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Happy wedding anniversary @mitchyy. Wishing u many more years 2geda!

@feddy27, pls my sister add my shop to that your list, a trial will convince you. Delia's supermart. Abuloma

Kpai kpai kpai, Errrm, excuse me? Can I come in?...Yes. Ok thnks, Can I join u guys? Cos am just coming from TTC thread were I just discovered am expecting n I am a complete jjc, here are some drinks n some money. Hope u accept me as I am?... Yes we do. Ok thnks again, don't worry, I promise 2 be a gud. Hope I am welcome?...

Lol, pls don't mind my little drama mamas, I am coming from TTC thread because I just got my bfp yesterday!. Pls helep me. I don't knw were 2 start from d only tin I sabi na Pregnacare, abeg mke una help.

According to last af of 19th April, my EDD is 23rd Jan, so I guess am team January, the pacesetters. Mamas av known are Blessedmum, Udomama, Sugah, loistee n Zaynie, n my porting mates, Rukkington an ConvenantBabies, were una dey oo.

Abeg all mamas here mke una welcome me, e no easy...

zaynie:
Miamimama, I carry yansh for you o.
You get patience well well.


1. Hope you have protected sex with him, dem girls out there, not all of them are nice o.
I just found out yesterday that my aunt got infected with HiV from her husband of 6 years.
It happens! Dont let it happen to you o!

2. He might be going thru a mid-life crisis.
When did he start? Since the beginning or a few years back.

3. Pray....pray....pray.
Pray he stops
Pray none of the girls get pregnant.
Pray he doesnt get infected.



I'm sorry I cant advice what to do, cos until a person is really in this kind of mess, you cant say for sure.
But I will tell my thots on this.
- He is not just sleeping around, he is trying to hurt you. That is why he is not discreet, thay is why he is picking on girls you know, that is why he says he's sorry and goes back to do it again and again....he really isnt sorry!
Perhaps you need to think back on why he might want to hurt you.

- You know why men in the western world cheat with caution and show remorse when caught? Its not because they are truly sorry or wouldnt do it all over again if given a chance, its because they are afraid of what will happen to them of the woman decides to avenge herself. This fear has been passed from generation to generation and now it is a norm.

3. He needs to stop.
- so he can be a good role model to his sons.
- so his daughter wont think that men arent worth your troubles or your dedication.
- so you can have your respect, his attention, some peace?
- so he can have a lil respect and be std free at least.
- to obey God....heck he's a pastor...he should know better!

4. Do you want to stay?
- believe that this is his worse and remember you vowed to stay for better or worse. Hope and pray that he snaps out of this phase so you an enjoy better days with him.
- do you want to stay until a greedy girl concludes that she deserves to come inside the house and shares the roof with the father of her child.
- do you want to stay to show your sons that a man can get awat with cheating serially on his wife.
- do you want to stay and show your daughter that it is okay for a man to serially cheat on her as long as he is fulfills the provider role.
- to continue to maintain a rep....Mrs XYZ

5. Do you want to leave
- because of the shame and disrespect he brings to you.
- because of your restless heart....breaking over and over again.
- because of the kids.....he disrespects them too and soon they will hate him and disrespect him esp once they can cater for themselves or leave the house.
- to spite him and make him see what he is losing or has lost as the case maybe.


What do YOU want to do.
There are plenty tested and trusted strategies. Lets know what you want to do.
-I want to stay and make it work. Rough it out and win.
OR
- I am done fighting....he's not worth it. I cant do it anymore, I love me more than I love him. I just want a way out.




Put in mind that a serial cheater or wife beater hardly ever changes, they suppress the urge and time/ age/ maturity gradually wipes it off them, not always tho.

I'm sorry I can't be more helpful.
Goodluck

Hmmnmn.!
1. It is well! I need to get tested!
2. It has been going on like this for a very long time, he will stop and continue. But it's worst now that he is fully established and comfortable to some extent.
4. I'veasked him several times,if there's anything I've done wrong, the only thing he said was that I'm not satisfying him sexually(which I'm trying to improve)sometimes he will say he is just playing with his phone by chatting with all those girls.
5. I don't know what to do to make him stop. My daughter is even another case because she's already having a different mind towards marriage.

I really want to stay and make it work. I've been suffering with him for the past years. Another girl can not come and reap where she did not sow.
Can I still conceive?, because he mentioned something about having more children(we have just two children)
But giving birth has not been easy for me as I had both children through cs and the doctor advised me not to take in again.?

