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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by koning: 2:18pm On Mar 31, 2016

The joystick is one of the few organs of the body that you will lose if you don't use it. You've found out the hard way by quitting masturbation. There is no scientific evidence available that shows that masturbation harms you in any way physically. It only becomes a problem if you let it affect your normal daily routines. Like taking a day off from work to masturbate.

Masturbation has it's benefits too. How you deal with it is a personal issue. Quitting for religious reasons is ridiculous.

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by khalhokage(m): 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2016

ajuwarhodes:
Since I got pregnant (5months now) hubby and I haven't been having sex, I give him the benefit of the doubt that his not cheating on me. But am 100percent certain that he mastubates.

This isn't any of my business but i'm just curious, why don't you guys have sex?

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by prinsam30: 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2016

my only advice for you is to go for proper counseling and deliverance and ur case is settled. Praise God

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by femi4: 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2016

ajuwarhodes:
Since I got pregnant (5months now) hubby and I haven't been having sex, I give him the benefit of the doubt that his not cheating on me. But am 100percent certain that he mastubates.

hope he doesn't get used to it. Though preggy shouldn't prevent you guys from having sex. Just change the style, let him enter from the back

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by higherpower: 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2016

ba7man:
You have destroyed your nerve endings and ripped up the muscles in your d*ick........ that's enough to make you quit since you're just one step from pulling the whole thing off.

Just stay off it from now on and it will heal up.

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2016

Bluezy13:

You learn well. At least my last post is constructively criticized and you technically assumed a neutral position too since you are not victim... except for the lie part.
In the sane world of argument, the word lie doesn't exist. One asserts one's opinion and walks away, the highlighted part is a fallacy.
I was careful not to call your premise a lie.

I'm impressed.

These Philosophers tho

They Rock.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by syntekelite(m): 2:20pm On Mar 31, 2016

1luvmypple:
Hi everyone, good evening. i have been an adent member of this great forum for a long time now. Today i want to talk about how i was able to come out of masturbatio,i know that a lot of people have posted something like this before but i promised God that i was going to share my testimony here. Some time ago, i posted for help on how to quit masturbation and porn. Lot of people gave me their on advice but today i want to thank God for saving me from it. I started masturbation in 2005 when i was in jss3 and ever since then it has eaten deep into my life. I searched everywhere for help but to no avail. This thing was killing me slowly but nobody was noticing. It took away my happiness, self esteem, strength and in fact everything good in my life. In the beginning of 2014 i vowed not to indulge in it anymore but six months later i found myself in it again. To me it was as if i was the only one plagued with masturbation so in July 2015 i went online to look for help on how to quit ,there i saw people that had the same problem with me. Some have even been doing longer than myself. It was there i then i took the decision that i want to quit. I said i want to testify that i was able to come out of it and also use my testimony to show people that God can save one from whatever addiction one has. I told myself that whatever that has a beginning must surely have an end and that the end for my addiction have come. I prayed farvently and told God that i want to testify and help bring people out. From that time till now God has really helped me and i haven't indulged in it again. I stay alone almost all the time and the thought of masturbation has never crossed my mind. I have quite watching porn because i know that is the genesis of my problem.

I want to say to someone out there that is trying to quit his/her addiction that God can help you. With prayer and chastity you can come out of it. Ever since i stopped my addiction i have been able to gain my self esteem back, gain focus, strength and everything i lost is gradually coming back to me. The only problem is that my penis have degenerated to an alarming stage because i masturbated to a point where i no longer have to stimulate my penis before ejaculating, merely thinking about sex scenes or me sexing a girl I'd just cum on myself. Although i can still have an erection but the penis is very soft and looks weak. I don't know if anyone knows what i can do to get it back to how it was. I have tried kegel exercise, drank some herbal drugs, taken revive from Kedi health store but none has worked for me. My happiness is that i am done with masturbation and i can now focus on getting my life back.

Please pardon my poor use of English as i am not very good at writing. Mods please help me push it to the appropriate place where it can gain recognition . Thank you

kudos and thank God u have stopped mastubtn..but i dont think ur thingy being soft has anything to wit quitin matubatn,try go for checkup or first cut down excessive sugar,caffeine and alcohol if u take such..cos it seems u havin premature ejaculatn..

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by delerx(m): 2:21pm On Mar 31, 2016

Ray360:
Op, I must extol the courage and gut to Come out of this devilish, Self-esteem-paralyzing addiction. Please, Discard any bland comment from anyone urging you to go back to what you have stopped. walk in this newness you have created. Do away with anything that might entice you into it again. Occupy your mind with positive things. goodluck.

. So do u have any solution for his degenerated joystick?

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Smooyis(m): 2:22pm On Mar 31, 2016

Thank God for your life. So happy for you. Consider getting a life partner soon, and live a good life.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by corruptboss(m): 2:26pm On Mar 31, 2016

but wait o.... who quitting don help?

