Leave that place or that Biatch will have them rob you there. You are not safe. Other option, If you have some tight soldier friends you can arrange to have her roughed up (preferably after you have left the place.

Leave. She and her cult friends will not stop.

veekid:

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see the questions you were asking us here; as if you don't have the answer to them yet? You wan use ATM flaunt your wealth to an unknown woman; Igbo to be precise ...... you're OYO

Them don release you from Bank abi?say rubbish again you go see anyhow..

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If i were u i would park out of dat area cus those guys might come back or she might set u up again by staying at ur house till midnight den finally she den says she's going u open d door nd u gt cramped

Ajusshi:

The dumb she-goat is scared, that's why she's acting paranoid.

You are obviously a smart dude and you did the smartest thing by changing your pin, and calling the bank to block your card immediately.
However, your keeping quiet could undo your smart move and this will probably cost you dearly.

By avoiding her, she's aware you know she 'set you up'. She's worried cos she does not know your next line of action. If you keep quiet and try to pretend all is well, she may see that as a sign of timidity and cowardice (they will see you as an easy target) and it will embolden her and her crew to extort you. This is especially so since you are new to the area. Another possibility is that you could be ELIMINATED completely to cover their track. Improbable, but possible. (Don't underestimate human capacity for evil)

I understand that you do not want to press a charge which i agree with since you did not suffer much damage and the fact that you are a new arrival. My advice is that you lodge a complaint with the police, have her and her crew to sign an undertaking to effect that if you lose anything, or suffer any harm, they will be held responsible. Do this in a discreet way and without publicity.




Take this step and thank me later.

Actually , op may be able to lodge a threat to life report with the police. The moment anything happens to him, Sandra's door is the first the police will knock on.

guy u are indirectly telling her you know she is the one by keeping ur distance from her. from the question she is asking you it's,clear she understands that you know and that has mark you for destruction. leave that compound as soon as possible and have both of them arrested and maKe sure they are prosecuted and jail,inky then your heart can rest but,once the girl and the guys knwe that you know is them guys they will come after you and that maybe your last day on earth.

happney65:


Them don release you from Bank abi?say rubbish again you go see anyhow..

Seriously my bro,I advice u to be very careful,that girl is a criminal and those guys are thieves,could be arm robbers or even worse,pls stay away from her,or rather get another house ,leave the present one,this are the type of girls that can frame u for life.and if she knows u have an idea of what she did or can identify those guys,they can come for u,hence her questioning u.next time be careful u who show u r new to.

First, i will like to say sorry for the unfortunate incident

Second, I want to advice that you yield to either reporting to the police with the pictures and / relocate from the house because your safety is compromised right now.

Bro, those guys will come back for you when they notice you have changed the pin and they won't touch you small this time around.

I think you should report the issue to SARS, not those ones wearing black at the stations, believe me, you are not going to spend the money because of what they stole from you but your life.
Don't be surprise they would come empty your room soonest if you keep quiet and not report them or leave immediately.

All the best in your future decision sir.

MyGeneration:
Some niggas dae fvck up i swear.

Dont confront her fvck her up, let her know then tell her you would call d police. She wud deny but once u say police she wud beg u.
You wud put her under ur power she wud do anything u want her to do, even if its sex

. Bro,you get sense so?

TheSpellChecker:

Excuse ma, but what will it take you to write don't?

do you expect something else from someone who spells varieties as verieties.

AlphaCentauri:
be like say you have smoke osogbo weed. who wants to be friends with a dangerous minded woman ? and more importantly who wants puucee from a dangerous woman ? some of you nairalanders are >>>>>> i dont know sef, I guess this is a class issue. nairaland has room for all classes of people, the lowest class and the high class

E be like say u dey maddd.. If u don't know shiiit, just shut the hell up..

Wetin u think say happen to all dem chics sent to kpai james bond... Forget say na film, na intelligence
OP do wetin all these mofos tell u and get wasted fast... otherwise scroll back to my advice and thank me later.

one thing is for sure ,op you accepted her far too easily and that's cuz you felt you will CHOP her. and you were too fast to give your pin haba!!!

involve the police, trust me she's in trouble if you do

7Alexander:

Its not about male or female, it was about convenience. Meanwhile, immediately we came back I had the PIN changed. So there was no special benefits from her having access to the card for that 5mins

.......... Bro u are a real detective ....... I call this MAMBA APPROACH ...... Don't let her know DAT u are avoiding her ......... Talk to her but keep tabs on her ....... Then treat her Fuckup in a special way!!!!

IbroMaka:
Many of u gays giving stupid advice.. Abeg cut the guy some slack...

