mizzbouqui:

Funny
So I will miss church because of nairaland, no not me
I love Jesus more than any other thing

mizzbouqui:

It's not a big deal if guys doesn't ask for sex too
Anyways sex is to be for fun not for some weird thinking (use and dump)

Youngpo413:
ladies are not forced remember, they can just say "No" and stick to it, simple as ABC.

senibo1:
who doesn't love him?


is the that the reason behind your calmness today I give up

for past few weeks, being skipping church, guess what? I went today do you know what i noticed today?

mizzbouqui:

Of course we do, [s]it is even easier for a lady to go months without sex than the guy[/s]
Tell me you didn't ask your ex or current girlfriend sex first

mizzbouqui:

Of course we do, it is even easier for a lady to go months without sex than the guy
Tell me you didn't ask your ex or current girlfriend sex first

mizzbouqui:
I'm only very active on nairaland during weekdays I'm a bit busy during weekends
What did you noticed?
Abeg gist me tomorrow, work dey tomorrow I need to sleep now to wake up early

herbie27:
So you think when ladies say "he used me", is because of sex?, there's a lot that meets the eye.

mizzbouqui:

No I won't
I have sex when I feel like, I don't force myself to, and I make sure I enjoyed everybit of it
So you have to stop the self guilt, don't ever think you were used by a guy

mizzbouqui:
I saw this somewhere and I think I should share it with you guys.

Many ladies love that phrase a lot. How can he use you? Are you a tissue? On a serious note though, when you ask these ladies how they were used, it will all boil down to sex.
She feels used because the relationship ended and she had sex with him while it lasted. If sex wasn't involved I bet there would be no room for the feeling of being used. Some ladies see sex as favour to men. She believes she is having sex to please you and not because she enjoys sex, talk about lying to oneself. So when the relationship doesn't go as planned she views it as bad investment and screams foul.
If as a lady, you feel sex is a favour you give to your partner then you aren't mature enough to date. If you don't want sex then decline but the moment you open your legs it is assumed you want it too. Have sex because you want to not because you want to keep a relationship or you want to please him. That way when it ends you won't feel like he took something valuable from you. You won't feel used, if you want to have sex enjoy it and do it to feel good. You are doing nobody a favour as you also enjoyed it. So enough of the victim mentality, we are tired of hearing how guys slept with you and left. If sex was not enjoyable you wouldn't dare give it to him. When you were in ecstatic throes we didn't hear about it so we shouldn't hear about it when it goes sour.
Men avoid having sex with ladies who feel they are doing you a favour because they are the ones that go berserk when the cookie crumbles. They are the type who would burn your car or bath you with hot water.

mizzbouqui:

You are still not getting what I meant
Okay, Your guy dumped you because of a lady, or he broke your heart one way or the other
The first thing you should not say is that, he sex and dump you when you both enjoyed it together
Most ladies regret over breakups because sex was involved, thinking they had sex with him just to please him, which is not true
Have sex because you want to, have fun with it not because you want to keep your man or you want him committed , by doing that you won't feel you've lost something valuable to him when the relationship comes to an end

I know there are other ways you can tell a guy he used and dump you but I'm only laying emphasis on sex, please get the meaning of the thread

FvckShiT:


OK lemme spell it out for you..

Do you fücking think by creating multiple fücking threads will get you famous?

Get fame in the real life...not the fake one here

You won't fücking be here forever

No one remembers any fücking moniker here

Icecream4U:
With a random guy?
OK, Would you have sex with a guy if he doesn't make you believe that he loves you and will marry you?

senibo1:
emboldened... who ask you?


I know talk again, make amebo know kee you


go sleep its getting late already

senibo1:
nah!

stop thinking with your asshole


modify that poo, the reverse is the case

classichsy:
Hmmm 2 corinthians 5 vS 17.
Happy redemption. Lol.
Bukky Elejowewe.



quote author=mizzbouqui post=48640822]
Hey I'm not
Though I use to have such feelings, but that was a very long time ago
I'm too mature for such now

CrazyQuinn:
that's why it's good to wait for intimacy till marriage to avoid that

mizzbouqui:

Eshe eku oro enu
Asokale ete jonpa

alobright17:
Are you a crazyvirgin?or just a CrazyQuinn

CrazyQuinn:
decide for yourself

alobright17:
My hands are full,help me out I beg u

alobright17:
mizzbouqui,It takes matured mind to understand exactly what you really meant here,Thank God you've overcame yours with matured mind.congrats.

classichsy:
Elete momori momo bi sweeti alagbon.

CrazyQuinn:
how do you want me to help you out huh?!

mizzbouqui:

Thanks dear

sleekyonyx:

alobright17:
Welcome dear,hope your day is going well