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Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 29, 2016
prettythicksme:
Hehehehehehe seriously babe u b my person,i no wan chop ur nose. grin
iffa call my bestie ehn, we go chop ur nose ooo but I forgive u cheesy.

Naughtynaughty, where are you
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
lol
I won't tell u my name, durhhhhh tongue tongue.

I'm not 4rm oyo or ogun ooo cheesy.
I will tell u later cheesy when my spirit is ready to tell u
cool game si you scam me now oga o obirin ati ate won just like that .
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
iffa call my bestie ehn, we go chop ur nose ooo but I forgive u cheesy.

Naughtynaughty, where are you
Haaa u r playing with fire, na my side naughtynaughty go dey oo.Forget say u b her bestie oo grin she go follow chop ur nose.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by scentmarlc(m): 12:56pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
Hi all.
I have read so many threads about ladies on this forum and sometimes I just waka pass because there are lots of things you guys don't understand. Lemme put you through.

We are Nigerians(Hausa, IBO or Yoruba) and somehow our culture is still the richest so far.

Now, some guys will open threads to complain about ladies and all that.


First of all check yourself. Most of you guys brags a lot. Lemme use an example, A guy was asking me out and can you guess his 'lines'? 'Baby, I will take care of you' Really cheesy, take care of me Is that the new line? I quickly told him to fcck off because I detest guys with that mentality. All I'm saying here is that don't try to impress any lady with your money and that's why most of you come here to cry whenever a girl asks you for #100 recharge card. Check your 'toasting skills'.

I also read a comment about a guy that said he can't date a girl with some investments, really? You guys are the most complicated 'Thing' God creaated in this world. Yes! Lemme back it up. We all know guys dont like it when Ladies are more successful than them Or is it the society that frowns at this That's why single ladies are afraid to buy cars and build houses because no man will like to marry a Lady that already has it all with the mentality that she will not be submissive bla bla like that. Examples are Linda Ikeji, Funke Akindele and others. You guys that are 'crying upadan' here, go to them please. Nobody is stopping you and remember they are single.

And for a man to feel like 'Man', he wanna provide for his family and while doing this, he Will also be complaining of too much of liabilities. SMH

Now, a lady is successful, she's termed 'Career woman' or even ' Feminist' simply because she's not married. Then our parents will start their wahala of 'Don't do this to me', ' Have mercy on me', 'Your mates are getting married' Bla bla like that. And Society too will start looking at you with 'some kind eyes' Chai! What exactly did the society wants from us

Okay, She's married now. To start running the house, she has to resign so as to take care of her home and if she disagrees, family meeting na the next thing. SMH. Or she's given the option of getting a maid shocked. To save her home from the second wife popularly called 'Maid', she resigned and that does not stop 'Uncle' from cheating and complaining about her new weight and almost everything. *Sighs*.


I learnt about from my mama and I'm still learning thou. She's an independent woman. When I was growing up, she usually hammer something in my brain.

'Ajike, don't rely on a man either his money, his wealth or his happiness (mind you, we are happy family with my Dad). To earn respect from a man, you must be able to bring something to the table also. Have a source of income before thinking of getting married, they are not predictable'.
And mind you oooo, when a lady is getting close to 26/27, Our same parents will start questioning us. *sighs* Seriously, what do you want from us


That statement is kinda stuck in my brain and I know t's helping me alot.

I don't really know what this thread is all about, I'm just trying to say 'Our society is kind of affecting us in everything or everywhere we find ourselves'. Before you open your mouth to talk, think twice.

To my single ladies, this is the Time to get it right. Yea love. Your dream, your career and everything you wanna become, do it now and be independent. You won't have enough time to achieve it when the kids starts coming. Or unless you have wonderful and understanding husband like [b]'Chimamanda Ngozi's husband's[\b] Let that guy respects you. Let him wonder where you are getting money. Let him thinks maybe you are 'coded olosho or ashewo(thats how they reason) cheesy.


I rest my case.
Bashings are allowed.
Lalasticlala, what do you think




HATEU2.....Confused since time 1807B.C . This is evident in her color combo sef grin
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by scentmarlc(m): 12:57pm On Jun 29, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
lipsrsealed


i just have the feeling you would be hia....Chaiii mtn girl cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
I'm thinking 'getting preggy' is the permanent solution cheesy

It'll only lasts for 9 months.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jun 29, 2016
kamel4real2015:
cool game si you scam me now oga o obirin ati ate won just like that .
my name is Ajike. Seriously
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
Thank you bro for getting the information.

