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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 6:27am On Sep 10, 2016
Lol
Me I sad pass you sef. E de pain me ghannnn



iomoge2:


sad sad sad
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by uglyBetty1(f): 6:58am On Sep 10, 2016
nennynj:


No, there is no other reason dear. Just that it took us a long tym to conceive. That all.

My dear, I will advise you to go for ElectiveCS, 9years is not a joke. I TTC for 4 years and my Dr advised me to do elective CS and I followed his advise. His own words was that he does not want to take chances and to avoid stories that touch. It's not as if I don't want VD, but I had to follow his advance and am happy I did.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by rezzy: 7:01am On Sep 10, 2016
Chubby100,
Congratulations on the birth of your baby.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by uglyBetty1(f): 7:06am On Sep 10, 2016
sugah:

Is September the best team or what? grin grin back to back to back deliveries, it can only be God.
congratulations (in no particular order) to Fumnz, liftedhands, mamaOO, tippex, jamjam5000, hillyma,jesusbaby1

welcome to kingsdaughter (our second twins mama) and topfuncakes166

supernatural delivery to the remaining September mums.

Congrats to my team. Hope una dey great. How is Vigilante. No be small thing oooooo. All in all, I thank God for the blessing of our little ones. I am so happy and keep on praising the name of the Lord. He makes big thing seem so simple.

Congrats to all that have gotten their BFP. Chaiiii, I miss this place oooo. To read back na whala. I always start from the last page to read back.

To all ATC sisters, you are always in our prayers. God will do it for u and for us.

Happy Saturday to all and Team September I salute una once again.Captain Sugar, congrats and weldone for the good work.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by peggygee: 7:12am On Sep 10, 2016
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by feddy27: 7:22am On Sep 10, 2016
jazzyjazz:
Done ma'am

Seen
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blessedmum(f): 7:42am On Sep 10, 2016
feddy27:
Mamas, I have a testimony o smiley


Finally, my family friend that is a nurse witnessed the struggle and bought dis medication for him. For the 1st time, I can see my son p.o.o.p without stress!

I'm so excited grin
It's really a testimony, I do battle with it too and I can understand that feeling of not being able to do the do easily.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blessedmum(f): 7:44am On Sep 10, 2016
peggygee:
cry
Hope no problem teamie?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by feddy27: 7:59am On Sep 10, 2016
Blessedmum:

It's really a testimony, I do battle with it too and I can understand that feeling of not being able to do the do easily.

For the 1st time, the do came out watery and soft on its own without cry or shout...lol. I still can't believe it
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by feddy27: 8:03am On Sep 10, 2016
peggygee:
cry

Hope everything is ok?
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by SURYSuri(f): 8:16am On Sep 10, 2016
Favouredmom:
Catwalks in with her 2 Ltr Apple jwuiz grin
Drags out a chair, sits and balances her bump. Puts on glasses, picks pen.

Oya time for roll call for team December
Pls Shout aye if you hear your name, don't forget to update with your baby's gender and EDD if you haven't done so. I'm sure we are all doing okay but just wanna be double sure.

As we gallantly step into the 3rd trimester, my prayer is that it will be easier than the first two. But let's help ourselves by minimising bending (I'm guilty of this one embarassed), eating right, not just large volumes of high carb foods but nutritious foods in moderate quantities (fruits, veggies, smoothies and fluids)

Let's remember that our LOs are rapidly adding weight at this stage so don't be too shocked if when you step on that scale, what you see surprises you. Who's neck is getting darker? Nose getting wider? Milk factory getting bigger? Shortness of breath especially after climbing the stairs? Kpekusing getting clumsier? wink It's all part of the package so let's embrace it with joy because very soon, we will miss pregnancy days, the kicks, LO turning and flipping inside us and the likes.

How's the shopping going? God's provision will never cease in our homes and may we never lack all we need to take care of our little ones, Amen.

Whatever we can buy before we hit the 35th week mark let's try and get because we never can tell when LO will decide to come. Though we pray our babies come when God says. Now is also the time to seriously start looking into the various birth plans our respective hospitals have planned out for pregnant women. The internet is there to watch videos and prep our minds. Also, let's learn from other mum's past experiences...

