missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.

PureWays:
Haba!

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

Shiningmama:


So you want to tell me you've been faithful to your wife for 7 years? Meanwhile you too have started cheating on her. So pls forgive her

OAFMods:


By his grace your brain should be fully functional come next year.

AccidentalGenius:



if I'm a married man, I definitely wouldn't cheat. If I do travel for that long, I expect her to be the responsible wife I think she is and not ruin the marriage for something as silly as sex


It's a foolish thing to do

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

PureWays:
Hmm.. You are a woman, I believe you should know better..
If what you said is true about women, that means a woman that cheats shouldn't be forgiven..
It's nice to know that there are still women with moral standards..

Respect ma'am..

etimetiefe:
I will forgive her for all the things she did right, and not because of the one thing she did wrong ** thats pure love**

PureWays:
If you don't cheat then I believe you have every right to chase her

OAFMods:

By his grace your brain should be fully functional come next year.

lodscott:


there's something men have that is called an ego and his pride, which is usually his wife's faithfullness, once you destroy that, there is no going back.even if he is Jesus christ and manages to forgive you.you would hv killed something that goes as deep as his soul, he'd never be the same trust me, neither wld the marriage

PureWays:
If you don't cheat then I believe you have every right to chase her

firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.

Raiders:
dont ever forgive a woman that cheat on you because she is going to cheat again. once a cheater, always a cheater.

missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?

princeunugwa:
Even Jesus understood the severity of the crime of adultery on the woman's side, that's why he permitted divorce only on that course. Even culture frowns at a woman cheating and her recompense is life excommunication. Hence, if she cheats, she unconditionally without further provocation leave quietly. Don't even ask me what if I do. That's d conclusion of the whole matter, biblically and culturally. Na me marry u, no b u marry me. Like saying u came late to work cos ur boss is always coming late. U'll excuse him

SexyStrawberry:


divorce came into this coz of the way u are sounding, as far as i am concerned, there is nothing beneficial about being with a cheating husband. I still hold on to my point that it can only be love that can make her stay with him, ur reasons hold no water to me coz she can achieve whatever she wants without him, kids or no kids, money or no money, he's totally useless whether he's there with her or not.

Truth001:
Missbronze, honestly this issue it's not a laughing
matter. A wife who slept with a rich man to save her
son should know that every fire started small, that's not
an excuse at all coz no man will accept that. He will
surely use it against her one day.
And let's look at it the other way, what if it's husband
that cheats with yr best friend, what will you do?

oshaosha2014:
People don't want to understand that men and women are configured differently. We always want to equalise every aspect of life, but life itself is not about equality, life is not fair, its just mother nature. I praise women for having the emotional power to hold on to a cheating man and many of them usually don't cheat in revenge. But a man, don't let him perceive you are cheating at all. He may pretend he understands and puts your mind at rest that it is all okay. Give him little time and see all hell let loose.

CopyLearner:
believe me, you really do not know women then.