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Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 8:51pm On Nov 25, 2016
7 Things You Learn From A Break Up

Unless you've not being there, you'll call this 'gibberish'.

It's not always easy when you've figured out the place she's gonna take in your life and all of a sudden she starts behaving awkward- giving excuses.

I've been there... It's never easy. You are tempted to paint all her kinds as evil but, that's the way cookie crumbles.

Guys: 7 Things To Learn From A Break Up:

1. Always have a back up plan.

Never you be so into one girl. Don't push away all admirers. Keep them waiting. This is where flirtation comes handy. In other words, be nice to other ladies as well. There is wisdom in that.


2. Anyone can be fooled at first; never let it repeat.

You are not a superman; ladies can break your heart no matter who you are. It's just for the highest bidder, most cases. Learn from it, be strong. If she draws near, let experience teach you how to not get carried away. Treat them as they present themselves.


3. Don't trust a lady with the whole of your heart: they don't expect you to.

Trust is earned. Don't give it for cheap. They don't trust themselves so why should you. The point is: as long as you are not married to her, she is at liberty to hang out with whomsoever she wants. That's a code. Trust partially; live healthier and longer.


4. Be sure she's clean before stepping in.

Don't out of emotions force your way into a girl's life. You are delivering to her the keys...don't do that. Don't fall for the, 'I'll think about it' line. It can be a way to buy time or delay you. Be sure she's not in a serious relationship before entering. How will you know? Find out. Watch out for the signs.


5. If she had an ex in same town, she probably hasn't broken up with him yet.

This reminds me of Glo X-Factor. The power of the X is so very powerful. Watch after this also.

6. Long Distance Relationship is a SCAM!

I shouldn't be saying because it's a known fact. From NYSC to Undergraduate years; Long distance relationships have proven to have failed 90%.
Failed in terms of commitment and culmination into marriage. Don't tread that part bro.


7. Be strong. Do all you can to erase them from your life.

Never show signs of fear and weakness. Pick up the pieces and walk away. It makes you stronger. Don't let one person leaving your life ruin your day. Delete all you have to delete.

Winston Churchill was quoted as saying: "Success is not final; Failure is not fatal, it's courage that counts."
Have the courage to start all over again.
They're not all so smiley

Carpe diem
(seize the moment)

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 8:54pm On Nov 25, 2016
Nice writeup op.
There is a sense under your coconut
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by ObioratheBully: 8:54pm On Nov 25, 2016
8. You can confess all the love in this world to her.. Once you don't throw money around, she only has partial love or she just likes you... In order to cement the love, spend money on her..

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by samincredible44(m): 8:55pm On Nov 25, 2016
Dont trust a girl with ur money

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by DoPeRoSa(f): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2016
Must you guys use all means to troll at the ladies.. It's not as if you guys are any better

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by DaddySLY(m): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2016
i didnt even read at all.. i can tell ya... what works for "cynthia" almost never works for "loveth" ... you become a robot if u keep fflwing rules n shiit... just be your weird crazy self...


you'll meet your weird crazy partner eventually...

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 25, 2016
DoPeRoSa:
Must you guys use all means to troll at the ladies.. It's not as if you guys are any better
The truth hurts
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 25, 2016
ObioratheBully:
8. You can confess all the love in this world to her.. Once you don't throw money around, she only has partial love or she just likes you... In order to cement the love, spend money on her..


That's a revelation!

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:03pm On Nov 25, 2016
olihilistic:
Nice writeup op.
There is a sense under your coconut


Yes na cheesy
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by ObioratheBully: 9:05pm On Nov 25, 2016
emusmithy:


That's a revelation!
The last book of the Bible.. cheesy

The Bible don't lie bro
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 25, 2016
ObioratheBully:
The last book of the Bible.. cheesy

The Bible don't lie bro


You're right. I mean so right. The book of Revelation also promises a great future. It's not just an end. It's a means to a New Beginning cheesy
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by unofficial(m): 9:07pm On Nov 25, 2016
Real nice.
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:10pm On Nov 25, 2016
emusmithy:


Yes na cheesy
Somebody please give this a guy
A virgin punanï that is HIV negative.
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by ObioratheBully: 9:12pm On Nov 25, 2016
emusmithy:


You're right. I mean so right. The book of Revelation also promises a great future. It's not just an end. It's a means to a New Beginning cheesy
cheesy


Couldnt have been any more right nigga.

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by 2dice01: 9:15pm On Nov 25, 2016
inshort love yourself like kilode

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:16pm On Nov 25, 2016
olihilistic:

Somebody please give this a guy
A virgin punanï that is HIV negative.