Let's feel free to come in here and ask questions, read birth stories and wish other mamas well as they put to bed. May others rejoice with us too when it's our time

1. Ammy5565 25/12
2. Akorkor 21/12
3. ArewaBOG
4. AwesomeGodiAv 08/12 XX
5. Benignasweety 23/12
6. Buccee 18/12
7. Enque 13/12 XX
8. Favouredmom 12/12 (X?/Proud twin mom)
9. Joyfulmoda
10. iamfruitful04
11. mamacajah 30/12 XY
12. Mimibe 14/12 X?
13. Mukhcech (Dec daddy)
14. Mummytee 24/12 X?
15. Mum2bsoon XX
16. Orney
17. Phundek 18/12
18. Queen1 12/12 X?
19. SisiNini 06/12
20. Sugarbuns // Kalapoumbo 29/12
21. SURYsuri
22. Suzy 28/12 X? How's your health now?


Thanks mamas!

good morning our able captain, I don't know the sex yet as at the last scan at 20weeks baby did not corporate.

for the Edd I have different dates based on scan because I don't have lmp and scan gave me 6, 8, 10, 12 one unserious sonographer even gave me 26 DEC.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 8:24am On Sep 10, 2016
Favouredmom:


Hello mama, pls are you team December? Kindly provide your EDD and baby gender. Or Akorkor is that you?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 8:25am On Sep 10, 2016
enque:
If i hear say u port eh... tongue tongue



Lol.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 8:26am On Sep 10, 2016
iomoge2:


6a welcome to port to november.... grin grin

With arms open wide, we wee welcome u

Thank you. That December too long for my eyes
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nennynj(f): 8:28am On Sep 10, 2016
@rofemiguwa ; @uglyBetty1

I don't need stories that touch either. Am seriously considering opting for CS voluntarily. Jst dat research I ve made on it are not sooting at al but I know i and my lo will come out victorious.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 8:30am On Sep 10, 2016
Favouredmom:
Catwalks in with her 2 Ltr Apple jwuiz grin





2. Akorkor 21/12


8. Favouredmom 12/12 (X?/Proud twin mom)



Thanks mamas!


EDD has changed oh to 14th. Sex is Team Suprise.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by rejoice02: 8:32am On Sep 10, 2016
Good morning mamas.

Congrats to mamas dat just delivered. God will continue to protect and blesss ur Los.

To d remaining September mamas delivery will be very easy IJN.

Thks to d mamas dat have shared dere birth stories I really learnt a lot. God bless u mamas.

@Mydeporch u are welcome to team November, u shall carry to term and easy delivery for u and d rest of ud IJN.

Cappo iomoge2 am team pink ma, pls kindly update baby gender.

Team November hope we are doing great?

Team Novemberforsupernaturaldelivery.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by SisiNini(f): 8:36am On Sep 10, 2016
Favouredmom:



Aye Captain! Team Surprise for baby's gender...

Yeah, I noticed that my neck is actually darker... Turning on the bed is an herculean task; I feel more weight and harder kicks everyday...

I know my baby's routine; LO kicks between 7-8am and frm 10pm till bedtime everyday (with random kicks during d day)... Though, LO didn't follow the routine the day I took anti-malaria drugs ...

For the shopping, I did my last major shopping last week with cot (will contact the maker next month), bedding sets, breast pump and mosquito net remaining... I'm not buying baby wardrobe cos DH has been saying I want to waste money, as there's built-in wardrobe in baby's room... He's not buying and not allowing me to buy it either... I've made up my mind to decorate the one I have... I have gotten the items on my hospital list too...

May God continue to provide us and we'll all carry to term IJN... Amen!

#teamDecember4SupernaturalDelivery

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Flodel(f): 8:36am On Sep 10, 2016
Gud morning aos, ao is u in jennifer's voice?
@ iomoge I sent u a mail pls check
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 8:41am On Sep 10, 2016
@feddy27, this is really a testimony!!! Glory to God. I have been there and am still there with strong poo cry. Can that drug work for adult? Maybe after delivery? Joining with pile now Na work for me to toilet ohhh.... Na Holy Ghost fire I dey shout in toilet(TMI). Although, presently am on Anusol which my doc recommend for me to insert. I pray it works.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blessedmum(f): 9:13am On Sep 10, 2016
feddy27:


For the 1st time, the do came out watery and soft on its own without cry or shout...lol. I still can't believe it
Dats really nice.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by peggygee: 9:26am On Sep 10, 2016
Blessedmum:

Hope no problem teamie?

By his grace done dearie, tnks for the concern. Was just having serious contractions this morning, it was really painful, I guess it's false labor. Called MIL and she laffed. Mehn this thing ain't easy ooooo. Lol
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 9:29am On Sep 10, 2016
kuhuz:
hi everyone, I have come to register oo, no more peeping.......... pls accept my dues ooo, lacasera and gala...... we are 14weeks and 2days. #team February

Welcome.
Happy bumping. ..

