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Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 8:40am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Thats why there's something called condom ....she can get pregnant by artificial insermination if she finds out he's unclean in the nearest future or she could just divorce him if she can't take a hiv positive person as her husband. Depends on how much she loves him though anonimi: |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 8:49am On Oct 06, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: My dear, I used the word- risk, not so You assume that he uses condoms ALL the time and properly with no LEAKAGE? You are not taking into consideration some scheming oloshos who may want to hook him with pregnancy? 5 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 8:52am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Then she should stop having sex with her husband until he's clean anonimi: |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by 5minsmadness: 8:56am On Oct 06, 2016 |
sisisioge: That's a tragedy. Op should protect herself first, educate him on the real threat of HIV, let him go for test and use a condom for the next six months after which he repeats the tests for confirmation. 3 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 8:57am On Oct 06, 2016 |
That man ain't gonna change. The op just happens to be one of his women trophies. It is either the op lives with it or get out of it. Definitely when she was dating him,he was dating others as well and the op knew but felt he would change. She needs kids so the issue of using condom with the husband doesn't arise ,which means she has to continue having unprotected sex with a man that has multiple sexual partners and who most likely is having unprotected sex with them. The questions now is ,is that man worth dying for? Is that man worth getting hiv for?,because eventually the woman will be infected that is even if she isn't already. By staying with the man she is practically commiting and courting suicide,because once the man infects her,he will leave her then she would be regretting for not taking a stand. The problem with most human is that they are always afraid of taking a stand and are looking for someone to shift the responsibility and blame on.but in this life we have NOONE TO BLAME FOR ANYTHING BUT OURSELVES FOR WHATEVER HAPPENS TO US. So it is up to the woman,stay and continue risking ur life,health,joy and peace of mind because of ur husband or leave and have good health,peace of mind and secured future . 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by sisisioge: 8:59am On Oct 06, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Well done! |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 9:00am On Oct 06, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Protect herself from her husband How practicable is that? Many of u come up with unrealistic suggestions that you know isn't possible . If she protects herself how will she get pregnant 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by 5minsmadness: 9:08am On Oct 06, 2016 |
sunvick: Better a nagging wife than a dead one. You would be surprised napa's husband sees her as the quiet type. She herself described her lifestyle as triangular. It is possible communication (real heartfelt communication) is an issue, maybe she hardly complains or raises hell when she catches him cheating. More @napa pls note that his behavior is his fault alone. No one is balming you for anything. We are simpky trying to come up with a solution that will be best for everyone, you and him included. 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 9:10am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Napa Stay The intelligent and most sensible ones have said it Stay Pray Fast Wear red lingerie Do pole dancing Wear costume These are the things he's seeing outside Do you give bj? Do you swallow? Give your anuus Let him explore Be a good wife Cook Clean What else haven't I added ooo Will think and then add more 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by 5minsmadness: 9:21am On Oct 06, 2016 |
napa: Why havent u had any kids? Have u seen doctors? Whats the diagnosis? Woukd showing him this thread help? @bolded, u sound like a quiet type of person. Maybe you should come out of your shell more. (Am sorry to say :maybe he's bored?) Ask him to take you out to dinner, or a movie or something. Find something both of you enjoy doing, whatever, bottom line is, let him spend more time with you. Another thing you can do is to make yourself less predictable. Men like a challenge. Come home late once in a while, let him be the one to ask where you have been. He may feel that he has gotten you in his pocket thats why he does whatever he likes and then apologises quickly. Shake him up a bit. 4 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 9:24am On Oct 06, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Knowing for certain that he is clean will take some 3-6 months for HIV. Thereafter, there is no guarantee that he will REMAIN clean. Is that not too much wahala with DEATH risks for a childless marriage of just five years? www.nairaland.com/attachments/4305992_images65_jpeg32161d215ae988d757493e97d34e693a www.nairaland.com/attachments/4305993_fb0f73ec98cb702044633089c31aca05_jpeg5616ca72a61ca319daa8b7b74d780c5b 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 9:28am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Dyt:When she gets infected with hiv will u pray and fast for her then? The op life is worth more than all these porn things u wrote. Infact wettin concern me sef. Make I go back to my politics and bitcon thread 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 9:31am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: Will I know? BTW how did you read the post? Turn your device and read again 5 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by RiloKiley: 9:31am On Oct 06, 2016 |
