olamitie:
hallos ,just got my BFP after four miscarriages, i hope this one sticks... Team March....

This baby have come to stay. You will carry and deliver in the due time. Have faith cos it will surely end in praise.

limsycutey:
Today is bumptuesday nau, wey ya bumps? Are you people 'hoarding' them? *rapping* Flaunt, flaunt, flaunt what your hubby gave ya!

We re here o, flaunting flaunting what our hubby gave us... *go flaunting*go flaunting *go flaunting * go go go flaunting #dancing#

@melly245, tnx so much for d prayer. I can't wait to join u sweet mamas here.

mitchyy:


Why dont you express it and give him in a bottle? They take in milk faster that way.

E be like say we go exchange o. Lol

Na so I see am ooo.
I do express n give him bt I feel we can bond beta skin to skin.

Liftedhands:
What I do whenever he starts falling asleep on the boob is to blow air on his face and he wakes up to continue, I also maintain eye contact. Try expressing the milk more often so your supply doesn't go down even if you don't have constant light to have it freezed! You can express and pour away whatever he couldn't finish, that's the beauty of breast milk unlike formula Na cry I dey cry each time my son no finish the one I prepared, it cost money which bm doesn't.

One of d methods to put him to sleep is blowing air on his face. Dat will definitely not work for us. I'll try dat of eyes contact. I'll express as well. Tnx a bunch.

I have been peeping mode since, ms no let me see road, just felt better this week, but normal me is not an active participant on social media generally, i prefer to look pix and read comments of others, but i will try to make a difference here, am a ftm, 13 week + 4 days according to lmp although scan said 12 weeks + 4 days, team january, will pay my dues ASAP. @mitchy, which cong. do you associate with?










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modath:



Why do you even pay the disgruntled louts attention in the first place? They are trolls and just pain filled traumatized souls .. moreover, it's an ego boost for most of them. They need to be seen "debating" (ignorantly by the way) with the great BX to validate their wailing pass to their co-travelers, I'm not that person!! Most you get from me is one at the most 2 comebacks & I'm done...

Ignore them, they are not worth the effort to TYPE.


We are doing great & my sweet boy will be 1 on Sunday, God is good. good...

Hiyim at 9mths, our recent pic na "motion", always in motion, nor dey gree stay one place.

thanks. I will surely take your advice.

Your boy is growing fast. Children of nowadays sef. lol


@modath, it's been a season of male children in my family and extended family. from my cousins to my siblings and myself. Every one seems to be giving birth to male children for the last one year. Right now, my kid sister who's almost due and my younger brother's wife are expecting boys too. both of them have had female kids as their first born.

God is wonderful!

ginababy:


Na so I see am ooo.
I do express n give him bt I feel we can bond beta skin to skin.

You pump half of what he needs. After taking that, you transfer him to your breast. That way he will be satisfied and you won't miss out on bonding.

Thanks for the welcome.... wana ask does staying away from sex the first three months really make a differences

cheeketo:
I have been peeping mode since, ms no let me see road, just felt better this week, but normal me is not an active participant on social media generally, i prefer to look pix and read comments of others, but i will try to make a difference here, am a ftm, 13 week + 4 days according to lmp although scan said 12 weeks + 4 days, team january, will pay my dues ASAP. @mitchy, which cong. do you associate with?










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Yayyyy! Another sis in da building. I'm with lekki-beach road cong.

Meet other sisters here... @britneystacy, twogreatnations, kokolet009

olamitie:
Thanks for the welcome.... wana ask does staying away from sex the first three months really make a differences

It depends on your situation. I was bleeding in my first month so i was asked to stay away from sex until i'm 16weeks gone to avoid having a miscarriage.

mitchyy:


Yayyyy! Another sis in da building. I'm with lekki-beach road cong.

Meet other sisters here... @britneystacy, twogreatnations, kokolet009

thanks sis, am with Ojokoro rd, ikorodu.

Today is bumpy Tuesday. Mamas come out oh.
Sometimes my bump will be noticeable other times I go dey find am inside cloth. We are 18 weeks 3 days today.