#theneutralguy

weda u masturbate or not, wit time, every joysticks she become flaccid and eventually. ...dust

my advice: it ssem u self esteem is inversely propotional to ur joysticks esteem.... jz ignore it for now, when ur ready to have kids, ur ~girlfriend~ or wife ll know what to do.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by watchindelta(m): 2:28pm On Mar 31, 2016

only one girl will solve it...

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Krismart(m): 2:29pm On Mar 31, 2016

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by sonature1: 2:30pm On Mar 31, 2016

refiner:
offering time pls!

sister adaure4ever com and give us a danceable music as we offer our offering!

Babe, you get mind ooh! Someone is here seeking help and you are looking for who will give you worship song abi na praise. Lol. Smh

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by UcheJoe(m): 2:40pm On Mar 31, 2016

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by MARKone(m): 2:41pm On Mar 31, 2016

ajuwarhodes:
Since I got pregnant (5months now) hubby and I haven't been having sex, I give him the benefit of the doubt that his not cheating on me. But am 100percent certain that he mastubates.

you can still be giving it to him. It won't hurt you or the baby. If u add the time you recover from child birth and 9months of pregnancy that will be a long time to stay away from sex....i am talking about your husband tho.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Obiwiz(m): 2:41pm On Mar 31, 2016

Now, get a steady, standby chic of your own. She'll see to ur needs from time to time. By so doing and also avoiding porn and masturbation, ur joystick will gradually regain full strength. It's "NOT GOOD FOR THE MAN TO BE ALONE"..... You know the rest abi??

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by danduchi(m): 2:43pm On Mar 31, 2016

@OP, thank God u are safe now... My advice is too exercise more to enhance more blood circulation to ur penis. My personal experience is when I engage in a prolong sex activity for a week or 2 everyday and no stop I experience not too turgid penis but my morning exercise brings it back to glory like the rock of ages. Put ur mind off it and be committed to daily exercise (running).

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by MadCow1: 2:45pm On Mar 31, 2016

Summary..

Op stopped doing this

And started doing this,,

Praise the Lord..

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by kay29000(m): 2:46pm On Mar 31, 2016

So many people will tell you different things, but I am sorry to say, the same thing that got you into that problem is your way out of it. You have to master masturbation to have a strong erecttion again. Google "Edging."

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by cloud9usher: 2:47pm On Mar 31, 2016

The masturbation issue has been heavily debated on both religious and health grounds.

On religious grounds there is no clear cut evidence of it being a sin or something. In masturbation to some point sometimes guilt is felt after the act, and so some religious school of thought would relate that to be sinful.

On health grounds, its said to be very beneficial to some extent.

On personal grounds, if you masturbate and you lose your self esteem and all then it means you really need to stop.

But generally, I rarely get the reason for how masturbation makes someone lose self esteem. Having low self confidence or chronic depression is the root cause, which most times is the driving force which leads someone into masturbation and the person masturbates to have an escape. Take for instance, when I'm tired or psychologically stressed, I listen to music, music is my escape and it cools me down and I think right. Same thing here, if you have a root problem of low self esteem or chronic depression and you don't tackle it then you are in for it, when you are at your low it can push you to masturbate, and as the low self esteem and chronic depression issue keeps coming up you would keep masturbating. My point here is that masturbation isn't the root cause of low self esteem. That's why most people who masturbate find it hard to stop, because they don't tackle the low self esteem or depression issue but keep hitting on the masturbation issue alone, as a result the circle continues.

When I was 18, I bought two sticks of cigarettes and sat alone and finished them, I sat back and was disappointed, I was like ... "So this is the rubbish they call cigarettes?, something which just made my breath feel so bad and I literally was just drawing smoke inside my body?" That was the last time I EVER tasted a stick of cigarette.

When I was 17, I tasted alcohol, it felt good, my stomach was full, it killed hunger to some point, I loved the feeling as I felt tipsy, I took a vital decision and didn't drink more than the 3 cans of beer I bought, I said to myself ... "Alcohol is kinda cool, its got calories which is good for me in regards to nutrition". I also bless the day I found out that red wine has A LOT of health benefits grin

My decision of taking only 3 cans of beer back then has followed me through life, I NEVER drink more than 3 bottles of beer or more than a bottle of an alcoholic red wine at a time, and I NEVER do more than 2 drinking sessions in a week, sometimes it takes over 5 weeks after the last drinking session before I taste alcohol again.

Now I know you must be wondering why I brought the issue of cigarettes and alcohol here, I did that to explain what I call "self control" and "self consciousness of your actions"

For me and over 90 percent of men who after puberty always try masturbation at some point or the other, masturbation for me back then was something to discover my sexuality, I started having sex around 17 and I knew I was a rookie at it, masturbation for me helped me prolong my sex time and have extra sexual stamina as I discovered sex. I never took it as an addiction, and apart from personal will power I had the internet to help and when I read masturbation could be addictive I took masturbation as a brief education class and I NEVER masturbated more than once a week.