I am dark(ebony). I really dress very well of which he compliments often.
He is really a good man but its just this infidelity issue.
I just pray God will touch him.
I have people I can report too but its going to bring shame to the family and can finish his career.

Thank you mama's for your suggestion.
I wish you all joy in your marriage.
Cheers!

raptor2:


No worry about mummy Cutnenik. Mummy Enkaydewdrop don promise her son in law.

Osalobua!!!
Which taim dat one hapin?

Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki!!!

cutienik, come ooooh...

GenyEbere:


Enkaydewdrop hmmmm God knows I want to born this night if he permits me cos am soooo ready.

Na the wonderful weather carry me enter inside jare but I dey peep sha,hmmm I had a very long walk today with lots of pineapple going down tonight(lets be preparing the passage) lol

Chai! I can imagine...
As we no see you since, we think say you Don go born oh...
No worry... Your babe is coming out soon...

How you dey na?

Congrats to u Mittchy,
All d mama's dat hav delivered, una well doing ooo
ND to d may born mama's hapi birthday, wishing u all many hapi returns

@ginababy pls due to network issue I wasn't able to cum online n I know u might have posted d wardrobe n remove it again,pls if u wunt mind repost it again.tankx

You are highly welcome Sixx, u ll experience a healthy nine months ijn. Feel free to mingle January captain ll come out soon to add ur name.
September mamas how's it going? Round ligament pain has been showing me pepper since yesterday am I d only one experiencing this?

Thank you thank you plenty beautiful mamas!!!

Abeg i have few questions because i've started receiving gifts for my baby...

1. Someone got me a pack of 12 white Zorbit nappy. I didnt plan to use nappy, i'm buying diapers. What do you think i should do with it? Is nappy not old school? By the way i wont even have that strength for wash and wear.

2. My landlord's wife gave me her baby's bed out of the goodness of her heart. The bed is very pretty but the net on it is torn in so many places. And she has patched it before. So patching again will be very difficult. What do i do with the bed? Get a brand new bed for my baby since its just N2500 or is there a way to fix the net so it wont look like i rejected her gift?

3. A business partner asked me what gift i want her company to buy for my baby and i don think am tire. I don't want to mention any expensive item before dem go say my eye too big. Or what do you think? My mind dey tell me to mention baby car seat. The detachable one

4. What kind of detergent can i use to wash my baby's clothes?

Sixx u are most welcome, happy bumpin...Mama Zaynie will soon bring the golden chair for you to relax

Welcome sixx, i av been expecting u since yesterday... I wish u a stress free 9 months and super safe delivery

FINA4804:
, pls my sister add my shop to that your list, a trial will convince you. Delia's supermart. Abuloma

Ok sis, didn't know you sell those ones.

Fluorish89, FINA4804 has her shop at abuloma. I'm sure it's closer to you

awwwww, ok. my bad then

olubankemi:


Hehehe. I dint upload my pics during preggy days. Maybe it's someone else's own you are mixing with mine.

Chinwendym how old is he? Can't wait for my lo to start. All he does is to cluster feed and sleep.
Then how do you measure the salvon or purit? Though I use one quarter of dettol cap per pail.

Gud evening mamas av been peeping since I got my bfp on 12, team january according to my LMP 14th april Edd is 19th january. @ ginababy and mittchy hbd n hwa. AS team MAY no gree givE u birthday mate use my bfp n sixx bfp take manage.

chinwendym, pap has made my son sleep so long. he's been sleeping for over seven hours now. I know pap is responsible for the long sleep. did you have such experience with your son?

mitchyy:
Thank you thank you plenty beautiful mamas!!!

Welcome Sixx, have a stress free 9months. Zaynie will offer you the golden chair sooonest,

@mitchyy,
1) you can keep the nappy for emergency days when you run out of diaper or dash it out to someone it will be more useful to.
2) abeg buy new baby bed with net for dear Hansel. You can keep the other one the lady gave you for maybe afternoon nap in the sitting room or something like that or maybe when baby starts learning to sit, you can use it to shield his back so he doesn't hit head on the floor, just keep it as spare, it may be useful someday.
3) a detachable car seat is ideal, just make sure they can afford it cos with this dollar rate, I heard it's going for about 60k now
4) persil( not sure about the name again) our sabi mamas go answer you. I use normal detergent and rinse and spin thoroughly.

Flodel:
Gud evening mamas av been peeping since I got my and mitc chy hbd n hwa. AS team MAY no gree givE u birthday mate use my bfp n sixx bfp take manage.