Mamas good afternoon

Make una reason with me

My dh's niece who is 15 is with us since 3yrs now though in will be in J3 sept so I have known her well,while preggy she does everything as I had less strenght but something caught my attention "she keeps blushing every now and then" lol being a sharp mama(I pass that route too) I found out whom her crush is hmmmmm meanwhile we have been talking about sex and relationship,so ystday we sat and asked her about it she admitted the boy(17 or 18) asked her to be his friend,they have been crushing since march officially even bought her a neckpiece,now my reaction I didn't shout at her rather we discussed what has happenes btwn them so far which she says mere talking I told her fine let it continue that way no touching of privates,kissing,staying lonely with him and above all NO SEX as it is a SIN before God and she can contact veneral disease,nI intend talking to the boy too now do I keep this away from dh cos he will scream down heaven and cause her to continue secretly whoch i dont want or keep it to myself

Lynette2cute:
I've been following this thread silently, I've been booked for cs by August, please I need prayers for it to go successful. Thanks

Hi, don't be scared ok? It has no option than to be successful
Just envision yourself carrying your bundle of joy

I was with a relation of ours while talking to her as a witness

GenyEbere:
Mamas good afternoon

Make una reason with me

My dh's niece who is 15 is with us since 3yrs now though in will be in J3 sept so I have known her well,while preggy she does everything as I had less strenght but something caught my attention "she keeps blushing every now and then" lol being a sharp mama(I pass that route too) I found out whom her crush is hmmmmm meanwhile we have been talking about sex and relationship,so ystday we sat and asked her about it she admitted the boy(17 or 18) asked her to be his friend,they have been crushing since march officially even bought her a neckpiece,now my reaction I didn't shout at her rather we discussed what has happenes btwn them so far which she says mere talking I told her fine let it continue that way no touching of privates,kissing,staying lonely with him and above all NO SEX as it is a SIN before God and she can contact veneral disease,nI intend talking to the boy too now do I keep this away from dh cos he will scream down heaven and cause her to continue secretly whoch i dont want or keep it to myself

I think you should tell your hubby cos at the end of the day, she's his niece not yours. As much as you don't want her to withdraw, I don't think that 'friendship' should be encouraged, she's only 15 and she's has no business having a boyfriend. This one wey she dey blush and crush, she may not remember all your admonitions by the time the bobo go start to whisper sweet nonsense in her ears.

Fortius:


me ke!..me dat bae no allow me to chat since satide,jst dey log in now..na dexterush nd melly oo pelu iya mofe

atin una don see na,am sitting jeje oo,they are finding me,exuse me anti is she dat fyn ma trobu

Iyabetajos:
Pls help.my doc placed me on modiuretic and bromocriptine(for bm that is still gushing)which i started on saturday.last night aš i woke up to use the restroom i felt dizzy nxt thing i saw dh with water saying i passed out.i saw a doctor bt dt one go night school.which of the drugs do u think caused this.am still dizzy with loads of headache.tnx
Cc kaffy4bill liftedhands zaynie. Mitchyy thorpido tchwinnie donatee
and all mamas

moduretic. Where u able to check ur bp after u regained ur sef? Next time wen u wake take ur time slowly b4 getting off d bed.
speak to ur doc.....ur drugs may need to b reviewed

jazzyjazz:
Good morning mothers
Please I have a few questions

1. Please does any one have any idea of how much estimate one needs to shop for maternity clothes?

2. I'm 14wks today and dh's hmo has still not included my name in the list for the past 4 months. We are suspecting that they want to avoid paying for Antenatal until it's too late as they keep deenying any wrong doing. So dh suggested I register for ANC in another hospital for now till we sort out this issue with his HMO. Please my abuja mothers, which hospital can I go to register that is fair priced? I had chosen limi hospital in the hmo list because of the proximity to my house in the case of an emergency but their ANC alone is 100k which is really high but I guess it's that way cos they are private hospital.

