Hey guys, this story is what happened today in the morning between 10am-11am.

My colleague and friend, 4 Bars(Thema) Cadet: NDA, has been dating this particular lady for 4 years now, and nurses the ambition of tying the nut with her in 2 years time. This guy(guy) is not the talking type: always calm, gentle and reserved. He has no other lady in his life, aside this girl in question.

The few occasions a year that students do go on breaks(usually highest of two weeks), he stays compound-bound(most times indoors) in his home, and few occasions that he decides to follow us out; he does that in company of ''this clown of a girl.'' He gifts her money and other material stuffs; loves and shows her respect always.

At school, this my guy always burns credit calling “this wh*re of a girl,” and sends her recharge card and money through Mobile Banking App. Yet the bloody idiot chose to be a slut.

Last week, I persuaded my guy to test his girl friend's love for him - because he plans to host her birthday on 26th Dec.2016 and buy her jewelry set worth N70k - by devising a way to try her through anything anonymous in approach. We resolved to bye an Etisalat Sim Card and get it registered.

To cut a long story short, although still long story, this morning(10am, 23rd Oct.), my guy brought the new Etisalat Simcard, inserted it into his second phone(Nokia) and instructed me on how to go about on trick-toasting his girlfriend. On my own part, as sharp guy, I told him to consider it done.

The girl is in her second year at University of Nigeria Nsukka Enugu campus. I changed my voice's tone, lest she recognizes me. I dialed her number, she picked after a few while. I exchanged pleasantries with her: as though we have know ourselves for years - what nonsense(as I imagined inwardly). Nevertheless,I told her got the number through a friend in a club. “Really,” she queried. I answered: “yeah.”I professed my love for her, while my guy watched on and listened patiently to grab possible outcome of our conversation.

At a time, still in CONVO with her, I quizzed her if she could come and see me at one of the hotels in the city of Enugu. She declined; as I pressed on her further. She seemed infuriated and hung-up the call on me. I tried three consecutively times but no picking. I told my guy that it is not over yet.

I resorted to crafting of text messages to her. I sent the first one that reads:


I was d guy someone connected
u wiff d other friday night in d club.
Can't u recall dat we sp*nt d nite
2geda? Anyway, pls cum & see
nw. I'm lodged in a hotel here in
Enugu. I'll up the pay per
Each round @ N7/round.

I was wanting to continue before the phone's battery sucked.

My guy quickly removed the sim and inserted it into his main phone. As we were pondering for 15mins why she should even engage a supposed stranger on phone conversation for a long time before a the 'hung-up,' a text message trickled in; we quickly opened and perused through it, and it reads:


Are you stupid? Do you know who you are sending this text to? U might be out of ur senses!

At the event of the text, my guy was hopeful a bit; but, I pressed further. I asked him to relax. Then I sent her another text that reads:

Are u denying me now? Ok, let's make it dis way; just come, I'll make it N10k/round. Baby, pls am waiting. Or wait, are you not in the call girl stuff again?


She didn't reply instantly; but later, about 30mins, she replied this sms that reads:

Which hotel u dey? I mean d name ..at where let me come!



Upon sighting the last message txt, my guy, Cadet James, started crying.


Guys, do you know that even after I didn't reply her again, as I was consoling my friend, she called back asking If had seen her text. When I relied “yeah,” she said: “then wetin you dey talk nah...which of the hotels nah?”

Discovering what we wanted, I hung-up the call an switched the phone so that I can get the sim out.

This thing that happened has shattered my guy totally. He is currently grieving over it and can't believe what is happening. He is now a shawdow of himself.

Girls could be stupid, that is why I don't give a Bleep about them: don't really have true love for any of them; use and push them aside. I warned my friend James but he wouldn't listen. Now it has dawn on him that he has been dating a total LovePeddler(slut).
What a pity.

The sreenshots(screengrab shots) below are part of my conversation with the LovePeddler.

This is an eye opener to the naïve guys on Nairaland. Pls wake up! You might be dating a slut. Find time and dig and see. A word is enough fot the wise.

You see why i say that some girls are really confused.

why is the guy crying, she used what she has in between ha legs (puccey) to get what she wants (money).?

ErectedDick:
why is the guy crying, she used what she has in between ha legs (puccey) to get what she wants (money).?

Is that right? Too bad.

@Op congratulations for helping your friend.

You had so much praise for your friend from the beginning of your write up and the opposite for his girl friend, which I assume you never liked her.
You wanted to prove a point and struck a convo with her using a different sim card which she declined.
You were not satisfied but because of your conclusion about your suspicions and proving your point to show you are a better person, you pushed further, hmmm.....

I cant tell much about the character of this lady but something isn't right here. Did you catch her in the act or are these stories you heard about her?

Have you considered she might have discussed this convo with a friend who had opted to join and play along to ask where you will meet in order to play a fast one on you also?

I feel sorry for your friend cause it is not easy getting over a broken heart. I hope he gets over it with a clear head and right mind set.

