gatti23:
if twas MR Nigeria that did such suck each other dicks am sure all the guys clamouring for LET HER BE will ask for jungle justice...Abeg don't be sentimental she deserves whatever she's getting right now.

bro nt everyone is judgmental like u.

mulattoclaroo:
The doctor should shut up already. When she decided to do porn what was she expecting? A pat on the back or a national award? It's a shame that our generation is so useless that rather than condemn her actions, some morons are trying to defend her. Same sex union is highly prohibited in this part of the world. When you're in Rome behave like the Romans. What she did was wrong and must be condemned. I'm still surprised the police are still quiet when it is obvious she was the one. She should be cooling off in kirikiri as well speak.

If God judged people that way, you wouldn't be here typing this. Only God knows the things you do behind the curtain.

Bollinger:


What exactly is wrong about what she did. Having sex? And i am not judging you. I am pointing out a clear error in your stance about judging another another person. You've had sex before haven't you? So what makes you better than her?

For me, its not about her having sex, but doing pornography. Being paid to be videoed having sex with whether man or woman.
Anyone else can do it and get away with but, but not someone representing a brand and a people. She's representing the fine women of Anambra.

Even abroad, beauty Queens have been stripped of their crowns for being paid to have naked pictures - Vanessa Williams who was a former miss US); for giving blow jobs on live TV despite us not even seeing the action itself- Zara Holland, miss Great Britain 2016. Even our own Bianca Onoh was stripped of her crown for dating her father's friend- the late Ojukwu.
I support her being stripped of the crown and its perks. But truly speaking, enough of the story. She should just apologise for disappointing everyone and move on already.
I doubt she's come out publicly to apologise, but rather giving one excuse or another about Photoshop, blackmail etc.
She should accept responsibility, and I guess everyone will shutup. I haven't seen the videos, but saw pictures here on NL.
Another funny thing is why do lesbian porn in a country where its a punishable offence? Even gays with no videos run abroad to live their lives openly, because by even admitting they're gay they are at risk of being arrested talkless of having video evidence. I guess the lure of the money offered was too tempting.
I operate the principle of live and let live, but don't go taunting the authorities with your video of a crime. Their hands will be tied to pursue the case even if they don't believe in the fairness of that law/constitution. Homosexuality has been made a crime in our constitution, though I'm not sure of the rationale by excluding adultery, fornication, pornography....
Anyway, in her case she could argue she made the video before it was passed into law as a crime if there's no evidence to show when it was made.

What exactly is wrong about what she did.
Having sex? And i am not judging you. I am
pointing out a clear in your stance about
judging another another person. You've had sex
before haven't you? So what makes you better
than her?


Well said. However such act is bad. Very true, but who gives one the right to judge?

LuvU2:
If he has an opinion; he should shut up already cos Nigerians have theirs too.

Liberal world aint it?

Madam holiest

th doctor should STFU......

franugo:


u can only judge if what a person has done affects u adversely. 4 me, sex workers, mma, etc i have no issue with unless it actually affects me. D smoking on d other hand is detrimental to health whether u are d one smoking or not. Best thing though is to walk away,,,my opinion anyway, i dey hate wahala

we are talking about laws your are talking about your moral laxity,smh,if laws were to be made based on the way you just described your own, then why will I condemn abortion, since it has not affected me adversely, afterall its not my pregnancy, why will I condemn rape,since its not me that was affected adversely, why should I even frown at someone that commits suicide after all it doesn't affect me adversely, Abeg you lots should come up with a better argument, the bible line of he who has no sin didn't work, come up with something else, oh yea liberal minded

mulattoclaroo:
The doctor should shut up already. When she decided to do porn what was she expecting? A pat on the back or a national award? It's a shame that our generation is so useless that rather than condemn her actions, some morons are trying to defend her. Same sex union is highly prohibited in this part of the world. When you're in Rome behave like the Romans. What she did was wrong and must be condemned. I'm still surprised the police are still quiet when it is obvious she was the one. She should be cooling off in kirikiri as well speak.

Same sex union you say, which the court will interpret as same sex marriage. Chidinma and her partner only had sex which was also arranged and videoed by someone. Why is only Chidinma in the furnace and not the rest? The poor girl should be left alone already, please people!

My own problem with her is that why wasting her talent when she can go into a proper porn industry. and those shouting cuz she is lesbian should shut the FK up it is her body, not yours. when are they going to jail atiku cuz i heard he also like to fk fellow men ass

masonkz:
Totally agree with him.

I still fail to understand what the fuss is about with the whole issue. People are calling for her to be jailed, yet the video is being streamed by the second.

Nigerians I hail una. Keep focusing on irrelevant issues.