My email is on my signature.... saw ur pm
My NL mailbox is not responding
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blessedmum(f): 9:32am On Sep 10, 2016
peggygee:


By his grace done dearie, tnks for the concern. Was just having serious contractions this morning, it was really painful, I guess it's false labor. Called MIL and she laffed. Mehn this thing ain't easy ooooo. Lol
I experienced one too dis midnight, I was already rejoicing that finally only to wake up this morning and it has disappeared. I guess it was d pineapple and long walk I had yesterday dat caused it. Am patiently waiting for DH to come so I can try kpekusing too.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:26am On Sep 10, 2016
[quote author=nennynj

I don't need stories that touch either. Am seriously considering opting for CS voluntarily. Jst dat research I ve made on it are not sooting at al but I know i and my lo will come out victorious.[/quotes

I believe you are just scared. You may have heard horrible stories of CS (mostly from people who have never gone through it) or how 'easy' it is to have a VD. smiley
Everyone is afraid of going under the knife. But having done it twice, i would do it again voluntarily. I had an emergency CS (it shall not be your portion)
The truth is both VD and CS has its risk. It is only the grace of God that sees us through.

I strongly suggest you remove the fear of CS from your heart and go for it voluntarily. It's not as scary as it seems, believe me.
And the Nigerian healthcare system has greatly improved. I was up and about two days after my CS and myomectomy.
Your doc is a Doctor for a reason. There is a reason why you consult him so pls follow his advice.

Forgive me but you do not know better than him. If you were a good candidate for VD, he wouldn't have suggested CS. (My doc told me I was having CS right from the first day I saw him at 12 weeks and I accepted wholeheartedly because I trusted him and when my condition improved, he said I could have a VD but as God would have it, Preeclampsia cropped its ugly head so I ended up on the table)
Believe it not all, not all docs like to slice patients open for the money and fun of it.
Your baby is a precious baby. Everything is in the hands of God but if you opt for CS, your doc will have some measure of control.

It shall end in praise. kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by osas4g: 10:27am On Sep 10, 2016
orirebaby:


Kikikikiki you don get anoda belle ni my sister this wan you dey hail again cheesy

@orirebaby... anoda bee.....wetin? Who born me?
I dey reply to @ijeoma2728 who asked May/June mamas to show themselves ni o.

I be learner oo... abeg ooo!
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by MamaOO: 10:59am On Sep 10, 2016
I apologize in advance cos My birth story cum life experience is pretty long, so please bear with me.

This year has been a mixture of intense joy and also intense sadness and grieving. I got my masters, got a job before I even graduated and 5 of my family members got visas to visit me. I was happy! I was expecting my first child and my mom was supposed to help me with the baby, so I decided they're not gonna come for my graduation but my naming ceremony. At 32 weeks pregnant, heavy and tired, I interviewed for a job I thought I had no chance of getting, one of the biggest Agric companies in the US...the salary and compensation will make your head spin 360. People told me I won't get an offer cos I was so far along but lo and behold, they offered me the job a week after my interview. I was over the moon. My parents were supposed to be here in 2 weeks as well. But yeah, my joy turned to sorrow, my mom lost her battle with cancer. She died! Two days before she was supposed to get here. I ran mad! I went crazy! I cursed God! And mostly, I turned suicidal. I wanted to kill myself. Why does life have to be so cruel?? This was a woman who sacrificed her all to get me here. Her birthday was 2 weeks ago, and now she's 6 feet below. I was almost 36 weeks pregnant. How I made it to full term, only God knows cos my BP rose drastically and dropped drastically as well. Flipping erratic.

My ultrasound due date passed, and my period due date rolled near. I became more depressed. and I would oftentime cry and beg him to show face. I was tired and angry. I lost my mucus for close to 5 days but still no show. On Sunday, Sept 4, around 8am I started feeling contractions. I thought it was "a joking sturv". Lol. It started mellow, but gradually it grew more intense. Oftentimes I will cry out in pain and agony but I bore the pain cos I didn't wanna go to L & D and get sent home because of false labor. I used my contraction timer app and it kept telling me to go to the hospital and that I was in labor but I refused to go. I took a shower by 9:30pm, drank lots of water and ate some cereal, thinking the pain will go away, but it did not. It only grew more intense that it brought me to my knees, so I told hubby to grab my bag, baby's bag and the car seat and we went to the hospital by 10:30.

