Maxvasia:
Very sad indeed. And you are supposed to be wife to an unfortunate man bah? Well no hard feelings but u just showed urself. Its obvious u will end up like her or even worse. Its not far fetched. Your mouth will spoil whatever marriage u enter till u learn to know ur mate. No problem, talk away, its ur time. Reality waits for you in front.

nma24:
Infected all d kids with aids? How come? Hope its not airborne

AfroKnight:

sometimes Toks can give weird advice sha

sisisioge:


You too? Nma, na waterborne.

Vikky014:
hahahaha. i know he will avoid dis thread...


op please work on your self esteem..he is taking you for granted

nma24:
As for op, I'm sure you knew ur husband to b a man whor.e before marrying him so I don't get why u are complaining. He cannot change unless he experiences a life changing encounter with God.....

indeed.

Teespice:


he didn't ooo

matter of fact he quoted me to say I gave her the best advice ever.

the double standards is alarming. same folks saying pray, look good and all will be the ones to scream divorce her if the table are turned.

nobody is perfect though.

CaraJewel:
that quote is old news..i said tell me wat you would do to ur wife..yes men and women aint equal..jxt like not all men are equal..sooo? I want to know..tel mi wat u would do

tearoses:
Serial cheating and always getting caught is a different game altogether.

It shows that he does not value the relationship or does not fully understands what marriage means. It also shows that he cant help himself (deliberately or not) and needs help and fast too before he self destructs.

Yes we all get tempted and are hit on and in many many cases there are opportunities to cheat, but we think of our partners, the love and respect that we have for them, think of our vows, think of how our actions are going to affect our families and the fear of God and so we think straight.
Women throwing themselves at him is no excuse. Women chase men everyday and men chase women everyday.

What is happening now is that the Same issue = same response = same result
He knows you wont do anything, hence the reason why he is not even hiding these affairs such that you don't find out
He also knows that when he apologises you forgive and the cycle continues again.

Having affairs is a dangerous pastime and he is exposing himself and you to all sorts of dangers and I am not even only referring to STD's here.
I cant give you specific advise, as It also depends on if he genuinely wants to stop.
He certainly needs counselling and he needs serious prayers too

nma24:
As for op, I'm sure you knew ur husband to b a man LovePeddler before marrying him so I don't get why u are complaining. He cannot change unless he experiences a life changing encounter with God.....

Toks2008:


You nailed it. Most Ladies have the wonderful heart of forgiveness but guys have a terribly hard mind which made Jesus allow them to divorce their wives on same adultery that a lady is expected to keep forgiving him for.

nma24:
I seriously can't imagine how he managed to infect all of them and how they all sat there waiting for Aids to overtake them o or the tragic event occurred before the discovery of retroviral drugs

onatisi:

Exactly. Nigerians don't like taking responsibility for their actions ,always looking for someone to shift the blame on or take the responsibility for them. The day we decide to take our decisions and Stand by them without waiting for anyone and be ready to take blames if it fails is the day we start becoming a better person.

repogirl:
yes, there are many unfortunates such as yourself running around the place but my husband is a man with a good head.

Give your useless advice to your daughters so that they might die in silence and unhappiness in their marital homes just to keep up the façade that all is well. In the end it will blow up in your own face that all wasn't well afterall.

Mate ko Móron ni!

napa:


U are pathetic

napa:


Thanks. I am indeed getting really tired. I just feel if I were some wild girls he won't try what he's been doing. Love is getting a bit cold. I hope I will be able to put up with this longer

LyfeJennings:

Does he perform his responsibilities? I have to be very blunt with U U see, U very very lucky he comes home and acts like a man. Men are polygamous in nature and the earlier you take it. The better for you Just keep being a good wife and be prayerful God will change him for U

This must be my grandpa Toks2008 best friend You both reason the same way.

God will indeed change him #clowns

mumsyteepeem:
I presume the poster is a Female,so I would begin by saying-Chill and relax....I've been in a similar situation and expressed more fears than you are expressing right now.the only thing I did,that restored My Marriage and Peace was "Letting Go and Letting GOD"....it's such a simple phrase but also a very Challenging and daunting task that requires Alot of PATIENCE!!!be ready to be called names by your loved ones and even insults but be resolute in your belief that "A Gold can Never be refined until it passes through Fire"...,while,you are praying,plead with Him to please use Condom when He's getting intimate with the other ladies,for your own safety and for other issues like unwanted pregnancies.God will give you Grace to weather this Storm and emerge Victorious In JESUS name,Amen

Grandpa,your advice is really working
cc toks2008


Btw,madam,hope you went for HIV test,with your Children o,HIV no dey show for face or quick show o

VikingsOO7:
indeed. [/b]

Lexusgs:

misspicy keeps adding spice since 2015.............

Hi

You know me ri

Lexusgs:


He kept sleeping with his wife raw, after all his raw adventures.
Wife got the infection and all her pregnancies were all infected, from the raw planting of the promiscuous husband.................

vicadex07:


my wife can never. I know the kind of person I married.

CaraJewel:
then she doesnt know who she married..but den u stil didnt answer me..i asked wat u would do...i didnt xay she did..datz y if is dere..xo oga wat wil u do

vicadex07:


lol... she knows exactly who she married and right from the get go of our relationship I elaborately told her what I told the Op of this thread.

So in essence, we both have a good understanding of the dynamics of our relationship. My position as the man of the house is not been contended and as such, she won't dare try a sort of revenge or whatever... the way you are insinuating it...