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My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 6:01pm On Dec 08, 2016
Good evening guys and girls, I'm having a Lil problem with my girlfriend (not quarrel) she is just acting strange since we had misunderstanding few months back, she used to be a very calm and lovely girl but now it's almost the opposite she now demands money excessively, refuses to listen to what I tell most times, she argues a lot now,
I have been coping with all these her attitude since, most of the time she hardly pick my calls, she is still a student so she is currently in school.

So recently she finished her exams and she brought up an issue saying she can't come Holm email after the exam that she has to wait for her clearance which will take about a week, I said okay no problem, so today she said she is done with it and that she will be home by Saturday, so I asked her if she will spend the night with me, she said no (note, we have not seen for 3 months now and she loves spending the night with me whenever she comes back from school)

I was surprised, I asked her why she couldn't give straight answers, she was saying that she is not in the mood to spend the night, haha! For over 3 months we never see you are not in the mood to spend nigh the with your boyfriend? Very Strang I said to myself, she then said that the money can be used to do better things and that I should give it to her and she is from a good family o, we'll taken care of I still give her money for sweet mouth most times, but now I don't know what's wrong, please guys I need your advice, is this girl cheating on me? Because I have been suspecting her but I haven't accused her of it because I am a cool guy who doesn't like drama at all, I will hardly quarrel with anyone over something. sad



**addition

There was one time she was in school there was no class so we talked and talked so before ending the call I told her I love you so much cause I was missing her and she said thank you and I was like won't you tell me back, she said I'm in public na

Haba, and she usually tells me this regardless of whether she is in public or not, she didn't even say "you too" even if she was shy to say love,

Guys what do you think??

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 08, 2016
Sono,

That girl is tired of the relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Mimido2(f): 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2016
sorry

anoda dude is helping u to guard ur gf and seems like he is giving her wat she wants

and probably ur relationship is boring u need to add spice to it

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by McBrooklyn(m): 6:05pm On Dec 08, 2016
OP, your girlfriend problem is a problem cool


And to all the ladies out there deceiving us, wasting our money, our food, our airtime, our precious time like the OP's girlfriend... Your future husband will not show on your wedding day!!! angry

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by falconey(m): 6:06pm On Dec 08, 2016

dump her and move to the next....... from your write-up you are perplexed, don't let her cause you any more trouble.

there are so many chicks out there to sit and worry about one.

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 08, 2016
CorGier:
Sono,

That girl is tired of the relationship.

Abi? na so I reason am, and I have always treated her well o, I never wrong this girl any day, never cheated on her, we just had little misunderstanding o, *sigh* smh
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Mimido2(f): 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2016
falconey:
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see bad advice
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by sunnymornin1(m): 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2016
She no be ur gf again
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 08, 2016
Mimido2:
sorry

anoda dude is helping u to guard ur gf and seems like he is giving her wat she wants

and probably ur relationship is boring u need to add spice to it

Relationship boring She is always in school o

Anytime she is back I take her out a lot, weiten I wan do again

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by megareal: 6:09pm On Dec 08, 2016
She is tired. I think the last quarrel stirred up some negative feelings in her. She is either starting a new relationship or wants to. Truth is, she is done and wants out.

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by falconey(m): 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2016
Mimido2:
see bad advice

yeah right, I offered him a way forward when a chick start going bad you dump her ass.


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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by damjane(f): 6:16pm On Dec 08, 2016
I think you should talk to her and find out what the problem is

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Mimido2(f): 6:17pm On Dec 08, 2016
falconey:

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when a chick starts going bad beg her
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 08, 2016
damjane:
I think you should talk to her and find out what the problem is

I have don that she said nothing, she doesn't give any reasonable explanation as to why her new character.
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by falconey(m): 6:21pm On Dec 08, 2016
Mimido2:
when a chick starts going bad beg her


are you fucking_ kidding me
? I rather chase another man's ass than beg a chick when she turn bad.

look around you thousands and millions of girls, the supply is too much to value a token. maybe in the 1990s guys do that but not in this 21st century.

you act funny, I'll promote the side chick.

