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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by biggal: 5:46pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Tell him d dangers of masturbation and browse for life testimonies from Nland of how ppl were delivered from it. Give it to him let him read let him be strong in church |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by evy1(m): 5:47pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Irishrena1:He is on another level 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Kingsley1000(m): 5:47pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
fpeter:op....I this can console u |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by HARDDON: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether: ignoring however raw this came, considering the source, i applaud u. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Irishrena1(f): 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
evy1:What have you been smoking? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Arabs999: 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether: ...OP, this is best advice I have ever heard since 5000BC..In fact, u are a Bedmatic Equation Solver, and may God bless u and ur Kongoh for that singular idea.. ... ... |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by BarrElChapo(m): 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
This is really sad.. Your husband needs to be checked into a rehab.. Wanking while u have a wife on the same bed is totally absurd.. For those saying its normal y'all need to have ur brains checked.. For all we know speaking from a guy angle, those that do it, do it cos of the lack or scarcity of the opposite sex, so if a man has the kitchen. the bedroom and the other room and yet still engages in stuffs like this then there's a big problem. I hope the Sex life of the Op isn't suffering.. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Sultty(m): 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
;DTell ur man to CUNTinue with it. But seriously u have to bring back d sexy mebbe u have stopped looking hot 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by papauju(m): 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
My advice to you is this, if truely he is your husband and you don't have kids already and he has no job,then try your best to know the kind of pictures he look @ to mastubate, work your self to that kind of girl,dress sexy and play with him like you pass him and touch his landlord (D'ck)tell him it belongs to you, gradually he will change not over nite 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 5:52pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:Please do not pay attention to those morons that are trying to blame you for your husband's behaviour. Masturbation is an addictive behaviour like drug or alcohol use. Addicts cannot help themselves. Your husband is addicted and has probably been before he even married you so you are not at fault in any way. The first step towards the cessation of this behaviour is for him to realise that he has a problem and also be GENUINELY WILLING to stop. Willpower is usually enough, but if it isn't in his case, then there is little you can do but to take fpeter's advice on the previous page. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by MinorityTribe1: 5:52pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Do you prefer he have an external affair or visit Ashawo instead of Masturbàting? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by MagnaB: 5:53pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:Please read online on how to break apart from masturbation as i know from experience masturbation is a monster that should be dealth with. Also, the key thing here is prayer. Pray for him that he genuinely repents of this evil and also speak to him tenderly to find out if he believes the action is wrong as admitting is a first step that shows change, then advice him to as well pray about it. Also i will implore u both to read the scriptures more often, from there is wisdom and all you need to live an upright life. I believe he can change. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by evy1(m): 5:54pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Irishrena1: |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by honimun007(m): 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
its an addiction that he needs to break free from.the problem may not really be from you but from him. to break free is not really easy but its possible tru earnest effort and prayers |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by lookingfly: 5:56pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt:so she should also watch p and mast. Too ko....... You need flogging |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by passyhansome(m): 5:58pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: Go spiritual my dear, talk to God, talk to your husband too, let him know its not good, you might need a marriage counselor |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by gabe: 5:59pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Over 90% of men, married or unmarried, self-service. Its normal. Talk to him politely if u feel its too much. If he stays indoors a lot, make him go out for excercise, a hobby,church etc. Stop wasting all that cum n jump on dat preek, esp early morning 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Pylony(m): 6:00pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether: |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by MrHenshaw: 6:01pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: My advice is simple.Don't condemn him.He needs help but may not accept it.I maybe wrong,both of you don't communicate well as couple. I maybe be wrong also,either your husband is not employed meaning he is idle or not gainfully employed meaning he has a lot of free time. Try as much as possible to maintain personal hygiene and don't look like granny in the name of condemning every western apparel. Respectfully discuss with him on the issue, as such he can delete videos and pictures in d phones and laptops. If you people are really together,get a program maybe what he likes and partner with him to ensure both of u are engaged to close up any free time.If there's cash and he is educated,you can encourage him to take up a professional exams or go for PG program. If you try these and it doesn't work,then you register for our compact program and he will surely be free. It's disgusting really but he will be fine,trust me.If you think trying yours is a way out.Pls don't because there's more to it that I will let you know later. Finally do you people have children yet:-)? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Pylony(m): 6:01pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
