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Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:03pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
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Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Kingsasian(m): 10:06pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
He is not genuine. That guy should be a player. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by whitebeard(m): 10:08pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
it can't really mean anything much...nigga doesn't really like u like he used to that's all..if I were him I would have done the same thing.. Or is he shy..anyways if he really loves u he would want to hear from u at all times Drop's mic..!! 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
When a gurl opt for words like " chyke and soft", I fight myself convincing myself she isn't a porn star already. FYI pple should learn how to apply the word "graduate". Keep ur hands to urself pls, mine isn't soft. Mata at hand, tell him it bothers you 2 Likes |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
??huh |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by yanabasee(m): 10:24pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Before you jump into anything conclusive.. Get to know if he's working or not... Also get to know if he's the type that calls or not... I'm equally som kinda guy dat barely put calls thro.. Doesn't mean I don't value my friends.... I do the visiting more dan calling!... Oh! And chatting as well..! But somfin tells me he's not for real.... 2 Likes |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Ereholuwa: 10:27pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Are you sure he is not married... investigate well... before taking final decision. No matter how busy he is, he should always make time if he really loves you. Stop calling... 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Prechy08(m): 10:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
My dear lady, am a guy, wont lie to you, that guy didnt travel, he has a girl visiting its a weekend plus public holiday, just pay him a surprise visit and confirm. I used to use that line on my girlfriend then when i had side stuff and don't want her to visit the house. If he really travelled he saw ur missed call, he should have called back or sent a message. 2 Likes |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Ereholuwa:he is nt married and thanks for the advice.. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by aloobright17: 10:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
I am sorry to hit it straight to you that the relationship is already dead before it started. The guy has someone who he is more into than you at least for now,things may change to your favor though.but for now he is not completely ready for you. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Prechy08:lolz,i dnt visit him without his notice,so i see no reason for him 2 lie abt nt been around.. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
aloobright17:i didnt push myself to him if thats wah ur thinking....he stressed himself 2 prove himself 2 me...so y do dt of he is nt into me like u said? |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Flickzvill(m): 10:40pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
Uhm don't tink he is into you o if he truly wants u he will def call u at anytime especially wen its important like traveling if he has landed what his presently doing but well who knows maybe something is wrong I suggest u give him a call settle down nd talk with him its best u discus this with him he has the answers best of luck 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
I see a player who doesn't give up. By the way, why do graduates find it so hard to type words in full? Why shorthands? Smh for op 2 Likes |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by aloobright17: 11:00pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
CindyeMerAld:My dear,I am a man an a good player,and I know how we guys can be selfish with all the seriousness just to get another lady and join to the ones we had already,E.g some men can travel as far as you can imagine,take all the risk and spend money to meet and impress a new lady while the serious girlfriend/wife is still very active,or you never heard of many busted stories of double dating or a lady later finds out that the guy she has been dating for 2 or more years as a single man is already happily married with kids?yet before then the man was very serious with the lady. So our seriousness towards new catches does not necessarily mean we're single or in love. So play safe sis.I never thought you forced him as you tried putting on me. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by McBrooklyn(m): 11:29pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
To me, the dude seems like a player or maybe he is a busy body |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 11:33pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
This op nah mumu I swear. Jst reading all your reply I doubt ur taking any advice. Abeg unah shun this one joor . 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 11:36pm On Sep 11, 2016 |
smithsydny:and you just had 2 be rude .....i pity ur life |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by BethRhema(m): 7:09am On Sep 12, 2016 |
Girl,lemme tell you ,this guy loves you,some individuals are like that,that what we call individual differences,he might not see it as bad not to call you,you are the one that will make him see the reason why he should and how its been affecting you..and you will be surprised he will turn a new leaf.A scenario for you,my girlfriend seldomly calls me,even before she begins to beep me,I knew the amount of saliva I wasted,because thats just her nature but alas SHE LOVES ME,,I later discovered that even while she was in school she does not even call her mum...So its matter of individual differences. Feel free to let him know your mind,you can try texting him. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by barackodam: 5:48pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
He not calling doesn't necessarily matter.....bae calls me more than I do, though I'm ashamed to admit We do more of chatting, doesn't mean I don't love her |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by firstking01(m): 6:03pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Hmmm, when a certain relationship gets to a point where only one person has to be showing, love, attention, time and even the calling, it means the true definition of the word "relate" is no longer there...walks majestically out of thread....walks straight to the viewing center in readiness to watch good football tonight, psg vs arsenal. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by blayde(m): 6:25pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
OP i'm also dt kind of person. My bae was also wrongly adviced. Assumptions are always very dangerous in relationships. Why not put d issue before him first and stop worrying urself. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by chigoizie7(m): 6:47pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Him, not calling u often doesn't really matter. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Richy4(m): 8:27pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
There was a time when there was no cell phones... Then the means of communication was through post... Some times it takes 2 months for the missive to get to it's final destination... It does not mean that does days people love each other less.... Calling u or not might not mean anything... What about a case scenario where a guy might be calling a girl at the sametime massaging another girl on the bed next to him... whispering something he feels the girl will like to hear... when the call ends, he just laugh with the girl he was massaging at how foolish the other girl was. and the other one will be thinking oh!! he was all alone thinking about me.... So it does not matter if he call or not.. just live each day like it was your last and be happy...also take him for his words and action and trust him... until you have a solid reason to do otherwise |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by GiMngo: 10:20pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Not everyone is used to the calling aspect...some chat more than calling. That doesn't mean they aren't caring. Try calling him again. Show him you care, but if doesn't show any concern, then you fly away abeg. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by EternalTruth: 1:24pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
chigoizie7:so you also noticed it? " Him not calling you often" and she is proud to boast that she is a graduate. I wonder the sort of typical half-baked graduates that this zoo country is producing yearly. See her more errors below : CindyeMerAld:madam kindly go back and write your jamb and start afresh or better still go engage on a trade e.g seamstress, decoration or hairdresser etc. Calling yourself a graduate is an insult to the real graduates like us. I rest my case. |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by Nobody: 1:26pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
EternalTruth:my dear u need help...thats all i can say |
Re: Am In Urgent Need Of Advice From The Guys..pls by EternalTruth: 2:58pm On Sep 14, 2016 |
CindyeMerAld: CindyeMerAld:not interested. Sorry. I'm not cheap like you. Thanks. Pls dont quote me again so as not to defile my moniker. Goodbye |
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