Sometimes we write what we don't mean and keep silent at the things we really need to say.

I just don't like when someone puts me on a stvpid test, and I won't do such to a girl I love..

Good for your friend for putting his gf on a test.

He should keep crying...now he knows she didn't love him.

Cutehector:
I just don't like when someone puts me on a stvpid test, and I won't do such to a girl I love..

Dis is not stupid text brother, it's fidelity test.

As for the op n His friend they should hav played the game the to end, their conclusion was a bit early.

Topestbilly:


Dis is not stupid text brother, it's fidelity test.

As for the op n His friend they should hav played the game the to end, their conclusion was a bit early.

I know what it is buh like seriously I just don't like it.

Children.

So you helped break your friends heart. That's All the "evidence" huh? You'll played yourself because she could've been joking.

I would've replied make it 20k and I'll let you cum in my mouth. The point is these are just words on a screen. If you wanted to test her you should've gone all the way and seen if she would sleep with another man for cash.

This text message proves nothing. As someone said: it could've been someone else replying you. Your friend is too childish to be in a relationship so let him cry her a river.

Cutehector:
I know what it is buh like seriously I just don't like it.

Bros we need to like it ooo, check my quote on shaiba's comment. I even know dat gal, if gal truly loves you she should be able to pass any infidelity test.

Mtcheeew.

She turned you down the first time, you weren't satisfied, you still pushed further.. Makes it look like you had something against her, or you were simply jealous of their relationship?
You should have probed further and not just conclude like that.. And I blame your stupid friend for doing such, sometimes we use our hands to spoil things for ourselves.

And the girl, that was someone she barely knew, she wouldn't have accepted the offer..

'Wetin you no know, no go know you'

You friend is a very stupi.d/foo.lish person. No one should doubt it that he doesnt even love her right from the beginning, because if he really do love her, such stupid and unintelligent test wont make him think its over. Hes very dumb and i guess its because you are his friend, dumb guys should be friend with intelligent guy abeg. I hate dumb guys...

Topestbilly:


Bros we need to like it ooo, check my quote on shaiba's comment. I even know dat gal, if gal truly loves you she should be able to pass any infidelity test.

still doesn't change the fact dat I don't like it. I don't need to test someone to determine whether she truly loves me or not.. I have other silent ways I do that

Some guys these days ehn


Why not play the game to an end first before making hasty conclusions. The lady might just be playing along

I don't buy to this childish prank jarey ... The course of events changed too swiftly... From the astute and resolute act-up to the sheepish and clownish call girl... If u wan play game, play a real one and not some ridiculous video game from the19th century! I mean, Setup a stunnaman from Enugu who is capable from sweet charms to heavy pockets, sweep her off her feet and get to bang the cherry out of her punnay so that you can learn it's plain stupidity putting a girl's love to test;She'll fail miserably if u try hard enough!

Cutehector:
still doesn't change the fact dat I don't like it. I don't need to test someone to determine whether she truly loves me or not.. I have other silent ways I do that

Oya teach me dat silent ways na.

summary please

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*Be careful what you look for because you'll ALWAYS find it*


This here is a perfect example.

shaiba:
@Op congratulations for helping your friend.

You had so much praise for your friend from the beginning of your write up and the opposite for his girl friend, which I assume you never liked her.
You wanted to prove a point and struck a convo with her using a different sim card which she declined.
You were not satisfied but because of your conclusion about your suspicions and proving your point to show you are a better person, you pushed further, hmmm.....

I cant tell much about the character of this lady but something isn't right here. Did you catch her in the act or are these stories you heard about her?

Have you considered she might have discussed this convo with a friend who had opted to join and play along to ask where you will meet in order to play a fast one on you also?

I feel sorry for your friend cause it is not easy getting over a broken heart. I hope he gets over it with a clear head and right mind set.

Sometimes we write what we don't mean and keep silent at the things we really need to say.

What are you insinuating? As a guy, I have deep sense of reasoning. Each time this lady is around us, I used to have the feelings of her promiscuity - but my friend couldn't spot it out. Moreover, he spends too much on her.

A girl that is to enjoy such fruitfulness from her man must be 100% fidel to her man, not the type that pretends to be fidel whereas she is not.

We never knew that ones we are off to Kaduna; the idiot sheds off her superficial innocent character.

Just note, I'm my brother's keeper; you shouldn't have come here to write in her favor: well, you ladies are the same. That is why I don't give a Bleep about ladies. I use and dump them. #nonsense.

Topestbilly:


@ shaiba is right about dis


"Have you considered she might have discussed this convo with a friend who had opted to join and play along to ask where you will meet in order to play a fast one on you also?"

But some gals are nothing but a true slut ..

I hav a friend who was in a FWB relationship with a lady, the lady later get married to another guy which they have a child.

To my greatest surprise this friend of mine called me last week n told me how this married friend of his came to pay him a visit n they had s€x . Just imagine!

And her husband will think he has a wife.