Please any advice or suggestion would be highly appreciated as the situation is getting me sad and depressed
Pls any suggestion for any hospital in abuja. I live in Apo resettlement


Cc: Mitchyy, fortius, zaynie, enkaydewdrop, beyedew 
Cc: all sabi mama's 
Pls help. I'm a FTM

I dnt know they type of package your dh hmo is but mine took less time. Dh took our wedding cert to work n submitted it with two passport photographs. Then I was already like 3weeks pregy. So I took his hmo card with me to the hospital to see a doc after which I was attached to his name. It was 2yrs after that I got my hmo id card frm his office but ds got his within 2weeks of giving birth to him. So the office might av processed it with hygei. Why not try taking his own card instead to the hospital involved.

limsycutey:


I think you should tell your hubby cos at the end of the day, she's his niece not yours. As much as you don't want her to withdraw, I don't think that 'friendship' should be encouraged, she's only 15 and she's has no business having a boyfriend. This one wey she dey blush and crush, she may not remember all your admonitions by the time the bobo go start to whisper sweet nonsense in her ears.

I don't know how to begin pls any idea cos I know if I didn't tell him now when the chips are down I will be blamed,tnx will talk to her to discontinue immediately

Lovelymom29:
Gudmorning wonderful mamas. I'm currently 7 weeks pregnant after 2 yrs of ttc. Saw my gynae in my 4th week because of slight spotting and he prescribed duphaston. I'm still on it dnt knw wen to stop but I hv a visit scheduled for next wk.

You are welcome dear, u ll carry to term ijn. I took mine up to 13th week day's when d placenta starts doing it's job but u can still confirm from ur gynaecologist.

GenyEbere:
Mamas good afternoon

Make una reason with me

My dh's niece who is 15 is with us since 3yrs now though in will be in J3 sept so I have known her well,while preggy she does everything as I had less strenght but something caught my attention "she keeps blushing every now and then" lol being a sharp mama(I pass that route too) I found out whom her crush is hmmmmm meanwhile we have been talking about sex and relationship,so ystday we sat and asked her about it she admitted the boy(17 or 18) asked her to be his friend,they have been crushing since march officially even bought her a neckpiece,now my reaction I didn't shout at her rather we discussed what has happenes btwn them so far which she says mere talking I told her fine let it continue that way no touching of privates,kissing,staying lonely with him and above all NO SEX as it is a SIN before God and she can contact veneral disease,nI intend talking to the boy too now do I keep this away from dh cos he will scream down heaven and cause her to continue secretly whoch i dont want or keep it to myself

Well you dont want to talk in a way that she wont be able to open up to you if she has a problem or needs advise in future.
I know say na only 2 years dofference but she is still a minor. And If the boy is 18 or , that is technically an adult in my book.
Besides she has no business cutting eye with boy at this age. Doesnt she have ssce or gce to be studying for.?

She has her entire adult life to blush and crush as she wishes but right now she needs to get her priorities right.

Please let your husband know because should anything happen... the tori go come be say... "aunty know the boy!" E no get the kind explanation you wan explain if that time reach. The question will be so you knew she had a boyfriend and you did nothing... if na your sister or your own pikin would you condone it??

Let her know you will be telling your husband as you dont keep secrets from your husband so it doesnt take her by suprise and she doesnt close up to you in future.

Just beg hubby and explain that you have had a frank talk with her already so he shouldnt be too hard on her
As it wouldnt be good for her to then go underground with her parole.. or start consulting idiotic friends for advise.

Hello mama goldenruby, iIelse ND hop ur child is very much okay by now, iIgat no idea of any of dos.

He's healed in Jesus name, Amen

GenyEbere:
Mamas good afternoon

Make una reason with me

My dh's niece who is 15 is with us since 3yrs now though in will be in J3 sept so I have known her well,while preggy she does everything as I had less strenght but something caught my attention "she keeps blushing every now and then" lol being a sharp mama(I pass that route too) I found out whom her crush is hmmmmm meanwhile we have been talking about sex and relationship,so ystday we sat and asked her about it she admitted the boy(17 or 18) asked her to be his friend,they have been crushing since march officially even bought her a neckpiece,now my reaction I didn't shout at her rather we discussed what has happenes btwn them so far which she says mere talking I told her fine let it continue that way no touching of privates,kissing,staying lonely with him and above all NO SEX as it is a SIN before God and she can contact veneral disease,nI intend talking to the boy too now do I keep this away from dh cos he will scream down heaven and cause her to continue secretly whoch i dont want or keep it to myself

U even try, my sis won't even open up to me. I've tried all methods but they see me as the evil gueen in snow white. I've stylishly told her ow dangerous sex before marriage can be but she said why did 2 of our aunt get pregy before marriage. I told her that it's cos they were above 30yrz before they got married n this girl claimed "so it's no sin to av sex after 30yrz" I just formed deaf.

