Another despicable scum and anal-bandit seeks to justify homosexuality again.

Cursed offshoot of aberration!

I don't support child marriage. But a 14year old is not a baby or a child, she is a teenager. And as a medical doctor I'm sure this dude won't tell us that a 14year old of today is sooo innocent with all the kinds of entertainment they've been exposed to. Besides, the best ages to give birth is in-between midteen and late twenties. A doctor should know this.
We only don't feel right about it because we feel the girl is too young to understand what marriage is all about. There's no law against this.

Now to the cucumber girl.... If she had done it with a man, I personally wouldnt have raised an eyebrow. With all the macho guys in naija with strong big meats, she decided to feed her something something with cucumber.... Whaaaaaat!!! Cucumber?
Now there's a law against what she's done and it's publicly and morally unacceptable. I guess this our doctor turned gay defender is a Christian. God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of these kinds of immorality.

Even a stupid goat can differentiate between a male goat and a female goat. Have you ever seen a Hen climbing another hen or have you ever seen a hen using a match stick or a cooked spaghetti to please itself?

Mr doctor, forget what people do in private, let's condemn the heroneus acts that have come to the open.

To conclude, forget child marriage, homosexuality is unacceptable here in Naija. If you are a gay, stay there in the US. If you dare bring that rubbish here, you go Tay for jail. [url][/url]

They will definately crusify this doc If he is Nigeria

Nairaland mods should please desist from bringing this case to front-page unless if there is more to than meets the eye.... like some sponsorship.

Thank you.

LuvU2:
If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

Confused Nigerian

The doctor is a hopeless gay. What is worst than a woman fuxking a woman with cucumber? Tell us you want her. To hell with your hopeless ideology

Chai guy you get sense but, you want Chidilezcumber to use your own longcummba instead of using cocumbfruits

This girl is becoming too popular wt this. Abeg make i go do my own now.

nubian999:
He spoke the absolute truth.

90% of you are lesbian now we know. If so your mother wouldn't have given birth to you. Lesbians all over

Bollinger:


I don't think you understand what that word means. If you did you would have agreed with everything he said. I'm thinking you are trying to say "free" world.

Whatever is the right term dear. Tired of people who judge others for judging. If we dont judge, how do we keep an upright society?

Lets keep it real; everyone is free to criticise whatever how much they want.

The hypocrisy of Nigerians stink to high heavens, I always said this and they never mind their business and guess its reason most of them never make it in life, some people have been carrying this thing on their head like its gala these are people who probably do worse in their closet and have weird fantasies but they want to judge and condemn others, sometimes i wish i was under this chidinma shoes i will just give these tatafoos the middle finger and move on with my life.

Preach doctor. I could not have said it better.

Kolababe:
UK based Nigerian medical doctor and humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their reactions to the recent leaked sextape of Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke's sextape. Read the eye-opening write up...

one of those moments I feel ashamed to be a Nigerian. I don't understand why there is so much hysteria about the leaked sex video of a private citizen. In my opinion, this should not make the news. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They pontificate on how sinful sex is yet they seek out the leaked sex video and all forms of porn on the internet.

The morality police turn a blind eye when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in premarital or gay sex they start twitching. How is it anybody's business what two or more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not hurting a third party or forcing you to have sex with them?

Do you want something really worthwhile to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent person should be angry about? I will give you it. Only this month, the Emir of Katsina reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a normal way of life.

This is a matter that has serious consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent later in life. These girls are more likely to develop abnormal connections between their vagina, bladder, and rectum during childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next child-bride. It is a lot of psychological trauma for anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them. Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.

The evidence shows that children born to educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower the whole family and by extension the society. Look around, and you will notice that the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones that have educated and empowered their women. It seems to me that the Nigerian society is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we angry when adults (married or not, gay or straight) engage in consensual sex but turn a blind eye when children are raped by adults in the name of tradition?

As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be judgemental come from religion. Islam and Christianity condemn homosexuality and consensual sex between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia. Catholic priests have gained an ugly notoriety for sexually molesting young boys all over the world. The prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice. Despite unparalleled religiosity, our society is one of the most decadent in the world - we are almost always near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world. Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical.