sisisioge: How did he infect all the kids? He had sex with them or they were transfused with his HIV blood? I'm sorry, but this your story sounds made up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 9:33am On Oct 06, 2016 |
sisisioge: Cc: ItsQuinn 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 9:37am On Oct 06, 2016 |
RiloKiley: Maybe the kids were conceived after he had contracted HIV but not yet developed into full blown AIDS, which may take up to 10 years. 4 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 9:37am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: Go where? After you have asked her to stay? You must stay here with her ooo Is that porn? I havent even asked if they watch it together 2 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by sisisioge: 9:37am On Oct 06, 2016 |
RiloKiley: Sweetheart, but you are new age o! Go and be sharing blades, needles and other sharp objects with an aids patient to test the accuracy of my story. It is well. 3 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 9:38am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: She was being SARCASTIC, I guess. 5 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 9:45am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Dyt: 1 Like
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Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 9:47am On Oct 06, 2016 |
anonimi:yea ,I later realised. But honestly I don't know why ppl like to suffer themselves all in the bid to look good to people or make others happy. If something doesn't make u happy just drop it and move on ,life is short 6 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 9:48am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Dyt: |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by RiloKiley: 9:49am On Oct 06, 2016 |
sisisioge: Dearie, you are new age too. Which blades or needles or other sharp objects would he share with his kids? Once again, apologies but Your story is made up. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 9:51am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: Do you know what it's like to be married? Mrs somebody? Wear the shining ring? I bet you dont Why do these Mrs whom are battered stay? See you You better be glad you are no woman As I dey here so I am so craving to be someone's Mrs Maybe pickabeau1 will ask for my hand sha Deep sigh 4 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Nobody: 9:53am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi:We live in a society where getting a divorce comes with some sort of stigma. We will rather pray fast and lament, than using our God giving brain in making simple decisions. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 9:59am On Oct 06, 2016 |
Dyt:But seriously speaking,you know I am right. I may have a harsh way of putting things but I am right. That man wont change. The dangers and cons far outweighs the pros. Even the bible says u can divorce based on adultery. If she has kids I wont even advice to leave because of the children. The problem with ppl is that they overlook many things when dating thinking they can correct or adjust them after marriage. The woman was one of the man several girlfriends before she married him and she knows but the mistake she made was thinking he will change after getting married to her. Alternatively ,maybe she should start giving the man condoms and packing it into his bags when he is going out and make the man realize how hurt and painful it is for her to be doing that but that she just has to accept her fate and destiny because she loves him. Who knows maybe this will change him. 1 Like
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Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by RiloKiley: 10:00am On Oct 06, 2016 |
anonimi: The first kid, yes. But the second? and maybe third? She didnt say how many kids they had buy since she already made it plural my guess is she's going to stick to two kids to make it more believable. For someone to transmit the HIV virus his viral load has to be above a certain level. And even midwives nowadays (or in this new age as sisioge puts it) do HIV test for the mother before carrying out deliveries. They do it even more to protect themselves than to protect the pregnant woman . A HIV positive baby does not have the adequate immunity to protect itself for ten years. Most HIV positive baby begin to manifest soon after birth and do not thrive. So the mistake would have been made for the first baby but the second? Or third? And no one noticed? Hard to believe. Which leaves us with the option ALL the kids would have been infected while grown up. My question is how? Clippers? How old r the kids? Even clippers are sterilized. Anyway. Sounds hard to believe. |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 10:01am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: Far too many people fall easily for peer pressure even without realising it. [img]https://www.nairaland.com/avatars/2yfqnxluua78zpls0851tcljszlc6y6q1370582[/img] 3 Likes |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by Dyt(f): 10:04am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: Yimu Change ko Well Who knows By prayer and fasting sha |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by anonimi: 10:07am On Oct 06, 2016 |
onatisi: You sef! The two highlighted portions above are at variance with each other. You may wish to review them. Cheers. [img]https://www.nairaland.com/avatars/scvklzudsa7i5wqmbeqmxootwfg9j5b01624501[/img] Thanks, Quintee 1 Like |
Re: My Serial Cheating Husband Keeps Begging For Forgiveness by onatisi(m): 10:07am On Oct 06, 2016 |
VikingsOO7:Religion has caused lots of problem in the Nigerian society. 99% of problems ppl take to be spiritual are just problems due to lack of wisdom and knowledge. If ppl will be honest with themselves and search themselves very well they will see that the solutions to their problems is right in front of them. I wont be surprised if someone comes along and says that the man needs deliverance from evil spirit,just watch 4 Likes |
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