You are healed from peeping. Welcome and I wish you easy preggy and delivery. Endeavor to always stick around and contribute.

sayoddy:
Chinwendym how old is he? Can't wait for my lo to start. All he does is to cluster feed and sleep.
Then how do you measure the salvon or purit? Though I use one quarter of dettol cap per pail.

He will be six months old on Wednesday! Baby march is doing what he is supposed to be doing at his age nah! Dont worry soon he will start.
I measure by intuition o! Depends largely on the quantity of water.

Sixx aka chom4shizzle welcome and have a healthy and smooth journey so happy for you.

Beremx:
chinwendym, pap has made my son sleep so long. he's been sleeping for over seven hours now. I know pap is responsible for the long sleep. did you have such experience with your son?

Another name I call pap is sleeping pill. It does magic in that aspect.

Beremx:
chinwendym, pap has made my son sleep so long. he's been sleeping for over seven hours now. I know pap is responsible for the long sleep. did you have such experience with your son?

Yes I did but not for that long o! Pap induces sleep , hope you didn't make it paste like? It should be watery for starters.

Welcome @ Sixx and Flodel, happy bumping.

Come to think of it o, Flodel, u just come and u wan put sand for our garri, pls we still have some hours to d end of today. Team May can still do something. Our faith pass muster seed, we need that wardrobe.

@feddy27, noted, will have to stick to their makeup section.

@GenyEbere, thanks my dear, we are doing fine, since then, the rate of sucking has doubled, we have been on for over 2hrs.

Hello mama's, good evening oo, pls to oda mama's, doh am Team. September,
But I havnt tested to malaria ND I havnt treated malaria, pls is it safe for d baby ND for me, since up till now no treatment of malaria.



It's not looking k I wanna be sick oo, bt jst asking if oda mama's experienced it.

Tnks as I anticipate ur quick response

Welcome mamas flodel and sixx. **spreads red carpet** awaiting other mamas from the ttc thread.

Welcom Flodel, have a stress free bumpin

Welcome Convenantbabies, Six and Flodel, may God grant you an hitch free nine months and safe delivery. Congratulations.

ozycy:

Another name I call pap is sleeping pill. It does magic in that aspect.

he just woke up and i gave him another round of pap. thanks for telling me it's a sleeping pill. now i can sleep well at night.

chinwendym, the pap is watery.

mitchyy:
Thank you thank you plenty beautiful mamas!!!

Abeg i have few questions because i've started receiving gifts for my baby...

1. Someone got me a pack of 12 white Zorbit nappy. I didnt plan to use nappy, i'm buying diapers. What do you think i shou By the way i wont even have that strength for wash and wear.

2. My landlord's wife gave me her baby's bed out of the goodness of her Get a brand new bed for my baby since its just N2500 or is there a way to fix the net so it wont look like i reject

3. A business partner asked me what gift i want her company to buy for my baby and i don think am tire.

4. ?

Happy wedding anniversary to you....May Jehovah continue to be the desired third cord in your marriage. ..
Your cake looks sooooo yummy but I need fruits instead

To your questions :
1. I don'tknow how exactly the nappy looks like. Is it like the ones our mother's used? That will require you buy pins to fasten them in one piece after wearing Hansel? Or the nappies has it's own fastener kinda? If it has it's fastener, I would suggest You keep it and use IF you will have a lot of help at home after delivery. ..that's in-laws or your own people. ..they will be happy to help you wash them....but if you won't have help, feel free to dash it out or sell as you wish

2. Brand new bed for 2500naira? ?
Please what kind of bed? Is it this net and foam ? Where did you see it for 2500naira? ?? Do you have pictures? I would love to see it....I wouldn't mind sending You money to buy and send for me ooo

3. What's the nature or line of business of her company? That could determine what you ask for...
Oil and gas ? ICT? These are companies that make good money sha so you ask for walker, car seat, breast pump....if a smaller company, ask for baby carrier, feeders or so...other mamas will suggest

Flodel:
Gud evening mamas av been peeping since I got my bfp on 12, team january according to my LMP 14th april Edd is 19th january. @ ginababy and mittchy hbd n hwa. AS team MAY no gree givE u birthday mate use my bfp n sixx bfp take manage.

Congratulations. ....welcome. Feel free to mingle. ...Find Your team mates and flow along. Happy bumping and Hitch free nine months...

@Sixx u r wlc. Stress free 9mnths to u