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Olasco93: 6:22pm On Dec 08, 2016
"I have always treated her well o, I never wrong this girl any day, never cheated on her " Who "Nice Guy" help? Your Lamentation showed you've invested more in the relationship race... Probably you've been trying to please her by your above statement...
Become a Good/Bahd guy and forget stories and ya sorrow. You have been friendzoned before Keresimesi, you've been friendzoned before 2017, cot-cee of your NICENESS. Kontinew carrying women matter for head...

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by heffem(m): 6:24pm On Dec 08, 2016
ogbeni, reduce the number of times u call or communicate with her, stop giving her money or airtime for sometime and watch her reactions. and also act as if u are seeing someone else. then conclude from ur observations

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by SlimmB(m): 6:25pm On Dec 08, 2016
embarassed if this is real, i did feel for you OP... angry but the truth about the matter now is that the girl is scoping you! don't think/assume too much, just accept your fate and move on but don't break up with her and don't ignore her, just keep acting like all is okay, like you don't care about her attitude, but do return her calls if she did call you, but don't you try calling her, just save yourself the stress!

Finally grin live your life, a life without her don't seek for another girl or try so hard to replace her!(but if you see a girl that shows interest and got 60% of attribute you needs in a woman then carry on with her, no time!) but catch fun, like visit the gem, look good for yourself, hook up with funny pals, if you club then don't exclude that cool

And my one advice for you angry No ever carry woman matter for head, any girl that mess up, send her packing out of your life without her knowing it, there's always that one bae that will tolerate your bullshit and encourage you on how to better them...

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by bowman000(m): 6:27pm On Dec 08, 2016
embarassed
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by stan241(m): 6:42pm On Dec 08, 2016
Women though, why not just tell him that you are tired or bored of the relationship so that the young man can give his attention and time to someone who deserves it.



My guy, its best you let her be, give her as much space as she wants

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Sexxkillz: 6:46pm On Dec 08, 2016
LOL!

She has broken up with you already. She just hasn't told you and she'll never tell you. She has moved on with her life, possibly with another guy. You are now a pest to her which is confirmed by her sharp "blunt as fuck_" responses. All she wants now is for you to notice that she has 'changed', and for you to "get tired" of her new attitude, and end the relationship and leave her in peace.

Too many signs she has sent out to you. She must be wondering how dumb you are for not getting the numerous clues. Pay her a surprise visit and you'll confirm all these yourself. I'm not saying you actually should, just saying.

It's a smart trick to leave a relationship without carrying the burden of being the one that called it quits. . . listen, things can NEVER be the same between you two.

She has moved on. Do the same.

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by damjane(f): 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2016
sonofLuci:


I have don that she said nothing, she doesn't give any reasonable explanation as to why her new character.

there is a possibility that she has met someone new and she's probably trying to decide on you both, that is why you see a change of character. It doesn't mean you should give up on her, show her all the love you can but dont bug her, and don't try to push her to do something she does not want to do. if after all this she still doesn't come around, then afraid you lost. goodluck
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by nessaluv(f): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2016
SPACE!!!!!

Space is what she needs. Don't try starting up a new relationship wid sum1 else if u still luv her. Jst give her space so she can miss u and after dat if she's still acting up den u move on wid ur life.
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by schumastic(m): 7:00pm On Dec 08, 2016
NOTHING IS MORE PAINFUL THAN WHEN YOU SEE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR BAE IS CHEATING ON YOU BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT REALITY AND EXPECT US TO SAY IT OUT. SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by schumastic(m): 7:03pm On Dec 08, 2016
Mimido2:
sorry

anoda dude is helping u to guard ur gf and seems like he is giving her wat she wants

and probably ur relationship is boring u need to add spice to it

EVEN IF HE ADDS ALL THE SPICE IN THE WORLD THAT GIRL WILL CONTINUE TO DO WHAT SHE IS ENJOYING TILL SHE GETS TIRED AND GAIN HER SENSES BACK..OP SHOULD JUST MOVE ON WITH HIS LIFE, IS OBVIOUS HE CREATED THE IMPRESSION THAT SHE IS THE ONLY GIRL IN HIS LIFE FORGETTING THE FACT THAT NO LADY WANTS TO DATE A GUY OTHER GIRLS DON'T WANT..LET HIM GET A SIDE CHICK NEXT TIME AND SAVE HIMSELF THE HEADACHE grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by schumastic(m): 7:04pm On Dec 08, 2016
falconey:



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BEST COMMENT EVER wink winkI SIGHT YOU BRO, PREACH THE WORD

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Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 08, 2016
damjane:

there is a possibility that she has met someone new and she's probably trying to decide on you both, that is why you see a change of character. It doesn't mean you should give up on her, show her all the love you can but dont bug her, and don't try to push her to do something she does not want to do. if after all this she still doesn't come around, then afraid you lost. goodluck


Ok then, thanks.
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 7:26pm On Dec 08, 2016
SlimmB:
embarassed if this is real, i did feel for you OP... angry but the truth about the matter now is that the girl is scoping you! don't think/assume too much, just accept your fate and move on but don't break up with her and don't ignore her, just keep acting like all is okay, like you don't care about her attitude, but do return her calls if she did call you, but don't you try calling her, just save yourself the stress!

Finally grin live your life, a life without her don't seek for another girl or try so hard to replace her!(but if you see a girl that shows interest and got 60% of attribute you needs in a woman then carry on with her, no time!) but catch fun, like visit the gem, look good for yourself, hook up with funny pals, if you club then don't exclude that cool

And my one advice for you angry No ever carry woman matter for head, any girl that mess up, send her packing out of your life without her knowing it, there's always that one bae that will tolerate your bullshit and encourage you on how to better them...

I no carry woman matter for head o, it's just that this bae and I Don they together for 3yrs now, she has helped me in difficult times, so I'm just surprised at her behavior and slow to take action, thank for you Advice, noted.
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 08, 2016
schumastic:
NOTHING IS MORE PAINFUL THAN WHEN YOU SEE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR BAE IS CHEATING ON YOU BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO ACCEPT REALITY AND EXPECT US TO SAY IT OUT. SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU


Lol
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by Nobody: 7:28pm On Dec 08, 2016
nessaluv:
SPACE!!!!!

Space is what she needs. Don't try starting up a new relationship wid sum1 else if u still luv her. Jst give her space so she can miss u and after dat if she's still acting up den u move on wid ur life.

Ok I will do this, if all this don't work, then I think I will move on,
Starting a new relationship is even very stressful cry
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by mofeoluwadassah: 7:48pm On Dec 08, 2016
sonofLuci:


Abi? na so I reason am, and I have always treated her well o, I never wrong this girl any day, never cheated on her, we just had little misunderstanding o, *sigh* smh
U sure u never cheated on her?I smell lies o lipsrsealed
Re: My Girlfriend Acting Strange by LorDBolton(m): 7:48pm On Dec 08, 2016
nessaluv:
SPACE!!!!!

Space is what she needs. Don't try starting up a new relationship wid sum1 else if u still luv her. Jst give her space so she can miss u and after dat if she's still acting up den u move on wid ur life.

See wicked advice. Lols

He should pause his love life, till she gets tired of riding another mans d¡ck?
Misses him & comes back?

Wow, hope u don't practice what u preach sha wink

sonofLuci:

Ok I will do this, if all this don't work, then I think I will move on,
Starting a new relationship is even very stressful cry
U don already dey mumu again ehn?

Guy better move on... even a jambite who came to my skul for pume, was obviously more emotionally mature than u when she said if it happens once, it will happen again' During after-sex yarns.

Even if she comes back, before long she will become disillusioned again cos obviously you're not her 'kinda guy', her eyes don open.

Here's free advice: never date students, never date 'desperate women', never date for love

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