You can tell ur dh but he shouldn't ask her about it.

GenyEbere:
Mamas good afternoon

Make una reason with me

My dh's niece who is 15 is with us since 3yrs now though in will be in J3 sept so I have known her well,while preggy she does everything as I had less strenght but something caught my attention "she keeps blushing every now and then" lol being a sharp mama(I pass that route too) I found out whom her crush is hmmmmm meanwhile we have been talking about sex and relationship,so ystday we sat and asked her about it she admitted the boy(17 or 18) asked her to be his friend,they have been crushing since march officially even bought her a neckpiece,now my reaction I didn't shout at her rather we discussed what has happenes btwn them so far which she says mere talking I told her fine let it continue that way no touching of privates,kissing,staying lonely with him and above all NO SEX as it is a SIN before God and she can contact veneral disease,nI intend talking to the boy too now do I keep this away from dh cos he will scream down heaven and cause her to continue secretly whoch i dont want or keep it to myself

I peep in here once in a while too but couldn't resist commenting on your post. While having a crush is normal, a 15 year old should be encouraged to maintain a healthy relationship with the opposite sex. Keep in mind that there are different kind of "friends". Also be mindful that the guy has called her "out" to be his "friend", special friend from what I can deduce here, and all these blushing and dreamland things to me indicates there has been some exchange sweet of nothings . My advise... tell the young girl its no big deal to be feeling this way, however, she needs go back and tell the guy... sorry, our friendship can only be on a casual level. I would tell her to return whatever has been bought (necklace), watch her reaction/attitude after this and the result will determine if hubby needs to know.

olamitie:
hallos ,just got my BFP after four miscarriages, i hope this one sticks... Team March....

Congratulations dear, just believe and it shall be so. I tap into the blessing...

Good day ladies!!

Otonzy I want to chat with you privately if you don't mind, how do I get in touch?

Thanks so much for the suggestion.

Loisemm:

I tell u, Towerofgrace. Who send big nose, puffy face, black bom bom or big boobs? bring it on. I will proudly wear them if na pregnancy go cause am. Only thing I no want lai lai na sickness. Preggy mums who took in easily, make una thank God o for easy conception. God bless u all.
*sitting with all Ttc mums who visit here, munching groundnuts and watching these our preggy sisters waddling/walking in a funny way*
*bursts into laughter*
*no be una I dey laugh o. U know I want to be like u*

Seriously o, let everything that wants to get big go ahead as long as the reason is pregnancy. I don't know about anyone else but I must get preggy this month in Jesus name, Amen. DH has really been a shoulder to lean on, I'll marry him over and over again.

@ olamite, Lovelymum29 and cheeketo, welcome to this lovely and educative thread. May you have a healthy pregnancy and deliver safely dear mommas. Feel free to mingle.

@ tracysparkle, congratulations dear. May your baby always bring you joy.

@ all November mamas, how body my dear teamies? It's been a while, been so heavy these days and heartburn no gree me see road but in all I thank Jehovah.

@ mitchhy, ur post about seeking refuge in the toilet got me laughing. You cannot com an kill yourself. I don dey use style tell dh say EBF no be do or die affair o, if I birth a foodie, na right from hospital formular go start if he doesnt want a stressful wife who no go get hin time again. Hian! I cannot come and kee myself.How is Hansel today?

@ iyabetajos, how are you feeling now. Pele dear, pls try reduce the dosage of the bromo as suggested.

@ all preggy mamas, eku waddling oo.
@all who just delivered, eku vigilante o, God is ur strength.
@ all TTC mommas, sticky BFP to you MA's, may God bring you here sooner than you think.

Good evening all.

PLEASE OOO!!! Am here again with my complaint... Mamas, pls how can i reduce my tummy bk to its normal size. Am 3weeks plus after delivery, bt my tummy luks lik a 5~6 months pregnant woman. I have tried using girdle bt d uncomfortability is lik comitin suicide. Pls is dia any oda method pls help oo
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cc: all sabi mamas