My cousin and her boyfriend have dated for 2 years now with this kind of love which you and I will undoubtedly term"an emulative love". My cousin gave ma a call inviting me for the convocation which I gladly attended. Her boyfriend was the happiest on that day from what I saw because he clung to her more than a monkey would cling to the branch of a tree. By that I knew he loved her to a fault and will never think of having a break up.

It came my greatest amazement a month later when I went on a visit to see her and I was told that he broke up with her because she came out with a 3rd class,  Guys and chics (especially d guys), please is it for the love or for the brains?? Cos to me the guy took a baby step rather than a bold one.

I am _sohweee,The guy is a RETARD. . . . . ^{i guess the love wasnt TRUE afterall}

He knew that now she had finished schooling the next topic will be marriage, and he was looking for an excuse to dump her. But the 3rd class excuse was the dumbest I have ever heard, because having dated for close to two years he must have known her level of IQ.

Hiclasneki:

They(My cousin n her boyfrnd)av dated for 2yrs now with dis kind of love which u n i will undoubtedly term"an emulative love". My cous gave ma a call inviting me4ha convocation which i gladly atended. Her bf was d hapiest ön dat day 4rm wat i saw cos he clung 2ha more dan a monkey wld cling2d branch of a tree.by dat i knew he loved her2 a fault n wil neva think of avn a break up. It came2my gr8test amazement a month later wen i went on a visit2 c her n i was told dat he broke up with ha ol because she came out with a 3rd class, Guys n chiks(esp d guys),please is it 4d love or for d brains?? Cos2me d guy took a baby step rada dan a bold 1.

she sef why she go go comot with 3rd class, haba!

I gotta say, this numbers mixed with letters style of writing has got to be the hardest thing to read.

For goodness sakes, just write TO, WAIT, SEE. . . These are short words already, how much shorter can we make them before they disapper all together?

@ Topic
Once I decipher the post, i'll respond.

na2day?:

she sef why she go go comot with 3rd class, haba!

HA HA HA HA.its true sha but we cnt blame her may be its de guy sef dt dnt make her to be serious wt school work.its funny sha to break up wt sum1 cos of that,its a flimsy excuse.
On the other hand maybe the girl is to dull and the guy doesnt want to give birth to olodo children.
In conclusion,what he did is wrong or are educated pple not getting married to illiterates?
Having a 3rd class doesnt mean someone cannot succed in life,a lot of pple dt had 3rd class are making it big time.

whitesturd:

HA HA HA HA.its true sha but we cnt blame her may be its de guy sef dt dnt make her to be serious wt school work.its funny sha to break up wt sum1 cos of that,its a flimsy excuse.
On the other hand maybe the girl is to dull and the guy doesnt want to give birth to olodo children.
In conclusion,what he did is wrong or are educated pple not getting married to illiterates?
Having a 3rd class doesnt mean someone cannot succed in life,a lot of pple dt had 3rd class are making it big time.

is paper qualification now required for a relationship? you mean for two years he couldn't know her level of IQ?

whitesturd:

HA HA HA HA.its true sha but we cnt blame her may be its de guy sef dt dnt make her to be serious wt school work.its funny sha to break up wt sum1 cos of that,its a flimsy excuse.
On the other hand maybe the girl is to dull and the guy doesnt want to give birth to olodo children.
In conclusion,what he did is wrong or are educated pple not getting married to illiterates?
Having a 3rd class doesnt mean someone cannot succed in life,a lot of pple dt had 3rd class are making it big time.

speak for urself, here is a thread where a guy sponsored to the university and after she is done she broke up with him saying he is not a graduate and we have stupid girls supporting the girls actions

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=350419.msg4915291#msg4915291

na2day?:

she sef why she go go comot with 3rd class, haba!

you don graduate? if so u should know dat not every1 with a 3rd class is an olodo. so many of this 'good' degrees are 'backyard' degrees. it's unfortunate for her sha, but the guy just wanted an opportuinity to bail.