As time passed by, I didn't have need for masturbation any longer, it just faded away on its on, I was still in the University by then and very young still but it just faded away, maybe because I took my relationship(s) as at then with the girl(s) I was dating as more important and had gained all sexual experience I needed.

Now my point is this, there are lots of folks out there who tasted a cigarette like me and got addicted to it and have wrecked their lives and health as a result, dying of cancer of lungs. There are folks out there who tasted alcohol and have totally rendered themselves useless to the society as they became drunkards and some have died as a result of kidney or liver problems associated with chronic drunkards.

Everything boils down to self control! And its because of the self control issue which I would not advise anyone to try masturbation, because I have learnt that most humans lack self control a lot! For me, self control is kind of inborn, because I can easily snap out of an angry mood within seconds all because I can tell myself that the issue isn't worth changing my handsome face all because another human feels he can provoke me to anger.

So since masturbation is addictive and lots of humans lack self control, I think every young man should run away from it. If you are too sexually hyperactive, please get a girlfriend or get married fast!

Lastly, the OP ought to seek medical help concerning his joystick problems, I'm not a doctor and can't really offer much help regards that.

Ciao!

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Cutemi(f): 2:49pm On Mar 31, 2016

RexKexMilann:
Okay. You've quit masturbation? So We should do what now? Kill ourselves?

When konji arrests you some weeks from now and you End up in the latrine, don't forget to create a thread about it.

May the good lord have mercy on you.
angry

RexKexMilann:
Okay. You've quit masturbation? So We should do what now? Kill ourselves?

When konji arrests you some weeks from now and you End up in the latrine, don't forget to create a thread about it.

May the good lord have mercy on you.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 31, 2016

Obiwiz:
Now, get a steady, standby chic of your own. She'll see to ur needs from time to time. By so doing and also avoiding porn and masturbation, ur joystick will gradually regain full strength. It's "NOT GOOD FOR THE MAN TO BE ALONE"..... You know the rest abi??

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by macino1(m): 2:52pm On Mar 31, 2016

Good you were able to stop masturbating. I also sympathise with you on the state of your erectile health. However, the rule of success is "never to stop trying". Others may have failed you. Check my signature for your 100% herbal solution. We have even treated worse case. Contact us for counseling.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by lordC(m): 2:53pm On Mar 31, 2016

Bro! Congrats o! U said u prayed to God & U were enabled 2 stop masturbating, whichever way. That's my testimony too.

But I tell u again that u have already answered U joystick issue. God is not only interestd in Ur not masturbating, He is as much interested in Ur sexual health. So u still have 2 go back to Him. Pray in Jesus' Name with d same faith and desperation.

Dats d easiest thing u can do...

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by obua: 2:55pm On Mar 31, 2016

https://sexualreboot.com.
Quit all forms of sexual stimulation, stop eating all processed foods and drinks. Eat beans ,oats,vegetable.
Do blood count test, kidney function,liver function etc.
You are suffering from multi function hormonal imbalance caused by excessive masturbation

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by ogochukwu247(f): 2:57pm On Mar 31, 2016

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by fuwatayo(m): 2:59pm On Mar 31, 2016

ajuwarhodes:
Since I got pregnant (5months now) hubby and I haven't been having sex, I give him the benefit of the doubt that his not cheating on me. But am 100percent certain that he mastubates.

Do u know its now u really need d sex most? Anatomically, ladies would not feel like having sex even at that state, bt u just need to do it. It's for ur good.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by EEZe(m): 2:59pm On Mar 31, 2016

Word4Word:
Apart from prayers and chastity, what else did you do practically to arrive at where you are? The problem is both spiritual and physical. You did the spiritual and what about the physical?

determination" thats the answer many dont know the implication of masturbating' once you state this you will become addicted to it which will do a lot of harm in once body bot spiritual and physical the spiritual part is alarming bad luck' will be yours ' distance frm God follows the only solution is to pray over it and determined over it stop thats all

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by RexKexMilann: 3:03pm On Mar 31, 2016

Cutemi:

May the good lord have mercy on you.

May the good lord have mercy on you.

Amen. May he have mercy on you too.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Macelliot(m): 3:10pm On Mar 31, 2016

RexKexMilann:
Okay. You've quit masturbation? So We should do what now? Kill ourselves?

When konji arrests you some weeks from now and you End up in the latrine, don't forget to create a thread about it.

This is the most foolish remark ever...

Too dumb...

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by RexKexMilann: 3:14pm On Mar 31, 2016

Macelliot:

This is the most foolish remark ever...

You're too dumb...

I am dumb? Okay, now kindly take yourself to hell and roast yourself there. Silly child.

Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Mar 31, 2016

What the heck! Does it mean it's guys alone that masturbates? There have not been any female comment on this deliverance from the shackles of masturbation. God help them to crawl out of their shells.

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