. Well I think the thing is because of the "miss Anambra stuff", The fact he said it's photos..." and "lesbian stuff". But nonetheless we should not crucify her. It's a mistake she made sometime ago and I will like others to learn from it and stop recording sex cuz the person recording it might be the one to leak it. So I hope chidinma will just get over it and live her life.

Bantino:
Are we still on this cucumber issue?

hahahahahah soon Nollywood go act. Movie based on cucumber.

Is this dummy really a doctor ?
If he can't connect simple dots how
can he treat patients?
This fool didn't realize that the presence of
thieves , murderers and rapist in a society
does not excuse a pickpocket.
Is he trying to tell us that the country that gave
him asylum is utopia ?

A criminal remains a criminal irrespective
of what is going on in his/her society.

What she Miss Anambra did is a big scandal. It doesn't matter what the other person does or not. Since sex is a private affair, why make it public ? Do you think if someone like Hilary Clinton has a lesbian lover she'll be applauded ?
Even the West some of us are trying to imitate don't tolerate certain things. Any way, I wish Nigerians will rise up and speak against the abduction of a 14 year old girl by an Emir. But that's different from Miss Anambra issue.

If any of you have not sin then cast your stone on her you hypocrite

2dugged:
we are talking about laws your are talking about your moral laxity,smh,if laws were to be made based on the way you just described your own, then why will I condemn abortion, since it has not affected me adversely, afterall its not my pregnancy, why will I condemn rape,since its not me that was affected adversely, why should I even frown at someone that commits suicide after all it doesn't affect me adversely, Abeg you lots should come up with a better argument, the bible line of he who has no sin didn't work, come up with something else, oh yea liberal minded

rape affects some1 in a bad way, same with abortion, thought its effects and/or morality are debatable. Chidimma's case on d other hand, hasn't affected anyone in an adverse way except 4 herself n her family. U can state ur opinion on d matter like i have, i don't really care much, but judgment sha isn't urs to pronounce...

4 d law part, i guess u are right about it needing to be upheld in this situation, but have u taken it into consideration dt maybe d video was made b4 d law was enacted? Dt being said though, i really don't like dt law sha, them are adults nt kids

Sharap mr doctor

franugo:


rape affects some1 in a bad way, same with abortion, thought its effects and/or morality are debatable. Chidimma's case on d other hand, hasn't affected anyone in an adverse way except 4 herself n her family. U can state ur opinion on d matter like i have, i don't really care much, but judgment sha isn't urs to pronounce...

4 d law part, i guess u are right about it needing to be upheld in this situation, but have u taken it into consideration dt maybe d video was made b4 d law was enacted? Dt being said though, i really don't like dt law sha, them are adults nt kids

same way commercial sex workers are adults too,and it's their body, if we are to look at it that way then some things that society frowns at should be over looked and we should be liberal towards it.I want to know if it's this same it's her body would have applied if it were to be guys in that video?, that is why I will insist that it's only hypocritical that just because she a beauty queen, we should be liberal, anyway i have made my point, and that's it, judgment isn't mine to pronounce but I do have an entitlement to my opinion, and no one can change that,I condemn wrong when I see it,I don't defend based on tribe or hide behind the bible,simple

Dear Dr Remond
It is very obvious frm ur write up ur stand the issue but let me make it clear to u that wordy or length assertion cannot make immorality right, no matter how polished or educate u may sound.

The immorals u enumerated in ur article remain abominable before God no matter who comitted it. God cannot lower his standard because of anyody.

Sin of sodomy was outrightly condemned in the Holy scripture. Neither Christianity encourage child mariage. So if u are a christian and u support or act in favour of it, it is left for u

Kolababe:
UK based Nigerian medical doctor and humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their reactions to the recent leaked sextape of Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke's sextape. Read the eye-opening write up...

one of those moments I feel ashamed to be a Nigerian. I don't understand why there is so much hysteria about the leaked sex video of a private citizen. In my opinion, this should not make the news. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They pontificate on how sinful sex is yet they seek out the leaked sex video and all forms of porn on the internet.

The morality police turn a blind eye when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in premarital or gay sex they start twitching. How is it anybody's business what two or more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not hurting a third party or forcing you to have sex with them?

Do you want something really worthwhile to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent person should be angry about? I will give you it. Only this month, the Emir of Katsina reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a normal way of life.

This is a matter that has serious consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent later in life. These girls are more likely to develop abnormal connections between their vagina, bladder, and rectum during childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next child-bride. It is a lot of psychological trauma for anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them. Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.

The evidence shows that children born to educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower the whole family and by extension the society. Look around, and you will notice that the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones that have educated and empowered their women. It seems to me that the Nigerian society is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we angry when adults (married or not, gay or straight) engage in consensual sex but turn a blind eye when children are raped by adults in the name of tradition?

