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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by cybriz82(m): 3:20pm On Mar 31, 2016
Selfish pastor na offerin u dey fine? U no even preach.do u Want hiz cndition to b permanent? Person never heal finish u dey shout praise thy lord n u till dey ansa ontop.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by ilyas26(m): 3:23pm On Mar 31, 2016
I'll advise you don't try using anything for the weak erection, just allow your dick to heal on its own, leave it for a whole year , only use it to urinate. Don't go back to mastubation, the moment you type xvideos.com you are in it

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by NOETHNICITY(m): 3:25pm On Mar 31, 2016
ba7man:
You have destroyed your nerve endings and ripped up the muscles in your d*ick........ that's enough to make you quit since you're just one step from pulling the whole thing off. shocked shocked shocked

Just stay off it from now on and it will heal up.
u sound like a doc!

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by theEYe21(f): 3:29pm On Mar 31, 2016
Too much info...
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
It surprised how everyone focused on the masturbation aspect and ignored the OP's second issue. He talked about having very weak joystick and erupting at mere thinking of sex.

Well here is a glimpse of hope for you and others who may have similar problem. Am not an expert but am sure to assist in a way or two. For those who said masturbation have no scientifically proved physical problems own it's victim I tell you it's a big lie. That notion is what got me in this mess for so long until I started feeling the dangers took toll on me.

Practice what they call kegel exercise. You can check the proper procedures on youtube.

In the morning, drink lots of water to the point where u wil feel like urinating. Once u are in the restroom about to urinate, once u feel the urine coming out quickly hold it back, repeat this like 10 times, sometime the urge to urinate at that time will vanish though soon u eventually let it out. But practice that act each time u wanna urinate that day. Make it a part of u. Gradually u will start feeling different in your joystick. once u get used to it and can now practice the act of squeezing that muscle under your joystick which links your urine track even when u don't feel like urinating then From then u can start practicing placing a towel or your erect joystick and counting to 10 before the towel falls off.

Ensure to do lots of exercise too to allow regular blood flow around your body. I wish you the best

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
There is only one power that can actually release men and women from every addiction. That power is in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. The power that raised Christ if it be in you or if you recognize it,it will break every shackle of addiction in your life in jesus name. The only thing you need to set do is to acknowledge your helplessness and ask for that power to come upon your situation and believe me it will come down mightily and crush that addiction that is from the pit of hell because that was the reason the. Son of God was manifested to destroy the works of the devil.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by denko(m): 3:44pm On Mar 31, 2016
Bluezy13:

You have read testimonies...
My dear, you read them, you didn't experience them. That's the difference between you and I.

By-the-way, how many of them have you stalked or approached to know how faithful they have been

That's a lie from the walls of hell This is where you erred. You violated communication principle by introducing an assertion with no logical sequence to our bone of contention. That's where the unreasonableness on your part set in.

I wouldn't have replied further if you had kept throwing theological tantrums in the name of portraying wisdom.

Always render constructive invective to an opinion for maturity's sake!!!
guy u are weak
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nairaland101(m): 3:48pm On Mar 31, 2016
I think that it is far more better to masturbate than to one day, out of "konjism*" rape someone's child. Check the history of pedophilia__ it is associated majorly with the so-called "men of God", the-good-boys-fleeing-from-sex especially those fleeing from masturbation. I believe that anybody that has a good sexual life/relationship with a partner wouldn't be addicted in any way to masturbation.
According to my pastor, Pastor CHRIS, masturbation is not a sin (full stop)

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by DMLords: 3:49pm On Mar 31, 2016
ajuwarhodes:
Since I got pregnant (5months now) hubby and I haven't been having sex, I give him the benefit of the doubt that his not cheating on me. But am 100percent certain that he mastubates.

Babe, please take it easy with him. It is not easy for some men to bleep a pregnant woman especially when the pregnancy starts showing. Believe me, I am speaking from experience!

Everything you like about her body is ruined. Her face swells, her everything changes and the only way you feel attracted sexually to her is if you guys spend some time together and just talk or have a great time like you use to before the pregnancy. This reminds you of the beauty of her person and it becomes easy to bleep her that night but guess what?

Once some women get pregnant, they are always mad at you and find it hard to make that extra move to set the mood right.

My sister, don't be like that. Create an atmosphere he will like to cone back to. Dang, tell him how Hot being preg makes you and how you want him. He is your hubby by the way. Try to refrain from that foreign disgust u feel towards him and watch him bleep you daily till the doctors ask him to stop.

Sorry if I generalized. This is just from my own experience that I shared. Nobody enjoys masturbation to the real thing and nobody enjoys cheating on his wife except if there are other underlying issues.

Stay blessed, Stay loved & Stay happily married!
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 3:49pm On Mar 31, 2016
RexKexMilann:
Okay. You've quit masturbation? So We should do what now? Kill ourselves?

When konji arrests you some weeks from now and you End up in the latrine, don't forget to create a thread about itundecided.


