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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by lacasera14(m): 7:57pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
LUCAS99:but you type well in english 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 9:07pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
lacasera14:I can understand what is happening to the guy,its not that he can't speak or right correct english.He is always afraid of making mistakes while speaking,he get confused with some words and when he types he consult his dico.Just guessing tho cause all these happens to me. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by lacasera14(m): 10:45pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
bukiii:I can relate with that too, always wanting a perfected convo especially with the ladies |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 11:47pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
lacasera14:it happens to tho am a female |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LUCAS99: 2:11pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
bukiii: That's my problem. I am afraid of making mistakes and getting embarrassed. Whenever I speak with my siblings and close friends I can speak correct English but whenever I try to make conversions with maybe co workers or customers all of a suddenly I find it difficult to express myself in correct English. I usually know what to say in my head but whenever I open my mouth to say it , most times I don't say it the right way. Sometimes I become nervous and all of a sudden my minds blanks out and I can't even pronounce words correctly and I end up messing up my sentences. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LUCAS99: 2:22pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
lacasera14: Exactly. Can you believe at 22 years old I struggle to make conversation with ladies because I don't know what to say to get them to laugh and open up to you so you both can connect on a deeper level. When I see other guys having conversations with ladies and laughing it makes me feel odd and embarrassed that I can't do what other guys do so easily? When I see people talking I hardly join them because I don't want to say something stupid and be embarrassed. I know I need to build my social skills but am so confused on where to start cause right now I lack motivation and all I wanna do is sleep all day. I really need help cause am getting frustrated. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by lacasera14(m): 2:46pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
LUCAS99:read more, associate with people who have mastered the art of communicating effectively with the opposite sex you'll be glad you did . 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:49pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
@ LUCAS99 Hope you are gradually getting the help you need? I want to implore all the introverts in the Lounge to proffer their own opinions on this matter. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LUCAS99: 10:24pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Olarewajub: I am still lost. I still wonder why I find it a bit difficult to express myself in correct English when speaking with somebody and also how to speak loudly. I still need your number please send it to my mail I really need a mentor I can talk to everyday. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 7:02pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
Sapiosexual1..coman see ooo |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:04pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
LUCAS99: Sorry for the late reply. I will get back to you this weekend, probably tomorrow and i will send my number to your mail. How is your week? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
Melsan:My oga, I don show! Would be following from far behind |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 8:12pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
sapiosexual1:Comfort zone for ya!.feel at home |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
Melsan:Yez ooo,sure thing |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 3:54pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
@sapiosexual1..good! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:20pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Who has the soft copy of Temperament controlled Spirit by TIM LaHaye? It's a pity we've decided to ignore our very own. #SadFace 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:45pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:48pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
I'm please to announce to you all that a new book has been published by Susan Cain Title : Quiet Power. Can't wait to lay my hands on the soft copy. https://https-en-m-wikipedia-org/wiki/Quiet_Power:_The_Secret_Strengths_of_Introverts?iorg_service_id_internal=1547440102204384%3BAfon1TzEj5wAQsH4 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 8:01pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
It's been a while now that I was here....Olarewajub you are really doing a great job |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:04pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Rukkydelta: Thanks. I remember you, my sister. How is school? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 8:10pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Olarewajub:School is going smooth. Just that exam is around the corner |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:18pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Rukkydelta:Oh i see. How is the preparation going? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 10:02pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Olarewajub:Fine by God's grace |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 10:12pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
I used to be extremely shy around the male gender shy but thank God through this thread I can now relate with guys although not that well but my degree of shyness have reduced. When it come to social network I'm very noisy but keeping conversations with people physically is a problem. I'm the kind of person that is funny and can be silly at times but only on social network and to family & close friends 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 10:35pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Rukkydelta:same here sis but am getting over it |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 2:05pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
bukiii: Lol..... I just remembered when I met a male friend I knew through social network physically for the first time I was unable to keep eye contact, was not able to talk that much,most of my responses was yes and no, to make matter worst he asked me if I'm shy ?...I just gave a fake smile and replied why shall I shy ? 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by amicableSavage: 4:00pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Hi everyone. I'm in need of your candid opinion on a matter pls. I've had this female friend for a long time now, don't know if I should call her my gf cos she doesn't seem to want that tag yet. She made it clear to me that even her can't date herself yet, like there're some stuffs she needs to put together in her life; that of which I'm not so convinced about. She's been in 4 relationship in the past, but is trying to get the next one right, hopefully with me. She's working now, while I'm a corper. Her place to mine is just 2 buses away. At the nysc camp, I met this lady, she expressed her feelings towards me and I did too later. We got along quickly but were separated by posting on the final day of camp. I went to visit her yesterday at her lodge. she was full of joy. Things got kinky and we had sex(protected). After sex, we chatted, joked et al. But what bothers me is the fact that she wants to stick with me for good. She wants us to even go as far as marriage...that of which I'm not ready for soon. She was just all over me yesterday like I'm she could wed yesterday sef. The whole thing just got me confused. She even asked about pregnancy if I'll be cool with it before marriage, honestly I said yes, but I'm not sure if I'll be able to cope, bearing in mind that I'm struggling myself. She said she won't even want to be pregnant before marriage. That it's not goona be easy. So pls good people, advice me, what should I do, cos on a more serious note, I love that my "female friend" more, but she's not ready to be in a relationship. And here's another giving her all to me. Pls help. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 4:01pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Rukkydelta:lol mine was when we met I was speaking freely with him but couldn't make eye contact with I was so much embarrases when he was looking straight into my eye.I couldn't continue with the convo,the guy just asked me what do you have to say,I was embarrased more couldn't think of anything to say.Iwas just looking like a fool. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:18pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
LUCAS99: Hello Seems I can relate a little to what you are going through. During my seminar presentation in school, I said bacterias instead of bacteria. sometimes you know the right word, phrase or sentence but they just don't come out right sometimes. I have even said nani instead of Nanny and I never knew until a friend made jest of it. one thing I have learnt is to calm down before opening your mouth to speak. it helps sometimes. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:19pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Hello Good evening to everyone. To our Muslim brothers and sisters, how is Ramadan going? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:19pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Hello Good evening to everyone. To our Muslim brothers and sisters, how is Ramadan going? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 4:57pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
this introverted personality can be a pain in the arse at times. whenever I hear guys talk about the number of girls they have had as girlfriends and those they also had causal sex with, I just begin to wonder if I'm cursed as regards girls 1 Like |
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