As a secular humanist, I do not look to any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense, judgment, and empathy in decision-making. If two or more adults engage in consensual sex and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be judgemental come from religion. Islam and Christianity condemn homosexuality and consensual sex between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia. Catholic priests have gained an ugly notoriety for sexually molesting young boys all over the world. The prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice. Despite unparalleled religiosity, our society is one of the most decadent in the world - we are almost always near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world. Many Nigerian children endure years of sexual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins, house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is nauseating and outrightly hypocritical.

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/10/miss-anambra-sex-video-medical-doctor.html

I.diots everywhere. She can use a yams next time for all I care. Big deal! Everybody get a life now. And if you feel like sticking your nose into people's business, you better do it in a constructive way. The reactions were cruel and disgusting.

STILL WONDERING HOW THE SEX CONDUCTED BY 2GROWN UP ADULTS AFFECTS THESE HYPOCRITES MORE THAN OUR POLITICIANS THAT CONTRIBUTED IMMENSELY TO THEIR MISERABLE LIFE

Mindfulness:
I.diots everywhere. She can use a yams next time for all I care. Big deal! Everybody get a life now. And if you feel like sticking your nose into people's business, you better do it in a constructive way. The reactions were cruel and disgusting.

That's why it's people's business and opinions which of course, the internet feeds on.

Next time a muslim marries an 18 year old, be sure to stick to your own advice, mindfulness.

SalomonKane:
That's why it's people's business and opinions which of course, the internet feeds off.

Next time a muslim marries an 1 year old, be sure to stick to your own advice, mindfulness.

So you are comparing someone's pvssy to a baby? It's not even funny.

Mindfulness:


So you are comparing someone's pvssy to a baby? It's not even funny.

A baby? An 18 year old is a baby? Come on girl, what's wrong with you? What happened to that constructive brain of yours?

The nigerian constitution recognises the age of 18 as the age of consent, so why you going all sentimental?

SalomonKane:
A baby? An 18 year old is a baby? Come on girl, what's wrong with you? What happened to that constructive brain of yours?

The nigerian constitution recognises the age of 18 as the age of consent, so why you going all sentimental?

The 8 wasn't in your first post. And as long as the 18-year-old gets married with her consent, I don't give a heck.

Mindfulness:


The 8 wasn't in your first post. And as long as the 18-year-old gets married with her consent, I don't give a heck.

Good! Consent? From a muslim female. now that's the only thing I can say.

Have fun being you.

SalomonKane:
Good! Consent? From a muslim female. now that's the only thing I can say.

Have fun being you.

What a narrow-minded generalization. I have many empowered Muslim friends who happen to be female so PULEASE!

And your comparison is still

Whatever I do with my pvssy is my business, even if I insert my remote control. Tht does not mean I can do it to somebody else.

Mindfulness:


What a narrow-minded generalization. I have many empowered Muslim friends who happen to be female so PULEASE!

And your comparison is still

Whatever I do with my pvssy is my business, even if I insert my remote control. Tht does not mean I can do it to somebody else.

Excuse me, please, take your emotions and bottle it up.

I was merely saying an 18 year old muslim female in northern Nigeria has no such thing as consent, when it comes to marriage. Heck many are even given out freely as sadaqa (or however it's spelt).

Now that's what I meant. I wonder where the generalisation sprung from.

Mindfulness:
I.diots everywhere. She can use a yams next time for all I care. Big deal! Everybody get a life now. And if you feel like sticking your nose into people's business, you better do it in a constructive way. The reactions were cruel and disgusting.

Yams? Seriously?

SalomonKane:
Excuse me, please, take your emotions and bottle it up.

I was merely saying an 18 year old muslim female in northern Nigeria has no such thing as consent, when it comes to marriage. Heck many are even given out freely as sadaqa (or however it's spelt).

Now that's what I meant. I wonder where the generalisation sprung from.

And you compare someone using force on another human being with a woman playing with her pvssy? The things I read on NL.

hahn:


Yams? Seriously?

Mindfulness:


And you compare someone using force on another human being with a woman playing with her pvssy? The things I read on NL.

Force? Which force? What on earth are you saying, woman? Are you reasoning with your brain or your emotion?

I need to know, puhleasseeee.

SalomonKane:
Force? Which force? What on earth are you saying, woman? Are you reasoning with your brain or your emotion?

I need to know, puhleasseeee.

As long as a woman who is old enough gets married to someone without being bullied into this marriage or forced into it, I couldn't care less.
And I don't care what objects people use to satisfy themselves.

Let people be free.