Next time if you do not h something encouraging to say, you can just read through the thread like millions other people.

Receive healing!!!

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 3:55pm On Mar 31, 2016
pinceprinz:
grin It all boils back down to will... Strong will power!

My best comment !!!
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by aybynature: 4:00pm On Mar 31, 2016
syntekelite:

kudos and thank God u have stopped mastubtn..but i dont think ur thingy being soft has anything to wit quitin matubatn,try go for checkup or first cut down excessive sugar,caffeine and alcohol if u take such..cos it seems u havin premature ejaculatn..

Jaydee...I see you
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Funkadict(m): 4:01pm On Mar 31, 2016
Bluezy13:
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My believe is that one can either manage masturbation by gradually reducing the rate at which one masturbates or most importantly, get your mind occupied by something else.
I implore you continue to occupy your mind with the things of God....

Stay away from circumstances that will cause you to masturbate...



Good advice bro. I love that.

Try and walk/work in the spirit always and you will find it easy not to fulfil the desires of the flesh
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by engrchykae(m): 4:07pm On Mar 31, 2016
I stopped masturbation therefore even the most chronic addict can stop it.
Although its not easy to stop like in my case whenever i tell myself that i will no longer do,my dear i have just booked for trouble because i will do worst that day,it got to a stage that i lost hope in my ability to make decision and after committing the act next i will dream of where i am being pursued but cant run.
I knew i was a slave,i went to internet to find solution as some said masturbation is good while some said its bad.
Then Dec last year i met my G.O for counseling and he told me that i have been masturbating and i must stop with immediate effect,i felt power to say no to this hard taskmaster from that moment.
Now in the dream am very agile and brave unlike before when i always end up a victim in spiritual encounters.
Finally my pastor said one shocking thing"whenever something good is coming my way and i masturbate that the good fortune will go back"
he also said that masturbation is worse than fornication.
YELL OUT TO ANY HABIT THAT U NO LONGER LIKE THAT YOU ARE THE BOSS AND THAT YOU JUST FIRED IT JUST AS AN EMPLOYEE CAN BE HIRED AND FIRED AT WILL.
UR BRAIN IS UPSTAIRS NOT DOWNSTAIRS.THE GREY MATTER CONTROLS THE SPERMS THEREFORE TAKE CHARGE.

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Roxby: 4:12pm On Mar 31, 2016
I blame that Dr. that taught me to masturbate but it saved me from some foolish ladies who taught their pussy are golden. Abeg make i check into Bleep.com
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by alaskido(m): 4:12pm On Mar 31, 2016
Stupid boy. You no go marry and dip your dick into your wife's pussy so you can stop masturbating. grin grin Masturbating is not addictive. You are possessed by a demon. Olosho full road and you dey masturbate. Thank God you have been delivered.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by raphy(m): 4:16pm On Mar 31, 2016
Congrats bro go n sin no more.som ppl turn d thread to sermon una try o
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Kpapa1978: 4:18pm On Mar 31, 2016
Thank God for your life.. Don't go back to it and your life will forever change to good.. You can get intouch with me for more counselling and prayers..
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Ahmedhussain3463: 4:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
Bluezy13:
...the thought of masturbation has never crossed my mind What thought pushed you into writing this stuff







Anyways, Sincerely, I'll advise you not to rejoice yet.
Experience has taught me that masturbation can't be stopped, it will "surely" resurface after a perhaps long while.

My believe is that one can either manage masturbation by gradually reducing the rate at which one masturbates or most importantly, get your mind occupied by something else.
I implore you continue to occupy your mind with the things of God...as I pray God helps you and those of us who are victims as well.

Stay away from circumstances that will cause you to masturbate...




I'm happy and thank God for you
u maken sense
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by royal231(m): 4:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
In europe here .. masturbation is normal.. and everyone is expected to indulge to cure cravings.. it is normal..


If u want to quote me .. i dont do it cos its not just fun for me..


Its not a problem as the op painted it
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Alexgeorgebsg(m): 4:26pm On Mar 31, 2016
Maaturbation leads to quick ejeculation so avoid it before you put your future wife into 2 mins action

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by macaranta(m): 4:28pm On Mar 31, 2016
He was a masturbatee..now he's saved.

Hallelujah somebody.

Op it's all in the mind, allow the muscle of the D with time,it will regain it's turgidity.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Monjie(m): 4:29pm On Mar 31, 2016
God that help you quit the habit will help you have your joystick become healthy again. The devil can use this concern to return you back to the habit. Just leave the problem to God, he will see you through.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Mar 31, 2016
I find your problem confusing.

Quitting masturbation is fine and well, that is easy to understand.

However saying masturbation degenerated your penis to the extent that you orgasm by merely thinking of sex, is illogical and unlikely.

Worrying that your erection is weak is also illogical because unless you are , you are watching porn, masturbating of having sex, you would not expect your erection to be at full mast.

