Hello Nairalanders,

I still feel broken now but I want to be sure if I'm not just expecting too much. Our marriage will be 3 years in few months and God has blessed us with a beautiful girl. I have a great love for my wife and my daughter and nothing comes before them. Few days ago, we watched a movie wherein a cheating husband moved out of the house to another woman but the wife's faith and fervent prayers brought him back home. I commended the wife's faith but my wife termed it as foolish. My wife said she would never stand the shame of having a husband who was once away with another woman. She said from the moment the husband started having affairs outside the home, the wife should have silently poisoned him to prevent the shame that the man eventually brought to her. She emphatically said she preferred becoming a honourable WIDOW to having a second-hand husband. This shocked me and till then, I've been wondering if she meant it. I'll appreciate a woman's view here too. Help a man who has suddenly become unsure of the kind of wife he has.

Am not married! Over to d married men n women in d house!

O boy ehhh...




Out of d fullness of d heart....

She is just indirectly warning you against such acts meanwhile she might not go that far if it happens but don't do it now go and relax

anyone remember the story of a girl who chopped off her boyfriend's d1ck?

well, i showed my girlfriend(now ex) the picture & she supported her

i dumped her @$$ the next day


though i ain't saying u should divorce ur wife o

but make sure u don't cheat on her

She's indirectly talking to you. It means if you Cheat or Do something similar. You are dead !

you need not be worried if you don't have such intention, stay Faithful to her and live in peace

TashaGirl:
She loves you because she's right apart from the killing stuff o.


For a man to leave his family because of another pussy is the highest level of 'being stupid'. I can't pray for him to come back. When he comes to his senses, I will make sure he won't ever see his kid again . Simple!

Will you kill his child?

yomi007k:



O boy ehhh...




Out of d fullness of d heart....

The mouth speaketh

Adeinfo:
you need not be worried if you don't have such intention, stay Faithful to her and live in peace

my sister the brother is just afraid of himself..........he knows anything can happen in future.

She was just sending a silent msg to you indirectly.

And I can see you got the msg well well.

Not every woman is cut out for the bullish...it of tolerating a cheating partner.

CoolFlexer:


Will you kill his child?

how will I kill my child . Don't Lemme ask if you are high

We women dnt mean what we say? She loves you and can neva kill you if u cheat, buh dat doen't mean u shouldn't stay faithful to her

Cholls:
my sister the brother is just afraid of himself..........he knows anything can happen in future.

am not a lady ooo
true talk

She's indirectly telling you that:
1. She won't cheat on you
2. She won't tolerate infidelity
3. She will be faithful and loyal to you alone.
4. She won't hesitate to employ measure(s) to punish and deal with you.
5. She will remain committed to the marriage vow.
6. She won't deny you her self/body.
7. She's capable of sending you where you won't come back from.
Finally,
8. She's saying, She will always Cherish you, Love you ALONE and satisfied your sexual needs.

The optimistic values in her statement(s) are more than the Pessimistic values.
Anyway, tix ma opinion, i might be wrong as Every one's Headache is Unique to that person alone.

And i presume that movie is "war room"...tony tho.

U Bera Dnt Cheat Oo... If Nt She Will Send U To China

It's a two way thing... She is either truly unforgiving or she's just bluffing. But this does not really question her love for you.

The fact remains tho: Some women will never take a man that cheats back.

jonaifame22:
We women dnt mean what we say? She loves you and can neva kill you if u cheat, buh dat doen't mean u shouldn't stay faithful to her

You can only speak on your own behalf, you can't speak on behalf of the womenfolks. Every one with her Unique way(s) of dealing with Issue(s).
"One Woman's Meal, is another Woman's Poison".

mhizchristabel:
U Bera Dnt Cheat Oo... If Nt She Will Send U To China

To go and learn Kung Fu

the question is are u cheating or tinking of cheating if u are not cheating sir u are gud to go bt if u are cheat u are a gooner o.

OhMyG0d:
To go and learn Kung Fu

U Garet Menh...

jonaifame22:
We women dnt mean what we say? She loves you and can neva kill you if u cheat, buh dat doen't mean u shouldn't stay faithful to her

This man you will not go back to your sex, keep forming woman



amu

Guy dont worry yourself joor! Her response is because she knows you love her endlessly.When the fear of losing you arises her views will change about coming to collect what belongs to her.You dont know what you have until you lose it.She will come crawling

This is a scare tactic, bro. A woman that has such intention wont disclose it(at least not to you). BE FAITHFUL

You plan to cheat abi?

TashaGirl:
how will I kill my child . Don't Lemme ask if you are high

But some women can go that far