Thank you dear, that is what we are striving to avoid.

Lemme jst a space incase it hits frontpage.

Benita27:
Good for your friend for putting his gf on a test.

He should keep crying...now he knows she didn't love him.

He will make a good decision. A better girl is coming his way. You want him to fall victim to potential sluttty wife. What will happen when he leaves home for months of official assignment? Then the idiot can go unchecked in adulterous acts, and probably impose another guys pregnancy on my guy. Have you forgot, he is an officer cadet(a potential lieutenant)? Lesser time from now, there would be no time for needless activities apart from getting married and facing squarely the military career.

Topestbilly:


Dis is not stupid text brother, it's fidelity test.

As for the op n His friend they should hav played the game the to end, their conclusion was a bit early.

bro.thank you for understanding. Reason was that in reality, we were not in Enugu; That moment. We are in Kaduna. If we were in Enugu, let say for a break, I would have been perfect to nail her completely: because, I'm sure she gonna come to any location we tell her considering how desperate she sounded on phone. Anyway, we just found out what we wanted, and I thank God that my guy is getting over the disappointment little by little this moment.

nubian999:
Children.

So you helped break your friends heart. That's All the "evidence" huh? You'll played yourself because she could've been joking.

I would've replied make it 20k and I'll let you cum in my mouth. The point is these are just words on a screen. If you wanted to test her you should've gone all the way and seen if she would sleep with another man for cash.

This text message proves nothing. As someone said: it could've been someone else replying you. Your friend is too childish to be in a relationship so let him cry her a river.

So, we have to leave Kaduna to Enugu to be quite sure that she wouldn't do it...right? I don't blame you; maybe you are in the act as well. The bloody idiotic lady called us severally concerning location of the hotel so she could come meet up. Yet you are here defending the buffon.

Well, if we were on break, it could have been the perfect time to even catch her and torture her mercilessly for been wicked, but she should thank her stars that we tested her and still discovered what we wanted from distant Kaduna.

To tell you that our game plan worked, my friend asked her never to dial his number again after revealing to her that he was the brain behind the whole stuff, ever since then, she has been crying and pleading over the phone for forgiveness. Just imagine.

lekropasky:
You friend is a very stupi.d/foo.lish person. No one should doubt it that he doesnt even love her right from the beginning, because if he really do love her, such stupid and unintelligent test wont make him think its over. Hes very dumb and i guess its because you are his friend, dumb guys should be friend with intelligent guy abeg. I hate dumb guys...

You are a dunce! How dare you CLOWN refer to us as dumb? So because of love, things as infidelity, promiscuity, etc., should be overlooked? You are an idiot! You are the dumb one in a ramification here. So you expect a military personnel to fall victim of potential adulterous wife? So that when he embacks on long period-stretching official duty, usually 6months; the stupid wife would go on spree committing adultery? You are a bloody fool.

I sensed jealousy here. you were jealous of your friend being in a healthy relationship.



your type seen can kill.

the girl might just want to see the mumu u are in person

Blah blah blah

#hater go get your own woman. She didn't do anything apart from answer a phone to a demented fool like you. There's nothing she could say now that won't sound like she's lying because you set her up. You sir are ugly inside and out. I hope your wife sucks dicck for #1! Amen.

Davindal:
So, we have to leave Kaduna to Enugu to be quite sure that she wouldn't do it...right? I don't blame you; maybe you are in the act as well. The bloody idiotic lady called us severally concerning location of the hotel so she could come meet up. Yet you are here defending the buffon.

Well, if we were on break, it could have been the perfect time to even catch her and torture her mercilessly for been wicked, but she should thank her stars that we tested her and still discovered what we wanted from distant Kaduna.

To tell you that our game plan worked, my friend asked her never to dial his number again after revealing to her that he was the brain behind the whole stuff, ever since then, she has been crying and pleading over the phone for forgiveness. Just imagine.

Davindal:
What are you insinuating? As a guy, I have deep sense of reasoning. Each time this lady is around us, I used to have the feelings of her promiscuity - but my friend couldn't spot it out. Moreover, he spends too much on her.

A girl that is to enjoy such fruitfulness from her man must be 100% fidel to her man, not the type that pretends to be fidel whereas she is not.

We never knew that ones we are off to Kaduna; the idiot sheds off her superficial innocent character.

Just note, I'm my brother's keeper; you shouldn't have come here to write in her favor: well, you ladies are the same. That is why I don't give a Bleep about ladies. I use and dump them. #nonsense.

Young man, again I congratulate you for saving your friend.
I did not come to write in favor of the lady or your actions. Just my opinion based on your write up.

I'm glad you don't care about ladies, and your experience with us, ladies has given you this confidence to use and dump as you say.

Please don't have children or get married, do your best to take care of your mother and sisters.

Finally help your friend to get well. What he is passing through right now isn't what money can cure.

Just as all men are not alike same goes for ladies.

I'll appreciate it if you watch your language when responding to my write up I'm sure your parents thought you better.