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"Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by 0ubenji(m): 11:37am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Ghosting is the word used to describe a break-up that
never actually happens.
. It’s when two people are in a relationship and then one
person just vanishes without a trace –no call, no text, no
explanation. It’s being dumped without actually being told
you’re being dumped, leaving you to get the hint (and hope
that you’re actually being dumped and something horrible
didn’t just happen to the person). It’s not necessarily a new
phenomenon, though the term is quickly catching on and
becoming part of our lexicon.
Generally, I think we can agree ghosting is a crappy thing to
do to someone. If a person has dedicated any amount of
their time to being in a relationship with you, the respectful
thing to do is to let them know you’re not interested. When I
was ghosted, it was confusing, humiliating and enraging. If
you’re mature enough to enter into a relationship with
someone, you should be mature enough to end that
relationship when you no longer want to be in it.
It’s cowardly.
No one likes having hard conversations or hurting anyone’s
feelings. Breaking up with someone sucks, regardless of
the circumstances. But being an adult means doing the right
thing, even if that thing is hard. For instance, when someone
experiences radio silence from a person they had been
dating, they might be worried that something bad might
have happened to them. It’s an unfair burden to put on
someone, especially since it can be easily rectified with a
simple text message saying, “Hey, I don’t think we should
see each other any more”.
Relationships are never simple and break-ups suck, no
matter how you slice it. But in this digital age, where
connecting with someone is as easy as pushing a button,
there’s rarely a good excuse to just disappear on them. |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by Nobody: 11:45am On Jul 09, 2016 |
OK I know I've Been ghosting few times but they deserved it...coz once I caught them lying, I considered it as done deal...I don't need further explanations from a liar coz surely my ears will juz bleed listening to their fvckd up excuses.. |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by Nobody: 11:48am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Nobody gets hurt . |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by jamalnation(m): 11:51am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Too long. Make i bend if i read am |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by Marlvin(m): 11:51am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Sometimes, thats just the best deal you can offer. |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by 0ubenji(m): 12:10pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:What if ur conclusion happens to av come from misconception on ur part..? Makes one appear silly and selfish u knw? |
Re: "Ghosting" A Cheap Break-up Method..why Do We Do It ? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
0ubenji: I dnt think it's selfish attitude but who wants being fooled? I don't judge easily but if I can sense sumtinz surely I will follow the trail til I saw it with my 2 naked eyes... |
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