meggieblac:

you don graduate? if so u should know dat not every1 with a 3rd class is an olodo. so many of this 'good' degrees are 'backyard' degrees. it's unfortunate for her sha, but the guy just wanted an opportuinity to bail.

i agree with u there. i believe there is more to it than just the 3rd class stuff. make the guy talk true

meggieblac:

you don graduate? if so u should know dat not every1 with a 3rd class is an olodo. so many of this 'good' degrees are 'backyard' degrees. it's unfortunate for her sha, but the guy just wanted an opportuinity to bail.

can u read? did i say she was dumb? i said why did she come out with a 3rd class.  my friend, if u dont know what to say go and sleep or do something else , it is not by force to post on a thread  

agitator:

He knew that now she had finished schooling the next topic will be marriage, and he was looking for an excuse to dump her. But the 3rd class excuse was the dumbest I have ever heard, because having dated for close to two years he must have known her level of IQ.

true

Someone IQ and 3rd class are not always directly proportional.Trust me i know.

That is a very childish thing to do,guy's would always be guys,looking for the slighest opportunity to dump his recent and go after the girl next door.

asha 80:

Someone IQ and 3rd class are not always directly proportional.Trust me i know.

u came out with 4th class?

Some people take education seriously, and it forms an integral part of their selection of a life partner.
Me sef go dump that girl very sharply, how do u start to present someone who doesn't have a first, or second class degree to your family where almost everyone has a first??  What was she doing when others were reading? How are we even sure that the so called 3rd class is a true reflection of her grade? What future ambition does she have with a 3rd class degree?

It will be ok for someone who believes family has no role to play in your choice of a life partner, but for people like me, it is absolutely important that family is as comfortable as i am in the beginning because thats how it will be in the end - strong as a rock.

Its a matter of choice abeg, the guy left her but she gave him reason to do that, if he wanted out but didnt find any easy escape route, he wouldn't come up with this act, she should first do her homework.

_{She go just dull all him pikin}

spikedcylinder:

I don't blame the guy. Everyone has the right to choose who they want to be with and if he doesn't want to be with her - 3rd class and all - he has rights to leave.

thank u jare

spikedcylinder:

I don't blame the guy. Everyone has the right to choose who they want to be with and if he doesn't want to be with her - 3rd class and all - he has rights to leave.

Yes he does have a right to leave, but he should be man enough to say why he actually wants to leave and not hinge his leaving on just any excuse

Maybe he thought all the time she should have used to study to be. . . Ya know first class, she was busy partying, he therefore concluded that she musta cheated on him and that's why he broke up with her. Guys can be weird like that with their thought process. ^shrugs

na2day?:

thank u jare

Are you the not same person forcing a girl to marry a non-graduate! At lease she's a graduate.  

But seriously, I dont think Examination is the true test of one's ability. Besides in some schools and departments, 3rd class is like a 2nd class upper in other.

The guy leaving her because she graduated with a 3rd class is just an excuse. Maybe he has been having a problem  with her IQ all along!  

Stupid Thread

na2day?:

can u read? did i say she was dumb? i said why did she come out with a 3rd class.  my friend, if u dont know what to say go and sleep or do something else , it is not by force to post on a thread  

you dont have to insult me, noting called for that. it's ok sha guess you are just one of the uncultured people all ova the country.

@spiky

you sound like a genius   . . .


@whitelexi

you are giving people most especially ladies additional ammunition to gang up on you again . . . 

EDIT:

@topic

Its sad but the reality of life is that people make choices (however stupid and genuine they are) . . . I just pity ladies cus they are usually the ones that invest a lot of emotions into relationship. The truth of the matter is that just as ladies want to marry up (i.e. someone a little better than they are), guys also want to marry someone close to them or above them. . . its bad but true.

That is why you find so many successful ladies that are still single, mainly because the reality is that its rare for such a lady to go for a man thats not as successful in the least. The natural tendency is for such ladies to go for someone that is a little better on either the academic or financial scale.

