Toks2008:


When you have time you can check.

The mystery of marriage is that it can only work between two forgivers

Vikky014:
yes ooo...op can Bleep elsewhr too then..

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

Vikky014:
yes ooo...op can Bleep elsewhr too then..

sisisioge:


Queen... u are shockingly too bright for your own good! Cheating is normal? For the two of them or for the guy alone? Oya let us pray...

I've learnt to always ignore her comments anywhere I see them.

ItsQuinn:
See discrimination

Dyt:
I can't believe what I am reading on this threwad
This is most ridiculous


For five years?
Different women?
Your husband is a serial killer ma'am

And you are being adviced to pray, check yourself and ask questions?


Oh God have mercy

A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT
THAT MAN WONT FECKING CHANGE
CHOOSE TO DEAL WITH DISEASES, EMOTIONAL TORTURE, MENTAL INSTABILITY, AND WHAT NOTS OR THE HECK LEAVE


Hypocrites will flood me with mentions now
Awon oloriburuku
As if they can take it

Joavid:


if the tables were turned now and it's the man complaining, you won't say Yah is punishing him o
you won't say the man is has pot belly and needs to hit the gym.

onatisi:

Protect herself from her husband
How practicable is that? Many of u come up with unrealistic suggestions that you know isn't possible . If she protects herself how will she get pregnant

iRepNaija1:


If the husband is a cheat and will always be a cheat, why are you asking the wife to check herself?

Dyt:


Deep sigh

Read again
This time
Slowly

LyfeJennings:


Does he perform his responsibilities?
I have to be very blunt with U
U see, U very very lucky he comes home and acts like a man.
Men are polygamous in nature and the earlier you take it. The better for you
Just keep being a good wife and be prayerful
God will change him for U

Toks2008:


When you have time you can check.

The mystery of marriage is that it can only work between two forgivers

tascotyee:





I think you need to put him on his toes. Begin to socialise, go out and meet people. Flirt with the opposite sex, and let him see it. Don't cheat on him but make him feel jealous. You will be surprised. It works like magic. He will change his ways

Perfectionist11:


You don't mean it!!!
Which kain suggestion b dz..so that's what you'd do if put in her shoes?

iRepNaija1:


I read it the first time. I noticed you didn't answer the question. Have a seat.

Toks2008:

You are on your own.

montezz:

Eleyi gidigan o.
Dyt coman see o. Ewo ironu bii ti aayan.

ItsQuinn:
Artificial insemination

Dyt:


Then I pity you

Lexusgs:



Straying seems to be a default position, but the fear of my wife catching me, keeps me grounded.
He simply has no respect for her and his family. Because he knows, all I owe lovely wife is a simple apology.
She has simply handed him a free roaming license, and it seems her triangular activities are blocking realization (possibly the church triangulation) (keep praying till he infects her with a massive infection) (then possibly all her thinking would be reset)........
I cannot shout o........

Dyt:


Then I pity you

montezz:

Eleyi gidigan o.
Dyt coman see o. Ewo ironu bii ti aayan.

ItsQuinn:
What of if she doesn't love him anymore, must the marriage continue?

repogirl:
shut up jare! Do you know who she is? Do you have her name, contact details and picture from anything she wrote up there. If you do, pls go and report to her husband who I am sure you are in support of.

Hypocrite, if you have nothing to say, pls keep shut. This is a faceless and nameless place, anybody can talk about their problems.

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

Dyt:


Ode MA niyen tie