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Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by efficiencie(m): 9:15pm On May 13, 2016 |
Everybody don turn marriage specialist! I believe that "in every kid is an adult and in every adult there is a kid"! People here dismiss childish acts as means of conflict resolution but they have forgotten that even the Father God will maintain silence and suspend communication if He is offended by a loved one (Isaiah59:1-2)... Ladies here will agree that when they are offended by someone so dear to their hearts they naturally start by sulking and hoping in their hearts that the offender's attention is drawn to the offence and a heart felt apology followed with proper restitution is made without a formal complaint being expressed by the offended party... In romantic relationships communication becomes less verbal and more gestural. I frown at what my woman says and instantly she knows she has said something wrong and she apologizes or i'm too busy to chat with her and she gives me short, cold and snappy responses to my statements then i know she's unhappy so i get #1000 airtime and spend it all calling her to apologize and gist with her till she's happy again... Love only thrives in the innocence of childish hearts and in the wisdom of the adult minds... but unfortunately couples have the foolish minds of children and stone cold hearts of adults and that's why divorces are everywhere...(1Cor14:20) 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Bluffly: 9:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:Look at it this way. Naturally men are more moved than women, women complain of tiredness a lot, women always need an emotional connection before sex unlike men, women breastfeeds, the ones at his me complains of he chores and working one needs to sleep linger hours to have strength for work the next day. Those that may not be complaining are likely going to be exercising regularly as exercise increases libido and qunches fatigue |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 13, 2016 |
LordRegalia: Your brain dey work well You deserve a Gold Medal. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by bbjummy: 9:31pm On May 13, 2016 |
durotimi12:And to think you are a woman. Chei! Nawah o 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Evina(f): 9:38pm On May 13, 2016 |
bejeria101: Hahahaha. So you don't know that sex between a married couple is an act of worship? Me I dey even talk thank you Lord after the act. I actually say, "Lord I thank you for the opportunity my husband and I had to satisfy each other with our bodies". Hehehe. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Realhommie(m): 10:01pm On May 13, 2016 |
Worksunlimited:I think I'll disagree with you on the last part, na you and ur wife God join together as one flesh... 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Realhommie(m): 10:07pm On May 13, 2016 |
efficiencie:Bravo... You said it all bro, more wisdom and may God bless you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by johnsonjosbles(m): 10:42pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL:Op I'v tried worst than this to my wife, she ignor me more than I did to her, infact na me the thing com pain pass sef, as soon as I decided to come down my sef, she show me more love than ever b4. So all this doesn't work for my wife oh. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by vchykp(m): 10:49pm On May 13, 2016 |
I aint a fan of dis shit OP 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nancy2016: 11:15pm On May 13, 2016 |
sunkky83: Thanks so much Sunkky83. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by LordRegalia: 11:21pm On May 13, 2016 |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 11:45pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina: Thought I could manage and cover up without knowing it would get worse!we can't just sit down to discuss without quarreling every time,I mean all the time,every discussion as husband and wife.As am talking to you now,we haven't talked to each other for two days but in the same house only two of us-my mistake though,I saw the signs and friends warned me that we aint compatible enough too but she was just too nice.I thought she would change as we move along.When I remember how nice and caring she used to be I find it hard to tell her it's all over.But I think I can't continue to stomach anymore as there is the tendency that we will surely part no matter how long we stay.We ain't just compatible in any way.Advice to others:don't overlook the small signs you see in the course of courtship as they will haunt you sooner than later.Go your separate ways no matter the love as love is not only the reason why two people should get married- 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by AustinStevens: 11:50pm On May 13, 2016 |
MasterofNL: Wondering how dis made Front page......smh |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 13, 2016 |
Evina:Are you kidding? That's a new one. Can you elucidate a little on sex between married couples been an act of worship? |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 11:53pm On May 13, 2016 |
Best methodology for werrey wifes As for the cool headed ones na dialogue sure pass. Buying food or eating outside is senseless, cook by yourself, na she go come beg say honey make I test Backing her in bed is super, my wife nor gree O, na my chest be her pillow, na that night we dey settle O. In all, if you observe anything, or she did something wrong, please, please and please, talk to her at a very convenient time, tell her how you feel concerning some things she does. No one is perfect and no one is above mistake. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nancy2016: 11:54pm On May 13, 2016 |
emekamigo: This is so sad. Why don't you guys have a heart-felt conversation. Be open with her and tell her that you are already thinking of leaving the marriage. Maybe she too has checked out of the relationship. Things have to change instead of you both staying in a toxic relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by ismayl: 11:57pm On May 13, 2016 |
get a 2nd |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 13, 2016 |
Nancy2016: Really don't know what to do,Am saying we can't discuss.She will start shouting and am this kinda quiet type that feels ashamed when neighbours hear that am quarreling- 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nancy2016: 12:09am On May 14, 2016 |
emekamigo: Maybe you guys should have a trial separation. Sometimes married people take their partners for granted and it's only when they come close to losing them then they realize the errors of their way. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 12:10am On May 14, 2016 |
Nancy2016: Thinking in that direction-thanks! |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nancy2016: 12:18am On May 14, 2016 |
emekamigo: You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Toscoas2(m): 1:49am On May 14, 2016 |
MasterofNL:Do not try these at home. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 5:40am On May 14, 2016 |
Nancy2016: U welcome dear |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Nobody: 5:56am On May 14, 2016 |
emekamigo: May be d two of u should try visiting marriage counsellor. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by TheArchangel(f): 6:38am On May 14, 2016 |
emekamigo:She is winning because you are ashamed of neighbours hearing you. I know it is not about winning or losing but you've got to shout louder next time to drive home your points. Do not let her cower you to a corner because you are ashamed to be overheard. Shout like a rabid m'fucker, be a little insane to save your marriage, show how you feel by shouting if she won't allow you to communicate quietly with her. Then wait for the ripple effects, be prepared for whatever outcome and move along with your life. Do not allow anybody to live rent free in your head. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Evina(f): 7:13am On May 14, 2016 |
emekamigo: Wow you are right at the bolded. But I have a few questions if you don't mind. How long have you been married? The early years of marriage, especially first year is usually challenging inspite of any passion that may be present. This is because two different people are trying to adapt to each other's way of life. Do you know that you can learn to be compatible with anyone? Guaranteed it is quite difficult where certain temperament is involved, nevertheless it can still be achieved. Both of you are always fighting because each wants to be heard and each wants to have their way. There is no winner and looser between a married couple. As long as there's no infidelity and physical abuse, don't you think you shouldn't throw in the towel? 2 Likes |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by slavemerchant: 7:27am On May 14, 2016 |
Don't give her money again |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by kyaagbanairaland(m): 8:06am On May 14, 2016 |
My problem with women. The more you tell them of what you don't like, the more they keep doing it whenever they want to get u upset. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by JustHere2Observ(f): 8:11am On May 14, 2016 |
Ray360: Actually no one can live with a man/ woman that nags. They sap the energy and life out of you. |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by murmee: 8:15am On May 14, 2016 |
nmreports:Mr man, this is not about whether one is married or not married. This is about common sence, it is about maturity. it is about responsibility, about proper upbringing. All those actions you suggested are very childish and shows you should not even be in marriage. I often tell people that there's a big difference between being a male and being a man. Mr OP, you are merely a male. 1 Like |
Re: Best Way To Show Your Wife You Are Not Happy With Her by Worksunlimited: 8:16am On May 14, 2016 |
Realhommie: It's true.. But my brother.. I put it to you.. Ask any married man... And i mean confirmed married man... Say in his wife and his kids, who should he love more? Watch his reaction more... And see for urself... |
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