Dude, confront the biitch and let her know u get sense like 007, make her realize u don foil her plans and u go put her out of her misery if she try am ever again... she go lockup and compensate u wit poocee for free unless u choose not to hit that ass..

Furthermore... Una go become best of pals and she go dey protect u wit her gangs going forward.

There!... Best idea out of experience

Thank me later

Exactly what i had in mind...


@Op, heed this advice.

Baba something comes to mine,why give her ur ATM if u re still gonna pay for new item! Shey after she don pay for de item she go still de line ni,u forgot that u were still going to join line for ur new item,u shouldn't hve given her ur pin bros

NKFOODVERIETIES:
Dnt tell the police it will make u to spend money, just stay away from that thief.

OP, you're lucky you escaped with your life intact. The next time they come for you, you may not be that lucky. If you like your life, better don't take the advise I quoted above (she may even be the Sandra we're talking about here). Go straight to the police and report the matter and don't make us write Eiyah or RIP on nairaland unnecessarily when it happens.. Use your head..

Realhommie:
Exactly what i had in mind...

@Op, heed this advice.

At least someone gets the picture... Works every fvcking time

Jchi9876:


How did you change The PIN??..

You are a liar you can't change your ATM pin over the phone neither can you do it online.

How the hell did you change the damn pin storyteller?

You can certainly change your ATM PIN at the issuing bank ATM machine, plus you can call in to change it over the phone, online and also in your bank mobile App.

Banks recommends you change your PIN regularly to mitigate against data theft and other compromise. If your current bank is not offering this feature, it might be a time to seek another bank or simply call them on the phone, they might be offering it without your knowledge.

one word ;relocate

You have not heard the last of it ooo... she is coming back with those guy real big(you are now a threat to her aswell)... the earlier you report to the police the better. Don't joke with this and let it slide... I have told you ooooo!

MyGeneration:
Some niggas dae fvck up i swear.

Dont confront her fvck her up, let her know then tell her you would call d police. She wud deny but once u say police she wud beg u.
You wud put her under ur power she wud do anything u want her to do, even if its sex

Guy, we are talking of safety & u are busy talking about how to rope her into having sex.

Is it not when someone is alive that he/she can have sex? If the Op is harmed or killed after threatening her how can he have sex with her?

Forget sex & focus on safety.

MyGeneration:
Some niggas dae fvck up i swear.

Dont confront her fvck her up, let her know then tell her you would call d police. She wud deny but once u say police she wud beg u.
You wud put her under ur power she wud do anything u want her to do, even if its sex

O ga o

Instead of reporting to the police with all the facts you have you are here seeking advice. By now you they should be cooling off in cells while you start looking for a new apartment.

7Alexander:
What you are about to read happened to me last week, I just had to bring it here, because the more I try to wrap my head around it, the more questions comes to mind.

About a month ago I moved to another city, but considering its a totally different culture, I have just been gradually trying to settle in. So, on Tuesday Last week, I noticed a plumbing issue in my room, for which I went to seek the caretaker who lives within the compound. I later found him in one of the rooms trying to fix some things for another new tenant who I will refer to as Sandra henceforth. I laid my complaints to the man and briefly spoke with Sandra who told me aje was an undergraduate.

About an hour later, the caretaker came to my room to checkout the problem I was having, Sandra came with him, and as we were making small talks, she walked into my kitchen and pointed out that my pots and other cooking utensils were still new and unused, then i told her I haven't started cooking because I don't know my way around yet, so I haven't been to the market. She then offered to go to the market with me whenever I was ready.

The next day being Wednesday I made a list of things to buy, among which were some packaged and canned foods, for this we went to a mall. After picking the items, we had to join the queue at the payment point, while there, I remembered some things which I needed but haven't included in my list, so I handed over my ATM card to Sandra and gave her the PIN considering it was almost our turn in the queue, then went to pick those things. Now, I did this because, I didn't want a situation where after paying for the original items, I will have to join a fresh queue with the new items. Although I came back just as she was about to pay, so I was able to include the new items, we laid and left. Suffice to say that I had her pick one or two things for herself.

On getting home, I immediately went to an ATM and changed my PIN, just to be safe.

Two days later, Sandra came to my room sound 7:15pm telling me she wanted to go buy relaxer and shampoo but as its getting dark that she can't go alone, and she asked that I come with her, I obliged, as you would expect.

After buying the shampoo, we started heading home. Now, there are two possible routes home, the sandy road which was nearer and the tarred road which was farther, Sandra then insisted we take the tarred road saying she didn't want sand on her feet, but that was the route we took while going.

