Valeros:
I have an issue that I really want people to contribute, I have a girlfriend, she is a very responsible girl and extremely brilliant(She has lived almost all her life on scholarship and finished with a first class),a very good cook too and loved and respected by all my friends cos she is very good at making friends. I love everything about her values. BUT to tell you the honest truth, my ultimate problem is that she is not endowed at all , she is always willing to change and try about anything I want but I am not sure I can do anything about this. She is pretty tho but I am afraid I might cheat on her if she doesn't add a little bit of curves, I see some ladies and just wish she had a little of theirs. We are set to marry soon but I am becoming skeptical. I really do not want to break her and I really need to be helped on this! Should I go ahead with a lady I don't find sexually attractive just because she is responsible?

nigeriancritic1:

"E ma t'ori ewa f'aya s'ile, iwa ni ewo... Iwa ni ewo oo j'are"_King Sunny Ade

chriskosherbal:
Hello my dear, beauty is good, but can also fade away with time, especially if such lady lacks good character, with time her beauty becomes ugly to you.
As for this not too curvy lady, according to you, but brilliant and responsible, I don't think she is that bad, my friend work on her, her diet should be changed, give her food that will produce more flesh, which can be converted to curves in the gym, let her work out and I promise she will look good.
Just try and invest on her.

lardeipo:
oju kokoro kii tan lara omo eniyan.

skarlett:
choosing beauty over brains is like choosing Alomo over Vodka, Mr Ibu over Denzel Washington or edible catering over Tiwa Savage


The truth is most times the content is more important than the container because like everyone else has opined, outward beauty will fade with time and you'd be left with the husk

Oahray:
Na wa o. So there are humans that would see brains and instead choose beauty for long-term commitments? Beauty that's a fading illusion?

Op, have you ever wondered how intelligent, resourceful or sexually attractive she finds you? The truth might be a bit humbling.

If you aren't sure about someone, let her be. Stop acting like some flawless human searching for his equivalent.

skarlett:
choosing beauty over brains is like choosing Alomo over Vodka, Mr Ibu over Denzel Washington or edible catering over Tiwa Savage
The truth is most times the content is more important than the container because like everyone else has opined, outward beauty will fade with time and you'd be left with the husk

Adaezeagu:
What do men really want?
Always looking for complete package when they are not complete

joseph1832:
I knew it! I knew there was a reason why I don't like this girl.

You don't like me

skarlett:



You don't like me

joseph1832:
OMG! You didn't see the irony in what I said? With you, like is an understatement.

I'm flattered

Valeros:
I have an issue that I really want people to contribute, I have a girlfriend, she is a very responsible girl and extremely brilliant(She has lived almost all her life on scholarship and finished with a first class),a very good cook too and loved and respected by all my friends cos she is very good at making friends. I love everything about her values. BUT to tell you the honest truth, my ultimate problem is that she is not endowed at all , she is always willing to change and try about anything I want but I am not sure I can do anything about this. She is pretty tho but I am afraid I might cheat on her if she doesn't add a little bit of curves, I see some ladies and just wish she had a little of theirs. We are set to marry soon but I am becoming skeptical. I really do not want to break her and I really need to be helped on this! Should I go ahead with a lady I don't find sexually attractive just because she is responsible?

Valeros:

Thanks a lot for this post, I think I am appreciating the perspective of asking her what she also thinks
Appreciate the humor in the response and message is passed also! thanks

Well, life is all about choices and healthy compromise ma'am. That I am not perfect does not deny me of thinking of what I want

skarlett:


I'm flattered

Valeros:
I have an issue that I really want people to contribute, I have a girlfriend, she is a very responsible girl and extremely brilliant(She has lived almost all her life on scholarship and finished with a first class),a very good cook too and loved and respected by all my friends cos she is very good at making friends. I love everything about her values. BUT to tell you the honest truth, my ultimate problem is that she is not endowed at all , she is always willing to change and try about anything I want but I am not sure I can do anything about this. She is pretty tho but I am afraid I might cheat on her if she doesn't add a little bit of curves, I see some ladies and just wish she had a little of theirs. We are set to marry soon but I am becoming skeptical. I really do not want to break her and I really need to be helped on this! Should I go ahead with a lady I don't find sexually attractive just because she is responsible?

joseph1832:
Hoping when I finally kiss you, you won't be martyred. Lol.

Kiss? Joseph, Joseph you're taking the dreamer part of your name way too seriously

skarlett:




Kiss? Joseph, Joseph you're taking the dreamer part of your name way too seriously

joseph1832:
Hope you didn't forget all the dreams Joseph dreamed came to pass?

there's always an exception to the rule