OP seems to have too much time on his hand staying home alone with his penis.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by holywota: 4:34pm On Mar 31, 2016
op,i tell you solemly,who ever de lord has set free is free indeed.ur reproductive organ will be healed in jesus name.amen
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 4:40pm On Mar 31, 2016
Taking of experience and based on my research work

The good news: Guys, if you regularly “flush out” your pipes when you’re over 50, it lowers your risk of prostate cancer, according to a Harvard Medical School study.

The bad news: While you’re still under 50, frequent masturbation could be the result of a high sex drive, which may be linked to an increased risk of prostate cancer.

3. The University of Sydney found that masturbation leads to a lower chance of diabetes and insomnia. Maybe because you aren’t eating candy during that time?

4. Careful, though. If you go at it too hard, you can fracture your own penis. 5. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 80 percent of males have masturbated by age 17, as opposed to 58 percent of females — and those who do are more likely to have sex and use condoms.

6. By adulthood, those numbers rise to 92 percent of men and 62 percent of women.

7. During the Victorian era, many doctors believed masturbation was a disease — and to stop themselves, they would wear a Jugum Penis. Behold the horror:

8. Seventy percent of married people admit to masturbating. For better and for worse.

9. According to a Kinsey Institute survey, 38 percent of people say they watch porn merely as a distraction, and 43 percent “because I can fantasize about things I would not necessarily want in real life.”

10. Proponents of masturbation can’t decide whether May 7 or May 28 is International Masturbation Day. Heck, why can’t we just celebrate both days?

11. Fifty-three percent of women use toys when masturbating. Whatever your gender, just be sure to take them out afterward.

12. More than 7 million Fleshlights have been sold worldwide. 13. Every year, between 500 and 1,000 people die from autoerotic asphyxiation in the U.S. alone. Maybe have a spotter?

14. Earlier this year, Apple nixed an app called “Happy Fun Time” that taught women how to masturbate through a cartoon vulva.

15. According to Planned Parenthood, masturbation is an effective way to “relieve menstrual cramps and muscle tension.”

16. In 1994, under pressure from Republicans, President Bill Clinton fired U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders for suggesting that masturbation should be taught to help prevent AIDS.

17. Only 46 percent of women report having an orgasm within three minutes from masturbation. Ninety-nine percent of men could probably have an orgasm while reading this sentence.
#dbestofmasquare
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by donem: 4:41pm On Mar 31, 2016
Bluezy13:
...the thought of masturbation has never crossed my mind What thought pushed you into writing this stuff







Anyways, Sincerely, I'll advise you not to rejoice yet.
Experience has taught me that masturbation can't be stopped, it will "surely" resurface after a perhaps long while.

My believe is that one can either manage masturbation by gradually reducing the rate at which one masturbates or most importantly, get your mind occupied by something else.
I implore you continue to occupy your mind with the things of God...as I pray God helps you and those of us who are victims as well.

Stay away from circumstances that will cause you to masturbate...




I'm happy and thank God for you

Very well articulated comment, but the bolded got me lol, are u equating masturbation to reggae, which can't be stopped, but can only have the volume reduced.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by cybernaut(m): 4:42pm On Mar 31, 2016
bros, 2 heal and get ur joystick back pls kindly take plenty of water in d morning and nite lyke 4 sachet of water.drink ur first mornin urine 4 2 weeks and dont 4get 2 drink ur mornin urine for two weeks.gudluck and enjoy ur joystick because u r free 4rm sextual infection.Jesus Luv U.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Mar 31, 2016
Op cybriz82,
I find your problem confusing.

Quitting masturbation is fine and well, that is easy to understand.

However saying masturbation degenerated your penis to the extent that you orgasm by merely thinking of sex, is illogical and unlikely.

Worrying that your erection is weak is also illogical because unless you are , you are watching porn, masturbating of having sex, you would not expect your erection to be at full mast.

If what you said about orgasming the instant you think sexual thoughts is true, then this may explain why your penis is weak, your orgasm deflates your penis before it has had a chance to get hard.

Conclusion whilst excessive masturbation may not be healthy, moderate masturbation in the absence of sex is likely a solution.

OP you seem to have too much time on your hand staying home alone with your penis.
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by syntekelite(m): 4:54pm On Mar 31, 2016
aybynature:

Jaydee...I see you
who is jaydee?and who see am?
Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by cutelover19(m): 5:16pm On Mar 31, 2016
Bluezy13:

You learn well. At least my last post is constructively criticized and you technically assumed a neutral position too since you are not victim... except for the lie part.
In the sane world of argument, the word lie doesn't exist. One asserts one's opinion and walks away, the highlighted part is a fallacy.
I was careful not to call your premise a lie.






I'm impressed.


I see that you were once a student of philosophy. at what level did you study this great discipline? my brother, don't bother on philosophical argument with a Nigerian. It's a total waste of time, religion has so blinded us

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Re: How I Got Saved From Masturbation. by Bluezy13(m): 5:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
Iroroghene:

These Philosophers tho
They Rock.
Hehehe

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