I got to L & D, they took me to the triage room to see if they will admit me or send me home. Within an hour I started seeing stars, the pain went through the roof and at some point I got on all fours, crawling on the narrow bed. Loool. I removed the hospital gown and Hubby was just begging me. But after 4 hours I was still 3cm dilated. The nurse said they might send me home if I don't progress. I started crying. God, I could not bear the pain and I knew going home is just gonna be terrible. I asked for pain meds but she said the doctor was in the OR doing a CSection and he's the only one that can give them the order to give me any pain meds. Because I was peeing so much and had to use the bathroom which was outside of the triage room often, I was eventually taken into a labor and delivery suite which had a bathroom E suite. And as God will have it, the doctor came in from surgery few minutes and said the magic words "I'm admitting you"! Joy unspeakable. I was still 3cm, 100% effaced. The doctor tried breaking my water, but he could not. (The thing eventually broke itself cos the nurses removed the towels they put under my bum and it was soaking wet). I asked for epidural immediately, but they gave me pain meds first cos the anesthesiologist that will administer it was in surgery. The pain med was good but I could still feel the pain. Eventually, anesthesiologist came and administered the epi and trust me, that thing is the best thing after sliced bread. Lol. My labor started progressing rapidly after the epidural. Within 2 hours, I was 9cm!!! (I progressed from 3cm - 9cm under 2 hours, Great God)
(I actually wrote this whole part above, while on epidural, waiting to get to 10cm. Lmao)

Okay, so I slept off, hubby slept as well and the next thing I saw was nurses running into the room. Apparently, they were monitoring me and baby from the nurses station outside and his heart rate dropped. The began to move me from side to side, shake baby, buzz him and all that. I started praying and they eventually got him to stabilize his heart rate.

Less than 20 mins after, I hit 10cm, I didn't even know what station baby was at that point. The nurse came in and told me she was gonna let me push in 10 mins. Because I was numb from the epidural I could not feel the contractions, so she would tell me when to push. After like three or four pushes with the nurse, she got the doctor and pushing start o. I pushed for a while but the baby was big (I didn't even know when the doctor cut me, I only knew he did when he started stitching me up cos I saw needle with him. Lmao.) Next thing I see is my baby being pulled out and being weighed. I cried. I cried for my mother. I cried for what could have been. I cried cos her missed her so.


When I have time, I'm gonna make another post about what happened post birth. Long story for another day, hmm. In the meantime, help me thank the Almighty Allah for bringing me this far and having a happy and healthy baby to show, despite all the curveballs life threw at me. Alhamdulilah! Kashamadupe.

On a happy note, my baby was born on Labor Day here, September 5. That was how someone from the hospital came into my room few hours after his birth and said the NBC news station in my areas would like to interview us (Daddy, mommy and baby) cos he was the only baby that was born Labor Day at that hospital. E be like play until news crew came into my room with camera and all for interview. Thank God I had makeup in my hospital bag and I had tried to beat my face small (I still worwor tho grin). That was how my celeb kid was featured on the 5pm, 8pm and 10pm news. I didn't know people watched news like that oo, come and see calls and text shocked my lil man came into the world in grandstyle and he's already making headlines in a good way. grin grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by portable4real: 11:10am On Sep 10, 2016
@mamaOO,, Alhamdulilahi for the successful delivery. may God make her a source of unending joy to the family.

The BS was so touching. I pray to God to grant your mum Aljanah firdaus. You will always have the course to smile and no evil shall befall you again.

E hug to your princess.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by airforcewife(f): 11:12am On Sep 10, 2016
MamaOO MashaAllah, may Allah bless your little one and may Mummy rest in Jannah Amin.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favouredmumsy: 11:21am On Sep 10, 2016
Please mamas in the house, my sister delivered 5days ago she is a ftm and she had episiotomy stitch and the nurse told her not to do sitz bath she is going through serious pains the she cant sit to feed her baby, please how is she going to heal fast, the pains does not even allow her to sleep at night.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enque(f): 11:34am On Sep 10, 2016
Akorkor baby, ngwa come ova hia and justify ur porting o...b4 Cappo go change am for u tongue

Captains don de do first to port tey tey na, so i no go suprise if una 2 port leave us....., Me I really want a december baby jare wink #FestivePikin tins

Favouredmom:


Hello mama, pls are you team December? Kindly provide your EDD and baby gender. Or Akorkor is that you?

Enque pls pass me that skipping rope for Akorkor as she wants to port, if she can do 100 skips without resting in between, then she's free to port tongue


But erm... Iomoge2 eez laik even me Sef wee port o. This December somtin is looking long in my eyes chai grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enque(f): 11:57am On Sep 10, 2016
lmao @ unserious sonographer...
boxing day baby...lol

SURYSuri:
good morning our able captain, I don't know the sex yet as at the last scan at 20weeks baby did not corporate.

for the Edd I have different dates based on scan because I don't have lmp and scan gave me 6, 8, 10, 12 one unserious sonographer even gave me 26 DEC.

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