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/10/miss-anambra-sex-video-medical-doctor.html

YOU SELF DON GET PAID BY THAT LEZBIAN QUEEN THAT'S WHY YOU DEY ABUSE YOUR FATHERLAND AWAIT DSS AT MURITARLA AIRPORT LIKE OBANIKURO

mulattoclaroo:
The doctor should shut up already. When she decided to do porn what was she expecting? A pat on the back or a national award? It's a shame that our generation is so useless that rather than condemn her actions, some morons are trying to defend her. Same sex union is highly prohibited in this part of the world. When you're in Rome behave like the Romans. What she did was wrong and must be condemned. I'm still surprised the police are still quiet when it is obvious she was the one. She should be cooling off in kirikiri as well speak.

you see your life,it's people like you that do the worst in their closet. I am very sure that 99 percent of people that call for this girl prosecution have done something worst than that.be it masturbation,child abuse,rape,or sexual harrassment or abuse.just because nobody has leaked yours.don't provoke me before I will release your own gbese you think nobody know waiting you don do clean mouth.

Pinkiwinki:
He has his opinion and yet you tell him to shut up.

He wants freedom for gays and lesbians- His opinion.
Nigerians don't.

His opinion isnt superior to others. Condemning others for holding a diff opinion is irritating.

Zceesneh:
If u defend her, people will call u names, lemme mind my business, no one is gonna pay me for the insult i will recieve if i defend her, u people condemning her can equally pray so that God will kill her so that she can go to hell and u people go to heaven, stupid people with no sense

you started insulting the people even before they insulted you. what makes you any different from them.

LuvU2:
Whatever is the right term dear. Tired of people who judge others for judging. If we dont judge, how do we keep an upright society?

Lets keep it real; everyone is free to criticise whatever how much they want.

That is the issue. You are not supposed to judge anyone dear because we all fall short at one point in time or another. The concept of freedom and liberty, is to live your life free of the standards of others as long as what you do does not harm me or the society. People who judge others are often hypocrites. Unless you are appointed a judge, you cannot judge another person. I am going to assume some things now to buttress my point. I will assume you are single and have had sex before and are currently sexually active. I guarantee you that there are people out there who would judge you negatively for that. I don't see anything wrong with it but like i said some people will. How would you like being judged in this instance?

The doctor is Shameless and all those who endorsed the crap he posted are those who have lost every atom of decency in them. Those who see nothing wrong in the degeneration of values in the society.

If the silly girl's action is not openly condemned, what then should we expect. In terms of morality she failed to live up to expectations. Looking at it from the part of the law, she should be in court now.

No idiot should should come and justify sexual recklessness abeg. Even if you told her few seconds before she did what she did would she have said no?

What you don't criticise, you accept.

Yes we condemned the emir of katsina

We condemned emir of Kano and yehllo of Ese Oruru's case. Those who didn't, did so for political reasons.

This doctor should bury his head in shame. He is a disgrace to this profession where reasonable decency is expected.

true...nobody cared to talk about the emir's issue,northeners are mostly involved in diabolic attitudestrue...nobody cared to talk about the emir's issue,northeners are mostly involved in diabolic attitudestrue...nobody cared to talk about the emir's issue,northeners are mostly involved in diabolic attitudes

eshic:


you see your life,it's people like you that do the worst in their closet. I am very sure that 99 percent of people that call for this girl prosecution have done something worst than that.be it masturbation,child abuse,rape,or sexual harrassment or abuse.just because nobody has leaked yours.don't provoke me before I will release your own gbese you think nobody know waiting you don do clean mouth.

pls with all due respect expose me. Maybe na your papa yan.sh I dey burst. You no dey wise. If you see something wrong condemn it. The girl fvcked up big time.

He that is without sin should cast the first stone. I expected us(Nigerian's) to do more of preaching than condemning her. May God forgive all our secret sins and expose those that are not ready to make change. Amen

eshic:


you see your life,it's people like you that do the worst in their closet. I am very sure that 99 percent of people that call for this girl prosecution have done something worst than that.be it masturbation,child abuse,rape,or sexual harrassment or abuse.just because nobody has leaked yours.don't provoke me before I will release your own gbese you think nobody know waiting you don do clean mouth.

you don't seem to get the point do you. it's not about the sex tape or having sex. Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria punishable by law, with jail terms. and here we have evidence of someone committing a crime and you said we should keep quiet cos we masturbate in our rooms. It's not a case of morality. This is a criminal offense.

That's like saying someone caught molesting a child should not be condemned cos the child's parents and indeed every other adult have sex in their bedrooms.

how permissive can we be?

masonkz:
Totally agree with him.

I still fail to understand what the fuss is about with the whole issue. People are calling for her to be jailed, yet the video is being streamed by the second.

Nigerians I hail una. Keep focusing on irrelevant issues.

