pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

U need to confess brother... u just have to. Dat is the only way the suicide feelings will go away.

What ever the reason for been expelled, I suggest you talk to your parents about it. The Earlier the better.
You have the future ahead. You can approach your mum or spiritual leader.
Don't get into more trouble by hiding.
You can make things right.

Kind of busy n can't comment much.

Tell your parents about it. And start all over again. It is not late. You are still young after all.

Thinking about what na nna!

Buy Jamb form sharp

Don't close out your life, pls!
There is nothing like family. Be free to tell your parents and siblings. They will be disappointed, alright. But it will be fleeting. They will give you all the support you will need and even find another alternative for you.
Never say never. Never lose hope!

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

send me a pm pls!

you are still very young, you can start all over again, and this will not be like before because you now have experience, and to think of it most people are still at home by 18

Your friends - your 'guys' - might tell you otherwise, but the ONLY way is to tell your parents. Yes, I know, it's a very difficult thing to do, but first of all, you'd have this feeling of relief, joy and sudden excitement that you cannot even explain after you've told them. You'd start living again. And even though your parents might not tell you or show it, they'd respect you for doing that, for standing up and being a man. It's not easy, but it goes a long way to show how grown, mature and responsible you've become. Tell them, brother. You're apparently afraid, which is very normal, but the best way to conquer your fear is to face it. Face it squarely, and see how you conquer it. Survive. And just know this: no matter what happens, they will not kill you. Be a man! Good luck.

When I do something bad and have to tell my parents, I just imagine there are people out there that's done things way worse than I did. They've done unspeakable things and still get accepted back by their family/loved ones so if they could be forgiven and accepted why shouldn't I...lol
That's how I do it. You have to tell your parents big man, believe me whatever the outcome you'll feel better you told them.

Hmmmmmmmm

Go home,tell your parent the truth,u will be abuse or more,but your parent would still accept u.Why destroy a life that u cant create? why surrender to evil counsel?U have a glorious future(and any other person going thru a debase or challenging state/suitation),but u need to correct somethings.First,u need to go home. Leave the environment u are,those u see today as successes also passed thru somethings.The most important decision,u can take is understand that u cannot run your life the way it was ran before getting here. Next time,u will do better,because u have experience.I know someone(extremely brilliant) that was in finals at NDA & rusticated because of some issues & today he is big in telecommunication coy.LESSON-he didnt give up.if u take your life?U will bring pain & reproach to yourself,parents & family.Those are small,u will end up in Hell & suffer forever for murder(YES).Organize yourself by knowing you cant direct your life.ACCEPT JESUS TODAY & WORK(READ).KNOW THAT FOCUS IS KEY IN LIFE IN ALL THINGS

@You all advising the OP to buy Jamb form, don't forget that if you are expelled from a federal institution you can't get admitted into any other federal institutions in Nigeria. Private Uni is the only way, nonetheless we don't know the size of the OP's family pocket as regards private universities.
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@Op, best thing now is to see a counsellor and then talk to your parents.
Why?
The counsellor, helps you with better option as regards the next step to get back on track.
Your family grants you forgiveness and support over your next move.

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

yours is lighter than my brothers'. He had some carry overs and refuse to take them. The worst is that the school never contacted us and only dismissed him after 4 years that he should be graduating. He didn't tell any body about his struggle but started thinking of started a business. He felt he is not intelligent enough to be a graduate. If this is your thought, you are a first class candidate. This boy is about graduating with first class in a kenyan university. He struggled because he entered university at an early age of 15 and had to struggle to live like an adult. Now that he is an adult, he knows better. This might be your case. You know better now.

Don't even try to harm yourself my dear, like they rightly advised, let your one of your parents that you are closest to know first then buy Jamb form and start afresh, you are just 18, you still have time and this time try to be very serious about your studies and life. Shun everything that made them expel you in the first place. Good luck.

Its a normal thing to get expelled don't take it too serious. you even 18 go get jamb form either polytechnic or university make sure u enter one by next year. All the best man don't forget to thank me in a year time o.

My bro...

You can still turn a 'seemingly hopeless' situation around!!!

Get a JAMB form....study hard and do all you can to gain admission (in another school please!)

Then go back to your parents and open up to them.... Them the whole truth!

You'll be surprised as your old folks will pray and bless you!

A friend of mine got expelled too from sch,he cldnt tell his mum at dat tym cos dey had just lost their dad. A few other friends and I encouraged him to tell his mum which he later did.Yes his mum was angry with him,bt at d end of the day things turned out well for him.He is currently in UK studying.So op tell ur parents,dey deserve to kno,dats better dan killing urself cos u will be hurting them for d rest of their life.Pls inform them

Guy, you are too young to consider suicide because your are expelled from uni. I got admission to study at d age of 20. its not too late to start all over again. Just talk to your parent. your mother first, because she will tend to understand you better. However, you can still go to any uni in naija except the uni you had been expelled from. Goodluck. Tough time dont last.

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

Go for Ijmb programme n use it to launch urself back to second yr, so u won't start taking JAMB again

Sai Buhari

Sorry bro
Someone please explain to me how this expel thing works, does it mean the person can never be admitted in a Nigerian university again? Why does it always spell doom for people whenever they get expelled from school? Abeg I no go mahadum(uni)

Wetin u do??

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

And you were expelled because?

U are just 18 and u are saying dis trash of suicide.. Well some 29yr old still looking for admission.. Confess take another jamb nomore post ume so u are lucky and den concentrate so u won't be expelled.. Cos either u cheated in exams or u are a cultist

Hey.
You're still very young to start afresh.
Mike Epps the American comedian graduated high school at the age of 45.

There are things you don't tell anyone even your own parents.

Don't tell anyone that you've been expelled, keep collecting your tuition (save it up, with that you will run another admission without collecting money from anyone) and buy a jamb form and start afresh.

You will hate your life if you tell anyone that you were expelled.

Only kids commit suicide

The people above me why give the boy advice, ask him a simple question EXPLAIN IN DETAILS WHY YOU WERE EXPELLED FROM SCHOOL? @ fortune98

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

Broda nothing do you. Dont commit suicide....................... Arrange yourself and make sure you secure admission in another school sharp sharp by all means. Then with the new admission letter, you confess to your parents and ask for forgiveness.

In 2003, a friend of mine lost out at final year, medicine because of cultism. He is still alive and now a medical doctor.

Tell us what u did first. ..so we'll know how to advise u.

All hopes are not lost.
The time u use to think all day, why not buy another jamb form. Try and explain to ur parents. .no matter the outcome they'll definitely forgive u.

Pls don't commit sucide. There's more to life than certificate. .biko.


Guy chill

fortune98:
pls i need someone too advice me cos am too ashamed to visit a counsellor.i got expelled in my 200 level and nobody at home knows about it .out of guilty conscience av stopped sending d money sent to me from home.all i do is think all day and am currently contemplating suicide ...pls i need someone to advice me..
.am just 18.NOTE:am using a friend's acct...
*NO INSULT PLS*

Hmmn....I understand what you're passing through bro. Suicide is never an option, a brighter future awaits you. I know a handful of people that had passed through worse cases and today, they are fulfilling destiny.

Great people experience failure and one point in life, be grateful yours if coming at this early stage of your life and not far latter in life when when things you've spent your whole life working for could vanish into the thin air.

Its not the end of the world bro, it is better you tell them than to go kill yourself and cause more grief to your parents