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5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 8:41pm On May 23, 2016

Now, is it that men are generally scarce or the number of guys who can be counted as husbands by our young educated ladies are scarce?

Below are some signs to show you that you are not yet ready to take the position of 'Head of the House':

1) You still slap your girlfriend in public with the slightest provocation: If you still do this, it means you are not a husband material. In fact, the husband material in you cannot even patch a torn trouser!!! Women are meant to annoy you sometimes. She would even do nastier things when both of you are married. Are you going to kill her then?

2) You behave far below your age: I don't even know whether it's the economy that has created this situation?

It's common these days, to see grown men who are almost 35, still behaving like teenagers! They sag their jeans, drink and smoke Indian hemp and go home to eat their mums' food. If you can't take responsibility for your life, you have no business talking about marriage and the husband material in you doesn't amount to a breast-pocket! grin

3) You cannot take care of yourself: How can you take care of someone when you can't take care of yourself?

You must have a job or business venture that brings in regular income to attain 'husbandhood'. Anything short of this, means that some terrible insects must have eaten the husband material in you!

4) You still allow friends to control your life: A grown man should be able to make policies that govern his life without the interference or influences of his friends. Regrets are personal. Nobody regrets with you even if they contributed to your problems in life! If you cannot rule your own life, then, how can you rule a house or family?

5) You are jobless: If you are jobless, there's no need focusing on committed relationship! Even if you didn't study Economics in school, your brain should be able to let you know that getting something doing should be at the top in your scale of preference than chasing a woman for courtship!!! She won't respect you; don't even try to talk to her about marriage or else, you'll appear like Ajalakpo, the famous village buffoon!!! wink

It's better to do a low-paying job for the time being than do nothing other than sitting idly in bet shops!

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Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by DanceVille: 8:44pm On May 23, 2016

Nice one dude.

Lemme add mine.
6. You Still Play Nairabets/ Baba Ijebu

A man that patronise in any form of gambling is not a husband material.If you mistakenly married him, believe me, your life is already a gambling game... A man that gambles doesn't know what it means to be a caring husband, all he thinks of is how to win money, money and money.

7. You Still Urinate On Bed

Well, I'm sure we still have guys that are well-matured that still get the bed wet.If you're guilty of this, please contact T.B Joshua for deliverance.

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Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by vizkiz: 8:46pm On May 23, 2016

You didn't add the most important one.

You still stay with your parents at 26

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Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 8:49pm On May 23, 2016

vizkiz:
You didn't add the most important one.

You still stay with your parents at 26

Yeah, you are right. Any grown man who still lives with his parents is not a husband material grin

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by GloriaNinja(f): 8:50pm On May 23, 2016

TRuE Dat! and I also despise men that talks too much, such men are bit$h niggas.

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Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 8:51pm On May 23, 2016

DanceVille:
I was here.

Good evening, Danceville!

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Elkings123(m): 8:51pm On May 23, 2016

#Truth

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 8:53pm On May 23, 2016

Elkings123:
#Truth

Thanks for the observation.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by DanceVille: 8:55pm On May 23, 2016

Rapmoney:
Good evening, Danceville!

Evening man!

Nice write-up.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Cutehector(m): 8:57pm On May 23, 2016

You don't hav a car!

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by peterdrury: 9:01pm On May 23, 2016

I strongly disagree with number five. Not having a job does not mean he should be single or not fit enough for marriage. There are some girls who may feel bad about it but they dont let it control them. They believe in tomorrow and they love the guy for who he is and not what he has. I have seen a girl who paid largely for her wedding and she has been supportive. Today the guy is working and doing fine too.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Elkings123(m): 9:06pm On May 23, 2016

peterdrury:
I strongly disagree with number five.

..........It's better to do a low-paying job for the time being than do nothing other than sitting idly in bet shops!. #fact

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:10pm On May 23, 2016

DanceVille:
Evening man!
Nice write-up.

Thanks

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by AngelAhnie(f): 9:10pm On May 23, 2016

Cool

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:12pm On May 23, 2016

Elkings123:

..........It's better to do a low-paying job for the time being than do nothing other than sitting idly in bet shops!. #fact

Fact, bro!