Some don't even understand. They thought I'm bashing guys but I don't blame them. Enjoy ya day


I will dear and be a gentle lass uhhn
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jun 29, 2016
prettythicksme:
Haaa u r playing with fire, na my side naughtynaughty go dey oo.Forget say u b her bestie oo grin she go follow chop ur nose.
Gbagbe, ko possible cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jun 29, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
grin bro.. Make we exchange accounts..


grin grin grin. Funny you. But we are both subtle now and that makes us even
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2016
PushPlay:


It'll only lasts for 9 months.
I won't stop at one cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
my name is Ajike. Seriously
thought you are joking ni so what state are we from.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
Mustapha, sikiru, now run undecided
abeni elenu razor fly
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 29, 2016
prettythicksme:
Elo bae grin hafa naw?
Good afternoon ma. Se alafia lewa?
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by ErnieSmallzz(f): 1:09pm On Jun 29, 2016
wink embarassed is ur consine? grin angry
scentmarlc:



i just have the feeling you would be hia....Chaiii mtn girl cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by obiorathesubtle: 1:09pm On Jun 29, 2016
Subtlelad:



grin grin grin. Funny you. But we are both subtle now and that makes us even
grin but Just incase anything comes up later.. Be prepared sha.. Someone might say we're the same person..


Anyway.. How you doing bro?? I'm obiora.. smiley
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jun 29, 2016
kamel4real2015:
thought you are joking ni so what state are we from.
Oyo cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
I won't stop at one cheesy
Shey o fe bimo bi eku no? grin
Ala kowe in e nau! cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
abeni elenu razor fly
bro mofuruu, fimile undecided
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jun 29, 2016
PushPlay:


Shey o fe bimo bi eku no? grin

Ala kowe in e nau! cheesy
lol
Ko mean nah cheesy
Just to avoid owo pad every month ni cheesy
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
bro mofuruu, fimile undecided
Mrcork coman carry your wife comot for here o
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
Oyo cheesy
see you and you said i was not right i knew from the offset something that is very easy and clear.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jun 29, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
grin but Just incase anything comes up later.. Be prepared sha.. Someone might say we're the same person..


Anyway.. How you doing bro?? I'm obiora.. smiley

Lol.. No problem... Am Felix..cool meeting yo
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 29, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Mrcuork coman carry your wife comot for here o
pleaseeeeeee
Goan modify, don't call him here. He has been disturbing me since yesterday. Pleaaasesssss. Don't let him see this mention.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jun 29, 2016
kamel4real2015:
see you and you said i was not right i knew from the offset something that is very easy and clear.
lol
E se sir
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
lol
E se sir
e kabo abi eku erin ajo.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
lol
E se sir
e kabo abi eku erin ajo.And stop derailing thread like mosquitoes.
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by obiorathesubtle: 1:27pm On Jun 29, 2016
Subtlelad:


Lol.. No problem... Am Felix..cool meeting yo
cool see you around felixthesubtle!
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by iPopAlomo(m): 1:28pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
Did you read it at all Read and you will understand this is not a break up whatever. Peace


Aunty... you were just ranting nii... I was thinking you were actually going to explain what we didn't understand... but you didn't... you just went on and on about nothing...
I don't care if you have a heart...
I don't care if you don't...
I don't care if it was broken a not...

As long as you aren't in the system of marriage, you never been divorced either or too... you made no point... shallom!!!
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jun 29, 2016
HateU2:
lol Ko mean nah cheesy Just to avoid owo pad every month ni cheesy
lol! Ivyy must see this. grin
Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Vick4rill(m): 1:34pm On Jun 29, 2016
halfricanadian:


Society is f*cked up if am successful nd not married to ba tayin lara ela plaster mo b ti merlin

We av thousands of single ladies better dan married women asin many many baje baje abi heaven is only for married people?

Omo i dont follow society i do wat please God nd me

Societal rules dat was approved by people who felt cool bou it u now wanna impose dat on me? Sorry o

cheesy cheesy if husband no come e no come b dat i move on to greater things

I follow no bodies rule if it aint in d bible u can as well sell ur advise elsewehere
in the next 20years, u wont be talking like this! (mark my word)

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Re: What You Guys Dont Understand. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jun 29, 2016
kamel4real2015:
e kabo abi eku erin ajo.And stop derailing thread like mosquitoes.
I'm not derailing naaah. It's my thread. In fact, I'm de activating my acct soon

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