Just as we approached my compound, 3 guys rounded us up and told us to handover everything we had on us. I have to point out that after this whole incident, I could recall that while we were walking home, Sandra was texting on her phone and kept looking back. When one of the guys made the request, Sandra now asked them 'for what' immediately one of the guys landed her a slap and pushed her down. Then he turned to me and gave me a blow to the mouth saying I was wasting his time, then he reached for my back pocket and retrieved my wallet, then he asked me the PIN, I gave him a wrong PIN the first time and this was met with a hot slap to my face, then he asked again and i gave him the same PIN again, then he gave me a kick to the hip, I was almost paralyzed, he now grabbed my throat, I had no choice than to give him the real PIN, then he left me and they ran off. Interestingly, the PIN I gave to him was the old PIN which I changed few days ago, but my intention was not to lie, in fact I meant to tell the truth, but then that PIN had stuck to my memeory as I have been using it for the past 3 years.

Immediately they left, I made a dash for my room, with Sandra in hot pursuit, but I didn't let her come to my room with me, I called the bank Customer Service and told them to block my card, although the thieves had the wrong PIN, I felt they could still compromise the card.

The next day, Sandra was in my room and she kept trying to get me to talk about the incident of the last day, but I wasnt interested, she kept asking me, if the PIN I gave them was the right one, I mean it should be, after all that was the right PIN as far as she knew, she asked if I could recognize the guys, I said no, she asked if its possible for the card to be hacked without the PIN, I was just acting ignorant, but I've already started having my reservations about her.

Later, I decided out of curiosity to check Sandra out on Facebook, while checking the photos on her profile, I saw pictures she took and uploaded with the same guy that slapped and pushed her down while we were been robbed, I was dumbfounded to say the least.

Then it became clear to me, she set me up to be robbed. Now my questions are,
Why did she insist we take the tarred road, considering we took the sandy road while going to the Shop
How come the thieves reached straight into the pocket with my wallet?
How come they never asked for our mobile phones, naturally, that should be their first question
How come immediately I gave the guy the 'right' PIN he acceded?
Who was Sandra texting while we walked home
And, the FB picture shows she knows the guy after all.

My problem now is, should I confront Sandra d tell her I know what happened or should I just let it slide? Since that day she's been trying to cozy up to me, but the more she tries the more I become worried and wary.
_Lalasticlala

Download those pic she took with the thief from Facebook as evidence,go to the police now

IbroMaka:


At least someone gets the picture... Works every fvcking time

It sure does..

7Alexander:

Calm down, i didn't give her my ATM to withdraw, its a POS machine in a mall. I had nothing to gain from giving her the card, it was only out of necessity, not like she was going to check my account balance with a POS machine. I don't think you read that part.
Bloggers? I don't run a blog, neither did I include any link in my post.
Lastly, not everybody falls head over heels over any random girl.
Either way, Peace!!

Keep your distance and be careful. I believe God wanted you to be aware and expose the kind of person she really is, thank God for your life. Forgive!

Kingbuhari:
but u gv her ur ATM pin u sud worry 4ur safety , bcux her friends will cum 4the real pin, u dnt knw ur way arnd, why not pick a cab for ur shopping, u hv interest in that gul... guy abeg make we tell ourselves the truth... I be guy man like u oooo

dont mind the guy, he is trying so hard to justify his pin number he gave to a girl he just met for a few days even some couples keep their pin numbers as secret from each other, na pusssy wan kill am he better thank his star that those guys did not slice his throat just cuz of few thousands he has in his account

Let sleeping dog lie and stay away from Sandra she is true definition of evil. Trust no one even your shadow sometimes leave you.

7Alexander:

Lol. First , why will I fabricate it, and draw traffic to where? I don't understand.
Secondly, I necessarily don't have a weakness for her. Absolutely not. We don't even really talk, just small talks.
About money printing machine, I've never given a dime to her, what for of I may ask. The things she picked in the mall was just 3k.

just 3k is what triggered her to double cross u...that girl will rob you herself or send robbers to your home.


better involve the police

7Alexander:

Lol. First , why will I fabricate it, and draw traffic to where? I don't understand.
Secondly, I necessarily don't have a weakness for her. Absolutely not. We don't even really talk, just small talks.
About money printing machine, I've never given a dime to her, what for of I may ask. The things she picked in the mall was just 3k.

OP I feel like giving u slap...this guy u mention is rite...u have a weakness for Samdra or will I say female folks...can u give a random guy dat is ur neighbour ur ATM pin. infact Oga Seun to slap somebody dey hungry me...