For example:

Some men would marry a woman so long as she is beautiful irrespective of her academic status.
Some men would not marry a woman that does not fit their taste in women whether or not she is a genius or not.

Yes i know the reasons sound stupid but the reality of life is that people make choices . . .

Different strokes for different folks.

The guy in question could tolerate laziness or even disrespect from her but not a third class; not weird though.

So sad for the lady but I honestly do not concur with his excuse; we’ve got brilliant and successful “third-ies”

Whatever his motives are, it is “something” that must terminate a relationship.

No2Atheism:

@topic

Its sad but the reality of life is that people make choices (however stupid and genuine they are) . . . I just pity ladies cus they are usually the ones that invest a lot of emotions into relationship. The truth of the matter is that just as ladies do not want to marry up, guys also want to marry someone close to them or above them. . . its bad but true.

So go to the other thread and tell them to stop complaining because a lady refused to marry a non-graduate!

whitelexi:

Some people take education seriously, and it forms an integral part of their selection of a life partner.
Me sef go dump that girl very sharply, how do u start to present someone who doesn't have a first, or second class degree to your family where almost everyone has a first??  What was she doing when others were reading? How are we even sure that the so called 3rd class is a true reflection of her grade? What future ambition does she have with a 3rd class degree?

It will be ok for someone who believes family has no role to play in your choice of a life partner, but for people like me, it is absolutely important that family is as comfortable as i am in the beginning because thats how it will be in the end - strong as a rock.

Its a matter of choice abeg, the guy left her but she gave him reason to do that, if he wanted out but didnt find any easy escape route, he wouldn't come up with this act, she should first do her homework.

_{She go just dull all him pikin}

Quite ignorant, I know people with 3rd class who have gone on to do bigger and better things.

quite shallow to dump a babe over a 3rd class. jeez! at least she has a degree which is more than some people can say. I have met some real dumbasses with first and second class degrees and wonder how they even managed to pass their GCSEs or got into University. Anyway im more concerned about the person and their experience rather than a piece of paper.



That sucker should wake up and smell the coffee, life has a way of kicking you in the nutz when you least expect it, I wish the girl the best of luck, she's lucky shes rid of the guy that is clearly insecure about not being able to provide for both of them. Fake guy!!!

Ebonyeyes:

Quite ignorant, I know people with 3rd class who have gone on to do bigger and better things.

pls help me tell him oh.

Third class can never determine anybody's destiny! Some very great men started out very badly in school. Like I said, examination is not the true test of ones abilities!

madambini:

@poster!
What is it with men sef?
A man may not want to marry a woman because of her poor grades but a man that is barely a primary school certificate holder will be looking for a Phd holder to marry!
The 3rd class babe should see it as a challenge and make herself better cos the Loser wil come running to her someday in the future.
I know a couple of my friends that graduated with 3rd class and even pass that are living way better than those that have 1st class and second class!

it is called choice, nothing do the guy. when a girl does it to a guy, she must have a good reason, when a guy does it to a girl, all hell breaks loose

Godmother:

Yes he does have a right to leave, but he should be man enough to say why he actually wants to leave and not hinge his leaving on just any excuse

his excuse is her grade, why cant u take him 4 his word?

Ujujoan:

Are you the not same person forcing a girl to marry a non-graduate! At lease she's a graduate.  

But seriously, I dont think Examination is the true test of one's ability. Besides in some schools and departments, 3rd class is like a 2nd class upper in other.

The guy leaving her because she graduated with a 3rd class is just an excuse. Maybe he has been having a problem  with her IQ all along!  

he probably stuck with her 4 that long to prevent her from coming out with a pass  

romsky:

her result shouldnt be a big deal so long she can get a job abi na wetin person read she dey take work

she can work with her SSCE result

and get what kinda job in 2days world?  

meggieblac:

you dont have to insult me, noting called for that. it's ok sha guess you are just one of the uncultured people all ova the country.

i see u are very cultured, carry ur stupidity outta ma faze sharp sharp!