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:13pm On May 23, 2016

AngelAhnie:
Cool

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by peterdrury: 9:14pm On May 23, 2016

Elkings123:

..........It's better to do a low-paying job for the time being than do nothing other than sitting idly in bet shops!. #fact

You think people who do nothing presently are doing it intentionally? Go outside and see things for yourself. Getting a low-paying job is difficult, though that depends on the location too. Dont condemn cause you dont have a clue what jobless dudes are facing.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:16pm On May 23, 2016

peterdrury:
I strongly disagree with number five. Not having a job does not mean he should be single or not fit enough for marriage. There are some girls who may feel bad about it but they dont let it control them. They believe in tomorrow and they love the guy for who he is and not what he has. I have seen a girl who paid largely for her wedding and she has been supportive. Today the guy is working and doing fine too.

Do you live in Nigeria?

Would you be proud that a woman paid for your marriage?

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:19pm On May 23, 2016

peterdrury:
You think people who do nothing presently are doing it intentionally? Go outside and see things for yourself. Getting a low-paying job is difficult, though that depends on the location too. Dont condemn cause you dont have a clue what jobless dudes are facing.

Bro, no one has condenmned anyone on this thread. Read properly...you should know what your priority is. Don't put the cart before the horse.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by BiafraBushBoy(m): 9:22pm On May 23, 2016

DanceVille:
Nice one dude.

Lemme add mine.
6. You Still Play Nairabets/ Baba Ijebu

A man that patronise in any form of gambling is not a husband material.If you mistakenly married him, believe me, your life is already a gambling game... A man that gambles doesn't know what it means to be a caring husband, all he thinks of is how to win money, money and money.

7. You Still Urinate On Bed

Well, I'm sure we still have guys that are well-matured that still get the bed wet.If you're guilty of this, please contact T.B Joshua for deliverance.

CRAP

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by AngelAhnie(f): 9:24pm On May 23, 2016

Rapmoney:

The guys are at the receiving end grin

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by dkronicle(m): 9:24pm On May 23, 2016

That list is incomplete without #womanizing

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by jemype(m): 9:30pm On May 23, 2016

GloriaNinja:
TRuE Dat! and I also despise men that talks too much, such men are bit$h niggas.

hahahahaha lmao. Seems u hv met dem a lot

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Elkings123(m): 9:30pm On May 23, 2016

peterdrury:
You think people who do nothing presently are doing it intentionally? Go outside and see things for yourself. Getting a low-paying job is difficult, though that depends on the location too. Dont condemn cause you dont have a clue what jobless dudes are facing.

Please I never condemned anyone.... #Rephrase your comment bro

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by AngelAhnie(f): 9:31pm On May 23, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:

CRAP

You dey do betting kiss

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by kristen12(f): 9:36pm On May 23, 2016

Seriously searching for husband material undecided

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by peterdrury: 9:46pm On May 23, 2016

Rapmoney:
Do you live in Nigeria? Would you be proud that a woman paid for your marriage?

Just as our faces are different so is our heart and mind. I live in Nigeria and i wont be proud. In life, there are some situations People go through, they cant change it, the only option is to adhere to it or walk away from it.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by CaroLyner(f): 9:46pm On May 23, 2016

DanceVille:
Nice one dude.

Lemme add mine.
6. You Still Play Nairabets/ Baba Ijebu

A man that patronise in any form of gambling is not a husband material.If you mistakenly married him, believe me, your life is already a gambling game... A man that gambles doesn't know what it means to be a caring husband, all he thinks of is how to win money, money and money.

7. You Still Urinate On Bed

Well, I'm sure we still have guys that are well-matured that still get the bed wet.If you're guilty of this, please contact T.B Joshua for deliverance.

Number 7 Had Me Rolling.... grin

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Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:50pm On May 23, 2016

peterdrury:
Just as our faces are different so is our heart and mind. I live in Nigeria and i wont be proud. In life, there are some situations People go through, they cant change it, the only option is to adhere to it or walk away from it.

Then, the best thing to do is to focus on how to better your situation than anything else. Whether it's your fault that you don't have a source of income or not is inconsequential!

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:52pm On May 23, 2016

kristen12:
Seriously searching for husband material

You will soon find one cheesy

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by peterdrury: 9:55pm On May 23, 2016

Rapmoney:
Then, the best thing to do is to focus on how to better your situation than anything else. Whether it's your fault that you don't have a source of income or not is inconsequential!

Working hard to improve the situation does not stop the individual from going into a relationship, Thats my point.

Re: 5 Signs That Show You Are Not A 'Husband Material' by Rapmoney(m): 9:56pm On May 23, 2016

Cutehector:
You don't hav a car!

Haba! E never reach dat level nah grin

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