Tanchu grin
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 25, 2016
DaddySLY:
i didnt even read at all.. i can tell ya... what works for "cynthia" almost never works for "loveth" ... you become a robot if u keep fflwing rules n shiit... just be your weird crazy self...


you'll meet your weird crazy partner eventually...

Gbam!

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by firstking01(m): 9:21pm On Nov 25, 2016
That no 6 tho, it has never worked out.
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by eitsei(m): 9:27pm On Nov 25, 2016
Hmmmm.. . Once bitten twice shy
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Young03(m): 9:32pm On Nov 25, 2016
ONLY NUMBER 3 IS IMPORTANT TO ME
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by DoPeRoSa(f): 9:32pm On Nov 25, 2016
sad sad
emusmithy:
The truth hurts
angry
emusmithy:
The truth hurts
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by stan241(m): 9:42pm On Nov 25, 2016
Different strokes,different folks

There's just no definite set of rules oh how these things work hence most of these lists are usually just what they are " lists"

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Beamborla(f): 10:00pm On Nov 25, 2016
And it was written by Smith...chai!

Lemme waka pass.
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2016
Dope
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 25, 2016
eitsei:
Hmmmm.. . Once bitten twice shy
as in enh
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 10:24pm On Nov 25, 2016
Beamborla:
And it was written by Smith...chai!

Lemme waka pass.


cry
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Beamborla(f): 10:32pm On Nov 25, 2016
emusmithy:


cry
It's for the best, sweet
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 25, 2016
Beamborla:

It's for the best, sweet


Really? Sure?
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by lomprico(m): 11:36pm On Nov 25, 2016
shocked
emusmithy:

7 Things You Learn From A Break Up

Unless you've not being there, you'll call this 'gibberish'.

It's not always easy when you've figured out the place she's gonna take in your life and all of a sudden she starts behaving awkward- giving excuses.

I've been there... It's never easy. You are tempted to paint all her kinds as evil but, that's the way cookie crumbles.

Guys: 7 Things To Learn From A Break Up:

1. Always have a back up plan.

Never you be so into one girl. Don't push away all admirers. Keep them waiting. This is where flirtation comes handy. In other words, be nice to other ladies as well. There is wisdom in that.


2. Anyone can be fooled at first; never let it repeat.

You are not a superman; ladies can break your heart no matter who you are. It's just for the highest bidder, most cases. Learn from it, be strong. If she draws near, let experience teach you how to not get carried away. Treat them as they present themselves.


3. Don't trust a lady with the whole of your heart: they don't expect you to.

Trust is earned. Don't give it for cheap. They don't trust themselves so why should you. The point is: as long as you are not married to her, she is at liberty to hang out with whomsoever she wants. That's a code. Trust partially; live healthier and longer.


4. Be sure she's clean before stepping in.

Don't out of emotions force your way into a girl's life. You are delivering to her the keys...don't do that. Don't fall for the, 'I'll think about it' line. It can be a way to buy time or delay you. Be sure she's not in a serious relationship before entering. How will you know? Find out. Watch out for the signs.


5. If she had an ex in same town, she probably hasn't broken up with him yet.

This reminds me of Glo X-Factor. The power of the X is so very powerful. Watch after this also.

6. Long Distance Relationship is a SCAM!

I shouldn't be saying because it's a known fact. From NYSC to Undergraduate years; Long distance relationships have proven to have failed 90%.
Failed in terms of commitment and culmination into marriage. Don't tread that part bro.


7. Be strong. Do all you can to erase them from your life.

Never show signs of fear and weakness. Pick up the pieces and walk away. It makes you stronger. Don't let one person leaving your life ruin your day. Delete all you have to delete.

Winston Churchill was quoted as saying: "Success is not final; Failure is not fatal, it's courage that counts."
Have the courage to start all over again.
They're not all so smiley

Carpe diem
(seize the moment)

Beautiful post!

A 100 likes.
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Hikmaking(f): 12:08am On Nov 26, 2016
True talk...
DaddySLY:
i didnt even read at all.. i can tell ya... what works for "cynthia" almost never works for "loveth" ... you become a robot if u keep fflwing rules n shiit... just be your weird crazy self...


you'll meet your weird crazy partner eventually...

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Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by Nobody: 5:14am On Nov 26, 2016
lomprico:
shocked

Beautiful post!

A 100 likes.


Tnx. Wish all can read this
Re: Guys: 7 Things You Learn From A Break Up Experience by LePrezident(m): 7:13am On Nov 26, 2016
DoPeRoSa:
Must you guys use all means to troll at the ladies.. It's not as if you guys are any better

You're right, guys are not any better but I kid you not the OP is on point. The thread is meant for guys who have had past experiencedl of what OP is talking about and I concur with OP 100.

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