to an 8year old?

I know for sure it wasn't from the house,their movement is strictly from house to school,to church,to mummy/daddy outing...so how come?
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 9:02am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

Dan,you no surprise reach me,was just so shocked, how will I know if sperm come out...pervert tongue

I will do something today/tomorrow,thank God its a weekend...I don't see how he could have had access to porn..just so impossicant angry
lols.pervert for my fellow man prick?.
He doesn't have access to porn? How you take know? You can't tell where he saw it..do you know the age i was when i saw my 1st porn? Tho i was older than him sha..but that's not a yard stick to say he has no access to porn..before you start discussing with him..start with another conversation first,get him whatever he likes eating..he's still young,so you can actually stop him.
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 9:03am On Feb 27, 2016
danbrowndmf:
everybody cannot be you. Even you,this is not the right way to address her either.. Nor be you & fabian dy always do yeye for NL here.make i hear joor. Go comot log wey dy your face first before you comot glass for another person eye.sad
wtf is dis one sayin? So what connects my conversations with people and this thread?

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Re: . by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:05am On Feb 27, 2016
Cutehector:
u could just imagine.. so because I caught my niece touching herself, Dat will make me come in here and tell the whole world abt it... thereby spoiling her image.

I duno hw some people try to reason things and handle matters..
Someone brought an issue to the forum for advice, you are talking about image. How do both relate? I think you should be matured enough to know when to talk and when to keep mute. This is a new year man....




@OP: I'll advice you flog him thoroughly and encourage him to report the reason for beating him to his parents. However, you shoud confirm if he was actually masturbating or playing "boys' play with his JT. If the latter is the case, free him, boys wil be boys.

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Re: . by Sleekyshuga(f): 9:12am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

lol,talking with a matured guy is way different from handling kids in sexual matters.

I will try my best cheesy
How old is he?
Re: . by misspicy(f): 9:53am On Feb 27, 2016
Sleekyshuga:
How old is he?
just 8 sad
Re: . by misspicy(f): 9:55am On Feb 27, 2016
danbrowndmf:
lols.pervert for my fellow man prick?.
He doesn't have access to porn? How you take know? You can't tell where he saw it..do you know the age i was when i saw my 1st porn? Tho i was older than him sha..but that's not a yard stick to say he has no access to porn..before you start discussing with him..start with another conversation first,get him whatever he likes eating..he's still young,so you can actually stop him.
lol,you fit be bi na tongue


yeah,I got you,thanks



.you are incommunicado,why?
Re: . by misspicy(f): 9:58am On Feb 27, 2016
TonyeBarcanista:

Someone brought an issue to the forum for advice, you are talking about image. How do both relate? I think you should be matured enough to know when to talk and when to keep mute. This is a new year man....




@OP: I'll advice you flog him thoroughly and encourage him to report the reason for beating him to his parents. However, you shoud confirm if he was actually masturbating or playing "boys' play with his JT. If the latter is the case, free him, boys wil be boys.
lol@ confirm....I know what I saw though,its shocking angry

will do that
Re: . by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:44am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

just 8 sad
OK!! What's the possibility he was masturbating? Was he caught 'frequently' doing it or you are drawing your conclusion because you saw his hands going down his pants?

Most children play with their genitals (age 2-6).. You are only bothered because you are viewing it as an adult.. To a child, it's only a normal way of discovering this part of his body, and the pleasurable feeling that comes with it (not in a dirty way)..

Your worries should come when his genital play becomes intense and frequent (i.e, noticing he is always withdrawn to himself, preoccupied with self-pleasures, shutting others away)..

Don't punish, humiliate, or embarrass him please.. It scares kids away..

• Start teaching him sex education (in a subtle but understandable manner).. He should know what his 'little man' is used for, and the dangers of continually manipulating it.. For example, you can tell him how frequent playing/touching his genital and putting that same hand in his mouth can make him fall sick..

• Build his self-esteem.. Who knows the emotional, psychological trauma he goes through. Kids who feel confident and good about themselves are less likely to engage in such habit..

• Keep his mind active by trying out kids challenging games with him.. He should know there are other things he can engage in during his boring moments..

It's really not easy but you can, considering his age as the chances of correcting him is maximum kiss smiley..

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Re: . by misspicy(f): 11:28am On Feb 27, 2016
@sleekyshuga this is really really helpful,deeping into your ocean of knowledge with kids,I will sure follow step by step smiley thanks wink

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 27, 2016
donephi:
Wld that be necessary
Maybe...if she got mad
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 11:56am On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:
lol,you fit be bi na tongue

yeah,I got you,thanks


.you are incommunicado,why?
you called? . when? Try now.
Re: . by misspicy(f): 2:21pm On Feb 27, 2016
danbrowndmf:
you called? . when? Try now.

will do later wink
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 2:32pm On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:
will do later wink
Alright sweedy.cheesy






*****Run out of NL with speed******
Re: . by misspicy(f): 2:38pm On Feb 27, 2016
danbrowndmf:
Alright sweedy.cheesy
*****Run out of NL with speed******
why are you runningangry

coming for you tongue
Re: . by danbrowndmf(m): 3:06pm On Feb 27, 2016
misspicy:

why are you runningangry


coming for you tongue
in solidstar's Voice *****she say she's wanting my body eh******.cheesy.cheesy
Re: . by jaxxy(m): 5:57am On Feb 28, 2016
misspicy:
Thanks to those with reasonable and useful advice,I will surely try my best to talk to him,was just so shocked and perplexed angry


Personally I don't think u have any business talking to him at all and some guys advising u to talk to a kid about such issues like he's an adult mind or up to a mature sense of reasoning I believe r mistaking. Wot doses a boy of 8 understand about ills of masturbating or wat it means? Here a lilttle boy involved in a bad habit period. Asked him were he Leant dat from and do not fail to discipline him period, cane him if u feel it's necessary. Just like if it Ws some other bad habit kids do... Bring an adult/mature undertone to this done by a kid cud be meaningless and counterproductive. Personally I wud flog d shit out of him and warn him sternly and keep an eye on him. When he's mature enough I can give him a gf/more mature conversation dat he wud understand.
Re: . by Peacefulgold(m): 7:55am On Feb 28, 2016
misspicy:
Evening nairalanders, I'm so confused as I type this,entered into my room this evening after a stressful day at work,lo and behold I found my 8 year old nephew wanking at his not so matured penis,and it was erect,immediately I shouted at him and ordered him out of my room,because I didn't know how else to react to this development.


I don't know whether to report him to his mum or talk with him about it(I don't even know what to say to him,I have no experience in this)

I need your advice please angry
Uve already washed his dirty linens in public ,wats d difference telling d mum if u tink u don't know wat to say to him,u mite even get talking wit him and u mite find out he is doing wat he watched from a video on ur phone....so mind who u tell ,d hammer mite fall bac on u

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