rheether:chaiiii see bad gal's advice . |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by tottinova: 6:02pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
I must tell you, quitting pornography and masturbation isn't a days job. I'm still battling with my addiction. He needs your support and self determination. Without these, I'm sorry nothing is gonna happen. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by seeyou: 6:04pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Only he can save himself cos porn has a strong demon dat can destroy destiny n family. As d head of d family,it is dangerous. Before I was called to d ministry of Christ,I lost my calling, child n loved ones I shud have protected to d demon of porn.Only two solutions are available: (1)his decision to stop and,(2)ur prayer possibly, with him.Children can't understand this.To get more spiritual help,add me on Facebook @Godpromise Augustine \page @book of life ministries. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by HARDDON: 6:05pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: good to know he has told u that himself. i mos def cud read in between your lines and tell that you aint telling us everything! i can authoritatively state here that his action is your fault and lil wonder you never mentioned the out come of your chat with him when u told him you aint kul with his hand locomotion. ofcos it is not only disgusting to you, it is disrespectful and it is an outa disregard to your person he does that! simply to spite you since you probably cant satisfy him on bed. possible scenarios: 1) you are a half/one round woman( immediately u cum, it ends there). one who believe that giving it to him all time might make u age too soon? he last too long and 2) you dont enjoy doing it with him and therefore have a timetable for it or you dont just do it at all 3) you are always tired and always resist his moves and so many others...... what ever it is, you are simply been cautioned indirectly, take it or leave it. if you keep ignoring this warning , one day, he wud meet one of these karashikas thaT wud spin his head 360 and that wud be the end of this marriage as u know it. as always, a word is enough for the .......... fill in the blank spaces 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Pylony(m): 6:07pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
If it happens that my wife is not keeping a hygienic standard and love to nag i go also begin start mastur-beding "wallahi" cos nothing do me jare. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Upgrade ur bedmatic skills! |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Swaggkentro1: 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
These are one of the steps to follow 1. talk with him and let him see every reason to stop it cos he is an adult so you can't force him to stop, only him can make such decision by himself. 2. Tell him to make a decision that will be like an oath, is either through Bible, tell him to take his Bible and make the decision that the power from above that was with the Holy Bible should judge him if he continues in such act again and I know once he made this decision from the first day he will think twice cos anytime he will have the feeling again, he will immediately remember the oath he took sometimes back. this will always help and tell him that if he will make the decision it should be something big and huge, something like if he indulge in such act again, let him die or let God strick him with madness and he will lick the Bible. FINAL |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
My dear... you sound like a missionary. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Lightening: 6:12pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: Since you appear to have answers, why are you here? I agree your husband is the person that has issues because you perform your marital duties excellently. Hope your problem is now solved. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ehix89(m): 6:13pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
moneyMouthed:if only the lady will adhere to this, here lies the solution she needs....Masturbation is of the devil, i'm a living testimony 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by austinbrown: 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Why won't he when u dey close Ur legs always |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by seniorkachion(m): 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:He might not find it disgusting ! He may actually by you two doing a masturbation duet. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by CONCEPT360: 6:17pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
masturbation and pornography once addicted to is not always easy to stop.it does not matter if he is married or has the most beautiful wife/girlfriend. it is an entirely different urge. your husband may not be happy indulging in such. Am equally sure he may have been battling to desist from it. my candid suggestions are. 1. while you maintain firmness in making him understand the consequences of the action, do not give him reason to feel disrespected. 2 try to close in on his private time. privacy is a great stimulant here. 3.try to discourage him from saving porns in his devices. 4.try to make him get involved with people. I mean good friends, social gattherings, church activities, etc While the listed may be of help, let me state clearly that the decision to stop is completely your husband's. Cheers 1 Like |
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