The man has a point.
What we should focus on is how to stop/reduce all anormalies. from what the man said to the sex video of Chidinma. Ma do idokudo. Ma shoot video oshi!
Ma act mojo!

na wa ooooo. naija and this hypocritic attitude...
am sure many guys among the critics wish say na them screw the babe. make una leave her. no one is a saint. correct her don't condemn her.

Zceesneh:
If u defend her, people will call u names, lemme mind my business, no one is gonna pay me for the insult i will recieve if i defend her, u people condemning her can equally pray so that God will kill her so that she can go to hell and u people go to heaven, stupid people with no sense

no be lie me no dey pity d girl na her parents i dey pity if the girl travel of nigeria who know her again

Just look at what the slowpoke is spewing. If he is bold enough and not a coward he should come to Nigeria and spew the rubbish. Who told him we don't condemn child abuse here? Can he tell me there is no child abuse in the UK? Who even want him to be called a Nigerian anyway? He is a disgrace. A black monkey & a second class citizen in the UK saying thrash about Nigeria. The idiots wants us to copy everything from the western world yet the west never see any good to copy from us, organized world my foot. With the so called civilization are they more happy than we are?

Bollinger:


That is the issue. You are not supposed to judge anyone dear because we all fall short at one point in time or another. The concept of freedom and liberty, is to live your life free of the standards of others as long as what you do does not harm me or the society. People who judge others are often hypocrites. Unless you are appointed a judge, you cannot judge another person. I am going to assume some things now to buttress my point. I will assume you are single and have had sex before and are currently sexually active. I guarantee you that there are people out there who would judge you negatively for that. I don't see anything wrong with it but like i said some people will. How would you like being judged in this instance?

U have to understand there is a difference btw judging and condemning honey

To judge is to declare that something or a behaviour is right or wrong for u or the society.
Everyone judges almost everything in this world everytime. As long as u use discretion nd employ logic everytime u will automatically judge everything.

Nd u know, u re judging my post lready

To condemn is to declare someone irredeemable nd deserving of punishment. And thats the work of the law.

Let the law take its full course in all cases.

As per ur question about me being bothered about people judging me. Its humane to judge. Even i judge my actions too. But smetimes i dont do whar i think is right; that does not mean i dont recognise right or wrong.

What is right is right and wrong is wrong and the universal standard of right nd wrong wont change notwithstanding how i feel sometimes.

Sometimes i wonder y laws nd constitution is made in dis country.
Should we continue as a lawless state 4eva?.
My question is now this,if chidimma escape d judgement of breaching d nations constitution nd law of d land,did nigeria stil hv d right 2 punish any1 dt breach d constitution in d part of gay or lez.
Wil dt aspect of constitution stil exist in d nigerian constitution?.
Or better stil was d constitution made 4 some poor or lower class citizen?.
I think this is d time we need 2 put heads 2geda nd define d actual meaning nd mission of our so-calld constitution.
A saying said dt ignorant of d law is neva an excuse.
Pls doc,dis nigeria, our culture 4bids dat,nd also am a medical doctor like u practising here nigeria, followin d general ethics of our profession,u ar 2 represent quality nd good moral standard as passd down 2 us by our father democritus.
Infact i doubt if u ar a MD.
Always represent d truth wherever u are no matter d cost.
4 d fact dt emir of kastina married a 14yrs girl now issued a legal certificate 2 all citizens 2 break d law nd kill d image of d nation.
No matter wat any1 say,i cn neva eva b a party dt support evil,no matter where is coming 4rm.

masonkz:
Totally agree with him.

I still fail to understand what the fuss is about with the whole issue. People are calling for her to be jailed, yet the video is being streamed by the second.

Nigerians I hail una. Keep focusing on irrelevant issues.

pls can you give me the link

Anyway, like I was sayin’, shrimp is the fruit of the sea. You can barbecue it, boil it, broil it, bake it, saute it. There’s shrimp-kabobs, shrimp creole, shrimp gumbo. Pan fried, deep fried, stir-fried. There’s pineapple shrimp, lemon shrimp, coconut shrimp, pepper shrimp, shrimp soup, shrimp stew, shrimp salad, shrimp and potatoes, shrimp burger, shrimp sandwich. That, that’s about it.

sanpipita:
The hypocrisy of Nigerians stink to high heavens, I always said this and they never mind their business and guess its reason most of them never make it in life, some people have been carrying this thing on their head like its gala these are people who probably do worse in their closet and have weird fantasies but they want to judge and condemn others, sometimes i wish i was under this chidinma shoes i will just give these tatafoos the middle finger and move on with my life.

move on with your life? I gec right in kirikiri